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Can I move on from my resentment towards my ex boyfriend and his lies and this other woman?

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Question - (13 February 2013) 5 Answers - (Newest, 13 February 2013)
A female United States age 51-59, *milely41 writes:

Even though we had broke up again, this time he had a threesome with his up stairs neighbors.

He said it happened only one time.

The husband and my boyfriend had sex with her that was her fantasy

My boyfriend denies ever being with her before that.

He's a liar all she did was talk about her fantasies with him alone.

He even told her, for whatever reason, that I didn't satisfy him.

I know something was going on, is it that she she knew he had a girlfriend?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (13 February 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntso you resent your ex boyfriend for being a liar and a cheater and want to know how to get over it?

if that's what you are asking my advice is to block him from your phone, your email and your social media and live well as best you can.

Living well is always the best revenge...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2013):

The best way to end your pain, is to end your relationship. Sometimes its just that logical. He is a cheat and disgusting man who jumped on the opportunity to have a threesome vs. work on a relationship with you. Leave him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2013):

no boyfriend material. dump him. he had no respect for you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2013):

'He's a liar' so why on earth are you with him?

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (13 February 2013):

Honeygirl agony auntHon, your bf cheated on you with another woman both physically and emotionally. By telling this other woman personal things, like you dont satisfy him and talking about her fantasies are huge red flags.

I suggest you go and get yourself checked for STI's and HIV and think carefully if is the way you want to spend the rest of your life.

You admit he has lied to you a lot, this will never change, why? because he gets away with it - there are no consequences to his bad behaviour.

Time to reassess your relationship and IMHO you would be better off without him.

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