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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What happened and why did he bleed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm very worried that i hurt my boyfriend bad. A couple of days ago we had sex, and he started to bleed. I mean, he said it was a little cut though but it was a lot of blood. I really don't know what caused it though. /: He says that it stings at times when he uses the ... (64 words)

Mixed Signals? Blowing hot and cold? What is this guy doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'll try to keep the story as brief as possible. I am an 18 year old girl and I work at a pharmacy and when I take my lunch/dinner breaks I go next door to a bistro. The guys there are all very nice, and the owner frequently visits us and we visit him. There's a youn... (650 words)

I love my girlfriend and feel like I have a boring personality and she doesn't want to talk to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. I have this big problem where my girlfriend thinks that i'm completely different from her and is better for us to be apart(which i don't agree at all). She really loves me and I do too and it will devastate her if we were to be apart and she thinks it's the best way. ... (253 words)

I'm married and in love wth someone else, how can I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Iam married and have fallen in love with another guy, this relationship has been going on for 11 months, problem is I told my boyfriend I was seperated, how can I now tell him the truth, without losng him.... (39 words)

I really love my best guy friend, now he's engaged and I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm afraid of losing my best guy friend. I've loved him forever and been afraid to tell him for fear of losing him, maybe just fear it wont be recepricated. We spend a lot of time together always have, I tell him almost everything, not this. He's had a gf, now engaged and I ... (105 words)

How do I get girls to like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hellppp ... How do i get girlz to lyk me ... i dont tink im ugly , but girls just dont seem to lyk me ... help ??... (28 words)

GF cheated on me, should I forgive or let her go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

9 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Been dating a great woman for almost 10 years, and have trusted with 100% for the entire time, but she cheated recently. What do i do? She started to have drunken sex with a friend but stopped within seconds. She is completely devastated that she did this to me and is ... (199 words)

My girlfriend won't have sex with me and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4247 days ago

9 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. im 18 my girlfreinds 19, both virgins. ive known her for 4 years. weve been in a relationship for 1year. and i love her to bits, but still she refuses to have sex, whats worse she says she feels like letting me have sex with her at times, but she still wont let me have s... (89 words)

STD, foreplay questions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I might sound dumb but I'm curious and I'll never know if I don't ask. So.. What's the difference between stds and stis? I know what they are but is there a difference? Also can they be passed on by oral sex? Is a condom a good way for me to protect myself at my age? And if it ... (91 words)

We have a baby together and he's confessed he lied about his age! How am I supposed to trust him again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relatioship with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. I fell madly in love with him we have a 5 month old baby together now. He recently confessed that he is actually 12 years older than me. (I am 26) When we first met he told me he was 30. I feel worried ... (253 words)

She broke up with her b/f and I've been waiting for this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

9 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my friend had just been dumped by her boyfriend, and i have liked her for a long time now, however i want to know how she feels about me before asking her out, and if i do ask her out, how should ido it? i dont want to look a fool and then she laughs at me but i dont want to ... (92 words)

Are they mind games or is he scared of his feelings?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age - Recently the man I was seeing decided that he was confused about his feelings and wanted no contact for an indeterminate period of time. I have totally respected that request, despite feeling pretty bad myself - I have not phoned, texted, emailed or tried to run into him ... (275 words)

He's become unresponsive, should I confront him about his behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy have been aggresively going after me but i rejected him. But after awhile I started to develop feelings for him. But he wasn't as responsive as before. He doesn't call me as much or asked me to hang out. So, I decided to be bold and tell him that I wanted to be his gf ... (160 words)

Where to go to eat on Valentine's Day

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Could anyone give me any good ideas on where to go out to eat on Valentines Day? I know it's a little early but, I'd rather plan things out than wait til the last minute to come up with something. I've been with my boyfriend since October of 2008 and him and I both know we're ... (113 words)

How do I forget my married lover?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok its me Lioness again, i read all the replies and i am going to move on and leave the married man alone. i just need help getting him out of my head what should i do?... (37 words)

He's probably just using me on the weekends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi.. I really like a guy I work with.We get on great and always have a laugh together when we go out in town.Were always textin and I've really fallen for him in the last couple of weeks.Hes in college an I'm still in secondary school,but hes kind of with someone and when hes... (116 words)

Is it wrong that I am tired of being friends with my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong that I am tired of being friends with my best friend? I have been friends with my best friend since we were young almost 20 years now! She has been with the same man for 8 years and they are getting married. I am now dating a man, who I am completely in lo... (309 words)

Cheating boyfriend slept with an old flame!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) age 30-35 - HELP my boyfriend cheated on me!! My boyfriend and I have only been dating for a few months. He was my best friend for almost a year, and it took us a long time to start dating. It immediately got incredibly serious, and we fell in love. I was in a sexually abusive relation... (169 words)

We broke up bust still love each other like crazy! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a 10 month relationship, a lot of arguing but still a good one in my opinion. He said he wanted to take a break, just a few weeks to see if we still wanted to be together or if we could find someone else we wanted to be with. 2 weeks after we broke up, I went to the ... (273 words)

Husband wants to meet and talk before signing divorce papers. Should I do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

- After being separated from my husband for nearly 5 years, I filled out divorce papers and gave them to him. He was a mess and refused to sign the papers. Now he says he wants to meet somewhere and "talk" and says I "owe it to him" to talk about this thing before I do it. ... (253 words)

My ex has totally frozen me out of his life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - When my ex and I broke up last month after 2 years together I messaged him to ask him if there was someone else. It didn't really bother me by then if he was or wasn't because he had been acting so distant toward that I felt by the end we had drifted apart. (My gut instinct ... (249 words)

How I Can Get Over A Guy VERY SOON?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - The only reason why I have problems getting over guys is because I get used to their company. Its always a gap in between dating. I just stopped dating a guy who actually took me OUT and PAID for our dinner, stuff like that was real polite. Every guy before him didnt even d... (181 words)

My ex with another man is destroying me. Please help!! Please.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

9 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in a very low bad place at the moment. I have just found out that my ex girlfriend who split up with me 2 months ago has a new man. It shook my world when she split up with me but whilst she wasn't with anyone else, I was coping ok. This latest news has destroyed... (450 words)

Girl wants to have unprotected sex with me and I'm only 14!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

9 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 14 and a girl i kno wants me to hav sex with her i am about 5 inches when erect and uncircumsised i am a virgin and she is not ... she wants to do it unprotected and hav a kid ... confused :S help pls... (48 words)

I'm afraid he'll say no if I ask him out and ruin our friendship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I Like this guy we all call him Danny. Me and Danny have been best friends for like 5 1/2 months now. I have very stonge feelings torwads him and I want to be more then friends. The problem is we sit next to each other in alot of are classes and we have lots of inside jokes. So ... (126 words)

I'm thinking of calling off the wedding! I'm tired of his moods!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello We are getting married this July and been together 15mths. We have a house together. Things have always been turbulent in our relationship. When we met he got made redundant and had to get a job on less money miles away so he has to get up very early for work making ... (328 words)

Using my name alot in texts since starting our break, does this mean anything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, My GF and i started a break since christmas week cos of problems we have had and using the time to sort ourselves with our counsellors seperately. I've tried to give her space and have only texted her once or twice to tell her i was thinking of her, etc.. One thing... (153 words)

Why do I do things with him and then feel weird afterwards?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - When we hang out and mess around why do i feel wierd after and wish i had not done some of the things but when im in the moment i don't care at all...sometimes i wish we never even kissed..but we do so much more and its bothering me more and more lately...i love him..or atleast ... (73 words)

My High School Sweetheart Cheated on Me, Should I Take Him Back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I've been pretty confused lately about my situation at hand and I am in desperate need of advice. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years(since the 8th grade!) and we are both freshman at college and even though we don't go to the same school, we are able... (481 words)

This girl likes me and I like her but she isn't looking for a relationship. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and there is this girl i really like and i know she likes me. She would always be happy to see me, her friends would tell her to wave at me when she didn't see me, and she waved at me from across a crowded room. Anyway i asked her out because i liked her. She told me she ... (98 words)

How do ever find love again after your first love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

9 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, i was wondering do you ever find love after your first one? i havnt really stopped thinking about her over the last year, and i feel stuck and frustrated because i dont want to go against my feelings for her and meet someone new, but i know i have to move on! any advice?... (56 words)

Religion: How would I chose between the man I love and my family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now, i turned 18 a couple of weeks ago, i know i love him and that he is the only person i would ever want to be with, i know im young and do understand that the committment is huge but you cant help how you feel, we are both from ... (128 words)

We said we'd wait a couple of years to have sex but he's talking about having it now after a couple of months.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - when my and my boyfriend hooked up we decided that we were going to date for a couple of years before we thought about doing anything sexual...its been two months and we have done everything but have sex and he said he wants to if i want to but he will never force me into doing ... (76 words)

Ladies, here's something for you. I want your opinions on this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

9 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it true that you girls will never forget or always feel something for the guy that you "never got"? The one that you knew you loved but he never asked you to be in a relationship. Do you still think about him even after you're in a new relationship?... (50 words)

Is giving her a full kiss on the mouth cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my partner danced with another girl at a family wedding, whilst i was pregnant and he didnt really acknowlege that i was there as he was so drunk, (he did ask me to attend and everything was ok until he got drunk) then he kissed this girl i dont mean a peck on the cheek it was ... (70 words)

Handjobs and blowjobs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I'm almost 17 and i've never given a handjob or blowjob! Although my boyfriend has now suggested it, we've been going out for months now and I'm happy to do it. But I don't know where to start! I don't know what to do, I'm not thock lol, I just missed my sex education ... (191 words)

Protection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf are going to have sex for the first time. I'm wondering if being on the pill and useing a condom is pretty safe? Because I'm only 17 I don't want to have to use any other protection but I don't want to get pregnant. But is the pill and condom pretty safe, I know ... (73 words)

Am I being unfair for wanting my boyfriend to value me as much as he does his mother and sisters?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am having some real problems and I came here to get some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months-we were good together for the better part of the time together.He's 39,lives with his parents (Grrrrrrr),and doesn't seem to be moving out anytime ... (222 words)

Does he genuinely like me or is it just like she says, because of my boobs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I started hanging out with this guy not too long ago, I really like him. He just broke up with his ex, and she still tries to talk to him. She told one of my friends he only likes me because of my boobs, Could it be true or is she jealous? We asked him and he said "No. She's ... (151 words)

Should I say yes and go out with him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

9 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi im a 16 year old boy from england and i recently gor asked out by another boy. He is gay, i am not. It started with a talk on MSN and he asked me if i would go out with him i said no, but then i kept on thinking that gay sex might be ok and i should try it. My friend r... (100 words)

Smoking verses drinking

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm not sure if im being reasonable or selfish Here my husband is an alcoholic and our marriage is on the rocks, He has managed to drink less than before but alcohol is still an issue that will tear us apart. Every time he has one drink its followed by more that week. V... (132 words)

I'm in the friendzone...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I find myself in the friendzone with a chick that i've fallen 4.i've known her 4 eight years and have told her that i would want 2 be more then just a friend 2 her.but my advances have been met with confrontation and tears.according 2 her she is not attracted 2 to me yet ... (213 words)

I'm in a muddle with boys! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I guess i should start from the beginning, i like this boy, but he knows i used to like his rother, maybe this is why he can't be serious when i have asked him out before. but i just can't stop thinking about him, maybe he thinks i'm going to use him to get to his brother ... (153 words)

How to win back someone who still has feelings for you but doesn't want to pursue it....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, after 6 months of no contact, my ex-bf and I are spending time together again. Just as friends. It's obvious he has feelings for me. I'm still very much in love with him. He still remains set that we shouldn't be together all though it's as clear as day he still has ... (214 words)

Bf and I are fighting constantly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf always fight that's all we do, we fight a lot about us bcuz he supposidly doesn't know how he treats me and how he hurts my feelings and it just seems like he doesn't care about me anymore but I do care. I need help I'm so confused with him... (54 words)

Does this relationship have a future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5216 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, i have been with my boyfriend for nearly eight months now and he is such a sweet guy and easy enough to get along with but lately i have been feeling wierd about the relationship. We only usually get to see each other twice a week sometimes because he is ... (202 words)

Am I wrong to be angry or am I just being selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Its not relationship but i need help. 3 years ago my brother killed somebody and is in prison. He had 2 children. his former girlfriend went on to have another child. so in may 2007 she killed somebody too (he was trying to break into the house and she hit him over the hea... (390 words)

Trust issues.... Really just need some good advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Iv been with my partner for 4 months we have had some issues but got over them, recently i accused himm of cheating as he didnt seem to be intrested in me no more, he said he wouldnt do that to me he also cryed i do trust him 100% and all his mates and family have said hes not ... (227 words)

Still in love with my ex husband after 3 years (kind of) apart

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

9 January 2010 (?) age 51-59 - Hi everyone,I have been having relationship problems for just over 3 years now and have come to the conclusion that I could do with outsiders views and suggestions. OK here goes...My Husband(who i"d been with for 11 years) and I moved into our dream home and then a few months l... (404 words)

Is the weather to blame for my low sex drive, or the fact I never get a night to myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

9 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - The weather has certainly gotten a lot colder in recent weeks. As a student, I try and save money by leaving the heating off in my house. My girlfriend is the same. The past couple of times we've had sex I have not had an orgasm, which is pretty rare. Just recently my sex drive ... (172 words)

I don't want to be a slut but like our dirty conversations... Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im in a bit of a sticky situation here and I need as much help as I can. There is this boy.. and he joined my school about 1-2 months ago... me and my friend became really close to him as he made us laugh so much. We found out he smoked weed and had had sex but it didnt re... (272 words)

He says he wants to be with me in 6 months... does this mean he wants to be with me long term?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Im 41 and my boyfriend is 39...we have been seeing each other for nearly 6 months now and we have fallen in love. My boyfriend is really good to me and very caring and i would hate it if we ever split up. The other night he was planning on what we are going to do in the summ... (113 words)

Her flirting with another man has got me REALLY angry. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

9 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girl have been dating for year and a half now, and she recently started a new job 3 months ago. But the past week shes been acting a little strange. Few days ago she had a problem with her phone,so i said let me try fix it,she said no its fine,dont worry about, ... (237 words)

Best way to dump a sensitive long distance boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Recently I figured I really need to break up with my boyfriend. We've been in a long distance relationship from the start, and although I've been able to handle it quite well so far, lately it's really been getting into me. We have been together for over 4 months, and I'... (326 words)

Am I being a selfish teenager, or is it my sick mother who needs to change?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm looking for some objective advice. I am in my third year at university and I was living at home with my mum and sister. I had a boyfriend who used to stay over a lot but my mum didn't really like it, partly because he was unemployed. I now have another boyfriend ... (686 words)

My ex is lonely and wants warmth in his bed. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I hung out for 4 hrs tonight (hadnt seen each other for 4 mo).We talked alot/caught up - good times. Last chick he dated left him confused/kinda sad - he left me the same way after we broke up.It was random and it hurt.(I think we broke up cos it got too ... (274 words)

How can I get over a teacher crush I'll never forget?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I once had a crush. It felt stronger than a crush - it felt more like I was in love. At the time it was wonderful and when I saw him my heart made a jump out of my chest, or when I talked to him he would always be kind and had a wonderfully charming smile which would make me ... (331 words)

My boyfriend is not ready to have sex. I feel so rejected!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf of two and a half years will not have sex with me. I have never had sex before and REALLY want to with him but everytime I try to initiate it, he turns me down. I have spoken to him about this three time over the past year but he has come up with the following reason... (174 words)

Why won't he meet up with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5212 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all! i am kinda confused about my best buddy..he has a steady gal since past 5-6yrs..for whom he still buys gifts and takes her out and stuff..but does not talk to her as much as me..he even confessed this to me..he confides in me all that he does not even tell his childho... (224 words)

Should I choose my boyfriend or his best friend?

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9 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - about a year ago i started dating my boyfriend and i loved it so much when we were together but then after about six months i just felt like i'd gone off him i still loved him but more like a brother then it was one of his best mates birthdays and his mate had a party at his ... (185 words)

Ignoring affairs...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married and I have to say quite happly, my life is wonderful apart from the fact my husband constantly cheats in me.. Sometimes the affairs last weeks some months but never years, he never stays away from home and I know that 80% of his affairs are emotional... I feel ... (255 words)

How do I improve my relationship with my sister after her car wreck?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

9 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am from india and live abroad with my sister. She is 25 and i study in medical college. I am 20. She is not my real sister but is adopted. She loves me a lot, and so do i. Recently she was involved in a fatal car accident. She was in hospital for a long time (more than 2 ... (114 words)

How do you get someone out of your head?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you get someone out of your head? I should not be thinking about a married man the way I do. It's a guy I have been friends with for about 10 years - from our early teen years. He's recently married and has a baby on the way. I always kind of had a crush on him - but ... (178 words)

He knows about the fling and is very distant to me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have posted some very similar questions on here already but I am still trying to win my husband's love and trust back. He left me and while separated I had a fling and I really regret it. He knows about it and I am living with him again, but he is extremely distant. I have ... (126 words)

Wait...my boyfriend hit his ex????

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don’t know what to do with my boyfriend! He has everything I could ever want in a guy- nice, very much like me, adorable, caring, loving, funny, hot, fun, and I feel like he is practically my best friend. I can share anything with him and we can be ourselves around each ... (385 words)

Why does it hurt to know he's not a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Why does it hurt to know he is not a virgin while i still am?... (15 words)

I want to make her my family, how do I gain her trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey how are you doing.. Ok I have this question... how do I get this female that I've been talking to actually give me a shot.. I mean she's been hurt in the past and she always tells me that she just needs time to find herself... but then sometimes she says that she wants to ... (250 words)

I know all he wants is sex and I don't want to be thought of in that way!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Seriously, I am not the type of person who comes off as being rude. I need to tell a married man whom I have been friends with for a year to stop calling me. I have ignored him but he just won't catch on. I've told him that the situation we are in is not good. I am not ... (217 words)

I'm not sure that he will ever grow up to be the man that I need

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. From 3 weeks into dating, he told me that he loved me and wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. I love him with everything that I am, but am not sure he will ever grow up enough to be the man that I want and need. ... (325 words)

I had an affair 6 months ago but the feelings are still there!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

9 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a girl back in h.s and she turned me down, ran into her a year ago and she turned out to be married. The connection i felt with her was intense. We ended up talking on the phone, which tured into a affair. She has 2 kids and is very unhappy in her marriage. We had a ... (281 words)

Why does husband need to masturbate when I'm home?

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9 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have caught my husband masterbating and i'm wondering if there is something wrong with our sex life why do he feel he needs to do that when i'm in the house? I can see us doing it together or me watching but, he is doing it without me when i'm in another room. is this normal ... (61 words)

17 year old virgin with no boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it bad to be a 17 year old virgin whose never had a boyfriend?... (15 words)

I'm pregnant and my fiancee broke up with me. do I wait for him to come back?

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9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiancee and the love of my life has broken up with me 2 months ago. Im 6 months pregnant with his child. We have been together 18 months,recently bought a house together, a dog, a lot of shares, and i have just left all my family and friends to go to the opposite side of the ... (513 words)

I don't know how to deal with this, I didn't do anything!

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9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, I really need advice. I've been thinking long and hard and I've got advice from family and friends but I want to see what others think...We'll I was with this guy for 2 months, we both are in highschool. I'm a sophomore and he's a senior. Everything was going ... (274 words)

Would he 'really' throw me out the window or was he joking?

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9 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all and Happy new year! Here's my question. What does it mean when you ask a man that you are involved with what he wants to do/be with you and he answers, "If I told you I would scare you" and smiles...nicely. We were cuddled up on the couch relaxing when this ... (143 words)

I want to stay friends with him..but why is he acting like such a jerk?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend broke up the last week of school before winter break. We have been dating for almost 5 1/2 months and before break me and him were still good friends. After break we came back to school and he is a jerk now. I asked him why he was acting like a jerk and he ... (85 words)

How do I deal with my bf's interest in other girls...without having a major meltdown?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Im going through a bad patch with my boyfriend of 4 years for a few specific reasons, firstly he moved in with 2 girls and his friend, he never discussed this with me and it really bothers me as I feel so jealous. The other thing is that he met his ex girlfriend on a few ... (196 words)

Why won't my married lover call me??

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9 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hello im a 32 year old woman who has been seeing this married man for 7 years. i thought we had a really good relationship and we talked on the phone every other day. now for some reason i have not heard from him in a week. i know thats not a very long time but considering how ... (122 words)

My ex bf stole my car and rolled it! So why do I still care for him??

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9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I still love my ex, may sound easy... just get him back, but when i was asleep he stole my car keys whilst drunk, took it with out me knowing and rolled it 4 times. I lost over 4 grand and he got hardly any punishment. I know I should hate him but I don't and I think ... (88 words)

He claims to not love me...so why all this attention all of a sudden?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age - Hi I am having a relationship with a man and it has been long term about 10yrs. He does not love me as he has told me so but we have a great time together and our sex life is great.I do have strong feelings for him. But lately he has been acting strange. I went away for the ... (255 words)

I'm attracted to this guy at work...but I am married!

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9 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am a 30yo woman married for 4 years. Of late, I am getting attracted to a workmate who is 26 yo and unmarried. Whenever he is around I just can't seem to focus, my hands start to shake and butterflies in my tummy. Even he seems to feel the same thing cause he is extra ... (156 words)

Is she interested in me or not?

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9 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Foremost, I am a male and obviously can't ask friends for relationship advice if it doesn't apply to me "getting laid". A girl recently got in touch with me out of the blue and I was wondering if she may be interested in me. Ok, here's the sich. I was really good friends with ... (318 words)

What are your thoughts on unassisted home births?

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9 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am pregnant and tempted to have an unassisted pregnancy/birth ... I've never liked doctors or hospitals and I'm very much a control freak and a free living hippy all in one. :) I trust my body and i don't want someone to take away my control, particularly someone i already ... (177 words)

How do I stop this guy from texting me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

9 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I just found out that this guy I've been talking to apparently has 4 other girls he texts just like me. I hate players and can't stand being just one of those chicks a guy can go back to. The problem is he won't stop texting me. And the texts are flirty also, so I know hes ... (123 words)