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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend's family doesn't like me or my children

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dealing with for two years now and it come and goes in waves. My Boyfriends parents dont really seem to like me or my kids. When we 1st got together it seems that they just dealt with me but you could tell by small subtle hints they really don't care for me. I hav... (265 words)

HELP guy who loves me only for my looks? mixed signals.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright so this isn't really a question but more of a combination of a question and a rant. It might be really long but I really need help with this. Its kind of a long story so last year was my first year in highschool. my first semester instead of having gym, I had health c... (1258 words)

How will I ever get a boyfriend with my shyness and home situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a shy 17 year old girl and I have never had a boyfriend. Over the past year, I have gained a little bit of confidence and have started talking to boys more. I like this guy at college but i know that if we ever spoke I would get all nervous and make an idiot of myself, ... (126 words)

In love with the wrong person again and it's my professor this time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! I don't know exactly what I am looking for,some kind of solace for the way I am feeling right now.I'm 22 and I'm in love with my college teacher.I recently found out that he has someone,he's not married to that person and he doesn't have kids.But i love him and ... (276 words)

B/f can't text me during the work day yet he's on facebook?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've posted about this before on this site, however the problem is still continuing. Every time I text my bf while we're both at work he just completely ignores me, yet he's on facebook posting statuses, liking pictures, just doing whatever. He doesn't text me back for... (149 words)

Girl flirting with my boyfriend at party, and then friending him on Facebook.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I were at a birthday party at a house a few weeks ago. We met a mutual friend of one of the birthday girls for the first time, a female about our age. At first she seemed really nice and we were both chatting with her. Then throughout the course of the ... (791 words)

I feel like I'm disgusting to my boyfriend, why won't he make love with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I’m a 29 years old man and I’ve kind of a love problem. I’m gay and I’ve a boyfriend, he’s 25. We’re together a bit more than a year and I’ve to say it has been the best year of my life. He’s perfect, he’s that kind of person I’ve always wanted to meet. I’m happy with him. ... (316 words)

Now that she's got a boyfriend, she doesn't shut up about him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I have a very good friend and she recently got into a relationship with her boyfriend but now that she's with him she doesn't shut up about him! How can I politely tell her to stop talking about him so much. Practically every time we talk its something about him ... (191 words)

I'm afraid he might reject me because of my body!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this guy that I have been chatting with online for awhile now and he has become almost like a boyfriend of sorts. We don't refer to each other as such but the conversations that we have give the impression of two people that really like each other. We are aiming to fi... (744 words)

Is he inerested? Does he like me? Should I ask him out for our second date?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out on a date with a guy, the date went really well. We talked, laughed, he told me I looked nice, and at the end of the date we hugged and he told me we should definitely hangout again. I didn't want him to feel as if he had to be the one to text or call me, so I te... (156 words)

I need help in dealing with my self-centered father!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My dad has problems communicating with people. He has a mental illness, but which one not even the doctors can pin down. Maybe a combination of Aspergers, bipolar personality disorder, and quite a chunk of paranoia. He is very self centered. The world revolves around ... (545 words)

We are yin and yang sexually!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend just doesnt get me sexually. He likes it hard and fast and athletic and it takes him a very long time to come, I like it soft and slow. I try and guide him but he just takes over!! and Im swore and eager for it to be over :( tried to talk about it but i think this ... (69 words)

How can I get over the guilt and open wound from a year ago?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

27 February 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - A year ago, I was going through a rough time in life. I had lost my job, which put a strain on our relationship. I/we were not talking much about our feelings and our self-worth. The relationship was strained. I had a lot of low times and did not want to get out of bed most ... (491 words)

How long should I date a guy before asking to be exclusive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I was using an online dating site and met a guy two months ago. He lives in another town about 45 minutes away. We see each other once or twice a week and communicate daily. He has a full time job, goes to school, and has a son. Recently he's been very busy and I haven't seen ... (127 words)

Our culture favors sons over daughters, I need advice on how to deal with this unfair situation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 22 years old woman and raised by precious and happy family ever. My parent is the greatest parent for me and I have two younger brothers. My brothers are lovely and we have some weird habit toward my 2nd brother, we like to kiss him everyday and shower him with our love. ... (373 words)

Why did he go soft? Am I a turn off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - If my boyfriend n i been together 7 yrs n lately everything is a argument. We juss had sex n i was on top seems to me everything was going well. Out of no where he gets soft.. What does that means?? Am i a turn off? Alot of thoughts are running through my head! ... (55 words)

My bipolar boyfriend keeps disappearing!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1933 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has bipolar disorder. I know that causes mood changes. Every time he gets paid ( he is on disability benefits ), he disappears. It's usually for about three or four days. Sometimes, he texts and calls me during that time, but sometimes he doesn't. He goes to see ... (583 words)

Her awful childhood has led her to a lot of problems, I don't know whether I should try to help her and stick around. Help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a long winded story but I'm going to try to keep this as brief as possible. I've known my girlfriend for 4 yrs and we have been dating for about 2 months but we started really talking a month before that. Word around town was she was a easy girl to get something from ... (789 words)

My boyfriend was caught chatting up another girl over facebook. Do I dump him, or give him another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 months now. So far are three months up to now had been perfect, no argueing, no fights, no huge issues, everything had been smooth and lovely. I was acutally thinking yesterd... (832 words)

Do I tell my boyfriend about this conversation with my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupids, as silly as the issue may seem yet i need a prompt answer becuase any action that needs to be taken have to happen today. 5min ago my x boyfriend who is with me in the university said hi and his hi continued into a brief of his new financial status, i only sto... (232 words)

Would you apologise again or just leave things as they are?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Long story short, I made a bit of an ass of myself at my friend's 40th birthday party at the weekend. We all got together on Saturday and spent the weekend together, I only really know the husband and wife who were giving the party, the others were their friends. We w... (201 words)

Does he actually like me and wants me to stick around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically I was seeing a guy I started to like to be honest he's the first guy iv liked for ages. We got on really well I met his family an he told me I'm the first girl he's brought to his familys house since his ex. He was really nice to me did things for me evan when my ... (625 words)

"My feelings haven't changed!" he said. What does he mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So, went for a Chinese with work colleagues, one man got rather drunk and tried to kiss me at the bus stop, I pulled away and was stunned; gave him a lecture about how we were colleagues etc last night was the first time I've seen him since the incident and he said he was ... (126 words)

How do you deal with constipation caused by too much time together?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi =] I've been with my boyfriend for two and a half months now and things between us are going great =] However I do have an unusual problem and wondered if anyone else had experienced this. I know it's not very pleasant, but I get constipated when my boyfriend co... (384 words)

Its been 18 months since the break up. How long before I get my ex out of my head?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - How long til I can finally get my ex out of my head? We were only together two years, during which time we had a relatively up and down relationship, mainly due to circumstances. He was close to his ex which I didn't like, I often put my friends first which he didn't like, but ... (335 words)

What kind of games is she playing with my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in love with a girl which happen to be sitting close to me while we were writting our s.s.c.e exams in 2010,but I didn't tell her then not until august last year,that's 2 year after we left the secondary school.when I first called her on the phone telling her how much I ... (245 words)

I've recently come out and I'm attracted to my friend. Do I tell her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am quite tom boyish and have become very attracted to my close girl mate. She is very much into men but I can't help my feelings for her. This is very new to me as my relationships have always been with men and recently I have come out to some of my family, who took the ... (97 words)

Boyfriend broke up saying he had never felt like marrying me..something was wrong. I want him back though!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend and I celebrated our two year anniversary at the beginning of February and he dumped me over the phone 11 days later. We were in what I considered to be a very committed relationship--sure we had never talked about marriage but to give you an example of how ... (273 words)

I'm so scared we made a mistake. Yes we married. But was I his "last resort" choice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a man two years ago during a year long course. For the year he would follow me out for breaks, chat, flirt. I gave him my number and he called and invited me out. First night he told me about his drinking, drugs, problems with his dad, childhood, etc. We saw each ot... (355 words)

I want to see him again. Shall I turn up at his home unannounced? Or text him when I am nearby to give him a choice of seeing me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a recent FWB relationship, with a good friend of mine. Both of us have been hurt in the last year by bad relationships so we don't want anything other then just sex. Both of us have been real busy so in the last two weeks since we discussed it, we are yet to meet up.... (224 words)

He's confusing me. Has he lost interest in me? Or is his change of approach because he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy about 2-3 months ago, and when we first started hanging out I think we hit it off really well. We would spend 2-3 days out of the week together. I usually don't sleep with men so quickly, but for some reason I decided to with him. This was maybe about a mo... (235 words)

Is this how boys are? How can I get over this betrayal? He told me his actions are "part of being a liar"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My b.f told me that I’m 6 month solder than he is and that he want to breakup... When we met he lied to me and said that he was 18years old, I just can’t forget all he said to me. I asked him to tell me the reason why he made a lot of promises to me when he knew it can’t ha... (114 words)

We broke up but it hurts so much. If I leave it too long, to contact her, will she will settle in with her new choice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So i was in this wonderfull relationship, with my girlfriend for 2 years, We are both in our 20s Over the past couple months our relationship has gotten worse. We were not very close, i tried to do what i could but i guess it wasn't enough or the right thing, im not exactly ... (937 words)

The man I'm supposed to marry in 2 months has been cheating on me!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

27 February 2013 (?) age 41-50 - I need help. I love my fiance and he loves me. We have been together for seven years. I recently found out he has been flirting on his job sites and got a girls number and was texting her. And he hit on a friend of ours. He keeps telling me how sorry he is. I feel so betrayed. ... (110 words)

What can I do? I'm scared my boyfriend's just gonna be like this the rest of his life

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is 24 years old. He dropped outta High School due to severe insomnia. He has no license, no job, and syill lives with his parents. He has big plans for his future but it seems he doesn't care to do anything about yet he always complains about what he wished he had ... (165 words)

Is this guy into harmless flirting or is he using Facebook to pick up women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so I know I'm not the only person with this problem!!. I'm dating this guy Who claims to be really into me. He tells me he misses me all the time, Good morning and good night texted everyday and we talk on the phone for hours! We have been on a few dates.... my dad just past ... (155 words)

Me or your cyberwoman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Here goes have asked questions before and it has been helpful. I met a man about two years ago, he is on the shy side and awkward. My daughter is in sports, that is how I met him. He always would come and support her at her games and fundraisers etc. This summer I had some ... (724 words)

My g/f likes to flash her guy friends just for fun?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My gf likes to flash her guy friends just for fun I don't care but she continueisly says that she feels bad and that she dosent want to do anything that we as a couple don't agree on she asked me if I mind and even though I say I don't care she says she feels guilty about it ... (97 words)

How could he break up with me again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm feeling a little lost after my recent breakup. My boyfriend and I have been together over 2 years. He initially broke up with me a year in a half into the relationship saying he was unhappy. Six months of on/off playing around we offically got back together. He slept wi... (180 words)

I thought he liked me but now I think he's avoiding me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys I wanted to ask how to stop thinking a lot about someone you have a crush on but the thing is I don't actually know this person I know it sounds creepy but he goes to my school and I think it was a love at first sight type of thing. This has never happened to me before ... (172 words)

Should I worry that he still sees his ex and thinks of her as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hey all im 24 and pregnant with my second child, this one is with a man that is 49. we have a great relationship and im proud to have found a man that treats me like a princess. however, we got together the wrong way and i regret that i took him from his wife. he told me he wa... (351 words)

Is it acceptable or reasonable to have a crush on someone else whilst in a committed longterm relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I basically just wanted to ask if it is ever acceptable or reasonable to have feelings for someone else (or a "crush", for want of a better word) whilst in a committed, long term relationship? Would this mean that the current relationship is in trouble, or some... (216 words)

Help me understand him. Is he a pervert?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear lovely aunts, I need your help.. I've known this guy for 20 years, not close friends but families are close friends, his mom always wanted us together ever since we were kids. I was always emotionally unavailable and never considered him. We live in 2 different countries ... (406 words)

Any tips on coping with the stress and co-parenting with a jerk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Majorly stressed out with work. I work from home so my son doesn't have to go to daycare full time-but this means that 4 hours of my work day, he is here (makes it very hard to get work done!) My job is very stressful and doesn't pay well. Anyway, to make matters worse, m... (237 words)

So was he scared off by my family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Ive been seeing this guy for a few weeks and things have been going pretty well until the other day. We met up to go for a walk but the weather took a turn for the worse so he suggested we go to mine as it was like the only place nearby that was warm and inside. So he hadnt met ... (328 words)