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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I know there are plenty of fish in the sea, but I want this fish

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

29 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, Here goes. There is an attractive girl. We have really been talking recently and getting to know each other really well recently. I know she likes me. She thinks I'm nice, she even told me she thinks I'm cute. Today, we were talking and she told me that she has had two drea... (325 words)

I feel I have been pushed into child access arrangements

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my long tearm boyfriend split up this week. We have a 2 month old baby and we both agreed that, he would have are daughter for 3 day at his home and 1 night. This means that I would be takeing care of her for 4 days and 6 nights. Their is only one problem with thi... (256 words)

My boyfriend get mad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend started getting sexual but not have sex and I gave him a hand job but he asks me all the time to give him one and I just don't feel like it or want to and when I say no and why he gets kind of mad but it's not like he forces me he's great to me execpt for ... (73 words)

My ex just wont take a hint!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, i broke up with this guy because i didnt like him as much any more(actually he got boring lol) but he still thinks i like him and like stares, flirts, and talks about these weird subjects with me. its so annoying! at my school dance he came up behind me and tickled me and ... (117 words)

I've lost the urge, and want to get it back again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5199 days ago

29 January 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend of three months just started "doing things" like I gave him a hand job and he fingered me we did that alot and all of a sudden I lost all interest in doing that and I want to be in the mood again. Anybody have advice on why and how? Pleaseee help!... (56 words)

Sex is not as much fun for me as it is for him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so here it is I have been in the same relationship with the same guy for over a year now and i get super wet im talkin like really wet drippin wet were if i stand up its drippin down my leg and he thinks its all sexya nd stuff and well it really bothers me cause i think im ... (135 words)

How do I let him know I don`t want to accept his proposal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriends mates have let on to me that my boyfriend is going to propose to me on valentines day after weeks of planning. but i don't want to make the commitment. Not because i don't love him, but i just dont want to. How can i let him down after all his planning? or should ... (89 words)

How do I tell my boyfriend I love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well me and my bf had been dating for a week and i really love him and i don't know how to tell him right every time i do tell him he looks at me like what a child it hurts i just want to tell him.What do i do and say!!!!... (52 words)

How do I get this relationship going? We are both shy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Wonder if you can give me some advice. I really like a mate of mine and i think he likes me. So do some of our friends. However he is very very very shy when it comes to this stuff and everyones said i've got to do something because although he should with him being the guy ... (443 words)

Do I have the right to be hung up on being hurt by my girl before we started officially dating??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

29 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend met under unusual circumstances which ultimately led to me getting my heartbroken right before we started dating. At the time I met her I was currently dating someone else. I had already been planning on confessing to my girlfriend at the time that I had ... (921 words)

Am I being too fussy? People tell me at 27 I am leaving it too late to find someone and settle down

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a serious relationship that ended 4 years ago (we were together 4 years). I could have married him had we met when I was a bit older, I wasn't ready to settle down then. He was no doubt my first love but we have remained friends and both are happy with that. Since the... (272 words)

Am I a fool to believe his promises that he won't cheat again? I want this to work!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I know everyone is different but do you believe in those sayings 'a leopard never changes its spots' and 'once a cheat always a cheat'? Having read these sort of replies on here many times its now happened to me. My partner has cheated on me and I think I can find it in my he... (190 words)

How do you tell if a shy guy is interested?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you tell if a shy guy is interested?! About a week ago a couple of my friends showed me this guy on Facebook, we'll call him Jake, and said that they thought we'd be cute together. Last night, Jake and I ended up at a surprise party for our mutual friend Chris. We... (357 words)

If she tests me like this, is it a sign she's not the best match for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Before a relationship starts, sometimes a girl will test me by giving me a negative vibe, like she doesn't like me (even though she does). Is this a sign that she isn't the best match for me? I mean, if she were really into me, why would she risk doing this?... (51 words)

We were dating, he was a sweetheart, we slept together and he went cold!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was dating a guy for a little while, things were going great then all of a sudden he went really cold - the day after the first time we slept together. I questioned what was up and he said he didn't feel ready for a relationship...His ex of 9 months treated him very badly ... (256 words)

Why is it that when I start dating one guy, I start to like another?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Can someone please explain this to me: When I start dating a guy, it's great...except I start to like another guy. Every single relationship I've been in, it's good for awhile, but then I start to like someone else. What is wrong with me? Why do I do this?... (49 words)

He's gone really clingy all of a sudden and I feel hemmed in, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating someone for about 8 weeks, the first 4 weeks were brilliant, we get on really well, we talk alot, laugh and joke, enjoy alot of the same things...But then he started showing a really needy side, constantly asking me if we were ok, if I was still interested in ... (290 words)

I really need to spice things up in the bedroom! He refuses to give me oral sex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My hubby and I have a great relationship, but need some work in the bedroom department. Two of the things I want the most - to receive oral and to do it doggie style - are not happening at all. EVER. My husband tried oral on me once and did not like it. I've offered ... (211 words)

Is he interested? Is he acting aloof? How do I get him to ask me out?

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - theres this guy that ive been chatting to.. we flirt alot.. and get on really well.. we make each other laugh and we both find each other attractive.. sometimes i tend to fantasise about him alot.. and i really wannaa speak to him on the phone..but he called me someti... (202 words)

I lied to my teacher and now I feel really bad

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (?) age 26-29 - My classroom assistant told my geography teache I was up until half past midnight doing homework. I was up til 11.30 doing it but that's not the problem I lied to him saying I was finding geography ok when I'm not I'm finding parts of it hard and I lied about being up late ... (127 words)

She keeps flirting with other guys but says it's harmless, it bothers me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now. Recently she has started to flirt a lot with other guys, and I don't know what to do. She said they were just good friends of her, but don't all girls say that? She even went to the movies with another guy during our ... (78 words)

A gay man hit on my wife, is that ok?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

29 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, so my wife is a bartender and she has these two openly gay customers. These customers are always hit on by women, as I must admit they are very handsome, but never show any interest as they are 100% gay. With that being said, one of them while at the bar together a... (212 words)

I am worried about my wife going to a wild hen do with male strippers

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

29 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - One of my wife's best friends other girlfriend (not a friend of ours) got engaged then married this past summer. My wife's friend told her (and she then told me) that the bachelorette party was way out of this world. It was held at a private club with male strippers and ... (272 words)

He thinks I'm a bad girlfriend because my periods are longer than normal and limit sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Should I dump my idiot of a boyfriend? I'm sorry, but I'm just PISSED OFF with him, I could slap him across the face! See, I'm on my period. For some reason I've been bleeding for two weeks already. It's not a cause of concern, since I switched pills and my gyno said it was ... (437 words)

He treats his friends better than me, but am I being selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend for 10 months, the problem is that he takes care of his friends all the time he buys things for them to eat, if they have a football game he pays for them to play, if they are short on money he helps them out! but when it comes to me never does ... (148 words)

We had a casual fling, he wanted more, I didn't. Now I want more but he has someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a casual relationship with someone but he said he wanted a girlfriend which i wasnt ready for i hoped he would wait for me.He then started seeing other women and we argued.We havnt seen each other since, but i cant stop thinking about him,i want to see him,i feel like ... (117 words)

I haven't been interested in anyone in 6 years, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I haven't liked a guy in the past 6 years. Before I used to like guys all the time. A year wouldn't pass that there wasn't someone I was interested in or had feelings for. For the past 6 years I haven't had feelings for anyone. I don't think this is normal especially since ... (79 words)

I still love my ex even though he treated me like dirt and I have someone new

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 January 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Me and my ex have been together for a year on and off he treated me like crap and I still took him back everytime. He cheated and broke up with me millions of times and he even kissed my sister and I still love him. I can tell he doesn't want anything to so with me now and he ... (131 words)

We've started to get intimate and I have lost my sex drive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have just started getting intimate and all of a sudden I lost intrest and I have no sex drive at all. No matter how hard I try I just can't get in the mood. I need help soon and I need good advice. Have any?... (49 words)

Three is NOT company...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a horrendous situation and I need help. I'm living in the same apartment as three of my exes, two of which live on the same floor. I'm not on speaking terms with one of them and she's doing everything she can to drive me crazy because I dumped her, knocking on my door in ... (90 words)

I miss him loads all I want is to be his friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this guy had a casual relationship for about a month,but he asked me 4 a serious r.ship a number of times which i said no. We had a big arguement because there was another woman on the scene and i was jealous he wasnt just seeing me.I said nasty things that i didnt me... (129 words)

Long-distance, is it really worth the wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story short- we met a few months before college. Everything seemed perfect, until it was time to leave. We've been in a long distance relationship for almost two years now. Finding a good time to visit eachother is rare. Half of the time plans don't work out and I become ... (118 words)

I don't understand my own feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 10 years and me broke up in Dec, I had started feeling feelings for my boss, Ive been waiting for my boyfriend to do something for ever, he's struggled with a drug addiction, and things just never seem to go right when he does try, we agreed to work on things ... (375 words)

Every time I let him come back and get "sucked" back in because I care about him. Help..what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married to my husband for 4 years. This is both of our second marriage. He had 2 kids and I had 4 kids from our previous marriages. We now have a 2 yr. daughter together for a total of 7 kids. This man can be loving to me and the baby...not so much to the other kids ... (153 words)

It bothers me a lot that he finds nude girls on movies attractive..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 23 and have two boys 3 and 8 monts. I just got out of a very bad relationship of 3 years. and now im with a new guy. We ave been together for about 5 months. And he's great, i love him so much and i know he loves me to.But theirs a problem, at the begging of our ... (220 words)

Unhappy with my life...what direction should I go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 31 year old female. I feel as though my life is slipping away fast!! I feel that I am not at the stage of life I would like to be at. Part of me feels I made some poor choices and I also resent my boyfriend for leading me on.... I love my boyfriend dearly and have nev... (391 words)

I'm not sure whether he knows I fancy him or if he meant it as a joke.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my guy friend, who I fancy told me that he knew I liked him. I'm not sure whether he knows I fancy him or if he meant it as a joke. I'm kind of nervous now, I don't want him to know I like him as I'm not sure if he feels the same way. ... (56 words)

What would be your biggest fantasy that you would want to live out.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - If you had a guy/girl that would do anything in the bedroom that you wanted. What would be your biggest fantasy that you would want to live out.... (28 words)

My husband's friend keeps sending different information and pictures about my husband's first love.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband's friend ,who actually, my husband has no connection with ,at he last 20 years, keep sending different information and pictures about my husband's first love. He ,the friend is in contact with this woman,and seemingly the woman probably asking him to do that ,so it ... (139 words)

I am a 51 year old male who is having a problem maintaining an erection.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (M)

age - I am a 51 year old male who is having a problem maintaining an erection. I am able to get an erection during foreplay and by stroking myself, when it comes time to penetrate, my erection goes soft. My girl friend who I love dearly, is wonderful, she has been very patient, ... (96 words)

Does xXx on the end of a guys text mean anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Does xXx on the end of a guys text mean anything? Hes a mate of mine, we dont speak much, not sure why but when we do i start it. he doesnt normally put any kisses on the end of texts so im wondering if this one meant something? (btw he sent me this whilst i was at home, ... (83 words)

I love my husband but he acts like if I want to be with him I am taking up all his time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for two years now and this is my second marriage.. I am trying to learn from mistakes from the first one. For example. My first husband and I did nothing together even when we were at home alone we were in seperate rooms and did our own things barely ... (163 words)

I have just found out that he actually has a girlfriend of three years, who he lives with. I am at rock bottom

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like a right fool. Me and this guy at work have been flirting for about a year and have kissed a numerous occasions, he only shows an interest now and then which never makes me feel good because I know he is just using me for a quick thrill, I have gave him 2 hand ... (449 words)

I'm in love, he loves me.. But he lives with her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So I have known this guy Dave* for a little over a year. I don’t know when it happened but somewhere along the line we became attracted to one and other and began some sort of relationship. Slight problem? He lives with his girlfriend. There was a problem with this relationship ... (443 words)

Can you please tell whether or not I should go back to ex-boyfriend? or should I get married and be together with my new boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - what can i do to forget my ex-boyfriend? we had been together about 5 years,i still love him so much, i'm sure that he loves me too, but it's just that i can't live together with him becuase he is a hot-temper person to deal with sometime. i asked to break up with him last few ... (215 words)

He said he would do oral on a guy if I wanted him to. Does this make hm bi?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok need some advice on a few things. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year. He has always said that he loves having sex with me but wishes I would get more involved. I had major issues getting involved because of some issues in my past, however through ... (314 words)

Do I stay and work in UAE to support my children's basic needs and education, or do I go back to Philippines and work again as a teacher to guide my children?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello Aunts and Uncles, I am a 38 yr old mother, self-supporting my 3 children, ages 15, 9, and 5. My husband is not helping me out financially for the children reasons I left my work as a public teacher back in the Philippines and work abroad. My husband is really very... (276 words)

Please help me get my girlfriend/solemate back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 30 year old guy living in Manchester, UK who as recently split up with he’s 25 year old girlfriend (she left me on dec 18th 2009 and its now jan 29th 2010) after our lives were shattered by the lack of money due to our dependence on cannabis and my having to leave a job ... (1170 words)

Do you think he was just trying to hurt me because I hurt him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys.. I really need your help. Me and my ex recently started seeing each other again, his idea, and we met a couple of times and had a really nice time and we kissed and he told me he loved me etc. But over the past week, he hasn't really spoken to me and has been... (451 words)

My wife is being very secretive

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

29 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for 7 years and we have 3 children. My wife is on facebook and has a lot of guy friends on there and she will not except me as a friend I ask what are u hiding and she says nothing I talk to my girlfriends she has also reconnected with her ex ... (108 words)

It's as if she doesn't want to even see me anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically, my girlfriend keeps having mood swings at me and keeps telling me to **** off.....half the time she says she is joking. I have barely seen her outside of college for over a month and i used to see her often, but she says its because she lieks to see her friends ... (171 words)

After three years I am getting fed up with my boyfriends behaviour

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - iv been with my boyfriend for 3 years in July, but feel like im the only one whoputs any effort into the relationship, i always go to his house, he always expects me to get up realli early and go to his in the morning for sex, he hardly ever comes to my house. he never rings ... (167 words)

I'm walking on eggshells ................

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, me and my girlfriend are going through some problems. We've been together for just over 4 months now and in that time we have encountered a few turbulent periods in our relationship. One ongoing problem is sleeping at her flat. I find her bed really uncomfortable to sleep ... (647 words)

I have a boyfriend but like another who I texted, but I get no reply

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, i went to a club the other night for my friends birthday. my friend also invited some other friends of his who i didn't know. i started talking to one of them and he was so funny and sweet. he was good looking and had a really nice smile. i started dancing with him and it ... (218 words)

I don't feel like having sex with my boyfriend any more

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend had fantasy sex with his friend (girl) he knows. It looks like every time he is imaging to have sex, he will think about this girl. But he told me he will never have sex with this girl in real life. Is he lying to me? He loves me, and we have good sex, but why ... (118 words)

I don't know how to tell b/f of previous relationship problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship for 7 years. I was very young when we started dating, I ws 16. He ended up being very mentally abusive. Were no longer together, but due to him my self esteem has taken a huge hit, and I no longer feel pretty, and worth anything. How should I tell my new ... (69 words)

Was it reasonable to push her when she came at me with a hot iron?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been married 10 years. On Thursday evenings my wife drops off our 7-year old son at football training and I drive from work to collect him. A few times there has been a last minute change and my wife has texted me but I don't think I've ever got the text as early as... (855 words)

I felt left out of the dinner convo. Should I not see my guy friend tonight so he does not think he is getting off lightly.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I attended a friend's meal the other night. It was at my guy friend friend's house. I cooked dinner and it went well in general, until both of them chirped on about their faith and music interests. As the night progressed, I felt left out and occupied myself on the couch in ... (147 words)

Can a guy change their mind on a girl that quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I really dont understand. Before I went to Thailand I was seeing a guy that I really liked, and he even called me while I was away. I came back and saw him, and now havent heard from him in over a week - he didnt seem the same when he saw me, but sounded excited when I c... (93 words)

I accept his views but don't like him pushing his religion on me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently dating a guy who I have gotten to know through work. At first glance, he seemed shy (or antisocial). I don't work with him often but when I did I realised he was a friendly person, and after a few weeks, we started hanging out. We get along well, and as time ... (171 words)

Why do you think he kept staring at me?...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i was walking home from school and there was this guy walking infront of me.everytime a car would go up the street he would turn around and look at the car i thought he might be getting picked up by someone but he just carried on but everytime he would look at the car ... (98 words)

My wife is very childish when I scold her.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

29 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife is 27 years old and I am 29.She's my sweetie and I do really care for her.But regarding few things i have some concern.I donno how can I help her to improve on those certain issues.I convince her.But nothing has worked yet. 1.She can't manage all house-works it's... (923 words)

I think my boyfriend is selfish.... or am I selfish by thinking this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am really confused. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and he seems so selfish. Don't get me wrong, there are many good things about him which make it hard to decide whether I should end the relationship. He works hard, he helps around the house, h... (336 words)

I am thinking of coming fwd now the guy who molested me has been convicted of doing it to another.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Anyone with legal knowledge. Advice would help. Here's my situation: This is difficult to share. I am currently 23 years old. I live in Texas. When I was in my early teens, 14 actually, I was participating in a summer track league. We would compete in the AAU Junior... (426 words)

What could help with all day morning sickness?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im pregnant and i cant get any sleep. Im only about 2 months and im feeling so nauseous 24/7. Ive been pregnant before n it was never this bad to where i am crying hysterically about it. Its to the point where i cant even move my body or else im going to throw up. Can someone ... (75 words)

Preganant and single. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im about 2 months pregnant. My boyfriend n i were going through some hard times. He would disappear at random hours of the day, he didnt wanna hold my hand when we were out n public, So i started getting a lil suspicious. I questioned him to see where his heart really is but h... (130 words)

Why is he saying these things when we split up 2 months ago?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex woke me up with an early morning text, and i was totally taken back since i thought he decided to disappear and forget me. his message was asking me whats this all about? the silence . i replied back that i was confused, one minute we talk the next i dont ever hear fro... (140 words)

Is my music teacher flirting with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been thinking about this for quite some time now, and would really like to get someone else's opinion on the matter: I've developed a sort of friendship with my music teacher over the years. It felt like we were on the same page about many subjects and we even vented t... (263 words)

How can I not ruin relationships by being too protective?

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29 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm an overprotective guy unfortunately this has led to many break ups over the years. What I am wonding is how do I control these feelings so that this relationship don't end up like the rest. Any advice is welcome.... (41 words)

Stress is affecting our relationship!

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Stress eats up our relationship, communication, sex and everything. How can I improve it?.... My husband had not been lucky about his career for the past few years. He tried to be his own boss by doing real estate. He just quitted his job when we first met. I had no problem ... (349 words)

She knows how I feel but keeps talking about sex with other people.

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29 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a friend who I have strong feelings for. I told her how I felt and she said she felt the same way but that we both weren't ready. I said I needed some time away from her. A month later she contacted me and started talking about things like normal and talking about all ... (83 words)

What do men do to show commitment?

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29 January 2010 (?) age 51-59 - Hello Men, I am here working through my own challenges with a man. I question his love for me. I want to be informed before I proceed or reject the man I'm with. For those of you whom have fully loved a woman, or do now, please enter your bullet points of what men do to s... (70 words)

Has he lost interest in me?

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Guys, please help me out with this. Ladies, I know you'll have great pearls of wisdom too! My partner and I have been in a relationship for 18 months now, and I feel that he may have lost a bit of his interest in me. He said that he is not an overly expressive or em... (500 words)

How can I ask her out without it seeming like a date?

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29 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey to who ever is reading this, lol, but i was hoping to get some advice on how to ask this girl i've had a crush on for awhile out. We really haven't talked, which makes me think it's a bad idea, but i'm not all into the dating scene LOL. But anyways, i'm taking a music c... (130 words)

How do I tell my mum and boyfriend that I am pregnant?

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18 and im pregnant. i have no idea how to tell my mom or boyfriend. He doesnt want a baby because of his baseball but i pretty much have my life set. i have a good flexible job i went to collage for and am currently doing it (Dog grooming). I dont know how to tell my mom, ... (83 words)

How do I find the courage to dump someone I love

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29 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - How do I find the courage to dump someone I love. I am weak, I cannot find the words nor the ability to end it. My girlfriend is emotionally abusive, and I was raised by a father who was too. I am stuck, caring about her, I have tried to break up but it got turned around on ... (118 words)

What do you think, is he serious or is he just playing around?

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question about my guy friend telling me that he loves me. He told me that he loves me and could sooooo see himself being with me, but he really isn't showing me that he loves me, he's just saying it. I'm wondering is it because he's been hurt by his ex-girlfriend or ... (115 words)

Another when did I get pregnant question.

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i just had a set of identical twins on jan 3rd,they were due on jan 23rd. i had sex with 3 people but only unprotected with 1.i started my period around the 18th of april, i had protected sex on aril 24th i had been on my last day of my menstral cycle(just spotting) then i ... (120 words)

Why do men enjoy telling their women about their conquests?

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Why do men enjoy telling their women about their "conquest" and flirting episodes with other women, mainly younger, and sexier than us?... (22 words)

We like each other but how can I know he is not only looking for sex?

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i know this guy likes me and i like him too. i know he likes me cause he told me he and hes always staring at me he teases me. but i wanna know how can i kno hes not just looking for sex from me. like what signs are there to tell me hes only after sex?... (58 words)

Smelly vagina. How can I keep this smell away?

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why does my Flower smell badly sometimes like something is rotten inside. Im 25 Years old. But then other days it doesnt have a smell at all? Could it be if i use tampons that is making the smell? Because 2weeks ago when my period started the first day i used a tampon the other ... (113 words)

Our friends don't have much time to socialise recently, what do you think?

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29 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been friends with this other couple for maybe 5 years. In the last year we have had them over for dinner/parties maybe 4 times; they have had us over zero times but did invite us to go out to dinner with them once. My wife says they are just very busy, ... (130 words)

My husband doesn't mind me flirting with other men, has he fallen out of love with me?

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband doesn't mind me flirting with other men, has he fallen out of love with me? I feel as though he is pushing me away. When I mention so and so, he jokes around and says "are you flirting with him again" laughingly as if he were my friend and not my husband. I l... (81 words)

I thought I wouldn't hear from him once he moved back home on the other side of the country, but he keeps in touch and I'm starting to like him, any suggestions?

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy that was here for a training class. He was here for 3 weeks and the last week and a half we slept together every night. He would kiss me on the forehead goodnight and then kiss me goodbye in the morning. I thought it was kind of wierd cause I had the understanding ... (203 words)

I feel like he'll never be ready to make a serious commitment to me. Please advise.

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently moved out of my boyfriends house (we lived toget about 5 months) and decided to stay together after a week's break. Before we used to talk about a future together and that doesn't seem to be happening anymore. Since I moved out, it's like he's reverted back into ... (134 words)

How do I cope with my husband leaving me?

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband and me where in phase of separation to live with my inlaws as i never wanted to live but we were living ith them since 6 months, so no tuning with them and so even me and my husband's life also started getting miserable. initially he started giving all comforts... (288 words)

How do you feel about larger inner lips?

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Male and female opinions wanted - please be truthful! How do you feel about the inner lips being outside the outer by quite a fair bit? Please be honest !... (38 words)

My boyfriend always thinks I'm talking to other guys and thinks I'm tired of him and its p***ing me off so what should I do?

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is the best. He does everything he absolutely can for me. He tells me he loves me everyday. So here's the problem...in his past relationships hes been lied to and cheated on with two of the girls he went out with and they both broke up with him. Now hes paranoid ... (155 words)

I was on the phone with her a few hours ago and she said hold on one second and I said ok, I was on hold for 30 minutes before I hung up.

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29 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - i am 14 and my girlfriend of 7 months in 16 our relationship is really good we go a lot of places and she is always laughing at my jokes and i laugh at most of hers but lately my girlfriend just disapears from time to time, i'll be texting her and she will stop replying or i'll ... (231 words)

In the beginning we talked alot and he told me how much he missed me and now when I IM him he doesn't reply.

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - This summer I went to Dominican republic and fell in love with a guy who works at my grandparents. We kissed, snuck out to the beach, it was amazing. ( I'm 13, we didn't have sex) I go there every summer so we said our goodbyes and see ya next summer. We both agreed to have ... (154 words)

What is the best way to revenge on an ex that has treated you so badly?

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What is the best revenge I could give my ex. For 3 years, he has treated me badly, dumped me, cheated and come back, I forgive him, still treat him so nice and he turns around, humilate me and treat me bad. What could be the best revenge I could do to him?... (53 words)

I have had an accident long ago that has scarred my face and can now not get guys

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a very sensitive issue for me to discuss with you. I have had an accident long ago that has scarred my face, I still have good features, but it's not the same. Because of this, I cannot get the guys I want and deserve. And to be honest, I don't know if this is ... (332 words)

Does he still have feelings for me after all of this?

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known my x boyfriend since we were in the 1st grade and from church but up until april of last year did i find out that he had feelings for me that he claims he's had since we were younger. I didn't take it into consideration, but he was attractive and i really wanted my ... (379 words)

I am afraid to tell him I want to spend as much time with him as possible incase I scare him away

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29 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So I had been talking to this guy through email over a period of three months, he would tell me about his journeys overseas and about himself and vice versa and we really connected and we even spoke on msn on christmas day. Each day I would wake up and he had replied to my ... (232 words)

I'm considering losing my virginity to a one night stand.

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im going to Ibiza with some friends for 2 wks this summer. Im 21, single and still a virgin and was thinking of having a (protected)'one night stand' while i am over there. Ive never tried anything like this before! Has anyone else ever lost there virginity while away lik... (56 words)

His best friend is a woman and we are jealous of each other.

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend has a BFF that he had as a child. When his wife was killed a few years ago, she reappeared. She had been a daily/hourly part of his life since the death. He and I started seeing each other last spring and she judged me from day one. I wanted to meet her, she wanted ... (671 words)

I'm losing all my friends but don't think I have changed much.

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am going through a phase where I have absolutely nothing to say to old friends of the past. I relocated to another town almost a year and a half ago now, and slowly, especially over the last few months, have felt more disconnected from my old friends. When I moved, w... (185 words)

Should guys shave their penis?

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29 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Should guys shave their penis... (5 words)

Is it a bad thing that I want something to go wrong between them

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this one guy ... A LOT , he's everything ive ever wanted , ... but hes dating someone else , QUESTION; is it a bad thing that i want something to go wrong between them , and i want them to break up ? ... beacuase i feel like a bad person , because i want the best ... (88 words)

His words say he loves me, his actions say otherwise. Which is it?

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok to really sum up a 3 year relationship is hard but i will try to provide as much information as possible into a little paragraph. Basically he tells me he loves me all the time with no problem. He looks me in the eyes tells me im his dream girl, his everything. He and I have ... (558 words)

Seeing him so content with his wife and kids hurts.

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know what to do and really need advice.. my life is a mess. I have grown up as an only child and never had a perfect relationship with my parents. When i was 16 i coincidently began speaking to someone id seen around my area, because he used to look at me in a strange ... (678 words)

How can I increase my chances of falling pregnant?

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 18 years old and have been with my boyfriend scince i was 14 we aree really happy together :) and settled down, and we are financially table aswell. we really want a baby and get dissapointed every month when i actually do have a period. is there anything someone can ... (63 words)

It hurts to hear about her ex all the time

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29 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, you can call me boi, im 24 this year. my problem is... i met this girl on facebook around august last year, and we connected immediately. We started chatting and sending each other messages.. seemed like she had a problem with her marriage. she's 30. over time, i ... (239 words)

Is it possible I went too far and need to leave him be?

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated a guy for two years. I thought we were really close, and someday (in my eyes) i thought we would marry. I'm not sure what his thoughts were but i know for sure he is a commitment-phobe, but not once in the two years did i bring up marriage. Well, over the two years we... (523 words)

I have problems keeping eye contact, or even talking to her for that matter

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14,female,and bi. Recently a girl who I've had a crush on for several months asked me out. So, we are going out now, but whenever I'm around her or talk to her I blush. It's soo noticable because my face gets very red. I have problems keeping eye contact, or even talking ... (77 words)

My wife doesn't want to climax at all.

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29 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - (Mod Note - OP's own title) from some reason, my wife doesn't fell the reason to climax. it has been over 2 months now. when we make love, is about me getting off, and she need nothing to do of the deal. and lately it hasn't been making love, just quickies. is that normal... (111 words)

Is it pointless to confess your love to someone who doesn't go to the same school?

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like my friend, but he doesn't go to the same school as me anymore. I'm afraid to tell him that I like him because I don't think he will like that idea since we don't see each other anymore. Regardless, I couldn't help having feelings towards him, but should I tell ... (67 words)

I just have this bad gut feeling that the bar maid is texting my bf.

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Saturday night I was out with this guy I have been seeing for about 3 months. We went to one of the Bars he is familiar with to see a band. I knew no one. Every time he spoke to someone (including a few women) he knew he would turn his back to me and have the conversation. So, ... (346 words)

I still have feelings for a guy from 25 years ago. Are we star crossed lovers?

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29 January 2010 (F)

age - What is wrong with me. I was crazy about this guy 3 years my senior before I was 15. Several times we tried to get together...and it never happened. He married my best friend and I got married about 1 week apart. 25 years went by. Both of us are divorced. He had a child by a ... (91 words)

He slept with his ex. Should I dump him?

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My new boyfriend told me that he has slept with his ex girlfriend..should i countinue the relationship? i dont really know him well enough, but i like him..... (28 words)

Stuck with Stupid!

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29 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - (Mod Note - OP's own title) I'm living with this girl. I say girl because she's young. Almost six years younger than me. She's a dunce. A rock. A meatheaded idiot. I've been with her for a couple years, forgiving her idiocy because she was sheltered growing up and because s... (178 words)

Should I contact her and tell her the truth or should I let sleeping dogs lie?

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29 January 2010 (?) age 51-59 - I just recently contacted on old friend that I found on facebook. One of his facebook friends is the woman who I lost my virginity to. I was 19 and she was in her 20s. When we were together I lied to her and told her I wasn't a virgin. I was embarrassed. We only did it ... (348 words)

He is much more experienced than I am, and I want to impress him.

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a virgin, but my boyfriend is not. He is 2 years older than me and has been in multiple sexual relationships. We've been dating for 4 months and have finally decided to have sex on Saturday night. The thing is, he doesn't really get hard that often. I have purchase... (113 words)

I'm gay and have fallen for a straight guy.

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29 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, my name is Julian I'm gay, here's my story... There's this guy I like a lot, he's my coworker, a very sweet guy very down to earth and sweet, he's always in my area and goes straight to my office to talk to me, he knows i'm gay not because ive told him, but i guess... (263 words)

My parents found out I am having sex and want me to get married!

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29 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid.. im 19 years old.. just a week berfor my 19th birthday my parents confrented me about them finding out that i was having sex with my Boyfriend. so she wanted me to get married like that same weekend. me and my boyfriend dont want to. we both dicided to ... (267 words)