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He has a girlfriend, but he also wants to be my f*** buddy!

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Question - (23 September 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 September 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ilbriggs writes:

ok well im in love with this guy lets call him joe, and we only lasted a week after that. We have become friends , or more or less f**k buddies, but i dont want that, i want to be with him, but he loves someone else, im confused.

what do you think i should do ?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008):

get some self respect!!!

Dont be a doormat for this loser.

Set your sights higher than somone who just uses you for sex when he feels like it, you will end up hating yourself for it if you dont end it now.

Also for you to ask this question on here, you already know what to do!

Take Care

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008):

You can f___ him all you want but it won't make this into a relationship.

Maybe you're not capable of separating sex and love, but he (and most normal guys) are 100% capable of this. His sleeping with you is not a statement about his desire for a relationship with you, I'm sorry.

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A female reader, zeeee Saudi Arabia +, writes (23 September 2008):

oh my God girll!!!! r u crazy??? isnt it obvious that he wants you just for his own pleasure?? ur not a w***e that ur gonna be there only wen he is in the mood for sex. if he is in love with some other chick tell him to go screw her. i know how it feels when u r in love but dont make urself a doormat for the one u love. theres a very important saying which goes "love someone who loves u more than u love him" so just let go of this ass**** and find someone who will love u for urself and not be with u for sex...please take care

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