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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Girlfriend is too sick and busy to be with me, and we are supposed to be at the honeymoon stage.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm beginning to have relationship issues. My gf is full time in school and works and to top it all off, seems to get sick every other week. Not that it's necessarily anyone's fault, but I'm just beginning to feel like I don't even have a gf. We are a new couple so it's not ... (447 words)

Wanting to end the distance in an LDR but worry being apart for the whole summer.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So here goes : I've been seeing this guy since september 2011. In December of the same year he moved to the US, and I currently live in Canada. We've been dating ever since and the distance was not a problem up until lately. He's had financial issues and as a consequence, he ... (526 words)

I distanced myself from my possible FWB but am jealous that he is giving my friend attention.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4090 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I started speaking to a guy around this time last year and at first i wasn't interested and so we stopped talking after a few weeks. Then we somehow started talking again around July 2012, that lasted until December 2012 as we suggested 'friends with benefits' and then one day ... (124 words)

Boyfriend stood me up for dinner but is giving me the silent treatment saying I didn't text him back "I love you".

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My 28 year-old boyfriend was here to dine with me. He got a call from his mother, who asked him to meet her to give her something. He left and said he'd come back very soon. So I left his food on the table and waited. He didn't show up. An hour and a half later I texted h... (224 words)

What to do when my boyfriend who had cheated before does not care about rebuilding trust and has nearly a hundren women on his contact list?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf cheated on me a year and a half ago. I can't seem to get past it. I do not trust him at all any more. And he's not doing anything to help me trust him. He gets pissed every time I get mad because of his 205 contacts which three fourths r women. I'm not sure what to ... (71 words)

Does a man like it when a woman talks sexy to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Does a man like it when you tell him that you want him to be deliciously sore when your done having sex so he can remember being inside you and how amazing it felt?... (34 words)

I was abusive to my ex boyfriend. Is it appropriate for me to send an apology now that he has a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear All, I'm ashamed to say that during my 10 year relationship with my ex boyfriend I was very abusive, I put him down and was even violent towards him and even tho we split nearly 3 years ago and both in new relationships I can't forgive myself. Let me explain I lov... (217 words)

I feel stuck, lonely and worthless... any words of encouragement or advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

13 February 2013 (F) age 30-35 - I feel terribly lonely and sad. I feel unloved. And like people underestimate me. I can't help but look back at when I was in high school and was rejected by every guy I liked, and also no guys liked me, ever. I wasn't popular, I was shy. I had a few friends that I later ... (311 words)

Is this online relationship over?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

13 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - i have an unusal situation. i met a girl online. i know many people feel on-line relationships are insane. her best friend told me "your insane, get a real girl you can see face to face, she has a man." i showed this to my on-line friend and she un-friended her, then took h... (289 words)

Depressed boyfriend says I deserve better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I'm Miyumi ( new here ) and got a question. I've got a boyfriend for about 6 months now and he used to be quite depressed about 3 months ago. ( He wanted to commit suicide ). He said he was a failure in his parents eyes because he didn't try his hardest in class ... (255 words)

What does it mean when men act this way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had an argument. I told him I didn't really think he liked me anymore because he doesn't seem to want to get to know me. He basically said "I can't change who I am I just don't like what you're interested in." He later apologized for acting that way but I'm ... (112 words)

My much older boyfriend gets frustrated when I ask him why he's with me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is a lot older (he's 46 I'm 24) and I asked why he was with me. His first response was "I don't know the answer to that" later he said "because I like you". I want to know why he's with me but he just gets frustrated when I ask. I am feeling insecure.what should I ... (59 words)

Girlfriend says a break will benefit both of us but I don't agree!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

13 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I didn't think I would have to come here to find some insight, but I am just losing my mind and need some info/opinions from strangers because usually thats advice that is non-biased and you can take on. Well make a long story short...heres the stats: L.D.R. 1 year mark ... (1235 words)

After his friends bailed on him, b/f decided to spend Valentine's Day with me. I'm hurt that I'm his 2nd choice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend made plans for valentines with his friends, and forgot to tell me. I found out, and asked him to re-schedule. He said he is busy with friends the whole week. I got upset. He said we could do it next week. Then he called, saying his friends cancelled on him... (190 words)

I found out before a co-worker that she's going to be let go! How should I handle this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I currently work for a company who are going through redundancies, and as a result a lot of us have had to re-apply for our jobs. This has been very stressful, but thankfully yesterday I was told I had been successful and have secured my role. However, a good friend of mine ... (282 words)

I am doing something wrong and I can't figure out what it is.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey folks, thanks for taking the time to give me some advice on helping my husband-like boyfriend. This post is long, but I feel like if you, lovely helper, are going to give me some great advice you might need some details first. My boyfriend and I have two children togethe... (1057 words)

Am I right to be upset that my BF is going to be roommates with a girl he used to date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have our up and down in our relationship. We have just recent got back together and this time it really feels like things are going great and it's really working. However the timing is bad. Just yesterday he told me that his step dad has a problem ... (357 words)

Forthcoming date with my ex ... how to show him what he's been missing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all!!! Some much needed help please! My bf of 2 years and I broke up just over a month ago.. but we have both continued to see each other every so often. Today we decided to start dating again and just see how it goes. I'm really happy about this. I have thought long ... (161 words)

How can I tell whether or not he likes me? Mixed signals!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4090 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Last week I met this boy I really like. We went out 2 days in a row in a group. On the first night he was really into me flirting and he was really nice and lent me his coat for the whole night and when I left that night he hugged and kissed me. But the next it was awakard a... (103 words)

Is it OK to see someone you've broken up with one last time to end things on a positive note?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a man a while ago and we started dating. It was going well and I really liked him and still do, but unfortunately, because of circumstances outside our control, we have to go our separate ways. I won't go into it because it's a long story but in any case, it's nobody's ... (213 words)

Is my weight putting boys off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 17 and i am 5'7" and nearly 160lbs. i have always been bigger than my friends but now its really getting me down. right now all my close friends and sister have boyfriends and i really want one. is my weight putting boys off? it makes me feel really fat and ugly and i know ... (72 words)

Who to choose, my controlling bf, or the one I always wanted?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my bf for 2 years now,and i love him incredibly, but at times, he makes me extrememly misrerable, especially with his controlling attitude..i've been cring for the last week because i feel like a bird trapped in a cage. To make things worse, i have been ... (226 words)

Crush on a girl I saw on Facebook. We have mutual friends. How can I get her attention?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

13 February 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - hi there everyone, well it all started when i and my best friend were joking around a week ago together while on phone. so i said to him that i would check his facebook friends to piss him off ( i don't know how this would piss him off but we were just in a funny mood), s... (298 words)

How much time should you know a person before taking a move for dating/relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

13 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am 21 studying at university. I wanted to ask about how much time you should know a person before taking a move for dating/relationship?? And how do you show you are interested and take the move?? please share your views and experiences. thank you... (55 words)

Why does my husband have no interest in sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married for almost 20 years, two teens, good life, great sex......until about 2 years ago. In the last 2 years our sex life has dwindled to nothing.....literally nothing. He has not touched me in 8 months. He is a Marine and I have begged pleaded ... (375 words)

Got involved with married woman.... Big mistake!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

13 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Aunties and Uncles! Please help?! I imagine this will be quite a lengthy question so please be patient with me. I am looking for some serious, honest advise. This will sound like something out of a movie but what I'm about to tell everybody is the honest tru... (523 words)

My married ex sings songs to me is he trying to get a message through to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age - My ex of many years talks to me reguarly on the phone. He has married a few years ago. Just the other day a song came on the radio "I'm hooked on a feeling" An old song. Anyway, he starts singing it while I'm on the phone with him. It was on the radio. Now I don't know if I'm ... (73 words)

I had a fantasy about another girl and now I feel so guilty

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

13 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Bit embarrased about this, but i just need to tell this little thing somehow. I'm together with a girl wich i love with all my heart. We're together since a year now and things go well. Now, this is a long distance relationship so we only see eachother after many months. ... (172 words)

One month until the wedding and still no church or pastor.....does this mean he doesn't really want to marry me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - First off, I'm 45 and my fiancee is 37. A year ago he gave me a ruing and asked me to marry him. We set a date for march 23, 2013. We talked about finding a church home and pastor that we know to marry us. I worked most Sundays and he was off from work, so I told him since ... (201 words)

What can I do to make sure I stay awake for Valentines Day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

13 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Here's my dilemna. I NEED TO STAY AWAKE FOR VALENTINES. I'm a nocturnal creature. I work the graveyard shift and sleep all day. My girlfriend is the complete opposite. She has a regular 9 to 5 and she's in bed by ten. For valentines I have made about a dozen reservations. Al... (188 words)

I feel inadequate compared to my ex, how do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya, hope you guys can help me move on. I hads my first real relationship but split up with my ex four months ago. He could be rude, snappy, very negative and would criticise my appearance. I also suspected he may have been cheating. I decided to end it, but we got back ... (227 words)

What makes a woman approachable if she is already in the right place to meet people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

13 February 2013 (?) age 41-50 - They say that people are more likely to find their partners when they were not looking I would like to know what other peoples experiences have been to back this up. I have been single for a while; I attend several voluntary events, groups, and do a lot of things to occupy my ... (201 words)

Is this a good idea? She's never been in a relationship and I want to be her first big crush

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

13 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a huge crush on a girl in my college. She is my junior. We are good friends. Problem is she is a teenager and i am 21 years old so i dont know how to tell her that i like her. She's never been in a relationship and i want to be her first big crush. I only meet her du... (150 words)

Am I doomed for a lonely life because I am fat? Are all the good men shy? And can men see beyond the weight?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am fat, and I think that is why men don't notice me. I dress up, take extra precautions to be presentable, and work hard to not be a turn-off and seem friendly in general. I am pretty well educated, usually non-controversial, and can carry a conversation alright, so ... (251 words)

Are my fears valid? I am afraid that if I lose weight, I will get noticed just as a person up for sex and they will take no notice of my personality.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Is anyone having a hard time losing weight, because they fear that they will attract guys/girls for the wrong reasons? I am significantly overweight, and am invisible to the opposite sex. I am perfectly presentable, and kind, and likeable otherwise, but it doesn't seem to matt... (90 words)

Is she just being friendly or interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

13 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I got to know this girl when i was in my previous company and while i was interested in knowing more about her, i was about to quit and she was taking over my duties so i did not feel it was appropriate and i left it at that. But a few months after i left, i started texting ... (288 words)

Can I move on from my resentment towards my ex boyfriend and his lies and this other woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Even though we had broke up again, this time he had a threesome with his up stairs neighbors. He said it happened only one time. The husband and my boyfriend had sex with her that was her fantasy My boyfriend denies ever being with her before that. He's a liar all she d... (97 words)

Troubles. All I seem to do is work and sleep. So why is she so distrustful? why does she think I'm cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

13 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf has been thinking I've been cheating on her. I work hard and once and a while I have to work late. She thinks I should have bankers hours. I have a kid and I scream at her in front of him and it really upsets me. All I do is work and sleep. I ask her if she wants t... (83 words)

Am I sending out the wrong signals in regards to dating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a college student and hardly have any time to date. However, I'm getting to an age where all my friends are meeting great guys out of the blue and getting into serious relationships. So, needless to say, it gets frustrating and lonely not having that. I haven't had a ... (355 words)

Is she playing games or is she not interested?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

13 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So I met this girl online a year or two ago. Long time, anyways, we just casually chatted for all that time and I wasn't really into her, I just wanted to be a friend to her. She's a shy type and I supposed she wanted me to ask her out but I never did. So after a while I ... (635 words)

Mooching Friends.. getting tired of it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I need a bit of advice. I have these two friends (who are very close, roommates with eachother, etc). I enjoy spending time with them as they are very fun, artsy, funny but I feel like they really take advantage of people.. especially me. They don't have a car so they always ... (292 words)

My friend manipulated me and I cant forgive him, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

13 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys! I am having a very big problem right now and would love to have someone elses opinion on what I should do. For the past few months I have been hanging around with my friend of 8 years much more recently because we decided it would be great to move in together as I... (472 words)

Do girls speak with their actions not their words? I'm confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

13 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a complex question or to me its complex. I have no idea where i stand maybe someone can help me? I am 20 years old. I have been with this amazing girl for 2 years. We both are in school. She started last September me just last week in February. Ever since she starte... (701 words)