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writes: Me and my husband of 6yrs have currenlty separated?We have a 5yr old son together and We kind of has some problems coming from jealousy he took this girl he worked with and her kids and our son fishing and to the park one day while i was at work and spent my money on them. I told him that was disrespectful and please don't do it again well over the months things changed and when i got mad i accused him of cheating on me with her. He said no and all of that. Well right before we separated i found out she was apart from her boyfriend and i confronted her and she said they were just friend. Well i moved 2oo miles away with our son. and I recently went down there this weekend and spent the whole weekend with him well when i was time to go he acted funny. I was on my way home and his mom called me and told me to put 2 and 2 together well comed to find out he had been seeing her for awhile i guess going to her house while i was at work and our son was at school and her bf was at work. And the whole time my sisterinlaw knew and lied for him. Now he's telling me he's going to be with her regardless. And i dont know what to do i still love him and knowing his in love with another woman is killing me. So should i just wait and see what happens or try to win his love back. Or the worst thing just forget him all together? Someone please help
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reader, ellie6 +, writes (24 November 2006):
 If it was me, I wouldn't wait around for him as he's obviously made his choices and decided to be with this woman- so it looks unlikely that you and him will get back together.
You should try moving on and building a new life 200 miles away from him, but have a platonic relationship for the sake of your child.
He does not deserve you if he is has been cheating on you behind your back, you shouldn't want to win him back when I'm sure you can do so much better and be happy with someone who wouldn't have an affair with another woman!
It's the hardest thing to do, but you have to give yourself time to move on and be happy again.
You have to think of you and your son and providing a stable home for him.
Hope that helps.
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