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*evsgirl
writes:Here's my dilemma-My BF of 2 years does not turn me on AT ALL anymore. He hasn't for the past 6 months, and at first I thought I was just having a slump and didn't want sex with anyone, but now I am just so attracted to other guys. I fantasize about them and flirt shamelessly when my BF isn't around. My dilemma is that we live together and I really have nowhere else to go. I know that as a man he deserves to be with a woman that wants him and actually has sex with him. He never pressures me, but I know that this isn't the way a relationship should be. I don't want to get married, so it's not like we were headed down that road, but I'm 23 and feel like I should be out having fun with other guys and enjoying this time of my life. I should make it clear that I don't want to go out and find another BF, it's more of a sexual exploration thing. My real question is, how do I go about discussing this without sounding accusing or like I'm already cheating? I haven't done anything yet, but I'm know he wouldn't ever consider an Open Relationship...and our living together (and we can't afford separate apts.) is really the biggest problem. I love him as a best friend and don't want to lose him
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (8 September 2008):
I think you need to break up with him and suggest you both move out. You don't have to live alone, you can find a place with other people.
It's clear that you have gone back to being friends and you can't stay trapped like this as it's not fair to either of you.
Suggest you go back to being friends and move out when you both find somewhere to move into.
Good Luck!! xx
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