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His girlfriend, who was his ex at the time, will not let it go! I'm afraid it's going to escalate!

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Question - (3 June 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, *ove-struckxo writes:

In summer 2008, I met this guy who was a friend of a friend of mine. I didn't know much about him at the time. He really cute, and he showed interested in me, so I was like, hey, why not, right? After a few weeks of knowing him, I was at this party, and I had one too many drinks, we then engaged in sexual activity.

After that, I regretted it. I knew I made a mistake, but I couldn't dwell on it. I had to accept it and move on.

But, I couldn't because his girlfriend who was his ex girlfriend at the time, wouldn't let me. She called me horrible names like, 'slut' and 'whore' and told all my boyfriends that, I 'slept with fifty guys' which is NOT true at all.

At a friends house, we got physical after she called me a 'little hoe' I know I shouldn't of dealt with it like that, but I was so angry for her making my life miserable for all those months.

Now everytime I see her, she calls me down, and tries to fight me, but I always end up getting out of it somehow. I don't want to back down from my problems, but I don't like fighting either.

It's been a year, and she still can't let it go. He wasn't even her boyfriend at the time, they had been broken up for a good few months.

I'm scared to go places when I know she is there, because I don't want it to excalate into something even bigger.

But I feel I just have to deal with it and face her.. and there is no other way...

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A female reader, love-struckxo Canada +, writes (4 June 2009):

love-struckxo is verified as being by the original poster of the question

love-struckxo agony auntThat was helpful, hahah

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