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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Help, I need some help on what programs, strategies and ideas might help with my brother. He is Autistic,has Apergers and Anger Managerment issues.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My autistic brother has anger management issues and it's ruining his chances at a stable, good future. He's 25 and he still lives at home because he can't hold a job. First he worked at a company where he assembled car parts. When things went wrong or he failed at something... (407 words)

Does he just want to sleep with me or is a relationship on his agenda? How can I determine this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a male friend whom iv known for years. Little did i know that he liked me for years. I never looked at him that way til we had a drunken kiss around christmas time and we have been talking every day since. some sexy talk but in a light hearted/jokey way. We ... (266 words)

I'm shy and he's not giving much away as far as plans.What's going on ? Is he interested or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4085 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to this guy whose in my class (3x a week) for a few weeks now who I'm starting to really like! We went for coffee about a week ago and it was awkward because I was shy. Anyway, all our other interactions after that have been really great, natural and fun.... (180 words)

I thought the break-up had no effect on me. Except I've changed in ways that scare me. What's happened to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my ex for 3 years, we broke up around 4 months ago. I loved him so much, at the time he was everything to me! My best friend, my entire world. We broke up because he moved away, and I think some time before that I had subconsciously decided it was going to end when... (427 words)

Should I allow him to "brand" me with a tattoo? He's 24. I know he will not take me back if I refuse.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So, me and this guy have just been through a break up, our relationship was a little rough around the edges mainly because he's 24 and I'm 16. I know I know, forget about the age a second. I'm really desperate to get him back and he says I need to prove I love him. So he wan... (112 words)

I'm not so into him.Am I being cold or mean? I feel bad that he still feels bad about my rejection

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've known this guy since 9th grade, we're 12th grade now In 10th grade i had a crush on him but I noticed he was all over other girls so I stopped And a few months ago he was texting me A LOT and told me he really likes me and wanted to go out. And i was like, um sorry ... (300 words)

Is he playing mind games? Two weeks together. He broke up with me. A week later he says he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I was dating this guy who is 19, we shared so many laughs, funny memories and some really sweet memories too. We were "dating" for about 2 weeks, and then he said he wanted to break up because he was working so many hours and didn't find it fair on me, I said to him I didn't ... (263 words)

How can I convince her to give up her sex toys? And consider a real guy like me for sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

9 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I a year a 25 year old male with a new girlfriend who is 21 years old. We have been going out for about three months. After the first week of dating the subject of sex came up She told me that she had bad sexual experiences with her last boyfriend, and since then she has turn... (86 words)

Both 17. Trip to Movies, just the 2 of us. Is that a date? How to make it special?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

9 February 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Both 17. A trip to the cinema alone. Is it a date? If it isn't how can I make it more of a date, or find out if she's interested in dating/being with me? ... (36 words)

There's Chemistry. But it's complicated as he owes me money he promised to pay. How do I sort this out? And remain friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'l try keep it short. Theres a guy at college who I met when i started there, it was instant chemistry on both sides, constant flirting etc. We finally went out for dinner a few months later, and we had such an amazing time. we go on so well, lots of flirting, he walke... (380 words)

Porn users: how valid is my Bf excuse that he 'forgot' his user name on a porn site? Was that said to prevent me seeing his porn use log?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Right this question is slightly different than most porn questions. It is directed at the techies. My boyfriend told me the site from which he downloaded his porn from, I asked his username. I discovered I could try and find out when he last logged in to get some more porn. ... (181 words)

My depressed Gf won't have sex with me. If I say I'm leaving she hurts herself. Should we breakup?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all, I have been with my girlfriend for one year and a half and we live together. The problem I have is she won't have sex with me. The last time we had sex was 7 months ago and I confessed to her that I am considering sleeping with other people because my urges are ... (135 words)

How can I learn to be as confident with men as my friend is?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4086 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how my best friend does it, she's so confident when it comes to guys and I have no idea how she can do the things she does and is unfazed about rejection or anything! When I moved into halls for my first year of university we lived together, so that's how I know h... (299 words)

In love with my male friend but he has a girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't know how to move forward... I am completely in love with this guy. We are really good friends and I always feel better when I am with him. I have never felt this way before about anybody. But he has a girlfriend and seems to love her. I don't want to tell him anythin... (120 words)

Two weeks ago I asked my BF for a break, but he is pushing me to end the break. He's so controlling.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - If you were in my situation, what would you do? Long story short, I've been in a long distance relationship for almost 8 years. The first 2 years in our relationship were amazing, he was loving, caring and very sweet. We talked about moving in together and he even brought ... (614 words)

Is this normal for a couple to have a sexual relationship in this way? And am I turning gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

9 February 2013 (M)

age - HI I have this question that I hope will not be taken the wrong way. My wife and I don't have sex very often but she watches me masturbate myself. It's come to the point that I like to masturbate in front of her rather than have sex. When I'm ready I will just take my clothe... (113 words)

My husband is Jekyll and Hyde. What's going on with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner seems to be a very angry person and its got to a stage where I'm not sure I can carry on with the relationship anymore. Background info: he was mentally, physically and sexually abused as a child. He had counselling for some of it but the therapist was too upset to... (580 words)

How can I break up with this guy without it being too hard on him? Is there any proper etiquette for this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I got into a relationship too quickly with a guy. At first everything was fun and fine but the longer I know him, the more I realize that there are just too many red flags (our differences in personality/lifestyle/interests) but I realize that he is getting more and more ... (190 words)

Struggling with my soon-to-be ex husband.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm trying to not hate my STBXH, but he's making it very difficult. We have a 2 year old and it's very clear that he is not STBXH top priority. While we were together, STBXH was almost never sick, and now,seems like every weekend he's supposed to have child, he's sick. W... (253 words)

Why didn't he tell me about this close female friend of his? Why has he saved hundreds of emails? And why is he buying this woman gifts that I don't even know about?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know if I'm overreacting or not... I hope someone can help me clear this up in my head. I have discovered that my husband of less than a year has a close female friend that until the other day, I did not know about. I found out when he left his emails open and I noticed ... (276 words)

I don't want kids!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

9 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 23 year old male with a 23 year old girlfriend. We have been together since we were 17ish, had 1 or 2 breaks, but now were serious and committed. I live with her mum dad and sis, and have done for a couple of years now. We are happy and have a healthy relationship. ... (196 words)

Why is my teacher acting differently towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 years old and from what some people say an attractive one at that. I liked this teacher. I really liked him, but I haven't felt anything for months. He's around 26. He was nice to me, a lot nicer to me than to the other students. I guess cuz he noticed me is why I li... (151 words)

New town. His town. How do I overcome problems with making friends with my partner's buddies? They don't seem to like me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my partner for two years. He was unhappy in the town we lived in (where we met) so I agreed to move with him back to the town he lived in previously, where he has lots of friends and was happier. I am freelance and work from home so could practically affo... (367 words)

In a subtle way, how do I encourage him to feel able to approach me? I want something to happen.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

9 February 2013 (?) age 41-50 - I really want this guy who I see every week day and have nothing in common with him other than he works at my daughters school. We have exchanged constant stares over the last year, I feel that he is aware that I like him as when I return his gazes he looks away. He is ver... (132 words)

Am I over-reacting when I notice my Bf likes pics of other women on his Facebook?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - This really bothers me. My boyfriend is always on Facebook liking pics of other chicks. They're not like sexy pics or demeaning pics or anything. But it's a constant thing that a chick who he may or may not know puts up a cute pic of herself and has to let her know he "lik... (163 words)

He wants Anal and I do not. Should I stay with him, or just consider us as not compatible as a couple and move on?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, this is my query, i have been dating my new guy for 6 months now, things WERE going well, but know there are problems in paradise, ( i know some of you are gone think this is silly). But he likes anal sex, i have never tried it never had the interest, and i know i never... (360 words)

She has a Bf yet flirts with me. Should I ask her how she feels about me and tell her how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

9 February 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I been friends with this girl for about 2 years now and I really like her, and she likes me back (Im 90% sure). Problem is that she has a boyfriend and they've had sex together. Her friends tell me she likes me and so do my friends, they say she always talks ab... (124 words)

Can anyone please explain to me how it's possible to be too sweet?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

9 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Can anyone please explain to me how it's possible to be too sweet? Last weekend when I went out with a girl I've known a few years, we got a little drunk and totally unexpected she kissed me, I've liked this girl since the moment I met her but because of complications I'... (171 words)

Should I be the one to deal with my Bf's ex Gf? And if so, then how?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. The thing is, he's got this psycho girlfriend who he had been with for 2 years. She kept contacting him anonymously (putting her phone number in private and call him and just stay there and not say anything) Sh... (152 words)

What can I do? I don't like it when he calls me bad names, but I'm also scared of him.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been hanging out with this man for about 5 months, he says we are just friends but we act more like a couple, heres my question!! I have been giving him b j a lot and there have been times he pushes my head down and he calls me bad names a lot, and if i stop to try t... (105 words)

Will I regret it for the rest of my life if I let her go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

9 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive been on and off with the love of my life (hands down) for awhile now...shes very finicky and runs off for nothing-issues often. She left me again on her birthday the other day and is telling me via text that we shouldnt be together. Ive been with alot of women... dont tell ... (211 words)

Does this 'relationship' have any potential?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - we've been seeing each other for over a month now. Every week, but usually at his place. We will go out for dinner the odd time. He says he wants it to stay casual as he just got out of a 3 and a half year relationship. In the beginning he would say really sweet things like... (308 words)

How do I get through this? Or at least over it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Well where to begin? I was in love with my ex so very much to the point I did everything for him. He was my life. We were together for there years and I never felt for anyone or anything the way I felt for him ....he did not how ever feel the same We have a son together... (216 words)

How can I have a normal conversation with my Bf? He implies I'm angry when I'm not.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like I don't know how to talk to my boyfriend anymore. Every time I talk to him he thinks I'm angry or mad. I'm never actually feeling like this so I don't understand why he always thinks I'm angry. I'm usually just trying to have a normal conversation about thin... (123 words)

Is tough love the answer? My 27 year old son doesn't think so.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a 27 year old son who has been living on his own for 2 years, he quit his job 2 months ago, I paid a month of his rent which my husband ( his stepfather ) does not know about because I have helped him so many times in the past and he feels like my son is taking ... (219 words)

What to do? Sex is destroying our loving relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 7 months. I am 17 and he is 18. Our relationship is very loving, supportive and intimate. We were both virgins when we met and after a month we decided to make love. We were both very nervous, the foreplay was entirely ero... (302 words)

He was maintaining a relationship with his ex-girlfriend on and off even while we were a couple. Do I confront him or forget him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Agony Aunts, I post this because I seek your advice on what I should do. Perhaps this posting is a little unnecessary, because in my mind, I think I already know the answer. I met my boyfriend of one and a half years at work in New Zealand while he was studying on... (1044 words)

It's been over a year now, and he's still my Bf. But how can I overcome my jealously over the girl he once saw, when he cheated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4086 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Over a year ago my boyfriend who i care about very very much cheated on me. She is the same age as him and before i found this out i had personally always thought she was very pretty and very nice. Once i found this out i was of course very upset and i decided to give him a s... (159 words)

How do others cope with similar? My family gatherings bother me. There is just small talk. And my grandfather's eating habits appall me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

9 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - hey all,I love my family but when we all join each other around the dinner table i literally feel as depressed and hateful as ever (i know this may sound stupid) but my grandad (who i have no real relationship with due to family circumstances and a language barrier) eats and... (100 words)

My boyfriend has had money troubles and now he wants to transfer my name over onto his bills. Why? Is he just using me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has had quite a few financial troubles in his past, and has had a few court cases in which people owed him money and vice versa. He seems to be paranoid and wants his name off a lot of things. For instance, he has a mailbox in another state with his name on it, ... (303 words)

I've fallen head over heels in love with him. And he's flirted with me. But there's a catch: he has a Gf. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so... I've met this guy about a month ago, and even though it's only been a month, I've quite quickly fallen head over heels. Like, I've never really felt this way about anyone before so he's obviously special! Now over the course of this past month he's always given... (326 words)

Is it unhealthy or bad to make love every day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

9 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I live with my bf and we make love almost everyday,very often. Right now I am thinking on how bad it could be for me as a girl,I don't really think it good to do it everyday. I spoke to him about it and he explain how much he loves making love to me,I love it too. But s... (99 words)