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Archived questions from: 14 January, 2010 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We've been together for three years and the spark has gone!

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14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in need of help please. I truly love my boyfriend but we're going through a tough time right now and I'm in need of advice. We are both go to college, work, and to make things worse he's a 40 minute drive away. Sometimes we only get to see each other once a week and ... (275 words)

Oh no! I have a new boyfriend but am falling for his mate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I fallin in love with my boyfriend's mate. I cant stop thinking about him. the relationship is new and am his first girlfriend. I need help like badly. what should a do? dump my boyfriend for his mate or forever dream about his mate?... (44 words)

As soon as we walked out of the church he became a changed man -- and not for the better!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am 24 and my husband 20, we have been married for 6 months and I am considering divorce. We met in the military and got along great at first. Now that we are married (there has been no honeymoon stage)I dont really think its going to last. My husband has no life ... (193 words)

My ex calls me a slut, how do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I hate my ex, I completely hate him and wish something really bad would happen to him! He has given me crap about my past for YEARS, despite my being completely faithful, not even flirting or checking out other guys, despite my giving up friends for him, etc. I never cheated, ... (556 words)

We broke up because it wasn't working, but I miss him heaps

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) age 30-35 - i think i miss my ex only problem is i don't want to be missing him. we go to the same uni so i bump into him and its hard not to see him around. we broke up because we agreed it wasn't working he made me feel like other girls were more important than me. he wasn't good for ... (227 words)

I don't know which is stronger, my desire to stay with her or my desire to go home to the States

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello all My situation is a bit complicated. I live in Spain and work in a Symphony Orchestra here. I met a girl, whom I care for very deeply. On many levels, I believe she has to be my soulmate. I love her very much. The problem is, I don't like this country and mi... (317 words)

I am scheduled for an abortion but having second thoughts

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am nearly 19 and pregnant. I am about 5 or 6 weeks. I have a appointment booked for the clinic in 5 days to have a abortion but im not sure if i can go through with it..I have been crying and worrying about it for ages now about what I should do. My family say it is not th... (437 words)

I lack confidence in the bedroom

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid :) After being single for 2 years after a VERY messy break up, I've been dating a wonderful guy for 2 months and he is amazing. I've never met anyone more thoughtful or caring and I feel so so lucky to have him :) But there are 2 problems. Firstly, neither of us h... (302 words)

Our family is struggling with unemployment and I need to find somewhere to live

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really worried !.I'm 25 years old, and I have to move out of my home. I have always lived with family, and have neer had my own place before. I have been unemployed for a while. I have tried to get a job but haven't had much luck. Unfortunately, my dad lost his job just... (391 words)

I don't want a sexual thing, but do crave her attention

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, So I don't really know where to start with this. I have a friend, also a girl, and we're not the best of friends, but the way we act would make you think otherwise. We're not really into deep conversations or anything, a general chat would be "hey, love you, ho... (166 words)

I feel unwell after sex, it bolsters his ego but bothers me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - After I have sex with my boyfriend, especially if I have orgasmed, I occasionally feel very faint, disorientated and weak; the other night I had to walk home after sleeping with him but my legs felt so shakey I could barely walk and I just felt as if I would either faint or ... (112 words)

I introduced two friends and they are now a couple, but she has never thanked me for it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Two of my good friends are going out. I have known him for 6 or more years, and I've known her for 4 years. She's 15 and in my year at school, he is 18 and is in his last year. Well she has been spending all of her time with him and not our little group. She lies to us and d... (136 words)

How do I turn myself on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 years old and I just got over a serious relationship. I'm used to having sex a couple times a week, and now that I've moved away to an area I know no one but family, I feel aroused and can't do anything to fix it! I've tried pleasuring myself, but I have difficulty ge... (67 words)

Since I started this relationship all my bad body image fears have come back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Well....I've decided to stay single and out of the spot light for 2 years until recently. I've had bad relationships in the past and they sent me from hell and back so decided to allow myself time, healing and to regain my independence. I have met a really nice man and it's ... (341 words)

I know he doesn't want me anymore but I don't know how to get over him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (?) age 36-40 - How, how, how, how do I forget or put aside my love for this person that doesn't want me anymore. Its clear to me that he doesn't want me but I can't get over it. Please help me, what can I do, I tried keeping myself busy, but not working. Help please... (55 words)

A girl I like has her pics posted showing her drunk and dancing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have very low self esteem n my question is for guys if a girl u like but at the moment she didnt like u back. she went to a party got drunk n dancedddd all night how wud u feel if u saw photos of her on myspace? wud that change how u feel about her? now u know her she is a ... (102 words)

I wouldnt have gone, but I am upset I wasnt invited

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So after thinking im over my ex. I find out he;s having a bday party today and remembering the fact that he insisted we be friends and telling me beforehand that whenever he;s having a bday gig that id be openly invited and that he wanted to see me very soon. It just killed m... (95 words)

I come across as possesive and clingy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, Basically I'm just looking for some tips because recently I've started thinking that I'm perhaps quite a possessive and clingy girlfriend. I don't ACT super possessive and clingy as I don't want to come across that way and freak out my boyfriend, but inside I... (291 words)

I cant accept my b/f loves me more than he did his ex girlfriends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't seem to get over my boyfriend's sexual history. We recently moved in together and are expecting our first child. We plan on getting married. My boyfriend is 5 years older than I am, so he obviously has more sexual experiences than I do. Besides him I have only had co... (265 words)

I thought he was flirting with me but he says he has a girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

- I have just separated from my husband because he cheated but still live (separeted for 3 months) toguether because of debt and our 2 year old daughter. I recently been flirting with this guy at work, he is always flirting and is extra nice to me compared to everyone else. A... (160 words)

Counselling sessions advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am considering going to a doctor asking to get a referral to a counsellor. I am 18 and in higher education. Will I have to pay for counselling sessions and is there anything else I should know?... (41 words)

My wife cheated, we split, I married,my wife a druggie, my ex wife split, I still want her and my family!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

14 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello. Three and a half years ago, my wife of nearly 8 years had an affair and wanted me out of the family home so she could move in her new partner. At the time our children were 4 and 3. In a whirlwind i left and started a new relationship. I was insecure and my new ... (241 words)

Although she knows I love her with all my heart she broke up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Here's the situation, my girlfriend and I were together for about 2 and a half years, we are both 24 years old now. We fell madly in love with each other and literally got along amazing, had so much fun together, and really could not get enough of each other. We met in school ... (546 words)

My best friend slept with my boyfriend and now I have trust issues

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14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend slept with my boyfriend in June and i still havent gotten over it! I have major trust issues with people and im struggling to make new friends and start any new relationships. Any advice ??... (39 words)

Torn between the two and not knowing who to choose

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 17 and ive had alot of bad relationship experiances in the past I started seeing this guy who i work with, his really genuine but he prefers his mates over me and convocation is limited. Theres this other guy that ive liked ever since i can remember, we get on really well a... (130 words)

I am just fed up with some of the guys I meet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Ladies and men .... i have a dilemma i need some input into! I am just fed up of some of these guys i keep on meeting! So I met this guy we work near eachother and would always chat when we saw eachother (i cant really talk good to people i fancy so prob more of a stutter on ... (511 words)

I like this man's company and would like to take it further

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a very shy person and work in a shop. I met this man and we statred talking. Eventually he started comming to visit me before work and we sit and have coffee together. We have a lot of things in common and enjoy each others company. We text each other all day and I receive ... (170 words)

My boyfriends behaviour has changed and I am skeptical about his reasons

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a little skeptical about a few things that have been going on with my boyfriend recently; am I in the right to be skeptical, am I just overly paranoid, should I consult him, and if so, what is the best way to go about that? A little bit of background information: My... (539 words)

I want to stop worrying so much and focus more on my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry it's so long but I hope there's someone out there that's willing to read this and answer it for me! My boyfriend and I have been together for a Year and 3 months. Well, a week before our one year anniversary, he broke up with me and said it was because we were kind... (402 words)

I hate it here and home and my boyfriends offered me space at his place!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've live in Spain for 8 years and last year I moved back to Estonia and went to school. I live with my dad and every other week my brother's here too. At school I met my now boyfriend and we've been a couple for 2 months. We seem a perfectly good couple compared to my friends ... (308 words)

Since I asked him out on a date, he now ignores me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im fustrated with this and hope someone can help. Im friends with this man, that ive grown to love. We use to get along so good, always flirting and helping each other out even talking a little online. (we're co-workers) Ive asked him out before and he said 'no' cuz he doesnt ... (195 words)

Is he braggin? Or is it true what he says?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid; i am soo sooo confused i have been with this guy for almost a year and a half...but i dont really feel so sure about our relationship. i have his email password and once i checked his email. i know it is wrong. but when i did it i found emails talking to his cousins ... (148 words)

I'm pregnant and the father has ADHD and anger issues. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am only a teenager. I am Expectin a baby. The Father and i are friends at school. but we fall out a lot. there is 2 reasons for this. he was adhd. lets call him lil for now. lil also has anger issues. as we are both just 13 we are worried. he cant control his anger. i do not ... (86 words)

Is there a side to my wife that I don't know?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am happily married. We had a situation like two months ago that didn't seem like a big deal, but now for some reason I grew a conscience. I completely trust my wife, she can flirt, but NEVER has given me reason to not trust her. Most of time flirting is very innocent, i... (437 words)

He's losing interest and slipping away! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i've had a major crush on a boy in my year for a while now. i thought he was interested but he seems to be slipping away from me if that makes sense.he is pretty popular whereas i am not so sometimes he doesnt talk to me around some of his friends. he is also very confident and ... (110 words)

How do I spark my relationship up and do something defferent to interest my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I spark my relationship up and do something defferent to interest my boyfriend. We have been together for a couple years and have done lots of experimenting. Most recently I have been getting sexy ligerie to wear for him and he loves it. I dress up for him all the time ... (163 words)

Suggestions about 'breaking up'?? Anyone know any good ones?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

14 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This isn't really a relationship question. But i was wondering, does anyone know some songs about you and your girlfriend breaking up and then you replace her but start to realize shes the only one you need and you want her back. Preferably randb or something smooth if you... (65 words)

My guy wants me to move in with him..but he hasn't mentioned it to his family! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now. we have talked about moving in together. it makes sense for me to move in with him as he has no mortgage or rent to pay. the problem is it is an old cottage on a farm and has no central heating, double glazing or any form of ... (231 words)

Is this a sinus problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I was wondering if anybody has ever had a problem like mine. I did a lot of internet research but I couldn't find a condition that matches the symptoms I have. I know the most obvious answer is that I have a problem with my sinuses, but I'm not sure that is the case. The ... (139 words)

Why is this girl in his life still? Will she go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age - Good Day Everyone! I'm in a relationship...for the most part, it's light and easy. We have been together 14 months now. He is a wonderful man, giving of himself, a good friend to others, a very sensitive person. A great brother and son! He has had some trama in his l... (406 words)

My bf has anger issues, he has cheated and he's hit me 3 times! Stay or go?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey guys. well i will start with the basics. i'm going out with a boy who is fifteen (the same age as me) and we've been basically going out since year eight (seventh grade) so over the years we have obviously become very close, but we have been through lots together an... (230 words)

Need ideas for my gf's birthday coming up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, Happy New Year! It is my girlfriends birthday coming up and I need some help thinking of a/some presents for her. I've done the usual - Necklaces, bracelets, Watch, and even an engraved pen before plus taken her on holiday, meals and shows but i want to give her some... (84 words)

Is this behavior the way most gay couples behave? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

14 January 2010 (M)

age - I am a 47 year old male that has been in a gay relationship with my partner for 3 years. A year into our relationship, I discovered he was frequenting video stores, having anonomous sex (he said no penetration, just jerking guys off), meeting people online, men4rentnow, erotic ... (276 words)

Will he ever ask me to marry him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I am stumped on a big life scenerio. I am 25 years old and have 2 beautiful boys with their dad (we will call him John Doe). We have been in a relationship since we were both 15 years old...we did split up for about a year and a half when we got to college. We eventually ... (427 words)

One last text to make him feel bad

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i actually thought he liked me.. made me feel so Special and pressured into sex.. and i gave in and i regret it and hate myself SO much:( he didn't even ring to find out if i got home safe or not..it was yesterday and i dont think hes ever guna call. so i wa... (103 words)

Is he emotionally cheating or am I just being an insecure wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

14 January 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I have been married for almost nine years. My husband and I have not had the most conventional marrige. We had a short courtship and no alone time (he was a single dad with a 3.5 year old son when i met him). We had 2 kids of our own and for as long as we've been married our ... (601 words)

Does penis enlargement work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi iam 24years old and still a virgin.the reason being my penis is only 2 inches when erect.consequently women laugh and run a mile.can some one tell me if penis enlargement works.... (32 words)

She says she's too young for a long term comitted relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - What does it mean when your girlfriend says she feels too young for a serious commited relationship, that she feels trapped, she doestnt like the idea of long term relationships? also what does it mean when she says that because ur her first official boyfriend that i... (140 words)

I want a baby, I don't want a baby..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I am 18 and in my second semester as a college freshman.My boyfriend and I just got engaged and we really want a baby. we don't live together but he said If we had a baby we would just figure it out. I plan on finishing college after I have the baby and while Im pregnant I ... (97 words)

First time sex coming up. No clue what guys like...any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok my and my boyfriend have been together for over 2 years and we've never had sex because we were fairly young when we got together so i didnt want to just immediately sleep together!! We do other stuff lots but we've never actually tried going the whole way so valentines day ... (150 words)

He claims the women he messages online are just friends! What do I believe?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my partner for almost four years. Last August i discovered that he had been texting and calling another woman day and night. He had even been round her house (to fix her tap...hmm..) whilst i was on holiday with my children and sister. He denied all of this to ... (246 words)

I confessed that I liked him and he said he's not into it right now...what does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I actually like dis guy. He doesn't more much about me but we know each other for 5months professionally. I too don't kno anything about this guy. But his good nature and character made me like him. And I just went up and told him I like him. He's didn't exactly turn me down ... (179 words)

How can we improve our sexual situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i have been together for two years now. we are engaged to get married. i am for the most part content in our relationship. we have over come some obstacles. the only big issue that we are having still is our sex life. he has E.D. and a low sex drive. i ask ... (180 words)

Should I wait longer for him, or should I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am at college at the moment, and met this guy on my course in the first few weeks, we seemed to hit it off, flirted and texted a lot. He told me he likes me a lot and I told him the same. Recently we have been seeing each other outside of class, we have made out several ... (131 words)

Does she like me, or is she just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 19 yr old bisexual female and have been bisexual for years, fighting to keep it secret from family, especially my homophobic mother. Most of my friends know I am though and have no problem of it. Recently, I was re-acquainted with a friends of one of my friends when she ... (258 words)

My husband got laid off and has turned into a couch potato!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok please help me understand. My husband has been laid off for 3 or 4 month now and he has be come a couch potato. He is so lazy even our daughter sees it. She will say daddy you are a lazy butt. He sleeps till 11:00 or 12:00 every day and then he'll take a nap later in the ... (113 words)

I was worried I might be pregnant so I dreamt I had a child with four eyes

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I don't really know how to say this, and I'm pretty it's all going to sound like a worried, scared teenage girl asking for help, but that's exactly what it is, so I'm sorry. Basically, last night my boyfriend and I had sex, and though I've had the jab, I only had it la... (204 words)

My best friend dumped now I love him and she's trying to get back on with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know how bad being in love with your best friends ex sounds and I know people will think instantly "Don't go there. You're risking yuor friendship" but it seems different to me because SHE was the one who messed up their relationship. They'd been going out a month and she'... (726 words)

Despite our 14 year age difference she wants to take it to the next level

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

14 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I guys I was trying to ask google for a answer to my heavy heart when I found this community. I met this girl on-line a while back. We became very good friends. And with time we got very close. When we met she was going through a crisis or confidence and had a very low esteem ... (515 words)

My LDR can be really nasty to me sometimes

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I could do with some advice please. I don't know what to do right now about my life and relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 10 months and i thought everything was going as well as it could be. We are technically in a LDR right now as i had to move back... (741 words)

I am not sure how much cum is normal

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (M)

age - hi i have a new gf and the other night after sex we go talking about how much cum is normal. she told me her x would cum loads. what is the normal amount and do womon prefer more or less... (44 words)

How do I help my guy friend get over being rejected by a girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so i'm best friends with this guy. we hang out everyday and ignore the rumors that spread. problem is, he's liked this girl for over 8 months and found out that she really doesn't like him. at all. he's crushed. i care about him allot and i hate, i mean really hate to see ... (89 words)

I want to hide the fact I lack social skills

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - here is my situation. i'm 29 and i would say my experience with relationships is almost none. it's very fringy for me to open up. i would say i get deep into things rather than play the small talk game with people. i try but i don't feel comfortable with that totally. i open up ... (370 words)

I have never felt so lonely and lost before

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age - My heart is so empty. I am 54. My Mum, Dad and brother all died within three months of each other six years ago. My best friend died a couple of months before that. My Mum and Dad lived with me and we were very close. I loved them all so much and miss them every single day. ... (413 words)

My b/f's friends are into weed and I am having trouble accepting it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi - I have just moved countries to be with my boyfriend and I am just starting to get to know his estabished friends most of whom he knows through sport. He has been cagey about me meeting them, even though I was really looking forward to it, and said he doesn't want me to be ... (220 words)

What are the unspoken rules regarding sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - When you have sex, when do you normally finish? once the man has an orgasm or both? thanks... (21 words)

I have met my perfect girl and yet am unable to perform!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Why can?t I stay hard? I bet you?ve heard a lot of questions like this, but I?m at my wit?s end. I?m a healthy, active 22 year old male. A month ago I got out of a 4 year relationship with a woman who I loved, but felt nothing for for over 6 months because she became ment... (569 words)

MY fella broke up with me, and I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i was with my fella for over 3 months and we have known each other since we were 13, we got on like a house on fire, no disagreements nothing bad, he has had 2 bad relationships and he had to do as he was told all the time and had arguements 24 7 with them , but ours was ... (170 words)

His mother is creating a massive wedge in our relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

14 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some help determining if I have a reason to feel the way I do. Boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years, we have had some rocky patches mostly due to his divorce (which is now final). In the beginning we moved things far too quickly, by our own admission, I... (363 words)

I don't understand why my ex would treat me so cruel!

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14 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dated my ex boyfriend for 3yrz. But since last year our relationship was on and off.i moved to another country. And During that time we broke up his best frend came to me and told me the guy had moved on he has another girl so i shouldnt b wasting my time on him. Of which i ... (198 words)

Finally, I am going to meet my LDR but he is worried about his sexual inexperience

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14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I leave to visit my LDR for 3 months in Africa next Monday (yaay!!). I'll spare you all of the other details of our relationship except to say that we're both open to sex if the right time comes. ...but here's the thing--one moment he's excited about the possibility in o... (401 words)

My friend can't see that he is not good for her!

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14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend has been dating a guy for about a year now. He was nice and sweet at first and they made a cute couple. But then he started to be a jerk to her and her friends. He's been trying to pressure her into sleeping with him even though he knows she took a celebacy pledge as ... (103 words)

I want to let my friend know how I feel about him without coming straight out and saying it!

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14 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm deeply in love with my best friend in the entire world, but we don't go to the same school anymore. We still talk to each other every day for hours, but I want to make it something more. I am really compatible with him because we have so much in common, from worrying about ... (279 words)

When she was married we communicated all the time, now she is a single mum, not a peep!

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14 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi folks, my dilema is this. I have known this women for nearly 3 years now. We used to work together, we go on well. She was married at the time. Any way i moved an hour away to Cape Town, but we stayed in touch via sms and i used to pop downand say hi.Over the last year or so ... (654 words)

I am a lonely single girl, wanting to know where to go to meet straight singles

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14 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 26 and have never had a serious boyfriend. I've been on dates and for the first time, I casually dated a guy for 8 months! He did not want to commit, but I'd like to count this as something. I am cute, young, funny, smart, interesting, talented and nice but I can't seem ... (187 words)

I am so lonely I cry and cry every night

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14 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - The guy I dated for several months moved away and I'm so heartbroken. I was always independent and never had a real relationship til this guy, and now I can't stand being alone! I feel so sad and lonely all the time, and would do anything to meet someone and fall in love. I ... (134 words)

I really want to be with him, or be his friend, but worry he might not want to even talk to me

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14 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My cruch and I went to high school together and we were pretty good friends then. I didn't get to talk to him as much as I wanted to though because his girlfriend saw to that, who I was friends with. He and I were also really shy around each other but still tried to talk from ... (535 words)

I have taken pregnancy tests, they are negative, so what else could be wrong?

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14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help....i'm 18 and 6 days late on my period, i had sex on my ovulating day which was the 26th of dec, on the 1st of jan i had some brown stuff like blood, but a few hours later it stopped, i've been havin some cramps under my belly, but thts about all the pregnacy signs ... (88 words)

I know he loves me but I don't know if it's enough

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14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past few days me and my bf of 8 months have been arguing. Like any relationship we have had our ups and downs but for the most part we have had the most beautiful loving relationship. but for some reason i can't seem to get over this argument we had recently. Sorry if ... (506 words)

Are my friends right or are they just all sluts?

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14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friends all think a guy should last an hr in bed, but my bff and i dont. we were both virgins and lost it to one another, and we are still getting use to it so therefore he cums quickly. do you have any proof that this is a normal thing, and my friends are just sluts who ... (71 words)

She left me because she wanted to 'grow' as a person

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14 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My first post here.. sorry for making it sooo long.. Everything was perfect and I was the happiest bf ever We would say "I Love You" and we are the type of people that don't toss around "I Love You" like if it was nothing. We would talk about marriage and our future.. ... (753 words)

Have you ever fallen in love with someone else while you were married?

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14 January 2010 (M)

age - Have you ever fallen in love with someone else while you were married. How did you handle this. What decisions did you weigh out. What was the final out come. Do you feel like you made the right choice. How long did you second guess yourself. What is the success rate of ... (64 words)

I am crushing on my same sex friend

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14 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14, female, and bisexual. So, I guess you could say I've totaly fallen for my closest friend who's a girl. I've fallen hard too, because I've never liked someone this much, ever. When me and her hang out together by ourselves I am fine, I can keep eye contact, I don't blush ... (98 words)

Could my man be in the closet?

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14 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do u know if your man is in the closet? (gay) I mean I don't want to think stuff like that, but he has sooo many male friends its ridiculous. I mean new people poppin up here and there. Yet, this newyears I don't think he invited none of these new friends,or old found ... (203 words)

I did what she asked and now she beats me up

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14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm am very upset. A couple of months ago my friend told me to tell the guy tht she liked tht she liked him. I told him and she got mad at me. At first she just ignored me. Then she started bumping ke and tripping me in the halls. Then she beat me up! And yet she still makes up ... (123 words)

I have ugly feet and keep them covered all the time

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14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I have a problem..I never showed any of my boyfriends my feet because I'm very insecure with them.I love my boyfriend and we are about to move in our own apt. He never seen them. I would like to do all tha fùn things with him that all the girls with pretty feet can do like ... (80 words)

I lack self esteem and it hurts my boyfriend!

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14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a problem that hurts my boyfriend...... its wierd the way i act when im with my boyfriend and we are out in public for example we are eating out for dinner lets say well if a girl sits beside us i feel lets of a woman when i see their bodies compare to mine its very sad ... (99 words)

I'm miserable at home and I have no idea where to turn any more???

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14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, thank you in advance for reading my post. To start out with, i'm an 18 year old girl, senior in high school (I go to school for less than half a day), and I just recently lost my job a few weeks ago. I have no money saved up, im currently looking for a new job. T... (303 words)

Am I always going to feel guilty for cheating on him?

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14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I cheated on my boyfriend a few months ago shortly after starting uni, I told him almost immediately and we are working through it. My boyfriend seems to be handling it a lot better than me, he's already pretty much forgiven me, he says 'the worst part about the whole thing was ... (137 words)

How much space do I give her?

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14 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How much space do i give her? Summed up, ive known her for about 5 months now. We have been serious now for the past month. All of a sudden (like 3 days ago) i start getting a bad vibe/attitude. Really short replies on everything. Come to find out through her our friends ... (123 words)

How can I get him to communicate more?

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14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i really need advice, my boyfriend does not like to talk or show any emotions or affection however i am a very emotional person and i love to show him and talk to him about my feelings but he claims he doesnt like talking about his emotions or feelings... Its hard to ... (154 words)

When it came down to it... why did he not do what he was dying to do?

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14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I started a fight with my bf ealier today, i felt bad. So to make it up to him I told him he could do a certain sexual act on me that for months and months i told him he couldn't b/c it just wasn't my cup of tea. Well I figured he'd just jump right to it and wouldn't give a ... (105 words)

Is my fiance in denial about drugs?

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14 January 2010 (F)

age - Hi First of all thanks to all of you who answered my first question okay I am letting my fiance stay until the first of February but to me he is in denial or should I say trying to break me and let him continue to live with me I called off the engagement he is ... (360 words)

How can I make her really WANT me again?

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14 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my gf for about 2.5 years. i love her with all that i am. we plan on being together forever. for about a year she has been giving me blowjobs/handjobs. today, yesterday and the day before that, things were getting hot and heavy. she rarely likes fingering. she ... (146 words)

Are my friends just saying he likes me to make me feel better?

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14 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - alright, :) so ive liked this one guy since i was about 10 and like last year one of my friends, against my will, asked him if he liked me, he just said nopee. so after that i hadnt talked to him in forever, and i just saw him the other day , and i still reaaly want him to ... (236 words)

Would you call this cheating?

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14 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 26, not exactly a teen any more, and my gf is 24, we've been dating for year and a half now. She recently started a new job 3 months ago. But shes been acting really distant the last few days, shes been dressing up really nice, hardly calls me or lets me know when shes ... (698 words)

I hate my body. Is my boyfriend lying when he says he likes it?

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14 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i hate my body.... i dont feel like a woman and im 20 i have small breats and i dont feel like i will ever truly saisfted my boyfreind.one because i feel i dont look like one with my breats size.two because he likes to watch porn and the females he picks are bigger than me he ... (73 words)