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Do all girls think that masturbating is gross?

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Question - (5 June 2009) 17 Answers - (Newest, 19 November 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 18-21, anonymous writes:

Hey, im a male 16 and i had a question to ask, i know all about sex and stuff like that and i do myself masturbate, but when girls i've gotten close to have asked and i've admitted they've said it was gross, and that they would never do something like this. why is it that girls at the same age think that masturbation, girls fingering themselve is wrong? do they all think this? do they think this forever? or are they all lying and in fact they secretly do?

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A female reader, ms_luver Philippines +, writes (19 November 2009):

I don't think it's gross i only do that sometimes tho:)

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A female reader, Newsie8001 United States +, writes (7 June 2009):

It's normal, not gross. If you ever get the point that you avoid a partner to do it, then it's a problem. Otherwise, it's an add on. Don't let anyone tell you you are weird.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2009):

No, not all girls think that. Most girls "do that", well at least most of my friends anyway, and I'm just 15. If a girl isn't willing to put up with that then she may not be mature enough. (No matter how gross it is) Also, some girls don't mature that way until they are much older.

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A female reader, Mary_Massacre United Kingdom +, writes (6 June 2009):

Mary_Massacre agony auntgirls don't really feel the need to masturbate at this age but will at the age of maybe 20s

whereas guys, this time is now.

alot of girls actually do but they wouldn't dare to admit it as it is embrassing for them

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2009):

i dont think its gross for a boy to masturabte its jsut natural n with girls it shudnt be but its more of a taboo we're not as open about it ive neva masturabted but tht just coz its neva crossed my mind

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2009):

nothing wrong with it!

everyone does it!

good for you for admitting it, I find it very sexy!;)

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A female reader, maggiemay Canada +, writes (6 June 2009):

honestly i dont think its gross

iknow my boyfriend does it like once a day and its completely natural, as for girls saying they dont maturbate it can be true because i myself never masturbate the thought just never crosses my mind and males are way more "horny" then females so they have to do it to relex and get it off their minds

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009):

guys are too open about their 'habbits' to be honest. most girls do do it, they just keep it where it belongs :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009):

It's all lies! even to our friends at that age, we lie and say it's disgusting. We all do it though, just in secret.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico + , writes (5 June 2009):

Danielepew agony auntEvidence that women masturbate is found in some stores that sell an item that goes by the curious name of vibrator.

I was never asked whether I masturbated or not. Since these girls you've met ask you about it, why don't you try asking them to be the first to tell whether they masturbate? This is the same game they are playing on you. If they say they do, then you can call them gross. If they say they don't , you can say you'd grow hairs in your palms if you did. Et cetera.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009):

At your age, they may just not be accusomted to the subject of it yet and handle it immaturely.

Like when we're in fifth grade and the sex ed teacher says "penis" and everyone giggles and all teh girls make grossed out faces?

It's the same thing. When those people are older, the word penis won't make them giggle or be grossed out. It may just be arousing to woman or have no effect at all.

Reaction to sexual thigns change with age.

It's a very healthy thing to do so don't worry about it. You don't really need to be out talking about it though. I woudl keep it to yourself.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009):

they might never tell you they like it but everybody does it seriously i don't know a guy/girl that doesn't masturbate. it's normal so don't worry about it.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (5 June 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntGirls claim many things, here are some examples: not masturbating, not farting, and not being mental!

It's lies! But girls like us to think they are perfect in every way and expect us (men) to behave the way their mental brains tell them we should.

It's a lose lose situation, so just be a gentleman and don't divulge too much personal information, Girls want to know all about you but also like a bit of mystery about a guy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009):

A lady never tells tales of what they do when their bedroom door is shut my love.

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A female reader, Confused_123 United Kingdom +, writes (5 June 2009):

I can't speak for all girls but it's possible that they either really do think it's discusting or do it themselves and are tryinng to cover that up.

I'm a 15 year old girl and I don't think there's anything wrong with guys OR girls doing it (i do it myself, in fact) but there are also girls out there who think it's wrong for girls and guys to do it. It's really down to the individual.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009):

I love masturbating and have done so since i was 10. To be honest i think most of them are lying and secretly do the same x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009):

girls masturbate too... we're just less open about it.

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