A
male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Alright well my girlfriend and i have been going out for about a month and a half, any time we want to do somthing, i need to ask her and she never seems interseted to talk to me and never makes the effort to call me or message me on FB. I need help because i dont know if we shouldnt be together or is she going through somthing because ive tried the make her miss u stage and that hasnt worked becuase i wait so long and get nothing from her that i give in and call her. the longest ive waited is 2 days wtihout talking, messaging, or calling. Please can someone help?!?!?! Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, CMMP  +, writes (2 April 2013):
How about you play a game. See who can go the longest without contact. If she never calls you again you'll win!
Honestly, two days doesn't seem like that long of a time to me. You're probably letting your insecurities get the best of you.
But seriously, if you doubt her feelings just stop contacting her. If she never calls you then you know how she feels and you can move on with your life.
If she does like you she'll call you up asking why you haven't called her.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWeve known each other for about 3 months and got to know each other for about one and have been together for about 2. We are both 15 and in highschool
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2013): She is afraid to break up with you to your face. So she is not calling or texting you. I know it's going to be hard, but you have to stop trying to contact her for a while. She may tell you to your face when she has the nerve. Find something else to do to take your mind off of her. You're too young to be so intense. Sometimes people feel a little smothered and have to get away for a bit. If she still wants to be with you, she'll come back.She has other friends she wants to hang with, and maybe her parents might be telling her to spend time doing other things. They do step in when they feel a boy is spending too much time with their daughter. So you need to keep busy and have some ordinary fun. You have to stop pouting around and find something to do besides blow up her phone.
...............................
|
