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writes:I go running at the park nearby. There is a guy who has shown interest in me multiple times. I am also somewhat attracted to him. I have never spoken to him but he must be married and in his late 30's or early 40's. I am also married and I will turn 30. recently he tried talking to me couple of times but somehow i couldnt gather the courage to talk to him so he got offended and now doesnt even look at me. But i do feel like talking to him. Should i or should I not talk to him? Also if i should, then how? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2014): You think it will be fun and full of intrigue. But in the end it will be what every other affair is. Sweaty bodies, lousy sex, and getting ran through a wringer in divorce court.
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reader, WhenCowsAttack  +, writes (9 December 2014):
Sure, if you want to throw away your own marriage and ruin his, too.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (9 December 2014):
 You are married, and think he is married and you THINK it would be a GRAND idea to get some kind of interactions? For what purpose? If you are attracted to him, my guess is you are hoping for a fling? Or for some dude to give you attention?
It's so wrong on several levels.
Maybe go home and ask your husband for advice?
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reader, SensitiveBloke  +, writes (9 December 2014):
 He's married. You're married. End of.
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reader, lifesgreat +, writes (9 December 2014):
with you both being married no you shouldn't .
why would you want to. If you fancy someone and you are married there is no point ... right ..
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 December 2014):
 What? Are you actively looking for trouble?
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