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Is my vagina too large for my boyfriend?

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Question - (13 October 2008) 10 Answers - (Newest, 30 March 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Dear Aunts,

I am worried that my vagina is too large for my boyfriend. I am 30 yrs old and have not had any children, and he has a large penis (it must be 7 or 8 inches and is quite wide - certainly the largest I have encountered). Although I really enjoy sex, It doesn't feel at all 'tight', except for the first second or 2, and I am preoccupied about the fact that he can enter me with no probs straight away (well, as soon as I am wet anyway. And I don't think my 'grip' is very strong.

He has never said that there was a problem, but when I pressed him on the subject once, he said that he had been with both larger and smaller women, and not to worry about it.

You probably think I am silly to even think about these things, but when I hear about women experiencing real tightness during sex, and having to build up to taking their man all in, and being able to 'milk' their boyfriends, I feel so jealous and worry that my boyfriend will feel he is missing out really pleasurable sex while he is with me.

I'd be very grateful for your thoughts, and if any others worry about this sort of thing.



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A female reader, tpf5023 United States +, writes (30 March 2010):

The answer is exercising your vagina. Not just kegels, but there are a whole slew of exercises out there that you can try that will help you tighten and strengthen your vagina.

This book that I use to create my exercise routines is proven to work and comes with a money back guarantee which is great too. I would recommend checking it out as it has worked to help me gain so much power over my vagina, my orgasms, and even my husbands orgasms.

Here's a link to the site if you want to take a look:

Good luck!

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (20 August 2009):

starfairy agony auntTry some pelvic floor exercises :)

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A male reader, VirginMaster South Africa +, writes (20 August 2009):

VirginMaster agony auntYour vagina is elastic, and so it changes size slightly to accomodate him. also, you may feel much tighter in the first few thrusts because its like the first taste of something. the sensations are a lot more acute, but after that, they return to normal levels.

I however do have a solution if you want an even tighter vagina or you think your vagina is too big, or if you want to give him a really big surprise sometime:

I work for a company that invented and marketed an all-natural product that makes a vagina very, very tight.

It's a patented product with full medical approval and has a 100% success rate without any side-effects or allergens.

My Fiance and i use it all the time because it simply makes sex amazing.

Feel free to contact me back if you're more interested.

We're in the process of launching the product internationally as such a product has never really been invented with a 100% success rate in 5-60 seconds, and it is all-herbal with no synthetic additives.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for great advice everyone. Like the sound of QcumberS's wife's trick too, might try it.

No he's never complained and always finishes, so I'm prob paranoid. I've been doing some kegels since my post, but probably not enough - always forget to do them.

I'll let you off the pic 'anonymous' - then again, I could post a before and after ;-)!

Cheers all.

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (17 October 2008):

BigSis agony aunt"...its not like throwing a sausage down a hallway either. "

Now that WAS funny. PML!!

Good answer there, Q.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008):

If boyfriend says he's enjoying things don't worry about it, but as others have stated a lady can do build strength in the "sex muscles" with exercise.

Personally I think your friends are exaggerating. Maybe if you posted a pic here we can vote on it!? ;- No?

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (13 October 2008):

BigSis agony auntWhoopsy daisy...forgot the link!

Sorry...had a senior moment there.

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (13 October 2008):

BigSis agony auntI agree with DoubleM, If your fella is not complaining, then you shouldn't worry.

If you're truly fretting about it - then try getting into the habit of doing some pelvic floor exercises, trust me - they really work, they'll tighten up your muscles down there.

Do them whilst watching TV, driving, on the bus, while your cooking, ironing, shopping or even when standing in a queue.

I've got this link for you to look at... and learn how, it's simple and effective.

Best of luck.



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A male reader, Dr. Reality Check United Kingdom +, writes (13 October 2008):

Dr. Reality Check agony auntIf you don't make an issue about this, it probably won't be an issue to him, so I say take DoubleM's advice.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (13 October 2008):

DoubleM agony auntIf your boyfriend is not complaining about it, and you know that he finishes, then why worry about it?

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