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writes: My husband has fallen in love with my cousin. They know I know. I threw him out and he stayed with his sister for a while. We talked and decided to give it another go. I know he still loves her, I think they talk and may be see each other. I only had him back to keep the family together. Kids say if he goes to her they'll disown him. We have not got on for years, don't have sex (not for years). Should I call it a day?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (20 November 2006):
 oops that's "bad MOUTH" dumb spell checker
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (20 November 2006):
It really sounds like this marriage has bought the farm. You should try your best to behave with honor and integrity during the separation and divorce for your children's sake. Don't bad month your husband to the children (you don't need to praise the jerk either). You can then move on with your life without bitterness and with a hopeful eye on your future. The best of luck.
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reader, davie  +, writes (20 November 2006):
If your husband is still seeing and/or talking to your cousin then he isn't really giving things another go - he is continuing to be unfaithful and either having or pursuing an affair. If you haven't got along or had have sex for years there isn't really a relationship to even save - as it was lost years ago.
It sounds as though you have the support of your children, which is great.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (19 November 2006):
I think you should call it a day. I only say this because it sounds like you haven't had a real reltionship for soooo long. If your kids already know all this, what are you protecting them from? It sounds like you two neglected the problem years ago and let things get out of hand. That's too bad. Talk to him and discover where he stands on this.
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