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writes:ok so i am in need of advice.i'm a virgin and last night i tryed having sex for the first time.i've been wearing tampons for two months now, so obviously it's broken.but when we started to have sex, my hymen was stretching and i could feel it, but it was way to painful to continue to get it in.like sharp burning pain.my question is what can i do in the mean time to make it easier for next attemp.another question is do you think we tryed long enough,do you think we quit trying to soon.we tryed for like about five minutes.any advice is very much appreciated.thanks =]
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (1 September 2009):
Glad to hear it.
I stuck to foreplay with my first serious boyfriend for months before we actually had sex and it didn't hurt at all when it came to the big event.
I'd rather lose my virginity in a pain free way and have a happy memory than just by lying there trying not to cry.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, i'mlovin'it. +, writes (1 September 2009):
i'mlovin'it. is verified as being by the original poster of the questionomg you're so right. i think that it the best way to go. and just work on it.and not focus on it. since it pretty much was a "we like each other so why not" type thing. i think when you say work on other stuff to get ready, that is probly the smarter choice.you have helped me=]
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (31 August 2009):
Using tampons won't destroy your hymen. They'll just knock it a bit. ESPECIALLY if you've only been using them for a couple of months.
What you need to do is stop trying to have sex, and just work on all the other stuff. Fingering, oral, stuff like that.
Get your body used to foreplay and enjoying the feelings down there, so you can get turned on and relax when it comes to actually having sex for the first time.
Good Luck!! xx
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