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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i have recently got back in touch with an ex that i have been split up with for almost two years we had sex once when going out with him. we have been getting closer and closer and he has being staying at my house but the other day we were messing about and he kissed me out of no where he startd kissing my neck and moving down it felt really good i could tell he obviously wanted to have sex but i am confuzed because i do want to but last time he dupmed me straight after and i dont want it to happen again it is my birthday next week and he is staying he asked me if i will have sex with him i haven't answered yet but should i do it or am i just some gulable idiot that he will have sex with then dump again
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reader, cherry cherry boom boom  +, writes (18 June 2009):
No don't do it if he did it before how do you he won't do it agin any ways why would you let him in if he did it in the first place. He doesn't deserve your sex. I don't care what you think or how much you want to have sex. DON'T DO IT AND NO MEANS NO!!! This ya girl, peace.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): To be honest I wouldn't trust someone like this...yeah it felt good I'm sure but I don't think he gave any verification that he will stay with you after sex. You guys are getting closer but its not much if he doesn't know what he really wants and you two aren't even a real couple at the moment. You will have to confront him, explain how you feel because of the past and think about what he says. If he is unsure then don't give in, the hurt is not worth the sex and you can't change him or hope that he changes. If he will stay with you or so, it will be up to you to decide if you want to give it another try.
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