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My best friend is trying to steal my man!

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Question - (15 April 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 22 April 2009)
A female Spain age 30-35, *iema.x writes:

i liked this guy before that me and my friend were gonna meet up with and i showed her a picture of him and she was like oo hes nice i hope you two get together. When we were out she was getting in the middle of us dancing and kept whispering things in his ear and touching his face . Anyway i asked her about it and she said i was stressing over nothing and shes not a man stealer. She moved to the UK last year but she came to visit me and shes doing exactly the same thing with my boyfriend she is a constant flirt ! Shes always touching his arm and trying to make excuses to be with him and when i went grocery shopping yesterday i walked in to find her in his dressing gown because she 'didnt brign one' Is she dangling him infront of me ? Even my boyfriend who loves female attention has an idea shes after him.

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A female reader, ninetoes Canada +, writes (22 April 2009):

ninetoes agony auntthe cheek of her is right. She's no friend at all! Who says they can have any man they want? She's clearly got issues. I'd stay away from her if I were you. I knew a girl that did the same thing to me, but she wasn't a friend, that's for damn sure!

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A female reader, Niema.x Spain +, writes (16 April 2009):

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Niema.x agony auntI asked my boyfriend to say something to her last night and apparently she laughed it off saying it was just in his imajination and why would she go for my boyfriend when she could get anyone she wanted . The cheek of her ! Glad she going back tomorrow.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009):

Lets face it! Your friend is not a friend and she is jealous of you and always will be. The first guy you are with and he will sleep with her she is going to do it. So until she sleeps with him try to enjoy him because as long as you keep her around you your just sitting back waiting on her to STEAL YOUR MAN! IT IS GOING TO HAPPEN.

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A female reader, ninetoes Canada +, writes (15 April 2009):

ninetoes agony auntwell, you are handling it really well because if it were me, I'd blow up...regardless of her long trip to see me. Geez, just hearing about it irritates me to no end! I can't STAND girls like that!!

I'm not sure if my advice would be the greatest here, but I'll give it my best shot!

Try talking to your boyfriend about it. I think it would be the best coming from him rather than you because it would embarass her. Ask him what he thinks and why he doesn't say anything, and maybe even tell him how it makes you feel.

I think I'll stop right there because the rest of my advice consists of not so nice things...looking forward to hear how it all turns out!

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A male reader, jay12toes United States +, writes (15 April 2009):

jay12toes agony auntWell first off, if you believe you can trust your man then you dont have a major issue but if what she is doing is makeing you uncomfortable then you need to let her know, and if she continues then you have no choice but to not hang out with her anymore.

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