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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

When should I call it a day with relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - When should I call it a day with relationships? I'm 26 and have never been able to stay in a relationship for more than a couple of months. I get bored easily, I'm a loner and don't like being tied down. I keep thinking it will be different with any new guys I meet and I'll fal... (105 words)

I think I am left out of my group of friends. How can I get them to include me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been hanging around with friendship group of about 5/6 girls at school now for about a year. I feel as though they leave me out and that I'm always the one who has to make the effort. They never invite me to go out with them. I'll be on facebook scrolling through my ... (115 words)

Need help getting over a confusing friendship with a guy friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

20 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I'm not sure about ask but I can't handle anymore so. I'm 21 years old at collage. I fell in love with a man. He is straight so he kindly refused me and tried to keep our friendship. I was madly in love and had panic disorder at that time. I pushed my luck so much and he ... (218 words)

It's has been 4 days and no text. Is he still into me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I met this guy through a family friend, and its been a week since we met. He and I had so much fun on a date (not an official date). He and I flirted- so I'm pretty sure that hes interested. We exchanged numbers, and he even gave me his US number. We have texted for ... (169 words)

My drama with dating an actor

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My story is long but I'm really suffering.. I will start at the very beginning. In high school I had a crush on a boy Named Dakota. And I never got crushes. I had one boyfriend before this, But we broke up because I had fallen out of love. I thought Dakota ... (877 words)

When he tried to break up with me I started crying so hard he started crying to and said he would stay but now he doesn't text or call like he used to.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three months now. Everything was okay before one of his ex girfriends decided that she wanted to "reconnect". From the actions he is showing he doesn't want her back but she has basically pushed him over the edge. Now he is ... (129 words)

Do I need to worry about this? And should I break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted here last week ,saying that my boyfriend spent part of Valentine's Day with a male friend of his who is gay, who is transgender. The people who replied to my original post said they didnt think there was anything sinister going on, but i would like to see what peopel ... (942 words)

Since I found out about her history I'd like her to get tested

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

20 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello all! I come with a questions and concern. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few months now and it's been great, I know I love her and I know I will spend the rest of my life with her. The problem is, I knew her back in grade school and knew she didn't have ... (190 words)

Being bullied at work over Facebook?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

20 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 and work in IT; mainly on the distribution and delivery side for a small firm. I occasionally do the website for them; I'm a gofer at the firm (someone who does a bit of this, bit of that, no regular role, but is a proper employee). However, I've become the target o... (465 words)

My daughter is being bullied because of how I dress her

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok this is a little hard to explain and may seem a bit silly to some of you but please bare with me. I have a 12 year old daughter who has been in secondry school since september last year. Since she has been there, understandably she has developed keener interest in how she ... (312 words)

I'm afraid my mother will be disappointed that I'm pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 24 years old and almost 2 months pregnant. I don't know what to do. I have a completely understanding family's and my child's father is in the picture and he's completely supportive. I haven't told my mother. I'm afraid that she will be disappointed because I'm not married ... (66 words)

I hurt my ex girlfriend when I finished the relationship. I know she's hurting. How can I help her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

20 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I had a 3 month relationship with this girl and we fell in love really quickly. We had some trust issues and I ended up breaking her heart. Since then she has been avoiding and ignoring me. The thing is, she is still emotionally dependent on me (4 months after the break-... (312 words)

My shyness is taking over my life! What can I do? Where to turn for advise?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm sorry this is long but please read it, please! I feel like my shyness is taking over my life really rapidly, I don't know what to do. I am scared of: .Meeting new people .Being the center of attention .Being watched while doing something .Making small talk .Public s... (359 words)

My father in law creeps me out. I spoke to him, but what more can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My father in law is always staring at me and gives me long hugs where I feel he tries to get a grab. I've told my fiancé I don't feel comfortable being alone with his dad so he really tries to stick around. Yesterday though they were both outside and his dad came in and told... (163 words)

Worried that this relationship is unhealthy but I can't leave!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are engaged to be married, but we've had a lot of problems. In the beginning, he was verbally abusive to both myself and his daughter. I told him not to talk to me like that and he's stopped. He's become a new man and he says nice things to me all the time... (355 words)

What can I do to make things better with a guy I really like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been in love with a guy during like my whole entire life. I've started loving him since I'm three years old, I know it's really early but I couldn't control it. Now, twelve years later, I still love him but he never knew it. I tried getting closer to him but I failed at ... (107 words)

Why would my 62 year old husband start looking at porn on the computer?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age - Hi, My husband is 62 Years old and for the past 2 months he has been looking at naked women online. He confessed to me last night. I was so hurt. What would cause this? I feel like I have nothing left. Donna... (45 words)

Can strong jet water break hymen? Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't say that it is the strongest jet water but kind of strong. If I didn't use it directly too much, could it still break hymen? It was 2 weeks ago. Today I felt like there was a emptiness. I had been feeling the pressure of my hymen but now I can't feel it. ... (55 words)

Relationship with friend went sour. Will I ever hear from him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently tried to start a relationship with a long time friend. Things were going well for the first few months but things went sour. Due to me not wanting to lose a valuable friendship I decided to go back to the way things were before. I told him that I would stop ... (78 words)

Why does my boyfriend still text this woman? He knows she has feelings for him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age - I met my boyfriend on a dating website about 3 months ago. Our relationship is exclusive and he has told me he has fallen in love with me. We live an hour apart. We see each other every weekend and once during the week. Problem... He met this girl on a different dating w... (242 words)

My guy changed after he found out about my past. Is this emotional abuse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy last year and we had nearly been together a year. When I met this guy I was in a bad place in my life and he was the most amazing guy I had ever met. Always texting poems, sending photos, doing everything for me and giving me so much love and affection. He really ... (815 words)

My lover asked me to marry him but I'm already married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - HI! I’m 27years old and I'm a married woman with two kids. I'm in a relationship with a white guy, but I love my husband and love this guy so much more than my husband. This guy asked me to marry him and I said yes to him. Now I don't know what to do, because I'm in love wit... (81 words)

My guy is 20 and acts like he's 15. I'm pregnant and really love him but he doesn't grow up!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years on and off. Well lately, things has been going downhill. It has been like that for a while now. No matter what i do or say, he still acts like he doesnt care or treat me like i should. In the past, he has cheated multiple... (344 words)

I fell for him, he's with someone else. No contact but I still want him back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - hi there, i am a woman of 47 and have been unlucky with relationships,my first marraige i was very young and was very abusive,it took me years to get a mental state of mind back to normal,my 2nd partner started out as a lending ear, i fell pregnant and we were together for ... (361 words)

I dig some digging and found out he's married. Do I tell his wife about us?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a rough time last year, and vowed I'd spend 6 months without men, sorting my life out. In December a man chased me out of the pub and asked for my number. We went out and although I kept my distance, I fell in love with him totally. He told me he loved me, he cried a few ... (206 words)

Why do guys treat you nice and then turn around and expect you to do everything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - why is it when a guy wants u he'll be nice to you and treat you well then a week through your relationship he expects you to buy everything for him like buss fares, food and stuff he wants and u dont get anything from him. why is it when u say its over they turn all nice again ... (127 words)

I've got deadlines and my boss isn't happy about my performance. What am I supposed to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I need your help! I'm two weeks away from completing my internship, but lately things haven't been going smoothly. Last week my disabled mom got severely ill and I heard my dad (who suffered a heart attack last year) may have a liver problem. It threw me off my ... (538 words)

I like this man but my family disapproves. What do I do? Ignore him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I just went to a cousin's wedding and spent a few days over. During that time span, I had one of my cousin's cousins (the son of the sister of my uncle-by-marriage) pay a little more than friendly attention to me. I liked him, he was suave, handsome et al. and flirted ... (165 words)

I feel like I always have to be the bad guy when my boyfriend promises his children something that we can't afford!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend has 2 teenagers that live with their mother most of the time, they play their mother and father against each other quite often and pretty much only contact their father to ask for something. I get that this is teenagers as I have had my own! My problem with the... (213 words)

Do guys want to see a softer side to a girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So for me personally I'm not very emotional. My close family (mom, dad and siblings) are the only ones that have seen me cry. I tend to not tell my feeling or share that part of me with others. This guy I am seeing has been pretty open with me about his life and things like ... (108 words)

This guy wants to get serious but I don't

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20 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - we were childhood friends. We started to get close recently. he likes me and I like him too. we have been on a couple of dates but it's been about a year since I got off a relationship whoch was 3 years long. I am having a hard time trusting guys since then. so this guy wants ... (146 words)

How to ask a senior girl out when she is always hanging with her best friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

20 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I am 21 and I like a girl who is a year senior at my university. The problem is she is always with another girl which is her best friend. How should I proceed to ask her out? ... (45 words)

What can I do to persuade my 21 year old daughter to put down the controller and pick up a boyfriend?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm concerned about my daughter's social life or rather lack thereof. She's 21 and all she wants to do when she's not at work is play video games. She's never had a boyfriend, is not interested and getting one and is still a virgin. Geez I was sexually active at 13. Should I be ... (74 words)

My girlfriend is under pressure from her family and takes it out on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

20 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do to keep my relationship going now, let alone a future of marriage. Short story is that we are from two different countries, her parents/family don't agree with her being with a foreigner for the obvious reasons. That I can't give her what she needs a... (212 words)

Do most girls do the act of spitting? Or swallowing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

20 February 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - do most girls like to spit or swallow?... (8 words)

I want to keep her and my man too!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - im bisexual and i met a girl who only dates girls. she doesnt hate guys but she gets turned off to the thought of a guy ever touching her in a sexual way or kissing her. shes made it known that she would never date a bisexual girl. i cant get her out of my head. i want her... (341 words)

Advice for what to do with a cheater

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

20 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so my first girlfriend, I met through Facebook last summer. After a couple of months, she suddenly stopped texting and calling me. I thought either she was grounded or dumped me. Weekend following Christmas, she calls me up and says that she's sorry for not having called, ... (204 words)

I'm afraid I may lose her to another man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

20 February 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Ok, Im in 23 years in this relationship and have had alot of great years but the last 5 or 6 have been very on the line to be truthful. We have had our ups and downs but always try to meet in the middle but lately it is a tug of war in the sex dept. I dont seem to excite her in ... (175 words)

A co worker lied to me and now I'm worried about my job

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Pleaseplease help me. So I just started working for this company. Keep in mind throughout our HR meetings we were told it is okay to ask a coworker on a date. But anyways..my situation is a little different. I met this man and we will just call him bob. I found myself deep... (345 words)

How can I stop the feeling of being in love with my teacher?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 16 and i'm in love with my teacher he's way older than me, married and have kids. but how can i stop this feeling? I know this is wrong but it feels so damn right.. Have u been in the situation i am right now? I love him cos he has everything that i am looking for ... (179 words)

Reasons why guys could have no/ lose their sex drive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm with this guy who just doesn't want sex often at all. Almost like we switched stereotypes. I'm the one usually pursuing it, and it takes several days before he considers it. I'm not complaining, it's probably better that I have someone keep me in line, I'm just curious ... (170 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend 6 months ago - what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

20 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 11 months now, but 5 months into our relationship I kissed another guy. I feel so awful and sad that I've done something so despicable to someone that I love so much and who is so wonderful and caring. I really do think that we're soul ... (172 words)