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Never had first kiss at 20. Am I being stupid?

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Question - (15 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi.. i've still never been kissed like i've had kisses but i mean proper full on make out kind of kisses i've had like a few opportunities but when it comes too it i pull away or i look away because i feel too nervous and i'm not sure i want to do it.

people have always said you don't need to know what to do you just go with the flow but i don't know but i feel i do need to know what to do because i don't want to mess it up.

i know i am really silly for thinking on this too much but i can't help it.

it does bug me sometimes because i feel so left out as all my friends have kissed properly and i've not.

sometimes i guess i feel pressured to do it i mean they don't pressure me but that's how i feel.

i've not had a relationship for a long time when i did have one i felt he was pressuring me to kiss him properly and i really didn't want too.

i talk to guys and stuff and flirt but sometimes it's only a one way thing or they treat me horribly.

i just want to know am i being really stupid about this?

i know i am but i can't help it i just sometimes want to get it out the way but then i do want it to be special and something i remember.

please don't leave nasty comments i don't care for people like that!

Thanks.

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A female reader, Niema.x Spain +, writes (15 April 2009):

Niema.x agony auntwell done you !

You are inspirational in my opinion , dont feel pressurised its a personal choice.

I hope you get your kiss when YOU want it :D!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009):

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thank you both for the responses and Steve thank you for feeling proud of me :)

lol

made me feel not so silly now.

i do know what you mean like i do want to wait for the right person but like sometimes i feel like because everyone i know has done it like kissed and whatever else that i'm meant to be like there as well

but i couldn't do that i don't want just randomness i want meaning!

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A female reader, Niema.x Spain +, writes (15 April 2009):

Niema.x agony auntaw hun!

Listen to me , i felt exactly the same way i was like how will you just know what to do ?

But believe me you do , its soemthing that you just act on. Your first kiss wont be anything special and youl probably feel like you screwed up but honestly guys dont notice . Make your first kiss short and jopefuly that will give you the confidence to kiss again for longer.

Honestly, kissings one of those things , get the first one over and theres no stopping .

Youl be fine :D

Good luck and keep me posted hunni !

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