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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I found out accidentally that my friend is transgender. How can I help her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

12 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is more of a question on friendships rather than relationships, but I didn't know where else to go to for advice. Basically tonight I done something I shouldn't have, I went on to my friends email account- totally innocently to resend an email she had sent me- and acci... (245 words)

Why does my male friend treat me differently from his other friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

12 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. Can you help me figure out why this guy seems to treat me differently from our other friends. We hang out in a group of friends. I see him checking me out all the time from across the room or looking at my butt etc. He smiles at me a lot and laughs at my jok... (132 words)

My estranged mother is threatening to tell my father about my secret engagement! I'm not ready for anyone to know!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4090 days ago

12 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My mother moved away without telling me or my dad. I don't know where she's living now, and my dad is buried in debt because of her. She did some things that I felt were very wrong (like stealing things from the house), so I just didn't even have the guts to talk to her for ... (266 words)

How important is a mans height in society

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

12 February 2013 (M) age 30-35 - I have an acquaintance who is a few centimeters from being 6 feet tall and he believes he is short and worthless because of it. He brought up a lot of articles and facts about how being short is the worst thing a guy can be and that being 6 feet tall and above is the greatest ... (223 words)

I'm not sure about my feelings for this girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

12 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, i know this might be a bit long, just bear with me please. Ok the thing is that i dont know how i feel towards a girl, i dont really know how to really explain that, so i wil just start at the beggining. So last semester (about 7 months) i met this girl in one o... (444 words)

How can I let go and move past my experiences and build up my confidence

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

12 February 2013 (M) age 30-35 - I grew up being told that I am a very ugly person and it killed myself esteem. I remember an incident when my friend and I were walking and we ran into some of my female classmates, they all said hello to him and gave him hugs and one of them asked why are they not greeting me ... (309 words)

I’m terrified of getting my heart broken and it’s pushing everything I want away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

12 February 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - my self worth is so low I am 18 years old and I have never been in a “relationship” i’ve never had anyone reciprocate love to me…I always give myself and my emotions to people but never get anything in return no one has ever gone out there way to do something nice for... (223 words)

Is my boyfriend getting satisfied?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

12 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend makes me wonder because he's been ejuculating outside , everytime he takes it out when the big moment comes . I'm worried if he got satisfied or ?????... (30 words)

LDR--is it normal for him to masturbate every day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

12 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I are on a long distance relationship due to work. We see each other twice o thrice a month (on weekends). My concern's that he masturbates almost every day ( I know because he sends me pics and we talk about everything in our relationship). The other thing's ... (97 words)

I can feel that we're both losing interest?

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12 February 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I can feel that we're both losing interest. We've only known eachother for a little more than three weeks. In that time span we've made out, sexted, dated, cuddled, and pretty much everything short of sex. I can just feel it. I really want to save our relationship because I'd ... (169 words)

Online guy seems to have vanished! I'm disappointed did he get the wrong impression?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

12 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I'm hoping someone can shed a light please?... Last week I met a guy online. We exchanged loads of messages and seemed to get on really well and have loads in common. I told him my interests ag walking, camping and he hinted that he would like to go with me. In a coup... (245 words)

Un-Happily Ever After

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

12 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - At first glace it would seem that things are fine, however, I have never been so lonely and miserable in my life. My husband is not home very often and goes to his friends’ houses, his dad's house or fishing after work most days. When he is at home he ignores me and the kids ... (1293 words)

My husband talks to 5 women daily but does not care about me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

12 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married 15 years and it has been rocky but I am working on me and fixing me and letting him do what he needs to do and we are doing better. But I still am working on some jealousy issues. He has 5 lady friends he likes to talk to daily and 2 of them he o... (352 words)

Was my Bf out of line for objecting to the discussions I had with my best girlfriend who is newly married?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

12 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend got married recently. I had a text chat with her regarding her sexual life and she told me about the things that happened between her and her husband. My boyfriend saw those chats and started fighting with me that how can I talk like that with anybody like... (158 words)

Guy at work who I really like. But we both have partners. Due to his actions should I change what I wear, so he does not get distracted?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

12 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi well this is my first post on here so here it goes. There is this guy at work, whom I really like, but we are both with people. We have been flirting even though a friend has told me he's not worth it. Well today as I was walking out the office he followed me out and as... (246 words)

I know I must move on from him. But I need help on how to love on please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

12 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I move on from a straight-gay men relationship? I've had this boyfriend whom I loved so much (till now). We were friends for like 3 years. We study in the same University and we both belong to the same section. He was one of my few straight guy friends. We... (712 words)

Could it be that my boyfriend still loves his ex? He tells me he's slept with her several times since they broke up

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

12 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend told me that he has slept with his ex several times since they broke up, she is the mother of his children. This has made me feel paranoid that this could happen again or that at least he still fancies her. I hate how this has made me feel knowing this, should I be ... (65 words)

Should I look to date someone? Should I avoid it? Am I going about this all wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

12 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My last relationship ended 3 years ago. It's been kind of tough on me and despite seeing a few girls between now and then there weren't any that I even considered wanting to make my girlfriend. About a week after my ex and I broke up she started dating a friend of hers; someone ... (504 words)

My boyfriend married someone else a few weeks ago. Should I listen to his words that we could be together?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

12 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend got married to some other person few weeks back. He says they are not staying together, and he still tells me that he loves me and want to be with me forever and will marry me. i am not getting what to do I am not able to go away from him please help... (59 words)

Is he going to ask me to marry him? how would I know ahead of time if he is intending marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

12 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is he going to pop the question....soon? Well here it is again he refers to my mom as MIL His mom gave me pictures of when he was little; he's asked me if he can be my daughters step dad? He's always talks of our future selling his current home and buying a home to call ou... (215 words)

Still getting over breaking up with a girl I loved. Will I ever find love again? It's difficult for me to meet girls and I have few real friends.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

12 February 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I am eighteen and was dumped a short while ago by a girl i loved to bits. I'm worried that I'll never find the right girl. I know im still a little young but im getting older. I'm just upset all the time because i have about three real friends. And i cant meet new people duri... (74 words)

I wouldn't send my love interest an intimate photo so he broke up. Should we stay friends, as he is suggesting?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

12 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a man on facebook about 5 months ago. We have never met in real life. But we are very close to each other. We have shared everything about our past--his ex's and my ex. I told him about my ex, who blackmails me with pics that he had taken of me long ago. Recently, he a... (137 words)

Is it too soon to spend the night on our special St Valentine's date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

12 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So this old high school classmate of mine that was never more then an acquaintance and Facebook friend recently came into my life by way of working at my job once a week... We ended up talking more on FB which lead to us exchanging numbers...We talk constantly on the phone vi... (206 words)

Since our break-up have I made a mistake by ignoring him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

12 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I split up a while ago due to arguments. I really love him and want him back. My friends have said to ignore him which I have done for the entire week. And through out week he has sent me a few messages asking me out to movies and saying he wants me. have ... (91 words)

I lied to my employer when I handed in my notice. Current employer offered me better position. Should I accept it or just leave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

12 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Last year my grandfather died and he left some of his money to me and to my brother. Here's my dilemma... I have worked all my life The problem is that the line if work I'm in, customer services pays badly and there is zero respect in the job from my superiors. After... (344 words)

Woman I met on a lesbian dating site is actually bisexual and married! How could she be so deceitful, and should I confront her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

12 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a lesbian and a few months back I joined a lesbian dating site. Shortly thereafter a member contacted me and expressed an interest in me. I was impressed with how she presented herself, what she conversated about. I have since taken a fond liking of her. I have however ... (277 words)

Gf says she'd date her ex if we broke up. How would you react if a partner said this? Unsettled? Insecure?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

12 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - If you were having general conversation, and your boyfriend or girlfriend admitted that they'd consider dating some of their ex's again, hypothetically, if you two broke up, would that alarm you or bother you? My gf admitted that if we broke up and the timing was right, s... (121 words)

How can one tell the children about divorce when your spouse is too emotional to be rational?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

12 February 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - For many years now I have been unhappy in my marriage. My wife and I have been together for twenty years. After our children were born my wife became very emotional, and she tends to react to situations by shouting, swearing and crying. She's been visiting a psychiatrist for... (390 words)

The personality is there. What are the positives and negatives of not having a big physical attraction to the person?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

12 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Please consider if someone has the personality, but their looks aren't all the way to what you'd like and you're considering them for a serious relationship, possibly marriage. What are the positives and negatives of not having a big physical attraction to the person, when purs... (53 words)

How can I learn to be more comfortable around others and how do I win the trust of those around me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4090 days ago

12 February 2013 (M)

age 22-25 - I'm still at the age where dating does not matter. However I know that this time I can use for practice to win a girl. I have had a handful of girlfriends but my problem is I'm still at the point where I can't show my emotions properly. What I mean is that when I like a girl ... (155 words)

Husband of many years has changed. Is he cheating?? Or does it sound like he is?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

12 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Everyone I have many questions but first let me explain. I have been married almost 20 yrs, I'm 38 he's 46. We have 3 beautiful children 22, 21 and 14. My 1st child is not his blood but there is no step anything in my home, however problems have occurred because of this... (435 words)

My friend went out with him and said he was horrible. But then she asked if I'd like his number. Should I be insulted?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

12 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend was hooked up with this guy and went on a date with him and it was horrible according to her. I sat and listened for hours as she told me everything horrible about it. At the end of this she asked if i would like to have his number because she was getting tired of... (81 words)

I feel like the spark has started to go out. Has anyone else been through this? How do I get through it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4090 days ago

12 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello:) Before I tell you my problem let me tell you a bit of background, I've been with my boyfriend X for a year now, however when we first met when I was already in a relationship, but he confessed his love for me which made things a little awkward as friends, and I... (586 words)

Will alcohol make you sick the first time you drink it even if it is just a small amount?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

12 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My new boyfriend wants to bring over some champagne or wine for our romantic Valentine's dinner at my house. The problem is I have never drank alcohol in my life, just was never interested or associated with people who drink. Of course I would like to try some and would n... (159 words)