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writes: Ok well here goes,I broke up with my ex 6 years ago and have remained close,close friends ever since and have been able to tell each other anything. We have both got married to toher people but still I can't get the fact that I love him out my head.He is a very very good friend with my husband and the only reason I know my husband is through him. Now he is giving me signs that he feels the same too, but I don't know what to do for the best. Do I tell him how I feel and see what happens, but then he could tell my husband and my world could come crashing down, or do I ignore the fact that I have never stopped loving him and always will, and make myself unhappy forever ???Oh I am only 24 and he is 25!
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reader, jaynehaigh +, writes (30 November 2006):
I think you have a case of the "the grass is greener".
It didn't work out the first time, why would it a 2nd time?
I would concentrate your love on your husband.
I presume you are happy with your husband because you do not mention being unhappy.
If your feelings can't be controlled then I suggest that you stop seeing this other man at all for the good of everyone concerned.
I know this is all easily said - and I feel for you I really do.
But I'm afraid if you messed with 4 peoples lives and went over to the "greener" side I am sure you would find it not so green once you were there.
Its a romantic idea or fantasy and in my opinion thats what it should stay as.
Sorry if this is not what you wanted to hear.
Whatever you decide I hope everything works out well for you. xx
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