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writes:Help! I have been dating this girl for 3 months now and we are starting to get sexual. The only problem is her vagina kinda stanks. How do i tell her or what do i do???
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reader, Olivia(Y).  +, writes (6 June 2009):
 All girls have a slight smell down there when they are turned on but it should be inviting to men.
If you really can't stand her smell then you could give her hints that she needs to clean down there.
You could say that you want to take a shower with them before sex, this will help with the smell.
At the end of the day she has to know or your going to have to just live with it everytime you do something sexual with her.
Be nice to her when you say, don't go "Ehh your vagina stinks" just mention it to her nicely :)
Livia
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): Dude..one time in my reckless youth I got with this chick that had an odor resembling rotten eggs mixed with turpentine. Luckily I was massively drunk or I would have never survived it when I went down on her. Man, I couldn't get that smell off my face for like a week, it seemed! lolBut yeah, my point is that girl was super loose with everybody and anybody, so I always associated the vag having a really bad smell with excess sexual promiscuity. I hope your girl isn't like that...But it could also mean she just doesn't have great hygiene when it comes to down there. As to what you should do, I would just tell her flat out that it stinks... My honesty has gotten me in trouble in the past, though.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (3 June 2009):
 Wow, you are going to have to say something to your girlfriend, but its how you say it that is going to make the difference.
The other agony aunts and uncles have given you some great suggestions, perhaps the easiest excuse is to ask her to join you in the shower. IF after a shower she still smells awful down there, then she probably has an infection that needs treating. However, she might be perfectly clean but you find her natural fragrance as gross.
[you dont mention what she smells like - if it is a fishy smell then she has an infection!]
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): Well, there are smells and there are sexy aromas. Ascertain which she has before making a decision as to what to do about it. Some vages don't smell at all whereas others give of a very sexually stimulating odour. However, if I ever get a whiff of cheese, I'm out the door, making any excuse, quicker than you can say "Fanny infection". No second chance. If it really is that bad, then she has no respect for you and, more seriously, no self-respect either.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): im from tanzania and when we hit puberty we are taught by our aunties or any older female realtive how to wash our vagina. what she needs to do inorder to wash it and get rid of that horrid smell is to squart in the bathroom with a bowl full of cold water. then insert her middle finger which should be thoroughly washed with antiseptic soap beforehand. on inserting her finger she will find lots of whitish gooy stuff which she needs to remove and wash off her finger then rinse off with the cold water from the bowl. she should do this until she is clean completely (ie when she inserts her finger there is no more whitish gooy stuff sticking to it only clear stuff). she should then use the remaining water to rinse off her vagina. then should get some lemon juice (cut half a lemon and squeeze the juice) and use that as the final rinse..her vagina will come of smelling sooo sooo clean and sooo sooo fresh..REMEMBER THIS SHOULD BE DONE EVERY DAY IE PREFERABLY IN THE MORNING WHEN SHE IS TAKING A SHOWER
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): Many girls dont know that if they go to the toilet before sex, their vagina will stink. Do you know if she usually goes to the ladies room before you get sexual? In case that might be it, and she needs to just rinse with water to get the smell away.
If it is a natural smell she's got, then maybe washing with a special soap designed for taking away some smell will help.
Get comfortable with her until the point where you can openly talk to her about it. And dont force yourself to go down on her when you dont like it. Do the things you enjoy instead, and if she asks why you dont want to go down on her you can bring it up. But yes, be very careful! You dont want to hurt her, so be gentle about it!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 June 2009):
When you say it smells, do you mean a LOT, or just a bit.
All girls have some natural smell down there, especially when we are turned on. It varies with time of the month so you could have got her on a bad day.
Much as we like to make you think that we sweat unicorn tears and poo rose petals, we are in fact human.
She is going to be pretty sensitive about the whole thing so you need to be REALLY careful what you say.
Head down there and if it's really bad, then you can say you want to have a shower with her as YOU may not be smelling of hygene wipes and you want to have a big session of oral sex with her.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Burnt_feet +, writes (3 June 2009):
 Either:A) Communicate, as in talk, to her. The bits and bobs that we all like to play with happen to be quite far from our noses. She may not even realise she's a bit smelly. Try being tactful and, rather than saying something like, "Yo, b*tch, your 'gina smells", go for, "Urm, the thing is, your body gives off this odour that I don't really like. Do you use a certain lotion or something in the shower?" Be gentle about it. :)B) Break up with her (perhaps a bit silly when you can do the above!)C) Buy her a *really* luxury body-lotion or similiar product and say that, when you saw it, you thought of her. That way she should (hopefully) use it and wash that horrid smell out.D) Before doing sexual stuff, tell her that you like to take a shower beforehand as then you know that everything of yours is nice and clean. Ask her to join in!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): The situation obviously calls for a certain amount of tact and diplomacy, so you could perhaps suggest some serious foreplay in the shower. If there's still some malodour after that there may be another reason for the smell - like some sort of infection for instance - in which case you might suggest she gets her bits looked at by the doc., in a diplomatic fashion of course.
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