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writes: My next door neighbor and i are really close - you could even say we're best friends. We're really close, but our relationship is completely platonic.Well, at least on his part... he has a girlfriend he has been with for almost 8 months, which is quite long because he's 15 going on 16 and she'll be 16 in January. I don't see why he likes her so much, she's really vain and clings to him like glue.A couple weeks ago i went round his house to see him and heard this groaning coming from his bedroom, so i peaked round the door and saw him masturbating on his bed!!! I was so shocked i just ran home. But i called up later to apologize and we had a giggle about it. He's so amazing :)Anyway, ever since then i've been looking at him in a really new way... all i can think about is us having sex! He has suddenly become really really sexy to me, it takes all my strength not to rip off his shirt and rape him! And i've been having sex dreams about him too. He is just so down to earth, and funny, and gentle - i actually think i've fallen for him!I dunno if i should tell him how i feel, i know he's really in love with his gf and he might think i wanna start a relationship or something. What i really want is for these feelings to go away, i feel like i've complicated everything! All i need is ONE fuck from him! Just to ease myself, then we can carry on as normal. But i know that would never happen, he would never cheat on his girlfriend, he's too honest. I Actually think that their planning to loose their virginity together once they both turn 16 (well, she SAYS she's a virgin - but i wouldn't trust her. I would much rather me and him lost our virginity together than him and that tart. Should i tell him how i feel? Am i being a bad friend? Why do i feel this way since i saw him wanking? I don't want to lose our friendship but i don't think i can stand the thought of him not 'with' me (in both ways)... help!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): Hi, I had a similar situation. It was actually exact. I walked in on him, and about the same after that. I told him how I felt and he said "ok". Just dont tell him you want him to dump his girlfriend he will get mad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2008): Most probably he is interested in you too, atleast sexually. Men are more prone to cheat on girlfriends, if they are given an easy chance. If you want, you are giving him an easy cance. He may have done that act of masturbation knowingly that your would watch. Tell him 'i wished that day I could masturbate you" and giggle about it. try to see his response. If he sounds like, he wants too, then you click there. Happy sex.
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reader, x..BabyGirl..x  +, writes (23 September 2008):
 If you sleep with him once, you'll keep going back for more. You say you wont, but I guarantee you will.
Chances are he wont anyway. Tell him if you like, but it could ruin the friendship. Probably not worth it, admire him from afar and make your move when/if he breaks up with the girlfriend.
Good luck x
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