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writes:hi there everyone, well it all started when i and my best friend were joking around a week ago together while on phone. so i said to him that i would check his facebook friends to piss him off ( i don't know how this would piss him off but we were just in a funny mood), so here i am scrolling his friends list really fast and suddenly i found an actually good looking girl, her profile picture was not really clear cause it was taken from way behind but when i opened her profile i saw a photo of her from a close distance and i was just stunned. She was gorgeous, i have never seen a girl like her before. She had 5 mutual friends with me, 2 of them were, my best friend ,and a girl i know. I just couldnt take her off my mind ever since. I open my pc, ipad, mobile, anything available at anyitme just to see that photo again and again. When i asked my best friend about her he said he met her once a couple years ago and didnt talk to her since. The girl I know said that claims that she is a close friend of hers but i really dont believe her. i also add her on facebook when i was too desperate and she did not accept it yet. What shall i do now? I have never felt such a connection to a girl before, and she looks pretty nice too, from her comments and so. Just for the notice, she does not go to my school, does not live near me and the biggest problem of all, she does not know i exist. Any tips would be appreciated thank you all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2013): i guess you are kinda right. But i just can not get my head out of her! And i have a gut feeling if i just could meet her somehown I could get to know her better and probably end up as a relationship.. but i dunno...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2013): You can't feel a true connection to someone based on a photo. I also think you should know, photos can be very deceiving. It could just be a great photo of her, and if you met her in person, she might not look how you expected. After all, if she was so wonderful, why didn't your best friend ever talk to her again? I'm not trying to be mean, but this has happened to many people. They've fallen in love with an "image" of someone, and even created the ideal personality they want the person to have in their heads. Then, they were very disappointed when they met the person in real life, and their looks and/or personality was nothing like they imagined. It's too easy to assume someone is sweet, and has a wonderful personality when they have a beautiful/handsome face. Sometimes you'll be right in assuming this, but prepare to be disappointed for the times when you're wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2013): well i dont think i only like her looks, otherwise i would not open her picture every 5 min. There is a lot of pretty girls out there, but this one just, sigh, has a special thing on her.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (13 February 2013):
 The only way you have a shot is to have one of your mutual friends introduce you. Otherwise she will probably think it's very creepy for you to ask her out.
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