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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Two women that I both care for know nothing about the other. I don't want to hurt either of them

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

7 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in a very complicated situation. I have dated this girl on and off for 18 months and when things go well, the relationship is awesome. But unfortunately, it was a very tumultuous relationship that had several arguments and breakups. It was very dysfunctional but 1 thing is ... (412 words)

Am I reading too much into that little text that got thrown in the mix?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4088 days ago

7 February 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Alright, so I've known this girl for 4 years now. I've liked her the whole time and she knows this. So, yesterday she did a favor for me and she was texting me after and said it's nice to see me and all that. We were just chatting about how it went and that stuff when she r... (280 words)

My boyfriend has a type... and it's not me?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I am a lady in desperate need of hearing some truths. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about five years now and we're doing great except for a couple reoccurring issues. Our relationship started in early college and therefore suffered at the hands of inexper... (768 words)

Guys, do you prefer shaved or natural/trimmed pubic hair?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear guys, This is just a question for you: Do you prefer women to be all hairless/shaved/waxed in the pubic area or is it also okay for you if a woman is just a little trimmed or even completely natural? Would it be a turn off for you if you had spontaneous sex with som... (129 words)

Young relationships are supposed to be fun, but mine is boring!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, so I'm kind of in a unique situation haha. I'm 19, and my "boyfriend" is 22. We live together because of university, our living situation is this: He got a double room, and a private bathroom, he asked me to move into the second bedroom so that he owned both. So as it s... (381 words)

Can I be lustful towards a man I've met and be happy in my relationship at the same time? Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have lustful feelings (none other than that) for a male I've recently met. However I'm in a happy long term relationship. Well, I thought it was happy, do these feelings mean in unhappy or is it normal? I wouldn't do anything about it ever, but the feelings are still there ... (52 words)

I was about to end things with him and he turned his act around. Now I'm confused.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 26 and have been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years. I love him a lot, but for the last couple of months I feel like I don't know if I want to be with him anymore but at the same time I can't imagine not being with him either. What should I do? We have had our share of ... (261 words)

I fell in love with him, but he just told me he fancied my sister

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4089 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - May I start by saying I'm a hopeless romantic. So I'm madly in love with this friend at school. I get bullied and most people hate me, so when this guy moved to where i live, and it was literally love at first site, i thought 'Yes! This is my chance to get a boyfrien... (272 words)

We want to wait until next year when we are both mature to be a couple...but how should I act until then?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

7 February 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - High school-junior Male-16 Me and this girl have silently liked each other for almost 2 years now, but we didn't tell each other how we felt until a few months ago. We decided that this is something we both want (a relationship) but we want to wait until next year when we ... (195 words)

My boyfriend is thinking about getting back with his ex. He doesn't know that I know!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age - Found out my boyfriend of 4 years is thinking about getting back together with his ex-wife. He does not know that I know this...what to do?... (27 words)

My boyfriend has been so supportive that I worry I'm becoming dependant on him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

- I've been through a rough time recently, with depression and self harming. I've promised myself though that I won't ever hurt myself again and am currently not as depressed or low in mood as I have been compared to last week. The thing is, I've been relying a lot on my ... (285 words)

How can I increase my boyfriend's sex drive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I havent had sex in roughly two weeks. I noticed when it started getting spaced out, every other day turned to twice a week then once and now, I dont know. We both work, I would say he works works almost five days a week but shorter shifts where I work 4 days a week, ... (270 words)

Are there just too many red flags? Is this relationship worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and i have been together for six years. I am 24. Before we got together he had fallen out with his bestfriend who seemed so sure that he had slept with his girlfriend. The three of them had been very close and from my fiances point of view she had told him she lov... (1591 words)

It seems like I'm the one doing all the chasing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a lad who's three years younger than me in September last year, and we hit it off right away. We found that we have lots in common; some things freakishly in common (our mums have the same birthday), which only led to strengthen our relationship. I was his first sexual ... (390 words)

My ex has moved on but I don't feel ready to

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

7 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I've quite recently just broken up with my girlfriend of 3 years (or so). I have been trying to distance myself from her for some time now but recently I have had to get back in contact. We still get on amazingly well (and I think I still love her), and so finding out that... (149 words)

My husband masturbates 5-6 times a week but cant get me pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - [Mod Note: Please give more information. Do you use protection? Are you trying for a baby? Has he been to the doctors? How often do you have sex? How often does he masturbate? Have you talked to him about this? More information will help you get better answers] i have been ma... (164 words)

My parents aren't giving me the freedom I deserve

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

7 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 21 yrs old and I'm having some trouble issues with my family,especially my father.I'm the tybe of guy who doesn't have many friend maybe 2 or 3 friends(guys)and I think my parents cause this to me.I barely go out and have fun with friends 'cuz when I'm a little bit late... (200 words)

Don't know how to read these mixed messages

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

7 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some advise as I am getting mixed signals and not sure what to do. I met this girl on a dating website and we started talking and got on well and have lots in common. We met up once for a quick coffee and really hot it of we chatted for ages went shopping and went for ... (256 words)

A confused girl, an unhealthy obsession, and feeling helpless.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

7 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a college student. A year ago I met this spectacular person. We both have the same - erm - learning disabilities, spectral disorders, and share a TON of the same habits in that we have them, and express them in the exact same way, to the exact same extent... on top of ... (893 words)

He's bipolar and needs time to work on himself, WHEN was he planning on telling me he was emotionally unavailable? Should I give him space or keep in touch?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy and we have been dating for the last two months and a week now. Everything seemed to be going great since we first met. He's really nice and we were spending a lot of time together.But two weeks ago he just blindsided me concerning our "relationship" a... (1022 words)

Is it me or does he seem jealous when I am with other people or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been going out with my bf for just four months now. I am 18 he is turning 21 this year. Recently, if I have been going to my friends house the things he would say would be ' when are you going home?' that was one time he didn't know I was out. Then, I went to my fri... (224 words)

I seem to be angry about something that was an issue a year ago!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I am 29, and this is my third year with my boyfriend, who is 7 years older and divorced 4 years before we met, he has 1 child. When we met we just had a good connection in terms of interests, personality, company, chemistry, everyting was there. But I don't think he was ... (265 words)

He was fine two months ago. Why is my Boyfriend now having trouble finishing when we make love? Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4089 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically, I have been with my new boyfriend for 2 months now, and everything is going well between us. There is just one problem that we do have..and well its been on my mind for a little while. Sex between us is normally good, but tbh, its incredibably arkward... (529 words)

He's an older married man and the chemistry between the two of us is elecric. How can I get over this strong attraction?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all I am separated. He is married. We work together. There is this crazy, undeniable electricity between us. Just hit us both out of the blue. We have known each other for a year in the workplace. It is at the point where when we look at each other, the eye contact is v... (274 words)

She never returns the 'favour' for me and disrespects my feelings! Am I overeacting or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My lesbian partner and I have an on going issue with sex in our relationship. I always make her have an orgasm but she has never once done this for me. She swings between doing things I ask her not to do to me in the bedroom, to just lying there, and never returning the ... (443 words)

Retroactive jealousy is tearing us apart

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - my partner and i have been together for 8 years, hes just gone 40 and i m 36. we have been friends for 19 years after meeting when i was 17 and seeing each other for a few months. we stayed friends after this and i had my son with someone else and he had a daughter with someone ... (249 words)

Betrayed! He lied about his age and said he had no children. I was infatuated with him. Should I tell him I know he lied?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help and opinions. Keep in mind I know how reckless I have been with my own heart and I don't need you to tell me that... I am 19 years old. I met a man at work I was completely infatuated with and I gave him my number. He ended up calling me the next day and from... (366 words)

My sister is ill with a serious mental illness. I want the sister I know to return. How do others cope with a loved one with this illness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

7 February 2013 (F) age 30-35 - my sister is schizophrenic, in the last two months she has relapsed, she wont talk to me or family. It is hard explaining this to outsiders, but it feels like she is not here anymore (the way she was). You watch soaps, and in soaps where people go away and come back again... (196 words)

I'm really disappointed in myself. How can I motivate myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So lately i have been feeling like a nobody. I dont have a job, i dropped out of school back in 2008, havent been able to get my g.e.d and have been a house wife ever since my son was born in 2009. Ive had two jobs between 2009 thru now but didnt stay that long. Im just getting ... (254 words)

My boyfriend's ex still wants him back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

7 February 2013 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriends ex still contacts him saying she loves him and wants him back. it wouldn't bother me so much but she has a boyfriend, he was seeing me for a month then broke things off to make sure things were done with her. now we are back on and after quite the telling off ... (386 words)

Sex in not a pleasure and I don't want to have it with my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is gonna be long, but I really need advice. I have been dating my boyfriend for about 3 1/2 years. I love him so very much. I have had millions of best friends in my life (girls) and all of them have either moved away, drifted apart, or we stopped being friends because of ... (749 words)

Older boyfriend said he was ready for responsibility but an unplanned pregnancy had him singing a different song!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help! my boyfriend is 12 years older than i am.He is ready for any family responsibility.but when i told him i was pregnant,he told me to get and abortion because he want me to finish school.Do you guys think he loves me or was just an abuser who were taking advantage of ... (58 words)

When is the appropriate time to talk about sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

7 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - So I have been seeing this girl for a little more than 3 weeks. I am 25 she is 21. She is really sweet, we have a lot of fun together, and I definetly see potential. Thing is she is kind of shy, she told me straight up she moves slower when it comes to having sex after I ... (130 words)

I still can't forget about my lover after a year. How do I get over it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - i'm married lady and had an affair with a married man for 8 months and then we got caught and we needed to end that. its been almost a year and i can't forget about him i think about him day and night miss him so much plz help me.... (55 words)

Friend of 5 years ditches me for his girlfriend. I feel hurt!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm lost, confused and feeling really down. I lost a friend a while back after we had an argument when he started ditches me and others for his new gf. I was always very weary of her, she was very much younger than him and had slept around alot, she loved attention and we... (832 words)

Is it weird for someone straight to like gay porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, this is really embarrassing but I was wondering if anyone else had this problem: I'm 19 and I'm completely straight, like I've never been "confused" or anything like that, but from the age of about 15 I've only liked gay (guy on guy) porn, anything else really bores me ... (70 words)

Am I not being sensitive enough? Or should she be cutting me some slack?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

7 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, A bit of background, I'm currently 18 and in my second semester of college. My girlfriend is in Highschool (We started dating back when I was a Senior). We've been dating around a year and a half, and I'm willing to admit I cheated on her about three months or so ago... (798 words)

Why Do My Boyfriends Always Leave Me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

7 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why Do My Boyfriends Always Leave Me? My boyfriends ALWAYS leave me, and I have no idea why. It's starts out all love and lollipops and then BOOM, gone. I'm pretty (objectively), and it's like they date me for that firstly and then get in too deep because they rea... (371 words)