A
male
age
30-35,
*urkheim
writes:Me and my girlfriend are both 17 years old and virgins. A fortnight ago, we tried to have sex for the first time. She's quite petite, never pleasured herself before and she's never used tampons, so she's very tight down there. We did a lot of foreplay, but she was still very nervous. I used a condom with extra lube to help make it less painful for her, and kept reassuring her that it would be alright once the initial pain had subsided. However, it was too painful for her. When I tried to enter her, she just couldn't take it. She was almost screaming in pain when my head went inside. My penis is just 6 inches erect, so I'm not that big. We gave up after trying several times, once with her on top lowering herself onto me, but it was just too painful for her.I'm going to buy some lubricant to help with the next time we try (which will be in one month's time). She's going to use tampons from now on when she's on her period and she's going to have a go at pleasuring herself as well. We're going to spend a lot longer doing foreplay, until she's sufficiently wet. But I'm still not confident it will work because she was in so much pain last time we tried.Can the forum offer me any advice? Is there anything else I should be doing, or do, when we try next? I'm willing to provide more information if it will help. Thanks in advance.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 January 2010):
If she's nervous and a virgin, then she will be tight. Give her time, reassure, make her feel like a Goddess. She'll come around when she's relaxed about it all.
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reader, mine-louise +, writes (2 January 2010):
hey im bout the same age an a girl, if she nevous bout doing it you need to talk bout it & go through it with her she mite have doubts.. if that what the matter that could be why she so tight becoz she scared. just comfty have & have fun & not worry bout her when it happen it will be at the right time
hope this helped xxx
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