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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My first partner didn't enjoy the sex -- how can I compete with experienced guys?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

21 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been a relationship with a woman I met online for more than a year. We live thousands of miles apart but we've had two visits. The first visit, we weren't sure where we were going with our relationship, but we ended up having sex the first day we were together and did it ... (262 words)

He won't open up, won't take his meds -- how do I help him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4067 days ago

21 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i was just wonderin... my boyfriend has mental problems of which are how serious i dnt really know. he is not a very emotional person which means he is usually angry or happy (thats about it) and i know he loves me very much. but he just doesnt open up to me at all. i ... (205 words)

We're both about to be single -- should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

21 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, this is driving me nuts, and I'm not sure if I should move forward and do this, so I figured I would ask a forum of people! hope you guys can help me out. So, about 6 years ago, I met an awesome guy at work, after he was hired to help our team out for a few month... (1202 words)

My father won't let go of a one-time thing that happened five years ago

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

21 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I'm 24 years old,majority of my friends drink,smoke but I dint,although I always wanted to have a drink..so I waited when I turned 19 a friend of mine said you should try out one drink,so I was like ok,and she offered tequila,now I had no idea that this a really s... (326 words)

He knows I'm straight, so could I be misinterpreting his actions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

21 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I’m a young guy and I’ve kind of a bizarre situation. I’m a student and I’m living in a flat share together with another guy. He’ s a wonderful person, we have much in common and so we became friends very quickly. He’s also gay, but that has never been a problem for me. I’m ... (332 words)

Boy has girlfriend but stares at me in class?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

21 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a boy in my university class and for the past 6 weeks we have been making eye contact. I found out he has a girlfriend. I haven't had a full blown conversation with him just a simple "hello" every now and then. When we lock eyes, we both look away quickly. What's going ... (63 words)

Instead of telling me why she loved me she told me about the stuff that bugs her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

21 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Last night I laid down next to my girlfriend and said "I love you" and she asked me to tell her why. So I started listing all of the things that I love about her. Then I asked her to tell me what she thought. She started by bringing up an argument we had earlier in the night. I ... (145 words)

Would you pay? It was a change she required prior to the holiday. But then she expected to pay for part of her additional cost.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

21 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Would you pay? I went on a trip with someone who I knew from work for quite a bit, but can't call her a friend. We bought air fare separately but hotel she booked. We had different flights and I arrived later to find out that hotel now costs twice more, because she mixed up... (386 words)

Why can't my sexy guy take my word for it? He is sexy How do I help him to feel sexy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4074 days ago

21 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been seeing a guy for a few weeks and he seems to have a pretty low self-esteem. Sometimes I'll greet him with "hey, sexy" or something similar and he always denies the compliment. He's a really attractive guy and it bothers me that he can't take my word for it! ... (93 words)

Could this be my problem? Are some people just not relationship material?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

21 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Are some people just not relationship material? I have never had a girlfriend and i am tired of getting rejected. I am not physically attractive, charismatic nor book smart. I do not have money and i don't like going out to parties and i don't drink. I don't think i have a... (82 words)

I know my wife has never cheated on me,so is my curiosity normal behaviour?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

21 February 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - We have been together for 26 years. My wife was much more experienced than me, sexually. We got together when we were teens, my best friend had just been in a sexual relationship with her when we met. Since then I have become obessed with the thought of the two of them together... (86 words)

Do I need a change of mind set? Or just some patience and confidence, before I connect with a girl I like in the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

21 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl and never had sex and i have only hugged 3 girls my entire life. After talking with my friends and observing people i feel like a lost cause. One guy called himself a late bloomer because he lost his virginity at 14, i am 22 ... (114 words)

I HATE my ex! I need a healthy way of letting go!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

21 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help to control my anger before i seriously burst with rage! I absolutly HATE my ex boyfriend with a passion right now, he has made a complete fool out fo me and i have literally just thrown everything he ever bought me on ebay to get rid...including my phone! ive ripp... (157 words)

I'm feeling claustrophobic in our relationship and regret having said 'yes' to his proposal!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

21 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody. Im in a spot of bother... Ive been with my fella for nearly 3 years, at first he was everything i ever wanted, the complete opposite of my abusive ex but now my feelings have changed. We have been through so much drama and break ups the last year i think its all ... (308 words)

How do I make her love me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3643 days ago

21 February 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, so like all of you i got a problem i just can't deal with it. In september 2012 i meet a girl on fb that i had in friends list like a year allredy but never bothered to talk to her as i dident really like the idea to talk to someone on fb nor did i want to spend time on the ... (867 words)

Obsessed with the fear of losing friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

21 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I really, REALLY need to get over this. I'm generally not like this, but for the past one month, I find myself trapped in a place I want to get desperately out of. I'm becoming increasingly fearful of losing friends. I'm even afraid to fight with them, and even a little ... (111 words)

My Girlfriend Wants to Sleep With a Guy at Work, What to Do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

21 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend got together young - she was 17 at the time and we have been together 9 years and I'm more in love with her now than i have ever been. A few months ago i started to get the feeling that she was thinking about being with another man. Just things she sai... (591 words)

I Proposed to My Pregnant Girlfriend, She Accepted!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

21 February 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - hi Aunts ahd Uncles... im the man who orginally posted about my pregnant girlfriend. the title was she posts everything on facebook. you all wanted me to come back and prove you wrong. well guess what? my baby BOY is due in june, i proposed to her on valentines day and she said ... (96 words)

Has he Lost Interest in me After Only Two Months?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

21 February 2013 (F) age 26-29 - Hi everyone (: My boyfriend and I are dating since two months and a half, I know it's not a long time, but it has been a lot since I had a "serious" relarionship. I am not the kind of girl that wants her boyfriend to call her every time, or text her the "goodnight" message,... (231 words)

Why Did She Lose so Much Weight in Such a Short Time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

21 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Is this really something that can happen? My girlfriend has had the hardest week with a project that she was given by her company, i've never seen her that stressed before! But what was interesting is we live together and not once did I see her eat! No food was touched at a... (228 words)

How do I Pursue Her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4074 days ago

21 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - hi readers little background : I am international student ,22 , studying outside the UK. I like a girl X and took her number. I met her first time on 15th February and met her thrice in person. Did touch her a bit and made my little moves. the problem is she has a best ... (461 words)

Do I go out with my former FWB who no longer has a girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

21 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, last year I was seeing a guy who had a gf (please no judgement) for about 2 and a half months. It was strictly sexual, I told him I didn't want it to blossom into anything more than that. However, he finally told me that he would break up with his gf of 7 years if I was ... (161 words)

I want to call my ex but he says he needs time!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

21 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex boyfriend has recently split up from me and i am finding it very hard to forget him he is always in my mind, and all i want to do is call or text him. i feel it wasn't the right thing to do but he said it was and wants to remain friends. but needs abit of time first ... (65 words)

My girlfriend won't have sex because she is pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

21 February 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello every one. I've been dating this girl for 3 yrs now and things have been moving on well. just last year she got a new job and since them things has been going on funny. For the past 6months i've gone to bed with her just once and now she is pregnant. For the first 3months ... (136 words)

I loved her since 6th grade. Now is my shot, should I take it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

21 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so here is my story. Back in 7th grade (we are sophomores in college now) my best friend and I had huge crushes on one another. We talked 24/7 and couldn't get enough of each other. Out of me being a scared little kid, I missed my shot with her then. Since then, we have ... (308 words)

I'm supposed to be getting married in May. My fiance has been again been caught talking sexual on dating sites!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

21 February 2013 (M)

age - I am supposed to be getting married in June. The honeymoon is even booked. After the wedding she would have been moving into my house. We have been together for over 5 years. It has been an off and on relationship for the last 3 years. Mainly due to one thing only, and that bei... (344 words)

Should I get to know my so called 'mother in law'

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

21 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've posted here before but about my last relationship. I'm back this time however to ask something else. I'm in a new relationship now and my bfs mother is abit much. She seems to have a strong personality from what I hear (constantly arguing with other women and such).... (204 words)

I found out my boyfriend used to have sex with high end prostitutes. I'm not quite sure how I feel about this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

21 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi All, Last night my fiance of four years (he is 34) admitted to me before we start dating he used prostitutes from time to time. The first experience being when he was 20. We have an open and honest relationship, quite understanding to each other and I asked him a few ... (232 words)

Are you supposed to feel a spark when you kiss your boyfriend/girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

21 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - when i kiss my boyfriend, there is no spark and am really confused because i believe that spark is true but i dont feel anything for my boyfriend no fireworks or chemistry between us. My question is...is spark really true?... (40 words)

Can you redo projects when you are in university?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

21 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this a relationship website, but does anybody know if at university you can re-do your projects? I am on a course which doesn't do exams, so luckily enough I just do a lot of practical projects over the course of the year. The thing is, this year I have really fallen ... (257 words)

Friends are inviting both my and I to events. I don't want him to go if I'm going but he won't respond to my emails

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

21 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my ex thru a group of friends and when we broke up things ended quite badly because I confronted him of a big lie. The problem is that I have gotten so close with the rest of the group and he hasn't really but a couple of the group members still want to be friends with ... (226 words)

Online woman is pinning all her hopes on me but we are not exclusive. Is it ok if I meet someone else to date till we meet?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

21 February 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I been single over 12 months and joined a few dating sites. Have been chatting to a woman in the USA for about 2 weeks and we really get on. Because we get on she has now set her profile to 'private' so she can concentrate on me, and she has plans to come over to the UK to see ... (212 words)

Bad life at home and now I'm developing feelings for a kind teacher

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

21 February 2013 (?) age 26-29 - I've had hard experiences growing up and living with my parents as I am currently still doing. I unfortunately have no where to go and no money to leave. I am also finding out that some of my 'friends' were not the people I thought they were but have become closer to others. ... (904 words)

How do I get my daughter to open up and talk to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

21 February 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - How do you get your teen to open up and talk with you? My daughter is 15 and we have had on and off issues for few years so we are not as close as we used to be. Now I have suspicions she is sexually active but she is very shut down and seems annoyed when I want to talk about ... (84 words)

Six years since I saw her and now old crush is commenting on my face book?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

21 February 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Probably one of the stupidest and ridiculous things to be writing on here about, but I'm just not thinking straight right now. Female friend I crushed on in high school. Never took a chance, I went to a college far, far away, and contacted her via facebook 3 years later. Tal... (222 words)

My fiancee sometimes doesn't know his limits on drinking. Not sure when to interfere.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

21 February 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiancé and I have been together for 6 years. His drinking has been an issue in the past but not for the last year or so. He's not an alcoholic but when he does indulge he becomes irate very easily. He went out for drinks with his male coworkers today which made me nervous ... (318 words)

We moved in too soon. How can I appease his fears?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

21 February 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'd like some advice on how to go from here. I have been going out with my bf for 5 months. He is 31 and I am 30. I am his first girlfriend. Basically for the last 30 years, he has been living in a coocoon because of his shyness. A year before i met him, he made an extreme ... (140 words)

Is my boyfriend suggesting a threesome because I am cheap and easy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

21 February 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - We are together for more that 3yrs we fall in love with each other its just happen im not sexy not literally his type of girl we have great sex even sometimes rough and he wants 3some.he admit he never ask his past girlfriend about 3some.he never try to ask them.i wonder why ... (69 words)

Need some advice on first time sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

21 February 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so heres my situation... I'm almost 18 and I'm a virgin. This guy I've been talking to him for quite sometime, and he is absolutely amazing! I feel as if I am ready to take the relationship to the next level, its just that I'm afraid and I need some help. I don't know how ... (86 words)