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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

After all this time, he just got married. Do I love him? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, i'm new here and i need help.. This may take a bit to explain, but bear with me.. please? Basically, a few years ago when i was still in high school i met a man a lot older.. i was 15 and he was 33. I got involved with him (in secret)and just as i finished school i f... (527 words)

Until what age can a woman elarge her breasts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age - Hi friends of Forum, My interest lies on finding out until when (age) can a woman enlarge her breast with hormonal treatments ? A joyous reply is forehanded for the best and truthful answer !... (41 words)

I can't buy anything. What can I use to masturbate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I cant buy anything so what can I use to masterbate. I dont want a dildo or vibrator. Also dont tell me anything that can hurt me in some way. Thanks!... (34 words)

My girlfriend thinks making out is horrible. Can people have a relationship without kissing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my girl friend said she thinks making out is horrible and i asked her if she really thought this because i was going to before she said it. is it normal for people to have relationships without any kissing?... (42 words)

Help! I have a crush on my boyfriend's younger brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have a silly, on-going crush on my boyfriend's younger brother. He doesn't know, and I'd NEVER tell him or do anything - but I secretly fantasize about him, and I always have dreams about him if I've seen him during the day. He's tall, fit, very attractive,... (232 words)

I want my girlfriend to be more ladylike and not behave this way!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

25 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am in a relationship and having a few issues with my current girlfriend. I wasn't that keen on her to start with but I seem to have really fallen for her. We get on well as friends, spend nearly all of our time together, she's really loving and the sex is goo... (853 words)

My ex cheated on his pregnant girl with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hiya everyone, Ok i now this sounds really wrong but im best friends with my ex bf, His gf is pregnent, and went in2 hospital last yesterday to be induced anyway he got sent home as no baby, and he rang me up and asked if i could get him some food, anyway i did, and he ask... (359 words)

How can I just be more happy in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5197 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there alright well my bf and i almost broke up last night because him and i just havent been getting along lately...like we always fight i dont have much trust for him he says i dont make him happy and he dont treat me like a gf should be treated...i mean sometime... (150 words)

If his siblings are being nice to me, does that mean that my BF is talking to them about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Does a guy talk about you to his siblings if they are being nicer to you? I have both as a friend on Facebook and his sister sends me best friend things even though I met her once. His brother I've hungout with twice he loves hanging out with me and thinks I'm funny. I don't ... (83 words)

Would it be against the law to date my student-teacher?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I turned 18 on the 3rd of this month. There's a teacher (actually, not even teacher... uh, student-teacher) at my school who I've become very close with. He's 20. He, for lack of a better term, 'expressed interest' in me first. So, before I do anything, would it be agai... (59 words)

Is this sexual assault? Please help...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so will somebody please help me out here...if a boy is fingering you and you tell him to stop and he doesn't is that sexual assault or something???I really need answers...... (32 words)

How should I proceed, following our blind date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I went on a blind date this weekend. Prior to the date we spoke, emailed, and texted quite often for a week. When we met, I liked her immediately. We spent 5 hours together and had a great time... I think, hahaha. We got cozy with each other... a little kissing, hand holding, ... (175 words)

My son's 18 year old friend wants to have sex with me - I'm 45! What do I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a 45 year old woman and I have a eighteen year old son. My son has a friend who is also eighteen. Yesterday I found out he is possibly going to Iraq within a month. He told me he's had a huge crush on me and that he wanted to have sex with me before he left.(my son wasn't ... (106 words)

Is she testing the waters, or are we really just going to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am man of 44 years of age and have been out of the dating game for a long time now and find it hard to tell what is going on.There is a lady i work with that i really like,we get on we get on well joke around have some fun,seem to bounce of each other. after a while i ask her ... (177 words)

Why am I falling for a guy whose cheated in the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - what is wrong with me? why am i in love with a player? hes cheated on his past two gfs and im sure if i get with him he would cheat. i never liked him before only recently i have never done anything with him. i just think about him alot. he doesnt kno. wat is wrong with me?... (59 words)

Could I be falling out of love ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and I have been together for 3years now, and things have been great. clearly there have been ups and downs, but it's generally good. Recently tiny things have been getting to me, and make me so annoyed at him. I always tell him when i'm annoyed/... (86 words)

How can I bring up the 'separation' conversation with my wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

25 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - well it has been a few months now and I have seen a lawyer and a counselor I think I am ready to have the seperation chat with my wife of 5 years we have been together for 9. I just wanted to ask how does one approach the other on this? Even though we are oil and water we have ... (342 words)

Wife had anal sex with another man, how should I react?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

25 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Mod note: had some language and sexual content not suitable for younger aunts and uncles, changed to make it... more friendly. I went to a party with my wife and I forgot to eat beforehand, well I got drunk and passed out. I woke up a couple of hours later to the moans of... (167 words)

Partner calls me from work but only talks for a second or two and I don't know why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, From Monday- Thursday,the job where my fiance works allows him 3 breaks: 10 am (10 or 15 minutes), 12 pm (Lunch; 30 minutes), and 3 pm (15 minutes). Then on Friday's, he gets off at 11:30 am and his break is at 9:30 am (10 or 15 minutes). Okay my question is: when... (283 words)

How can I relax in order to orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had amazing sex on saturday night, I've never cum from penatrative sex before but i felt i was getting close on saturday. However once i realised this i focused on it too much and was unable to orgasm. How can i keep myself relaxed in order to orgasm?... (52 words)

We're 9 years apart and we're living together, but he's changed since I moved in!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi...I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now...I met him through his brother and started a long distance relation ship. He lived in NY and me in FL..I decided to meet him after talking to him for 7 months..It was like love at first sight..we couldn't get enough of ... (159 words)

Foreskin doesn't pull back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone :) i need sum advice. The problem is when i get hard my foreskin doesnt pull all the way back and am worried there is sumthin wrong with me. I havent lost my virginity yet and am 18 so i just need to be told whether i have a problem or what can i do to make my ... (63 words)

I want to try cunnilingus but my wife isn't interested. Any ideas on how I can bring her around?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

25 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I want to try cunnilingus but my wife thinks its 'dirty'. The problem is it really turns me on. What do I do?... (24 words)

It's been over a year since we've spoken, but now we've started talking again. Could we possibly rekindle what we had?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - About a year ago, I broke up with this guy I had been dating for about 6 months. I had a lot of reasons, but the main reason I did it was because we were at different parts of our lives. I was in college, and he had not yet finished high school, even though he's 2 years older ... (208 words)

Is it normal to feel like peeing during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

25 January 2010 (?) age 41-50 - While having sex, i have this great urge of peeing.. is it normal? Never had orgasm before, so was wonderin if tat might hinder it.. thanks... (26 words)

He's been lying to me this whole time. Should I leave him or try to forgive him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend lied to me for THREE YEARS about his porn use. Don't get me wrong, I know he wanks. He's told me so, and he had even shown me the website he used (a very well known free amateur site). Now here's the thing: he told me he didn't like masturbating to soft core images ... (532 words)

How do I approach this guy I have a crush on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there is this guy that lives by me and i kind of have a little crush on him. i want to talk to him but i dont know how to aproch him. what can i do ?... (44 words)

My testicles are beginning to ache/feel numb from masturbation. Should I be concerned?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

25 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been uncontrollably horny lately through what i think is stress. i dont have a girlffriend at the moment, so i masturbate. usually if i'm comfortable i'll do it once a day or every other day. in the past 3 days ive done it 3 times a day and not felt much sensation from it ... (113 words)

She avoids me now that she has a new bf! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My gf avoids me what to do...? I love her more then myself but she hates me. Now she is in love with a new bf.... (28 words)

Have I gone too far being spiteful over my husband's affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have done something really stupid. In a fit of rage over my husband's affair with a work colleague (and very drunk) I sent some emails designed to get her into bother. Although it did achieve that purpose it has also got him into a very precarious situation and he may be ... (132 words)

Do I have a committment problem with guys who like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5110 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well everytime a dude likes me i just think of him as a friend (or even a best friend), then he gets over me, and that's when i start to like him and not beeing able to get him out of my head .. it happened to me 4 times, i dnt wanna go to the next one ! please help ! :(... (63 words)

Have a rocky relationship with my girlfriend who does heroin and I don't want to lose her, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

25 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My question is most likely a little to big for this forum... My girlfriend and I love eachother very much. We have been dating for a little over a 3 years. We took a break about a year and a half ago for the summer because we were just getting pissed at each other all the time. ... (373 words)

Am I having an orgasm when my leg shakes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So im 18 and i've had sex a few times...and im not really sure if ive ever had an orgasim...so when I have sex after about an hour my leg start to shake uncontrollably does that mean im having an orgasim?? ... (42 words)

Lust over emotion... should I wait? or Should I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm fifteen and am going out with a sixteen year old. I'm a virgin and I know that he isn't. He just recently asked me out, and I asked him to maybe wait a little. He really didn't want to but he said he would wait, for me. He also said people don't wait for relationships, they ... (185 words)

Still bleeding after having sex 3 times and bleeding lasts 1/2 a day! whats going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I am just wondering if it is normal for a girl to still be bleeding after the 3rd time you've had sex with a guy? This is the 2nd guy I have been with. The 1st guy I was with for 2years and I didn't bleed my first time. Now he (the 1st) was on the small side so ... (258 words)

Am I over reacting or is the age different too great?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok...well i just started talking to this guy and hes so sweet and i feel like we have been connecting but then i realized hes 27 and im 19. is there too much of an age difference or am i just overreacting? please help...just say its fine or i shouldnt get involved.... (52 words)

Verbal Abuse

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age - I left my husband of 30 years due to horrible verbal abuse and always being blamed for any thing that went wrong. I am having such a hard time finding any kind of support groups. I'm trying to take the high road in this seperation and not do anything that I will regret later. ... (85 words)

What kind of heart can you have to mistreat someone the way he has?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently broke up with a young man i had been dating for about 4 months. When we started dating he was all I thought I wanted an exclusive relationship. However, as time past I learned that his break up with his ex was more recent than he had disclosed. For the first month ... (424 words)

Can a long distance relationship really survive six years, only seeing each other twice a year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend coming up on four years, he is in an apprenticeship and I am studying at university. We see each other twice each year, typically spending a month or so together each visit, and then fly back to our respective ... (604 words)

No orgasm... threw up??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - This might seem like a really stupid question but is it possible to throw up from not having an orgasm??? My boyfriend and I had really intense sexual exploits this weekend from Friday till Sunday trying to get me to orgasm for the first time. It didn't work but it felt very... (158 words)

Is it fair that I should down my ex to my new boyfriend in orde to make him feel good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age - I'm female - when a relationship ends and a new one begins is it okay to say bad stuff about the man you have just came out of the relationship with to the new man in your life? Not vindictive stuff, just stuff that makes the new person in you life feel special. ... (54 words)

Would YOU let your wife strip?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

25 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have discussed threesomes, but ultimately said we didn't want to cross that line and risk our relationship; however, it doesn't mean we don't still think about it, from a curiosity standpoint. She mentioned she would like to strip, that would be something on her ... (253 words)

I hope he hasn't gone off me, what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i hope this doesn't sound like a stupid problem but i have been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks and I really really like him. i haven't felt like this about anyone in ages, despite going on many dates. Well friday we went out and had a really good night. he seemed... (591 words)

What should I do? Giving up is not an option!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys/girls,, i will make it simple and not that big but i really need your help i know a girl that im close to (going out, filtering, feeling jealous, calls, texts) but i had a problem and i hurt her because i couldnt talk with her for 3 weeks and she said before i do... (327 words)

15 and pregnant, please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 and pregnant. im 5 weeks in and when i told my mum and dad they were furious. and they said they wouldn't support me. my boyfriend dumped me and said he wouldn't help either. so im thriving on my own and i am deciding whether to keep or not the baby. my best friend dated ... (83 words)

I'm running out of ideas for sexy surprises for my long distance boyfriend, can anyone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Im 21 and im currently involved in long distance relationship we dated for 2 years and he had to go away for school. Since we talk online we do lots of little sexy surprizes for each other and i run out of ideas! Help please!thank u!... (47 words)

Is height a problem when it comes to a relationship? Should the man be way taller than the woman?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I'm 5'5 feet tall and my husband is only about an inch taller than me.whenever i stand next to him i feel like i'm bigger than him! or we are the same height.he's thin too.and im average.So even when posing for photographs,i tend to hunch or bend or do somethin... (110 words)

I'm in love with my best friend but he doesn't seem to care!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok there my best friend who's really sweet and cute i know him for like 4 years.. and i have a big crush on him but he doesn't seem to care a lot. I don't know if he is lying to me but he always tells me that he loves me but never acts like it. i don't know if i should ask him ... (81 words)

Boyfriend slept with his step sister - what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so this is a tricky one... My boyfriend slept with his step sister. It was a long time ago but since it happened the two of the became really close and - best friends even. twenty years ago her mum stole my boyfriends dad from his mum - I'm not sure why this makes me fe... (264 words)

Do you have any suggestions for me, or for my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age - I am in a very confusing situation. Firstly, after a one year relationship, my partner and I decided to separate. The problems we had were actually external to our relationship, but had a huge affect on our relationship. So we thought it was just too hard and splitup, but still ... (645 words)

I'm happily married so why cant I stop thinking about an old flame?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I'm 22 yrs old and married.there was a guy who really really loved me back when i was in school!but i didnt have feelings for him at all.i was not attracted to him.lets call him Ash. At that time, my ex wanted another chance as i broke up with him as he cheate... (283 words)

I never want to kiss my hubby anymore, could this be because of the pills?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guyz,i hav a problem;since i got married(3 months ago),my urge 4 kissing has completely gone,i never want 2 kiss my hubby anymore for no aparent reason.am confused since before we got maried i used 2 love his kisses.could it be the contraceptives am using?pliz help... (46 words)

My hubby treats me like dirt, is his behaviour right, doesn't he love me anymore??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everybody. i ill apriciate it, if Men and Women answerd me please . im very confused well see my husband tells me im sick and tired of you i need my space i have no privacy i want to be single i can afford to live on my own. a couple of hears ago i started to loose ... (846 words)

The boy I love has to have an operation with only a 50% chance of survival, have I just said goodbye to him forever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I`ve been a bit upset and worried, the boy i love has to have an operation on his head and the doctors said that there is a 50% chance he will live and a 50% chance he will die. He is beginning to say goodbye to me and he asked me to marry him. He wants a future with me but he ... (107 words)

We live together, we don't make love as often and he goes out a lot! Any help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend we are deeply in love and live together for 3 months and everything is going good. i have noticed that we dont make love as much as we used to before and he says that i say im always tired and not feeling good. is true but not all the time. i have also ... (88 words)

Child support situation...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Im am in the military and when i enlisted I have told my recruiter that I have children. I only told him that i have two since there are the only daughters that were born in the U.S. He has told me just not to say anything about them and just get in the military, so i did. Now ... (227 words)

I'm afraid my best friend will start avoiding me so he is liked more by other people!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend (I'll call him J) likes this girl even though she's turned him down (kinda harshly). She thinks he likes me cause we hang out a lot. Rumors are everywhere and people come up to us asking us about them and it's just getting really annoying. I am putting up with it ... (266 words)

My girlfriend's younger sister caught me in an awkward situation, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (M)

- my girlfriends sister came to visit us on the weekend, she is younger and was playing on the wii so my girlfriend went out for a bit to visit a friend. I was bored so went to bedroom to read for a bit and then I started getting horny and decided to pleasure myself as i was ... (136 words)

Work Issues!!! Please help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello , At my work the people here are party animals they drink every weekend or have bbq's and what not. So i dont join them because i cannot afford it at all so they think im being uptight and also they have changed towards me because they also think i dont want anything to ... (363 words)

How do I deal with his excess baggage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i need help my partner and i have been together for 4 years now i feel like i am at my wits end and need help urgently. I feel as if i shouldnt have to deal with this anymore and i know that hes so over this issue too. The problem is that im soo sick of seeing his ex ... (328 words)

How can I make my husband leave his hobby alone for a night so we can have sex to bring back the spark in our marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay , all the lady's and Men please help me. ima keep it simple wich is the best way to bring that spark back in our marriage. If my husband tells me he is sick of me keeps on talking in an angry voice, never talks to me at all. How can i ask a simple question during the day ... (149 words)

How do I tell him that I am not slim to save any embarrassment on the night?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i want to tell a man i am meeting soon that i am not slim. what should i say. we are only contacting by phone at the moment. have sent him sum pics and look gud in them but in reality i see myself as much bigger and think he has a rite to know. i am a size 14 which is hard for ... (97 words)

How do I make her see that I can be more that just her best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - well im at my wits end.. I just don't know what to do I feel so blind and like I'm on a dark road that I cant see whats in front of me. I shall startfrom the start you see I moved into a house and a girl moved in with me (shes japanese) and well we became best friends very qui... (795 words)

Is this cheating or not? What should I do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi cupid, this sound like a cheating but i want to ask this. any answer is acceptable. i met this girl last year 2009 on the internet and we are planning to see each other. she's 23 and am 22. i asked her whether she had a boy friend and she said yes, but she have a little ... (330 words)

Should I do this to save my marriage? Or is it blackmail and should I call a lawyer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age - My husband and I have been married for 16 years this March. During the second year of our marriage, his business tanked and he needed money fast. A friend of ours, Jeff, generously offered a full no-interest loan that allowed my husband to save his assets. What my husband ... (212 words)

Do I always have to keep him chasing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Help from the gentlemen out there please (although ladies' opinions will be helpful too! Ta!!!). I have been in a relationship for 18 months now, and I feel that my partner has lost a bit of his interest in me. I feel that the excitement has gone and that i have become a bi... (277 words)

Is there something wrong? Or is this just natural?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When my boyfriend is giving me oral sex and really gets into it, my whole body starts to shake, and I no i'm reaching an orgasm but the problem is when my body starts shaking I can't relax. Is there something wrong? or is this just natural?... (47 words)

Now we have been dating for 5 months, things don't seem to be moving forward at all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently in a relationship that has me so confused. I feel quite strongly about him, and although i would hate to admit it, i am falling for him. I met him through friends and he seemed to like me a lot. He called me constantly asking me to go out with him and his frie... (509 words)

I have to pretend to be satisfied with my husband during sex and I feel really bad for doing this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

25 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Im married since a year and half, my husband loves me a lot and I have satisfy him sexually.... My problem is, I really love to have sex with m hubby and its me who always start first, when he starts to kiss and all I feel so good but after we start having sex I don... (78 words)

Mending a broken heart

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25 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I loved this girl 30 and 4 years older than her. we decided to broke up because things are not getting better. there is no future with our relationship. im married and she is single. now we are trying not to communicate. and im feeling to much pain. actually at night i f... (82 words)

Should he get the DNA test or should I leave the situation alone?

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so my bf and I have been going out for about 10 months, in that time we broke up and got back together. Well i guess during that breakup period or while we were still together(still trying to figure that part out) he met some girl and they were talking for like a week. In ... (260 words)

Advice on what to do after an intense breakup

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25 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I've been dating someone for a year now that i wanted to spend my life with. I wouldnt classify our relationship as perfect, but we loved each other intensely and we're really like best friends, doing almost everything together. There were certain issues in t... (1361 words)

How do I get my husband to realize all the things I do for this family?

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 22 years old and am married to a man who treats me as if i should be scrubbing the floors when i am not working full time or taking care of our two year old daughter or throwing up from being 6 months pregnant. we got married three days after i turned 20 when i was also 6 ... (315 words)

After our fight she is now worried that I will leave her! What can I do to make this better?

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25 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright. I messed up and need help to fix it. The other night I messed up. My fiancé and I got home from a night out with my friends. Had a good time, we were both a little buzzed still. We hadn't had sex in two days. All day I was kissing her, flirting with her, she seemed ... (584 words)

I think I have broken up with him one too many times, but now I realise I miss him and want him back but he wont talk to me!

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have dated this one guy before, he said he loved me and i said it back, but when his best friend told me he regrets breaking up with me he was also asking for me back. Both of them were but when i got with the best friend, the guy i truly love told me he broke his heart for ... (102 words)

The context of an "ask out"...

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This one is for guys... Let's say that you are asked out by an attractive woman whom formally worked under you. You are both single to your knowledge. She sends you a casual email asking you out to a drink. How would you feel, would you think her intentions are p... (108 words)

Can't orgasm - tried everything even a vibrator.

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25 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - So I wrote on here once before asking for help with an orgasm. My boyfriend and I have been having sex for a while now and I still haven't orgasmed. He's done oral, fingering, inter-course. But nothing seems to work. We've gone for as long as an hour. I've tried the advise that ... (249 words)

Issues with my platonic girl friend!

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - A very good friend of mine, someone i consider to be my best friend is getting a divorce. My friend and I now live across the country from each other and our communication is mostly on the phone and maybe 2x yearly visit. There is a quite complicated story, but we've been ... (166 words)

Was I just a rebound? Did he really love me?

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so my ex and I were together for almost 2 years. We had our ups and downs but I can truly say he was my first love. Being my first what I considered "real" relationship, the first year I think my expectations were high and when we had the smallest problem arise i started to ... (546 words)

Why not me? Whats wrong with me? Am I really that unattractive?

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Its either my face, my weight, or my color... I am 23 and I turn 24 this year and I have never had a boyfriend. I tried to join dating sites and I get rejected by every guy that I try to contact. They dont even try to tell me that they arent interested. They either block me ... (289 words)

Am I just imagining this or could he actually be liking me too? I always thought he was straight until recently!

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25 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a gay guy who is 38. I have 3 male friends whom I have known for years...all of whom are supposedly straight. All in the group have known I am gay for years and are ok with me. One guy intrigues me...he is 3 years younger than me. He said recently he has never dated a girl ... (235 words)

When you're with a man you're in lust with, how would you describe the real you?

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25 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Girls.... When you're with a man you're in lust with, how would you describe the real you, i.e. your real personality, as opposed to the one you show in public?... (30 words)

Anyone have information on std tests from planned parenthood?

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - does it cost money to get tested for stds at plan parenthood? also, what do these tests consist of and how long does it take to get results? if I get tested for multiple stds do they cost extra?... (41 words)

I love him but does he love me?

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with a guy I've known for 3-4 years online, we get on so well but we live in 2 different countries, he is in the US Army and is being deployed to afganistan soon, I'm very worried! What I want to know is should I tell him my feelings? There's a high chance we can ... (210 words)

Boyfriend bailed on me and is now on dating site...

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating this guy for almost two months. (we are both in our late 30s) A couple of weeks ago he began acting a bit distant when we were apart which made me concerned so I ended up doing some poking around and found out that he did something illegal five ago which in ... (595 words)

What should I get my boyfriend for valentines day? I want it to be special.

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm 15 years old, 9th grade and this will be the first valentines day with my boyfriend. we're really serious and he means the world to me, but i'm not sure what to get him or do for him for valentines day. we haven't had sex, but we've done everything except sex. he's the ... (77 words)

We had sex the other day...now I seem to be regretting and doubting a lot of things

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for only 2 weeks and he's been saying he loves me since before we even started dating. He's always been a really good friend of mine and well we had sex the other day...now I seem to be regretting and doubting a lot of things...I don't know how to tell ... (60 words)

Does this happen to anyone else? If so, how do you deal with it?

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25 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok. I am in need of some good advice. From both men and women, if possible... My current situation: I am engaged. Living with my fiance. She's the woman I love and adore. I know I will always feel this way for her. It's more of my problem than hers really. It's a bit embar... (553 words)

.....i know what I should do- but why cant I do it?

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I really don't know where to start...i met a guy a year back- he has just broken up with his girlfriend at the time..he made me feel good (i am a very pretty girl- he is also good looking- but we connected at a different level), the first guy who i really opened up to sexually. ... (338 words)

I like someone else, but am jealous that my bf does too.

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for a couple months and its been progressing slowly. He is my first boyfriend but im having a feeling that i want it to go by faster, he hasn't kissed me yet and i want him to. but lately there's this other guy i like and i know ... (199 words)

I'm too shy to approach him. What should I do/

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a senior i like so much. I use to say hey to him at the begining at the year but i stoped after like 2 weeks cuz he didnt say anything back. Well for the last couple of weeks everytime i walk past him i see him looking at me. I never talk to him at all now. I really ... (84 words)

My boyfriend liking big breasts makes me insecure.

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 20 yrs old, and have been with my boyfriend for only 2 months... hes a lovely boy, but ive noticed he only really seems to find big breasted women attractive.. he mentions other womens breasts a lot, and it annoys me because im quite small up there(id guess a 32B, ... (133 words)

Lapse of judgement or liar

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with a man for about a year. He recently moved in to my house. He tends to be a bit odd he has been cheated on and so- he tends to peek thru my phone and I don't mind because I have done nothing wrong. I had anouther woman at worked I liked and she ... (298 words)

Should I worry that I'm gonna get dropped soon?

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25 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, my gf's ex bf emailed me today, something thats kinda irratated me, i dont approve of my gf's actions regarding her ex on this one, well not alot of her actions with him i really like... i havent talked to her about it because shes accused me of not trusting her, be... (301 words)

When we make love, he does all the work.

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i have this boy problem an its about makin love.... ive done it but hes always the worker i don't do anything how do i move or......... (28 words)

I told him I loved him and now I feel foolish

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - He and I have been dating for 4 months, but known each other for 5 years. We actually dated for a year, but remained friends all this time. On wednesday while we were out to dinner, I told him that I love him. He didnt say it back, but he said that those words made him ... (137 words)

He made me turn to someone else because I wasnt getting anything from him

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for 6 years now and had two kids. I am 22 years old and reall yhavent expierenced life yet. I love my boyfriend of 6 years but hate how he treats me. When we get into arguements he tells me how much he cant stand me and he rather be with someone ... (330 words)

I'm really falling for him but I'm terrified he'll get over me.

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I (both 22) have been dating about 5 months. Things are going pretty well, he said he loved me three wks ago, but we don't talk as much as I would like. We can only really see each other twice a week (because of hour distance btwn our houses, work etc) and prob ... (183 words)

He meant the world to me. He kissed, ignored, then left. Why?

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So this guy and i have been friends for about one and half years now. Our friendship was amazing for the first year but for the past six months it's been confusing and hurtful but we always fix the problems. However, when we were friends i would always be the one to fix the ... (900 words)

Hubby wants sex all the time!

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I wanted to ask a question, my husband and I have been together for 15 years. I love him and he loves me but we've had some problems in our realtionship lately. Nothing that we can't work out together, but since the problems started, he seems to want sex all the time. I ... (92 words)

Is it true that love can grow?

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25 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Met this girl at school in October. She came off a bad break up with her "first love" in July and took it really hard as lots of promises were given and what not. He broke up with her. They fought alot, etc. All in all he was insecure so I think thats why he broke it off. Ever ... (889 words)

How can I tell my roommate to leave me alone without making her mad?

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a freshman in college this year, and I'm on my second roommate. The first was a bipolar schizophrenic who decided not to inform me or the school about it until after she screamed at me and kicked me out of the room for commenting on the room smelling like popcorn. ... (574 words)

I feel like I have too many issues for my fiance to deal with.

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had a lot of shit go on in my life and I feel like I'm too much for my fiance. We're cousins, don't have a go, I'm over it and so is he. He's been in love with me since like forever and I fell in love with him too, so he's been there through most of the crap I have bi... (295 words)

Any tips on making friends?

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my problem is I can't make friends. I mean I hang out with a group of people at school but we don't talk outside of school or anything and so it feels like I have no friends. I am in clubs and stuff but I can't seem to make friends. I've lived in the same place for 8 years ... (75 words)

I've got itchy balls.

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25 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - what does it mean if my balls itch but theres no spots there is it herpes?... (16 words)

Will my sexual attraction to my friend pass?

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - HI ,, guys i had a post about me being in love with my best friend , since the post i have told him how i feel and i was rather shocked by his answer , and since then we had been getting even closer , thing is now , i am extremely sexually attracted to him , every time we talk ... (116 words)

I disclosed details about our sex life and now she dos not trust me.

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25 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend I were dating for 6 months. I lied to my girlfriend. I lost her trust. How can I get her to trust me again. We are broking up for about an month now. I want her to trust me again. She has stuff in her past that she doesn't want people to know about. I also told my ... (84 words)

I'm ready to end my affair with a married man!

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been involved in an affair with a married man that I work with for almost five years. I realized long ago that the relationship was not working for me. This man never made promises to leave his wife, but always said the right things to convince me to remain involved. I ... (210 words)

Breaking up after 7 years, but none of his reasons are true..

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25 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help, my life has just gone down the drain. my boyfriend and I have been together almost 7 years,living together for 6 and half., I am 24 his 29. we had a huge fight over the weekend, he has now started clearing out his stuff, I asked why, he said to make it ea... (639 words)

Do or I or don't I have sex with my 31y/o virgin girlfriend?

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25 January 2010 (M) - Hi all, I never thought I would come a cross this at this stage of my life and age, I meet this girl that I have been dating for about 2-3 months now, she is 31 and I am 40, she is great we like each other and I am not a starter in dating and sex, however we had a chance to ... (450 words)