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Archived questions from: 8 February, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he worth my time anymore? He says he's apprenhensive about calling me his Gf. Yet he's happy to share my bed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So basically, I've been seeing this guy (let's call him C) for 2 and a half months now, I've been keeping count! I don't know about anyone else, but I think 2 and half months is a long, long time to be "seeing" someone and not even be official yet! My friends and a few of mine ... (281 words)

What should I do? Ever since they've been together, my friend ignores me, and only calls or texts when she needs something. I hate this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, My best friend and I have been friends for the past 5 years. We've always had a GREAT relationship until recently. We used to talk all the time and she'd always text me a few times a day. We had a ritual every week where we'd hang out and cook dinner together... (438 words)

He makes me feel secondary to pornstars. Is it a stupid reason to dump someone because they don't make you feel sexually desirable enough?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Right my situation might be perceived to some as someone who has got their priorities wrong but I will continue.... Is it a stupid reason to dump someone because they don't make you feel sexually desirable enough? I am sure that he cared loads for me romantically, he ad... (404 words)

Always been attracted to girls. But also like watching gay porn. Could my porn use be affecting the fantasies I masterbate to and think about?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

8 February 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I am very confused at the moment. Since I was younger I have always been attracted to girls. When I see girls in the street, I'm instantly checking them out. Never in real life have I ever looked at a make and though hmm they're attractive... Ever. Now I have a very attracti... (207 words)

How can I make new friends who are genuine friends? Not people whose intention is "just in case they need a favor"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - This question is about new friends that I make along my way, that always want favors from me. I’m in my 30s with 12 year old child. We moved to a new state about 2 years ago, and I want to make friends. Everyone I meet seemingly very nice in a beginning, start to act in ... (1277 words)

I hate the guy who will be the best man at our wedding! How do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I've been with my partner for 8 years, just recently got engaged. His best friend used to make my life hell but I dealt with it. His previous girlfriend would flaunt herself all over my boyfriend and I would spend night after night crying because he never saw the pr... (295 words)

What is her intent? is she just comfotable with me? Or is she interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

8 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I am very interested in this woman in one of my college courses. We seem to be very comfortable with each other, because we walk and talk with each other every night after class. Here is the problem, it came up in one of our email conversations that she is currently in a rel... (389 words)

How can he be in love with me since we've never met? And how do I tell him this online relationship isn't the right thing for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been chatting to this guy online, we a have a couple of mutual friends but we've never met. I like him, but he's recently said he's in love me with - which I think is a bit much considering we've never met. He wants me to meet up with him but I'm really not sure I f... (147 words)

How do I get him to take me on an actual date without sounding rude?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, 3 days ago I met a man at my friend’s birthday party and we hit it off immediately. :) We talked the whole time, and he asked for my number and we've been texting and calling a lot. The day after we met, he asked me to please come over, it was after work and he was prett... (154 words)

Considering my circumstances for next 3 years, how can I come to terms with delaying having a baby? My desire is for a baby right now

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Lately I have been having day dreams about what it would be like to have another baby. I already have a 9 year old and I seriously think im getting broody. Sometimes I lay in bed thinking about that first mooment when the baby is born and you feel that rush of love. The probl... (209 words)

Should I reconnect with my first ex? Despite his threats and the reasons I broke up with him earlier?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - so here is my problem i broke up with ex 1 year ago,the reason was that he used to discuss wanting to force me for sex which i never wanted to do, actually it was an online relationship we never met, we were about to meet, but he used to say he would force me to have sex t... (166 words)

She sends texts to her male workmate every day. Does it sound like I have a right to be discouraged and want to leave her? She dismisses my fears.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

8 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and i have been married 5 years and for the past 2 years, she has been texting her workmate and calling him on a daily. We also live very close to her workplace and he takes her and picks her up. Ive spoken to my wife about my dislike of this and she says they just f... (106 words)

How do I break it gently to this guy that I'm not ready for a relationship with him? In truth I'm trying to get back with my ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4094 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, There’s this guy that I’ve been hanging out with and texting for the past couple of weeks; for security purposes, we'll just call him X. I invited two of my friends to a concert next month, and one of the friends, in turn, invited her boyfriend and his roommate... (420 words)

I'm attracted to tactile men but how can I stop them being too tactile, too soon?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to ask this to both male and females out there. I've just recently been on a date with a guy I met online. I'm a single mum and my job is 99% female so I find it difficult to meet men the normal way eg through work ,bars etc .I always seem to be attracted to men w... (155 words)

Will I ever be able to forget that he slept with someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4094 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Right i have a question and it is really confusing me. Me and my ex been together a year and a half the first 6 months was great, After this it we broke up got back together broke up got back together, i do suffer from personality disorder so occasionally i got in these we... (353 words)

My b/f knew I was ill but told a friend how dirty and smelly I was!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - When I started going out with him, I was going under some medication, due to an infection I showed him my medical test result and how am taking care of myself, due to the infection, when I pee I had a bad odour, but I had been to see a Doctor. My doctor that said that it just ... (251 words)

Could we still be friends when I want to rip off his shirt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupids, There's this guy that I dated for a couple months, until I broke it off with him. I've never really had a relationship and I've never been in love, and I just suddenly got scared that it was moving too fast, so I chickened out. He suggested that we stay friends,... (333 words)

Boyfriend lied and got me and his ex pregnant. It still hurts 2 years later!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was seeing my bf for a year before we started dating then about 2 months after dating I fell pregnant. well 4 months went by and I looked at his ex the mother of his first child fb page to find out she was pregnant too! she was 2 weeks behind me so I asked him he said its ... (202 words)

Does he still love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this is kind of complicated, maybe is lost maybe is still real love . I was Dating my boyfriend for About 3 years we were deply in love And were getting Maried, but i started having doubt About everything so arguments got in The way And a week before The wedding i broke up ... (348 words)

She went back to the baby's daddy, but I'm still wondering if there's hope

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

8 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, my ex is back with her baby's daddy. Yet she told me she wishes she was with me, and was even gonna move out to be with me again. Then she just up and said she is staying with him. He just had his 3rd child, by the third different woman, 3 weeks ago. He is 21. I told her ... (119 words)

High sex drive, unsatisfying outcomes

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel kind of weird about this, but I've started feeling really out of place lately. Up until I was 18 I had like no sex drive at all, but for some reason I have a ridiculously high sex drive now, I get bored really easily and I feel like I always have a higher sex drive... (288 words)

How does a teacher ask out a single parent?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

8 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a teacher in a primary school, and one of the single mothers has caught my attention for a long time, I do not teach her son and won’t be teaching him. She has a great personality what I like about her is that she talks to anyone and everyone; she’s confident and outgoing ... (104 words)

Does anyone have any tips to help me "shine" at the interview day and secure this dream job?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I have been given the opportunity to attend an interview day for my dream job and it is in the same city as this guy I like. I really really want this job but I seem to be a very anxious person and mess up interviews. The last interview day that I attended went ba... (184 words)

I'm At A Total Loss, I Need Help My Wife's Anxiety Has Killed Our Relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

8 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a first for me, asking for help on the Internets. Thank you in advance for reading and or responding. My question is whether the issue that I will describe below can be 'fixed', whether I need to separate with a view to trying to save our marriage, or just be a man and ... (763 words)

I cannot match what he spent on me for my Birthday. So what should I consider instead for his B'day that would still be meaningful to him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - This isn't one of the most important questions, but basically, my boyfriend bought me a £120 tiffanys necklace for my 16th birthday, its the most expensive thing anyone has ever bought me. His birthday is coming up at the end of this month, and well, I just feel bad because ... (121 words)

Sex between my and I boyfriend has become awkward and dissapointing. Any advice to improve things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - A lot of the time I feel like my boyfriend isn't into me sexually, and its getting on my nerves. My boyfriend has a bit of a problem where he cannot ejaculate with me, but he has been able to with previous girlfriends, seems I found out the reason for this is because i'm not ... (300 words)

Why has my Fbuddy become so dis-interested in joining me for sex? He says he cares.What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hi friends, i am 20 years old and my sexual partner is 27. he is as of now my Fbuddy. we both share mutual trust and love in our relationship. i am quite a pest. i expect him to be the boyfriend and do all the expected acts of kindness. we stated having sex 5 months back. in... (209 words)

I thought we wanted the same things. But he wants lots of changes. I'm struggling with this. Options? How to deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - There are a ton of HUGE things that are about to change with my husband and I, and I find myself questioning our relationship and whether or not were even compatible anymore. First off, he's telling me that he wants to quit his job and take another job in the city. We current... (400 words)

Why can't I have both love and passion from the guy I'm going to marry... isn't that the way it's supposed to be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Aunts, I've been with my fiance for just about three years now, wedding is planned for 11 months from now. He is perfect for me in almost every way, and I for him. He was in a real bad place for many years prior to meeting me. He was still hung up on an ex (obsesse... (587 words)

Why do I keep coming back to him for sex when the sex isn't even good?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have known this guy for about 3 years give or take. He's 4 years older than me. Ever since I met him I have had this strong sexual attraction towards him. We first hooked up when I was 18, then the second time when I was 19. I am about to turn 21 and I still h... (193 words)

My boyfriend is offering to take me on an all expenses paid trip but I'm feeling bad because my Valentine's day present can never match his because of my money problems

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend invited me for a weekend on a small city 70 miles away. Nothing fancy, just something different for a change. Basically, I just went through some hard family situations. Therefore I'm living with my father and we're both very, VERY low on money. On the other han... (347 words)

He does everything for her. Is he doing too much? He is attentive and helpful. But will he get sick of being so attentive one day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I know in a lot of cases clingyness ruins a relationship. However is this likely? For example, if a guy is THAT crazy about a girl that he does every thing she wants including buying her things, running round after her, going to see her in every spare moment they have off work... (151 words)

Does it sound like we are right for each other? Is it going to get better between us when I go home again in 9 months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

8 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have trouble understanding where my long-term relationship is going and need some advice. I'll start from the beginning, but sorry in advance for the long tale. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years in one month. I was 17, he was 18 when we first started se... (965 words)

Wisdom teeth problem

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

8 February 2013 (F) age 30-35 - more of a health issue than relationship, but advice is appreciated, aunts this is so not a relationship question but it's bothering me , I was fine till recently I realized my wisdom teeth was coming out I thought I didn't even have them, I went to the dentist to get it sorted ... (218 words)