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What kind of sexual contact does she want with me?

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Question - (2 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 January 2010)
A male Åland Islands age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My aunts try to brush their nipples onto my elbow.

Lately one aunt (married to my mum's brother) on new year's eve brushed her nipple on me as she walked past me from behind. What kind of sexual contact does she want with me? BJ with me to come on her chest?

Earlier, my dad's sister who had ovarian cancer and her ovaries removed, brushed her nipple on me while I taught her how to use something on the computer. My right elbow was up and while using the mouse, she leaned herself into my elbow. I was 24 when that happened and now I'm 27 and I feel like having her live with me (she's married but no kids.) A few days earlier when I was at someone's wedding reception, I asked her for a quick dance and as she went to the floor, she leaned her chest on my back to signal something to the girls watching. I only wanted a danc partner so I lept my hand in a fist when it was behind her as I danced a bit with her. I could tell her body was attracted to mine by her scent but her mind kep saying no as she was married (no kids since her ovaries were removed) and I was her direct nephew but she enjoyed being near me/held by me as we danced wen though our bodies did not touch then and my hand was in a fist on her back.

She left a few days after I helped her with the computer (3 to 4 years ago) and I didn't try to make contact with her as it felt wrong but now I'm ready to have her around me. She's usually cold to me at first and warms up after being around for a few days especially since she knows I can earn enough to support her.

She's unemployed and I think she'd make a great nanny were I to have children with another girl. With the way she behaved at the wedding reception and when I taught her how to use something on the computer, it felt as though she wanted to make me come for her. Would the mother(s) of my future children accept our future children to be taken care of by my aunt who bj'd me (or possible would be resisting the urge to really sleep with me?)

P.S I'm not n the Aland Islands as I don't want to give my location away :)

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (2 January 2010):

DoubleM agony auntBest to keep sexual activities out of the family except with a wife.

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A female reader, Basschick Australia +, writes (2 January 2010):

Basschick agony auntPerhaps some of your aunts are a little attracted to you now that you are all grown up. The one with the ovarian cancer may simply grasping at the opportunity to feel alive again, and having a fling with her unattached nephew seemed like a possible temptation. Then again I wouldn't read too much into the whole nipple-brushing thing. Sometimes we just forget how far they really stick out or how it might affect a young, unattached man. I wouldn't be planning my nanny just yet, sounds like that's alot of years away. You'd be better off to focus your attention on some beautiful girl your own age and see what develops. This phase with the aunties will pass.

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