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I think I'm more emotionally involved than he is, should I just cut contact?

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Question - (12 November 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 November 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've recently became single after being in relationships since i was 16, im now 20, and i'm finding it diffcult to get back into dating again. firstly i have been talking to a guy on the internet who i used to go to school with but he moved away. we have great conversation and both said we have feelings for one another however he gives off mixed signals one minute it just friends then he feels stronger than that. i know he meets up with other girls and he had talked about coming back to see me but beginning to think im emotional involved more than he is and dont know whether to talk it out to him or just cut contact?

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A female reader, kate28 United States +, writes (13 November 2011):

I would cut off contact with him for a little while. If he doesn't seem to care I'd move on. If he's interested that will probably make him step it up and make his intentions more clear.

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A female reader, fishdish United States +, writes (13 November 2011):

fishdish agony auntI think you should set a date and make sure he comes to see you. If he doesn't express enough interest in a concrete day, move on.

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A female reader, goldie22 United Kingdom +, writes (13 November 2011):

Because you havent seen this guy for a while it is probably difficult to know wether he is interested or not. He might write something and mean it to be taken in one way but you may read it and think he means something completely different. Maybe you should.progress to talking on the phone.just keep it casual for a while and see where it goes. If you are feeling like u need an answer now then tell him you need to know where you stand with him and if it is going anywhere. Any guy worth being with will try to understand and hopefully tell u the truth

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