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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I think this married man is ogling me....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4100 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I could be totally imagining this, so put me in my place if you think I'm wrong. There is an older man I work with who is definitely married but he doesn't wear his ring (you work in an office - wear the ring, right?!) He is very high ranking so naturally I avoid him like the ... (294 words)

We've been married 5 years and my husband sends his ex wife a Valentine's Day greeting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age - My husband has been loving and generous towards both me and his daughters this Valentine's Day. However, he sent an e-mail greeting 'Happy Valentine's Day' to his ex wife. We have been married nearly five years. How should I feel? React? Respond?... (46 words)

How do I tell my ex that the baby I'm carrying isn't his?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4099 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 25. His ex is four months pregnant with his baby and I'm one month pregnant with his too. My problem is, he doesn't seem to be happy for our baby but promise that he will take care of the baby once born. Now, the thing is, I told my ex boyfriend ... (132 words)

How can I get her to open her heart? Its been 6 weeks since I saw her

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4100 days ago

14 February 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend is giving me the cold shoulder and I've done nothing wrong. It's Valentine's Day and we should be kissing and cuddling together not being apart. I don't know how to get her to speak to me. Last time I saw her, her mum screamed at me to go away, and after that, ... (276 words)

To Contact Or Not To Contact. Dumped And It Was All My Fault.

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

14 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello! Thinking about breaking no contact by leaving chocolates at her door on vday. She broke up with me 2 weeks ago because I pestered her for a non committed relationship to test if she really loves me because before we started dating, she said she was lonely and that she ... (210 words)

Will things end badly because of a terrible kiss?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi im really stressing about a kiss I had last week. I met up with this guy ive been seeing for a while and its kinda an unspoken couple. Anyway Ive just gone away for a while and the day I left he said goodbye to me and we kissed for the first time. The only thing is I dont ... (124 words)

Why did my crush lie about the school he went to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why would he do that? Is he playing games? So I was talking to my crush and he was asking about my birthday and talking about star signs (shocking, I didn't know guys cared about star signs). He's older than me so he asked what college I went to and he started to laugh... (165 words)

My wife wants everything but doesn't want to work for it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (M)

age - Is it rong for me to won't my wife to want my wife to work ther no kids at home she wants house she like to go out to diner she wants every thing I told her get a job and we Will work on getting a home I don't no if we are right for each orther any more she don't trust me and ... (74 words)

I pushed my boyfriend away with my insecurity and jealousy. I want him back!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4100 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend, of 2.5 years, has basically had enough of my drama and won't even reply to my texts now. I've been super jealous and insecure and am constantly accusing him of cheating on me without reason. 90% of things I think I'm right about he proves me wrong, and yet I still ... (647 words)

Should I tell her he's been cheating on her with me???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been messing around w/old fling who has a girlfriend. Come to find out, she is a really good woman. I feel horrible, should I tell her? I am 27 and we've have had little flings since my senior year in high school. He has always been a dogg... which is why he has alway... (158 words)

Will my promiscuous past put off decent men?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4099 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am 21, slept with 25ish guys (never counted properly because I am too scared to. I just know its less than 30 more than 15) Anyway. I started talking to boys in a more than friends type of way when I was 15 and since then I have spoken to about 60+ boys in this way. N... (159 words)

Marrying my gay best friend and need some advice.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a gay best friend and he and I have been best friends for 15 years. I am 30 and he is 33. We love each other in every possible way but sexually. He is my soul-mate and all I have ever wanted in a man. He treats me better than anyone ever has and makes me happier. He ... (237 words)

I am married but sexually frustrated. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I got married with 10 years age difference. Usually I get sex mood but he can't do no longer ..he leaves me a month for job .... Now in my mind I'm full of sex mood with another guy but I did not say to him.... What can i do plz help me.... (57 words)

The new guy is too much and I don't trust my ex. What am I supposed to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok... I am a 20 years old girl turning 21 in 3 days time. I have dated a guy for 4 years we broke because i was insecure due to him befriendings girls. Okay november 6th 2012 i broke up with him cause i've had enough. Few weeks later i decided to date this guy who has been ... (138 words)

I snooped and confessed to my husband and now he doesn't trust me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4098 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married a while and things were good in the beginning. But I have always been insecure and get jealous and so that made out relationship rocky. He has more single lady friends then he has guy friends and he talks to a couple of theses single frinds everyday. ... (508 words)

Are all guys like this with their baby mamas? Or just my guy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm only 20 and in my first real relationship. We have been dating for 2 and a half years but he is 27 and has a kid. The thing is he always freaking calls his baby mama and what's worse anything she asks for she gets its horrible I don't know what to do not only that but he ... (140 words)

How do I let my wife know its ok for her to have a vibrator?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a construction worker in Australia, which at the moment means working away from home. A lot. Recently i came home while my wife was out, and my curiosity got the better of me, and i looked in my wifes' bedside table top drawer where i found a vibrator. Now I was noth... (217 words)

I want to be more than his booty call!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - i met a guy 4 months ago started texting wich quickly moved on to sexting and naked pictures met him 8 days after meeting him and had sex with him 10 minutes later ive met up with him a further 2 times but always on his terms. i really really like him but i know he just sees me ... (81 words)

Should I leave a rose and chocolates at her door?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - A girl im close to being in a relationship with, talk to everyday by txt, and usually call end of the day. She has had busy schedule and is not free till next week. It has been 2 weeks since we met. I know she likes me alot, and I like her too. I wanted to send her some... (216 words)

Best friends nightmare son affecting our friendship! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My best friend whom I love to bits has a four year old son that is a NIGHTMARE... I am pretty sure he is ADHD.. and I have commented about this before and she rejected that so fast! But he is such a nightmare to be around. When they come to my house... he runs aroung the ... (218 words)

My partner cheated on me 6 months ago and I cant get over it, will the pain ever go away?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age - hi my partner of 20 years cheated on me with a woman he met on the internet, we live in Australia she lives in America. they used to play cards i would walk past and they would be chatting i would try and look at what they were saying but when i walked past he would put it ... (263 words)

Should I be upset that he wants to go out for our Valentines dinner at the weekend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4098 days ago

14 February 2013 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for about 6 months. Now its valentines day..i know he is trying to save money for a house and i am not materialistic in the sense where i expect us to go out to dinners all the time..i even contribute towards meals alot of times or even... (335 words)

Should girls make the first move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4098 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - curious as about today society. How do guys feel, when the girls make first move? if yes then how a - eye flirtations maybe or wink b- flat approach you with a 'hi' if not how are let know to make a move on us? ... (74 words)

How can I stop my dad from being racist towards my girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - [Mod Note: Personal and location details have been removed for anonymity] I'm 27, my girlfriend's 28, and she's Polish-Mexican-American (well, Polish-American on her father's side, and Mexican-American on the mother's side), and we've been together for 18 months now. She's oli... (287 words)

How do I fix my relationship with my dad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. My problem is about me and my dad. We haven't always got along. After my parents got divorced, when i was nineteen, i lived with my dad and brother for 6 years. My dad used to do a lot for us, as my brother and I both didn't have jobs at the time. He used to complain about ... (780 words)

How do I break down my subconscious walls so I can live a full life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've always consider myself be open and fun loving, and playful character. Willing to try new thing, new place but with cautions. I'm 25 years [past my personal goal of wanting be in relationship by time i was 23. i don't mind considering i did have lot fun being single still ... (384 words)

Performance anxiety

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi I have a problem that is basically killing me now. A few months ago I was fooling around with my girlfriend for the furst time and I lost my erection. From there on I had a niggling thing about it. However subsequent sessions were better and I sustained an erection! Last ... (161 words)

My boyfriend was cheating on me online and has some fetishes I never knew about, how do I get through this so we can work things out? I'm so scared of getting hurt again....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Wondering if anyone can give me some much need advice and reassurance, I am really hurting and not sure where to turn for help! My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years we have a 7 month old baby girl, I love this man desperately and want to stay with him. The problem is... (225 words)

My younger boyfriend told me I'm ugly, stupid and I'm not smart enough for him! How do I cope with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years tod told me that i look ugly, im stupid and i dont measure up to him and he wants to break up. We had problems before like he never spent anytime with me, always ignores me and never responds to my mails or texts. I struggled so hard not to com... (157 words)

I can't help myself I love her so much. What can I do? She freaked out and told me she only likes me as a cousin.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, i fell in love with my second cousin and things were great. I never thought this would happen i love her and when i told her this she kinda freaked out and told me she likes me as a cousin. I'm crazy about her and I don't want to stop talking to her. Neither does she. Be... (120 words)

Would you help your ex raise a child from another woman? He says we can't get back together except as friends

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - ok, has anyone ever encountered this before? my husband, well ex now once asked if he went and got someone pregnant would i help him raise it? i told him no im too old i have already raised my children. oh we could not have any together because of a tubeligaztion. well he has ... (119 words)

Why didn't he want to kiss me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been out with this guy a few times. He seems like a really good guy and I hope something further will develop. The first two times we went out, we had a few drinks with dinner and ended up kissing a lot on his couch. We then went out dancing and I met his friends who ... (139 words)

My girlfriend is so jealous its absolutely crazy!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi!!! Please some one help me. I'm engaged to my girlfriend of 3 years. She's soo jealous it's not even funny. We have had our issues in the past mainly because she's goes crazy when I look at girls. Or a movie with a sex scene in it...not a porno but something like e... (171 words)

My boyfriend found out I cheated on him while he was in prison and now our relationship is a mess!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My man went to prison.I have been with him for ten years. I fell short I made the worst mistake ever an cheated on him. I was goin through alot of things when he was locked up along with a drug addiction. When he finally got out he came seen me an we stayed with each about on... (161 words)

Is this a "no harm, no foul" situation or is this the kind of thing I'll probably end up regretting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4100 days ago

14 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - So, here's the situation. While I welcome any opinion I would very much like some female input. There's this girl I was working with (we both got laid off very recently) who I'm quite attracted to and really enjoy spending time with her. She has a boyfriend but hardly ever ... (471 words)

I'm going through a divorce and my 2 year old wants to call her father at night. Is this a bad thing to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Going through a divorce and I have full custody of our two year old daughter. She's very sad, mostly around bed time. Saying she misses daddy and wants to go home, I comfort her and it breaks my heart she's hurting. He doesn't try to see her and I always have to call him so ... (168 words)

Why don't I care about falling in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 20-year-old girl. I don't know why, but I have no interest in dating or being "in love." I used to get crushes and feel a desire to be close to certain people, mentally and emotionally at least, but that never happens any more, and hasn't for nearly a year. (Last time ... (270 words)

My boyfriend doesn't really ejaculate, he says that's normal for him but I don't think so?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have just started getting really intimate and I have noticed that he doesn't ejaculate.. not really anyways. Like I'll keep doing things to him and he will get really hard and talk about how good it feels and that I give him like 3 to 5 orgasms in a session.. ... (169 words)

I don't think my wife likes having sex with me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

14 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. I have some weird problems with my wife. I'm 24 and she's 23, we've been together for 3 years now. We have an almost healthy sexual life. We have sex about 7/8 times a week but the thing is: she doesn't seem to love having sex with me, she asks for it but she doesn... (333 words)

My boyfriend is always too busy! He says he'll call me but he never does.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - dear cupid my boyfriend has been very "busy" lately. I'll call him and he will either be sleeping or "busy", and then hes like I'll call you back but he never does! i always wind up calling him the next day and i don't see him as much as i would like to. I let him know thi... (153 words)

Why would my husband say that sex isn't fun?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4100 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I really enjoy personal time with my husband. Especially when it leads to making love. I'm the kind of girl who would be just fine with doing that every day with him. I thought he enjoyed it too, but today after showering together I asked him if we could, and he told me having ... (105 words)

Orgasm troubles!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Helloo, I'm having trouble orgasming. Before I feel I might orgasm, my body tenses a lot, I get a bit of a headache and can't breathe. It gets too much too handle to relax and i have to stop. What can i do? Thankk youu... (52 words)

Do I continue to keep seeing this guy in hopes that he warms up to me? Or do I just do my best to leave and save myself from heartbreak?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been seeing this boy for about 3 months now. And, in that short amount of time I have fallen head over heels for him. I have told him that I love him, and he says he loves me too, sometimes. He said he doesn't feel comfortable saying that he loves me but he says he ... (173 words)

How do I wow my fiance sexually when his mom is living in the house with us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys. my fiance is in the navy and is coming home next week. to have a nice suprise i am cooking a 4 course romantic meal.for him. well its not so much of a suprise as he does know about it. however i do want to suprise him and wow him.sexually aswell as generally but i dont ... (104 words)

I just feel so alone in the world, as if it's all my fault

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - To make a long story short, I feel so alone. I'm a student at university and this year my housemate has decided that it's her or my boyfriend and after trying and trying to accommodate them both, with the problem (supposedly) being that he spent too much time in our house, ... (504 words)

Was I being shady or is he overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I got in a big fight tonight and I need some advice. So he's seemed a little distant for the last few days, even though he told me nothing was wrong. Maybe he just needed some space, I don't know. Anyway, I was supposed to meet up with him at a friend'... (460 words)

I am inexperienced in sex but boyfriend is comparing me to his ex, who was better in bed.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4099 days ago

14 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night me and my boyfriend had sex for the second time. I told him to take things slow and pace what we were doing, he suggested we tried some positions, I agreed to see what was best for me. Although it didn't end up going so great, he was coming out of me, I was 'on ... (188 words)