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male
age
30-35,
*ssanothername
writes:I had met this girl online during September, she is about 8 or 11 hours drive from me so i never met her in person. At first we didn't talk much of relationship related topic. I was really careful with her because i really like her in the pictures she posted, she was cute. We traded phone Numbers. Anyways, we still haven't seen each other but we text on the phone a lot. I plan to go to the military next year around the end of summer and I don't know what to do with her. She seems real and hardworking but we are both students, she's in high school and I'm in college. I had my first girlfriend broken up w/ me since 4 years ago. I was hurt by her and since then, I had always put myself in position of unconsciously reject girls that are interested in me. I guess that's how she is the only girl that broke my bubble. The distance made me feel safe at the same time she opened me up little bu little. My once was shattered heart is piecing back slowly, but the pain of not able able to see her and feel her made me lose faith in it slowly as well.Anybody please give suggestions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2011): Anonymous female is correct. Take her advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2011): If you like her you should ask her out. I know the distance would be difficult, but if you want to make it work and you both like each other, then you should do all you can to be together.
If she is kind and understanding, she won't mind waiting until you are ready to take the next step, but make sure she knows you like her or she could think you are not that into her. Explain that you don't want to jump into anything and you don't want to get hurt. She may be just as scared as you.
I think you should take the risk, life is so short and what is the alternative,always wondering what could have happened between the two of you?! You had one bad experience, put it behind you, not all women will hurt you and you have to start trusting again at some point in life.
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