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writes:Hello, I'm Miyumi ( new here ) and got a question.I've got a boyfriend for about 6 months now and he used to be quite depressed about 3 months ago. ( He wanted to commit suicide ). He said he was a failure in his parents eyes because he didn't try his hardest in class etc. therefor has to go to a lower education school. Also he told me he stole money from his mom and he felt bad about it ( due to a gaming addiction ).I told him to confess it to her and eventually he did ( he felt a lot better afterwards he said ).So now a few months later he suddenly started saying I deserve better, and that he is not special etc. He has been feeling down sometimes but not as bad as before.He has said it twice now, and I don't know what to think off it.I have to add that long before we got in a relationship he was a player, dated several girls at the same time. Though quit because he felt guilty and it wasn't the right thing to do. ( He has been "clean" from his player behaviour for about a year before we started dating ).Question is.. what should I do? and what does he in his case with : you deserve better etc.xx Miyumi
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reader, Miyumi +, writes (14 February 2013):
Miyumi is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hm.. okay then.Thanks a lot :)By the way, I asked him yesterday why he said it and he said he didn't know, and that is was a dumb thing to say.Maybe he was feeling down at that moment?Also I asked him what he meant with it, and he answered: "Exactly as I said it"xx Miyumi
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (13 February 2013):
 I think the key phrase in your submittal is this one: "...he suddenly started saying I deserve better,.."
He is correct.... so, don't contradict him. Leave him on his own and get on with your OWN life, without him....
Good luck....
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