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41-50,
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writes:okay so this girl started talking to me and i started talking to her.she has been through alot and has a baby and her ex boyfriend beat her up..i was just trying to be a freind and help her out.then we would talk more and more evryday like almost 8 hours or longer sometimes..i told her that i liked her then she started telling me she liked me too..then i started liking her alot..i never liked a girl or even dating one.. but im not sure what to do cause we work together and she doesnt talk to me sometimes when i try talking to her..she said her family doesnt know that she dates girls too and of course i wouldnt say anything..Its hard i feel like im trapped and she doesnt know what she wants she talk to other people alot too guys mostly i think..i dont know but she says she doesnt want to hurt my feelings and that i should get out of liking her but yet after she wanted to kiss me..i dont know what to do i feel like im being dragged into more of somethings thats only getting to get me hurt in the end we still do talk alot..she recently told me that she finally relaized she likes someone alot and that she doesnt want to tell that person cause they are good friends..i told her well lucky for that person..she said yah u know him but its not who u think..i told her well im glad cause maybe this is something that needed to happen..she said how come??i told her i dont want to talk about it...she said mmm okay..that was it..what should i do now please help....she gives me hints like she wants to date me but it seems like she doesnt want too...
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (15 April 2009):
 Well,All I can say is that it seems that this other girl simply wants nothing more than to dabble. whether she is truly bi-sexual or simply confused as to her sexuality is open to debate. However not by me.If you feel that you are going to get hurt in any way, shape or form as a result of any actions you pursue with her, I would exercise EXTREME CAUTION.When people are testing the waters in this manner, it is almost a given that someone is gonna get hurt. And being a co-worker, it may in fact be a bad omen professionally in the future to get involved in any inter office romance,Just be careful, and be true to your own emotions.
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