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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why hasn't this guy replied to my facebook message?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I added the guy I like on Facebook and all my friends have been telling me to message him, three weeks later after a lot of persuasion I sent him "Heyy (:" I sent this on Wednesday, he has been online since as he has added people and liked pages but hasn't replied to me :/ why ... (59 words)

How do I stop sexting crap with my ex girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

17 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Guys, i dont know how to handle this situation. Me and my highschool sweetheart have texting for a while now after a gap of about 4 years. I kind of like another girl now, and i am seriously considering her as my partner. But lately my texting the exgf turned to sexting, ... (120 words)

My online guy has a girlfriend, why is he on a site for meeting people then? Where should I go from here with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been chatting to a guy for aaaaages online. He's 27, I'm 19 but we really get on... like his sense of humour is completely on track with mine and we chat pretty much everyday. He lives about 3 hours away currently but knows I'm moving up there in Sept to go to uni nearby. ... (354 words)

If I went back to this troubled girl how would I get her to trust me?

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17 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Started wondering what went wrong with my previous relationship with this extremely beautiful and kind woman who I met a year ago. I often thought that she didn't really love me because she would never tell me she cared about me, but now I'm convinced that she had a trauma... (267 words)

I'm 75% happy with my g/f. Should I marry her in 4 weeks?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

17 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - HI,Im due to get Married in a few months.When im out with my girlfriend it sounds shallow but i feel im supposed to be with a girl that im more attracted too.I have had stronger feelings for girls in the past but i feel i do love my girl as any time i ever thought about ... (173 words)

Whats the best way to act when running into an ex that has really hurt you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice on what is the best way to deal with when running into the guy who hurt you so badly and upset you more than you've ever been? My boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me nearly 2 weeks ago in a club with no compassion, decency or any respect. He showed no feelin... (338 words)

Struggle living with a family who always judges me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4084 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay well here we go, a few months ago i decided i was moving to italy to become a nanny, so i moved there and everything but the family i was staying with (strangers) i didnt get on with them so i came back, but ever since ive came back my family have been horrible to me they ... (377 words)

My boyfriend tells me he doesn't love me as much as he used to. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm pretty sure there may be lot's of questions like this here, and pardon if you're tired of hearing it ^^; What do I do, if my affectionate boyfriend suddenly says that he does not love me as much as he used to? Last night, he told me that he still loves me, but i... (237 words)

My away from home soldier boyfriend gets upset about everything! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship with a currently deployed soldier. We love and respect each other very much. But the fact is, he tend to get mad for every single reason. For example, today he got mad over the fact that I want to go to the gym (because he thinks guys will try to flirt ... (146 words)

Caught in the middle of manager and co-worker. What do I say now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - on friday one of my co workers"a" asked me to text my manager to see if he wants me to come in on sunday. i text my manager to ask him and told him "a" asked me to check with you in the morning. when i did he said a" did not work yesterday. i told him she asked me on friday( ... (128 words)

The relationship almost seems too good to be true but I can't risk getting hurt again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone I have been dating a man for a couple of months now. We had an instant connection which niether of said we'd ever felt before. We have the most wonderful time together. It almost seems too good to be true. I'm not sure but I think he is scared of how he is ... (134 words)

I can't get over my ex. What is wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - its been six months now i really love him . i have tried everything .friends jobs even family .i have read books .posted on line . used the no contact . even if i didn't matter to him . he would have called me even once he took me out of his life like i was some kind of ... (280 words)

He tells me everything's fine, then goes and moans to his friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4085 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - how do you deal with knowing your bf/gf moans about you to friends? i know we all need to vent about niggles or issues that are annoying us. i've always been the kind of person to tackle problems head on and to talk to my partner if problems arise. i'd kinda feel disloyal if i ... (159 words)

Now that he's gone I think he is the one

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - How can I win my boyfriend of 5 months back? He dumped me because we weren't allowed to see each other very often because my dad didn't like him. But we always said we'd find a way past that and see each other when he was old enough. If anything, he was more into it than me... (241 words)

He says the problem is the condoms -- should we try a different brand?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 39. We've been seeing each other for a while now and things are escalating pretty quickly in the physical side of our relationship. I'm a virgin. He's not. I want him to be my first. But every time we try to have sex, he loses his erection. He says ... (89 words)

Is it normal to lose interest in sex after having a baby?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hey, i need to know if it's normal to lose all interest in sex when you have a baby, as it's becoming an issue btwn me and my fiancee. We've been together 2yrs, very happy, engaged and live together. Usually sex was fun, satisfying spontaneous and every few days, right up until... (404 words)

Am I cheating on my b/f because I'm depressed and its the one thing I can control?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've started cheating on my partner, not because of anything he has done, we arent having problems and i'm not bored or anything. It's to do with my past, I've had a lot of problems and depression over the last 2 years or so. (I've never cheated before) My ex who I was with b... (393 words)

Is it normal for my b/f to be this close to his female best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Guys, Hope you can help. Ive been withh my bf for 2 months but from the very beginning there's been something bothering me. My bf has got no family, having lost both parents, so pretty much is on his own. But he is best friends with a girl he has known for 8 months... (271 words)

Where is the line between deceit and harmless white lies?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I would appreciate some opinions please, and thank you. There are TWO parts to my problem. I believe I have met my soulmate. I have only felt this way once before, so I know the feeling. I knew it immediately. We have been together nearly a year. It has been incredibly r... (619 words)

Does he want to date me just because I'm different?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met someone at work. He'll be leaving to work somewhere else in about 4 months time. He seems into me but I am very hesitant to develop this any further. He'll be leaving in months so why even start? He's been touchy and I am afraid he's after the physicals rather than being ... (115 words)

Will I ever have a chance with this guy or am I always destined to be in the friend zone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 17 year-old girl and I've had a crush on a guy for almost three years. We met at a summer camp in 2010, on the way there in the bus. We talked a lot, joked and he seemed really sweet. I was instantly attracted to him. Although he had a girlfriend back at home, during ... (329 words)

Husband can't preform because of pornography!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Frustrated at most, I've been married for 22 yrs and I'm still young early 40s ,however have hit a rough patch in my marriage which entails my husband can't preform the sexually act because he is busy watching porn ... We do have opposite schedules were I work days and he ... (139 words)

Do good looking girls get put on a pedastal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

17 February 2013 (F) age 30-35 - Are men more likely to put you on a pedastal at the beginning of a relationship if they find you very good looking? ... (23 words)

I like them when I start dating but then I really start to dislike the guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi friends, one problem i have is that when i meet a guy...i will be fascinated by his looks and all but when we start dating, i begin to really dislike him and begin to give excuses and we will end up seperating. pls how do i treat this? Can i ever be married with this ... (57 words)

I can't open up to him because he's always talking about his ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all of you. because i think you all are good people i'm turning my shoulder to you again ... So there's a total mess in my head about my love/boy i'm hanging out ... i won't lie how we met. there was a party and sex. and because it was so good we saw eachother ... (990 words)

Why do we hurt the ones we truly love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

17 February 2013 (?) age 30-35 - I always find myself wondering about love. What love is, how it can be given to you, who chooses to love who, why it exists, when will it come, when will it go, where one anothers eye meet. People take love for granted sometimes... Cruel peopl manipulate you deceive you... (143 words)

How can I get past this doubt in my heart that she's being faithful?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

17 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've heard some rumors about my girlfriend from a friend of mines on campus. He says that someone he knows has been saying he and my girlfriend had a thing a few months back. We're weren't a couple back then so naturally this was something that didn't really bother me. BUT ... (250 words)

Did I mess up with my crush by this stupid "love calculator" ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

17 February 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello dear aunts and uncles. Unfortunately, like most of us here, I've made a huge mistake. There's this freshman (I'm a sophomore) girl in my High School that I think it pretty. I was looking at her instagram profile and then checked out one of her friends profiles and thi... (209 words)

How can I move on from abusive ex boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid 2 days before i got dumped by my bf of 3.5 years. Long story short for past 1 year he was verbally and emotionally abusive and always called me names. I was always crying, depressed and scared to even talk to him. In the end he dumped me. I didnt call him, se... (187 words)

Frustrated that online guys only want sex.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am extremely frustrated in my dating life! I seem to be attracting guys who are just interested in me for sex. I am not sure what it is, it could possibly just be my ethnicity. I do not dress scantily, or act flirtatiously or inappropriately. When I am dealing with people,I ... (194 words)

How can I make my husband love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - i love my husband more than anything. i am very possessive for him. i do not like when he take very interest while talking to any other women. when v go out he always look at other women admiring them. i just hate this about him. he always dress up himself very well when he is ... (189 words)

Is he messaging me because he is bored? Or is there more to it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - J and I were friends for 2-3 years. He was moving out of town so we met up, and had a fantastic 13hrs together, unexpectedly. Unfortunately he had a gf and I had a bf and he was moving away. Soon after that I broke up with my bf, and though he was still together with his gf, ... (236 words)

What am I doing wrong? Why doesn't she like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

17 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - It will sound a little wierd. I am a little possesive by nature. I have a huge crush on a girl. She is my junior.she is realy open and friendly with everyone. We have spent quality time together. I make her laugh a lot and she is realy happy around me. Problem is no matter how ... (174 words)

Should a man pay support if the ex wife is working?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody.... If Somebody aware of this answer my question. my relative age 30, married to a woman and got divorced with 2 year daughter. child is with her mother. she had put case to provide some amount monthly. but she is working.... now my doubt is, whether he shoul... (99 words)

I signed up to personal training with him and I feel there's something there. What are my chances that he might like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I really like this guy at my gym and he's always looking at me whenever I look up and my thought is that he might like me because I don't think it's a coincidence that a guy would be staring at me for seven months. Anyway I signed up to personal training with hi... (217 words)

He wants to hold my hand and tells me he loves me, but he has a Gf. What should I do about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello mates,, so i got a problem, This new guy came to our school and he is really cute well... sort of, and in a few weeks we formed a really special bond and everyone would always think i like him or he likes me. I ignored them but then again i started thinking about i... (125 words)

Together 20 years. He says he's only just started watching porn. How do I recover from this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age - My husband and I have been together 20 years. My husband has never been interested in porn and if he has been he's hidden it all these years. Recently I walked in on him watching porn he said he'd just started watching it the last 6 months and he doesn’t no why. He can’t se... (93 words)

Suggestions for activities that cost little to no money?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

17 February 2013 (?) age 30-35 - Any suggestions on fun activities that aren't so costly or cost no money at all? I want to show my boyfriend that we dont have to spend so much or no money at all to have fun. And how can i encourage him to do fun activities?... (48 words)

The best friend? Or the long distance friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

17 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in a dilema between two women: the first is my best friend. I've been in love with her since the day we met. About a year ago, I tried to tell her how I felt, but I really couldn't get the words out the way I wanted to, and it ended up with her telling me she wasn't ready ... (211 words)

Should I try to initiate a relationship with him even though he isn't a fan of such?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always had a thing for my best friend and he recently told me that he likes me. He isn't a player but he doesn't like having a girlfriend because in the past they have always gotten clingy and caused drama. I feel a really connection between us though when ever we are ... (145 words)

Would it be that wrong for us to try and see if he and I can work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Modnote(1): Please advise the age difference between you and the guy you are interested in. Modnote (2) The boy's father is the girl's great Uncle. The boy's uncle is the grandfather of the girl. Her great grandparents are also the boy's grandparents. (hope that helps.) .... (198 words)

My parents will never let me marry a man of my choice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents are very traditional and believe rather have imposed this one me that I should get married to the man of their choice! I have spoken to them about it and they give a deaf ear!I am here to ask you I'm currently single but if I'm in love with someone and I know for ... (98 words)

Please remember to be kind when you give advice on the site!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been on this site for years,I sometimes come in as a person who needs advise or sometimes to give one..but recently I have been noticing quite a change in the attitude of some agony aunts,down right mean and cruel,I think you need to remember your dealing with a person ... (148 words)

Single mom finds it hard to date again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm scared I will never meet anyone. Not in a hurry, currently getting out of an abusive marriage. However, I'm scared that I will never meet anyone now. I'm 31, I have a child, and I work out of my home. I've never left my child with a sitter (he's two) and I'm scared... (191 words)

My boyfriend is emotionally distancing from me due to fights over insecurity issues

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

17 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my bf for 2.5 years. We've had our ups and downs like every couple but things have changed. Over the last few months there's been a real distance between us. I'm mostly to blame due to jealous and insecurity issues that started causing a lot of fights, at leas... (623 words)