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Archived questions from: 26 February, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is this relationship salvageable or should I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have had a bad marriage the last 2 years. We've been married 14 years. He turned into a workaholic and I was lonely. I started hanging out with friends. A few were guys. He avoided me by working all the time. I developed an addiction and he put me in a sobe... (413 words)

He went to visit his ex and is not back yet. Should I wait or move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My man found out he has a 14 yr old daughter just recently. He went to visit her on 2/12/13 and hasn't returned yet. I know her mother wants to be with him again. His daughter is having problems in school. My question is should i move on or wait for him to come home. We... (68 words)

He's ten years older , but says he's willing to wait until I'm ready to lose my virginity. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 17 and still a virgin me and my boyfriend have been dating for three months. He is 27 and already he has a daughter. He says he will wait for me until I'm ready to lose my virginity with him. I'm quite ready,but since he is experienced im kind of nervous on what to do wh... (64 words)

Should I just wait to hear from him? He's digesting the news that I used to be an escort

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - A few years ago I fell into hard times and began escorting. I did it for 2 years off and on and just enough to get by. I eventually quit and have since than went back to working a real job and a normal life for a few yeArs now. A few months ago I met a guy and everything was ... (220 words)

Boyfriend's female friend is always at his house and no one cares about my feelings

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Every week for the past 3 months, whenever I go to my boyfriend's mums there is this girl there. This girl has openly admitted to liking my boyfriend for the past 5 years and purely doesn't like me on the bases I'm going out with him and she isn't. Also this girl is very ... (476 words)

He leaves me goes to ex..rinse, repeat. How can I trust him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i feel so lost. i was married and very unhappy, i met a guy at work and at first site it was as if i stopped breathing, i instantly loved him! butterflies fireworks everything! it signified the end of my.marriage as i felt if i was in love with my husband i wouldnt have these ... (701 words)

Girlfriend stood me up on valentines day and now says she's too busy to make up the date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend stood me up on valentines day saying she needed to study for exams. i had made some pretty big plans and felt really horrible. at first I didn't tell her about this but she realized something was bothering me so i finally told her that i had made big plans f... (376 words)

Is he bored with me? I caught him yanking off in bed next to me!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4063 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with a man who was married for over 20 years. The last 7 years it was a sexless marriage. We happen to have sex very often but there are times where I find porn on his phone and have caught him a few times masturbating. I am just downstairs... (180 words)

Why does everyone think that men and women can't be friends?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I'm just wondering... I have seen A LOT of posts involving opposite sex friendships... and I have seen A LOT of answers that claim guys and girls can't be friends ... my question is this: films aside, where has this ridiculous idea come from? In my experience, it is ... (143 words)

Now guys at work see me in a different light. How could my own brother embarass me at work about things I told him in private about my private life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid,my brother and I are employed at the same place we have private conversations between each other at home about our relationships with different people in our lives so that's cool. However he then went to work and told one of the coworkers I have been celibate for ... (105 words)

Can one waste so much time thinking about the ex that one could miss out on what could be true love? how can one stop dwelling on the ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Bit of a general question here, but if you are trying to get over an ex, how are you supposed to know when to give up wondering and hoping? What if you decide to give up and then you never rrally find true love because you were meant to be with the person you gave up on? Or ... (128 words)

Am I finally over my ex? Because I don't feel anything or even care about him anymore

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Does this mean i'm finally over my ex? I've stopped thinking about him as much as I used to, which was a lot! I can think about our memories and him and i don't tear up or feel sad, but just think of how it was a happy point in my life. I don't find myself caring what he's... (142 words)

Am I unreasonable as he claims? My 8 years older ex can be thoughtless, inconsiderate, and does not listen.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I have a bit of a problem with my boyfriend, who is 25 (8 years in my senior). We've been going out since October. Recently we have been having many disagreements and I find myself craving more from him. We split up recently due to that, but I am having second thoughts... (396 words)

Did I taint my husband's image? He is cross that I confronted the married woman who's been sending him love texts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I received love texts in my hubby's phone which were replies to a married woman's txts. The last one states that 'soon we shall be together darling' When i asked him he denied and said he has no affair with this particular woman. We decided to blacklist the her number but s... (137 words)

Has a partner ever said they wouldn't watch porn but then do it anyways?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) age 30-35 - Has anyone ever had a relationship where they have told their partner at the beginning they don't want porn in the relationship and their partner has accepted but done it anyway? I am worried this is going happen to me, I don't want to give myself to someone who is perving on ... (60 words)

Married friend is mad at me because I told him I won't get messed up with a married guy.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I will make a long story short. I am friends with a married guy. We work together. We are attracted to each other but have not crossed the line. Recently I opened up to him that I was involved with a guy who was married once and that this married guy broke my hea... (276 words)

My ex claims he loves me so much so where is the RING at?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid,I dated this guy in 2000 we hit it off we acted as husband and wife with children I have from another relationship.everything was going great but things started to change not physical he never put his hands on me but when we get in arguments he would leave for days ... (275 words)

What goes through a man's mind after a breakup? Can they really feel nothing?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my boyfriend, of 2.5 years, a week ago today. I'm struggling to even make it through the day. I'm truly heartbroken. He was the first man I'd ever fallen in love with. He's 34 and I'm 30. The reason I broke it off was because after having problems for quite some ... (240 words)

How should I how him how I feel without saying it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why did he do that? I really like him.? So I was hanging out with this guy I really like and he was playing music and I asked him what song is next and he said your favourite song. And he was right it was one of the songs I like and I started dancing when It came o... (147 words)

Should I be patient or is she not into me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok. I met this girl a few weeks ago in a stripclub. She gave me her phone number. So i text her a few days after. She remembers me. And ask me to call her. At first every things was great. She told me tha she wanted something serious. We went out on valentines day and had sex. ... (167 words)

Why is that when you're with someone, attractive and available guys are everywhere, but when you're single, they are nowhere to be found?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a pretty straight forward question that hopefully somebody could answer... I've came out of a 7 month relationship about a month ago and i've not met one decent guy, or anybody at all who i've found myself attracted to! It's strange because during those 7 months w... (156 words)

Is my girlfriend having second thoughts?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have only been with this girl for a few weeks. she recently broke up with her boyfriend of two years after they were constantly arguing and she felt that they needed to call it quits. she has been with me since then and then she broke up with me and said she needs to think ... (99 words)

He's too independent, but I don't want to suffocate him. How do I handle his rejections?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone.. I´ve been with my bf almost two years. We´ve had some problems as every couple..but we love each other..At least I think so..He´s very kind to me,says he loves me all the time,he´s gentle, he surprises me, i have so much fun with him..but here´s one thing we... (186 words)

I am absolutely and completely in love with my male best friend. How do I get over him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm in my late twenties and I am absolutely and completely in love with my male best friend. Whether he feels the same as me is immaterial at the moment as he is seeing someone else, but I could really do with some tips as to how to get over him. I have seen lots of advice ... (176 words)

He's not fighting to keep me in his life! I'm gutted. How do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I am distraught. Me and my boyfriend have broken up. We were together tabout 4 months. I have always suffered with confidence and low sef esteem. I dont tink ive trusted him from day 1. He never gave me any reason not to trust him. It was just me being paranoid. ... (350 words)

Was he tired, confused, emotional for some reason. or just forgetful when he use the name of his ex, (instead of my name), when he spoke to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - The other day my boyfriend called me by his ex's name. He was making me laugh because I had been previously upset with a family member. All of a sudden while he was telling me a joke he used her name instead of mine. He was with her for three years and she was nasty to him... (198 words)

What are the options to deal with our rude confrontational neighbors? They stir up trouble and it's wearing me down.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm really confused about my neighbour. I just can't work her out! For the last 18 months the person living next to me has made my life quite difficult. We have got to a point that we have resolved some issues but I am really wary of her! One of the main issues i... (704 words)

Is it a communication problem? Guys do ask me out, but whenever I date it never leads to much more than the first date.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 23 years old, Whenever I'v liked or been attracted to someone,that person has always asked me out.. I'm an attractive girl and these men compliment me a lot,but I don't know why it never leads to relationships! Its just a date and then I feel its leading to nowhere I... (108 words)

If partner is using dating site do they always keep on carrying on until you dump them permanently?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am noticing there seems to be a growing number of questions here relating to repetitive cheating on dating sites by their partner. I have had to go through this with my partner who never admits it or thinks he is not doing anything wrong by way of any excuse he can find for... (90 words)

Should I worry that I may lose her to someone who is just as pretty but more intelligent?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am dating someone who is very accomplished and quite literally brilliant. While I have above average intelligence, I have no education nor anything that I have accomplished or am really good at. Long story short : I became a mom at age 19 and went through 2 abusive relati... (260 words)

I introduced the girl to my best friend. Now they are together. Trouble is I have fallen in love with the girl. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

26 February 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 17 years old, male, and I've been best friends with this guy since elementary school. Lately I've gone insane with envy for certain aspects of his life. A key component, his relationship with his girlfriend, whom I've fallen in love with over time. I'd had a crush on h... (259 words)

She gives me butterflies. is it normal when we think of a particular person for quite some time without even making an effort to think of them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

26 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi friends. is it normal when we think of a particular person for quite some time without even making an effort to think of them? I occasionally seem to think of this particular girl I met a couple of times before and she STILL seems to cross my mind - even today. I g... (94 words)

Multiple Dating Questions: can you help me please? What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So I guess I need some dating advice! I realize every person is different and I'm also a lady who dates ladies but I think anyone would have a good perspective on this. I've been dating women for several years but usually I was pursued by them or wasn't wondering how to proce... (235 words)

How can I tell if my BF is telling the truth or not? What lengths will some men go to, to tell lies?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - How can you tell if your boyfriend is tellin the truth whether a "friend" is just a friend orwhether he has slept with her. He denies anything happened that hey were just friends. I somehow believe him, just want to know to what lenths will you men go to and deny or if there... (91 words)

This seems unfair to me. Is this how things work in the restaurant business? Is my Supervisor Biased? And what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been working at a restaurant for about 3 months now. I'm still considered a "trainee" because I haven't passed the written exam. Therefore I only receive a maximum of 10% of total gratuity per shift. If there is more than one "trainee" then we split the 10%. Regular e... (504 words)

Should I call him and tell him how I really feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - okay so..here it is under an unusual planetary alignment i meet the most amazing man it was strange i felt a deep connection with him when we shook hands i will never forget gazing into his eyes when i met him. i could not describe the power i felt it was strange. The p... (501 words)

I'm broken hearted and confused over boyfriend's cheating. Can anyone explain?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - so I had dated a guy for 2 years. he had kissed a girl i had been friends with in high school last year. i was kept in the dark for so long, she still partied with him and talked, he even asked me for her number. i didnt have any idea, i thought they were friends. i found ou... (333 words)

Is my Italian penpal starting to like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Good afternoon, I have a pen pal from Italy almost 6 months ago. I am from US but a Latin emigrant. I am 22 and he is 23. I really really like him and his exact words in his last email were: "Every time I read your plans I admire you more and more... You are so deter... (121 words)

My life is a mess and I can't talk to girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Ever since I'v hit puberty(15) I can't socialize, I've become very nervous and have no self-esteem. I can't even walk past strangers with some feelings of discomfort. And I can't take my eyes off hot women, but yet if they tryed to talk to me my mind would become blank and I wo... (328 words)

Two guys..don't know which one to pick?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in between two men,I'm 30 one is 53 years old and the other one is 35. The 53 year old is set up in life and we have o much fun together. he is black and I'm latina and we have such great chemistry and he loves my son and also my son loves him. he is just a blast and is ... (339 words)

I lost my overseas b/f because he found out what I do for a living!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 22 years professional bargirl in thailand, I had boyfriend for 5 month overseas, I love he very much. But he find out of my work and now he finish me and say he want no more to know me. He a very nice man with good heart, not like the no good men I business with. I hate ... (132 words)

Is it cheating? I feel horrible and do not know what to do next!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

26 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am 22 and gay from Germany and its pretty late in the evening but my consience does not let me to go to the bed. I have a boyfriend more than a month now and everything was going perfect. I truely love him and he loves me too. He even invited to meet with his pa... (234 words)