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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Guys: any help for a damsel in distress?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all. Damsel in distress moment here - would love your guys advice/opinions! My boyfriend of 20 months yesterday suddenly decided he didn't want to be with me any more. The reasons he stated were because I'm too insecure and demanding of him. Insecure yes I am... (271 words)

Why haven't my balls dropped?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I'm 13 a month ago nearly and my balls still havnt dropped! My balls are really hairy, (black/brown) no arm pit hair , but I can see a mustace coming:/ any one have an idea when they'll drop? ... (41 words)

How can I give my boyfriend space without going crazy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and two months. Before we decided to be in a relationship with each other, we were friends for three years. He had always liked me and was always trying to be my boyfriend. We fell in love and when I decided we should be ... (507 words)

My boyfriend smokes but I can't date a smoker! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need opinions on this situation! I am so confused! I have been with my boyfriend now for 5 months. He is a sweet guy who calls me everyday, tells me he loves me and trys to see me as often as possible. However, he goes to the bar almost every weekend; either with or wi... (158 words)

Do I even respond to his over the top texts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Went out with a guy a few times 5 months ago but remained friends. So we text every few days. Casual conversation. I made a point that we are just friends I am seeing someone else. He seemed fine with that. But now I am getting texts from him saying things like god put me in ... (99 words)

Is my ex just being over the top or is he really serious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im just looking for some true advice on this one, My ex boyfriend and i have been broken since near the end of oct. we had class together so we saw eachother AND sat next to eachother every other day. He didnt usually say high to me and he never said bye just left without a ... (1362 words)

How can I be less clingy and trust him more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5206 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there my bf and i have been doing great my last problem was when i cheated on him by giving my ex a hicky when i was drinking at a party and i didnt know if i should tell him but i did and he gave me a second chance...so everything has been going great and i love him and ... (202 words)

How do I choose between two guys with as little hurt as possible?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a bit of a pickle. One that I never ever imagined myself being in. Over the summer I met a friend of my roommate. (We'll call him "A") When I met him, I had just started seeing someone else, but I continued hanging out with A. There was a strong physical attract... (819 words)

I feel trapped with my boyfriend and I like his mate...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya. I've been seeing my boyfriend for nearly two years now. We've broke up twice. I love my boyfriend dont get me wrong but I cant stop thinking about his friend ( our friend ) Sometimes I cant wait to see him.He's different from my boyfriend and we have a canny bit in com... (119 words)

Will he ever grow up and act like a man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend of 9 years. He’s attractive, kind, caring and loving, he looks after me and takes me out and has been a truly solid best friend, sounds great! I thought it would be a good idea to move in together and see how we got on. We both work - but I ended ... (343 words)

My boyfriend has a drinking problem and I'm concerned!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

- I am REALLY worried about my bf and his drinking. There are a number of reasons why I am worried. Firstly, he has driven while drunk before, and his family do this too, therefore, its pretty acceptable in their family. They also operate heavy machinery etc while under ... (644 words)

I'm not educated about sex. Can someone clue me in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im not very sexually educated but odnt wanna ask paretns or friends.... i have a few questions what does ejaculate mean how do you masterbate what does a blow job feel like for a girl how to give a guy a blow job what are some good ways to turn someone one in bed and i... (72 words)

I can't check for the strings because I'm repulsed by my own insides!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Right this is really embarresing for me. But I had the implant about two months ago so I am almost fully protected for pregnany and stuff. But I have been told to check for the strings, and I just can't put my fingers up there, the feeling of my own insides make me feel sic... (84 words)

What to do during a break?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

10 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi me and my girlfriend have been in a relationship for 4 months and one day she said she wanted a break its been 2 weeks now and im just wondering what will i do i love her soo much and i did everything for her (well i think i did) like i got sold out tickets to paramore for ... (139 words)

I'm tired of his hurtful remarks and lack of remorse!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a boyfriend of two years who seems not to trust me.He claims it's because of my past with him,which was when we were dating. When he is upset he makes hurtful remarks and does not apologise after we've reconciled. I do everything there is to show him that i love ... (80 words)

Stepmother treats me and my dad very badly!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am an Indian girl of 24. In India, kids stay with their parents all their lives. Ofcourse the girl child stays with her parents only until she gets married and then stays with the husband and inlaws. Now my problem is that my mother passed away 12 years back and my dad ... (454 words)

I felt trapped and too young, but now I can't stop crying!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I just broke up with my first boyfriend of 2 years as at 20, i felt trapped and too young to be in such a serious relationship and felt like i was stringing him along when i had thoughts of other guys. Now that i dont have him i cant stop crying over him and all i want is ... (78 words)

"I love you, but relationships are complicated." What does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When I admitted my feelings to my friend his response was, "I love you.. *pause*.. but relationships are complicated." Is there hope in a relationship?... (28 words)

We like each other a lot but he has a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - The guy I like likes me. That is a fact. We like each other a lot. One little problem. He has a girlfriend. They have problems that at this point are rather unfixable. It seems they'll stay together until the end of the school year. So even though he likes me I'm not with him. ... (157 words)

Why did he invite his ex to the funeral?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

10 January 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I have just found out that prior to marrying me, my husband who i had been dating for about four monthes asked his ex girlfriend (the mother of his only child who is ten years old) to go to his mums funeral. He emailed her solely and told her first his mum had passed away and ... (106 words)

I want to give my boyfriend an amazing blowjob!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to give my boyfriend an amazing blow job, what should I do? I want it to be an amazing blow job. Explain please. Step-by-step would be nice too.... (34 words)

Pregnant and fighting with my boyfriend over his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 20 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. We are having a baby any day now. My problem is that we have been fighting so much lately. The fighting has mostly been about small things, but there have been some bigger fights too. For example his ex ... (315 words)

Will he always love the girl he lost his virginity to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I’ve been with my current boyfriend for a year and I can’t get the fact that he has had sexual relations with other girls out of my head. It pops in when we are having sex, talking, pretty much whenever. The thing is, I have had twice as many sexual partners as he has. ... (607 words)

Is my fiance fooling around with his baby mama?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey I'm recently dating a guy that is 2 years older than me but while he was in high school with me he had a huge crush on me. we are planning to get married and everything. But a couple of months ago i found out that he has a baby by my extended cousin. I really don't know how ... (244 words)

Was my mom right to give my cat away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey i`ve been really upset as today my mum told me that she had to give my cat poppy away i really loved this cat but my mum has a massive fear of birds and poppy brought them in every few days i walked in my room and i saw poppys cat hairs on my bed and i burst into tears... (99 words)

Is what my boyfriend doing considered cheating?

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10 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, My boyfriend and i were in a vacation last month. We went to a club, he got really drunk and when we got back to our hotel, he admitted that he kissed a woman. He said that the woman kissed him first and that she was really drunk as well at the same time. I... (328 words)

Am I wasting precious years in this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age - I need some advice. I've been dating the same guy for 4.5 years. I love being with him and vs versa, but he has young children, and being that I've raised three children, I'm not interested in speding the rest of my good years raising more children. Crazy thing is, that I ... (544 words)

Who makes the first move after a date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, to make along story short i had a date with i guy a few days ago. We used to work together years ago but i havent seen him since until then. I'm not all that good with dating etiquette so i dont know if i should be the first to talk to him after or if i should wait for ... (81 words)

I'm a very jealous person and sometimes I don't believe her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a serious problem my gf has guy friends and nd she has many other friends. But the thing is I'm a very jealous person and she knows and the thing is I love her and she says she loves mr but sumtimes I don't believe her. And she can tell anyone else wats goin on but ... (94 words)

I'm thinking of going further with him but have no idea how to tell him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I am a little confused at the moment. I'm 14, nearly 15 in a couple of months, and I've been with my boyfriend who has just turned 15 for about 1 month and a half now, and we get on really well. We've never argued and he's always telling me he loves me and I love him back. ... (192 words)

His erection went soft. Did I do something wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night i attempted to have sex with a guy i really like, he was hard at first and then he was only semi-hard, so we couldnt do anything. Then to top it off my friend almost walked in on us and he said "Well that just ruined it all together" and we both got dressed again. He ... (118 words)

My girlfriend constantly thinks I'm cheating. What can I do to change her way of thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend keeps thinking I'm going to cheat on her. Nothing I say or do works. We have been dating for 11 months. I really like her and she won't except that she has trust issues. If someone could help I would greatly appreiciate it. Thanks ... (46 words)

I gave my boyfriend naked photographs and I'm regretting it! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I gave my boyfriend naked pics and a video of us. He keeps it in his laptop. I did as a private thing between he and I but lately every now and then he says thing like "they(the pictures)belong to me, and I can do what I want with them" I told him I would hate him forever if he ... (148 words)

My ex won't talk to me because I talk on Bebo to other girls!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Need Help ... Im in love with my ex we are still really good friends she still tells me she loves me. I still say it back but she read some of my comments on bebo and thinks i am flirting with other girls, i am not really. i just call them hun and stuff and now she will not ... (64 words)

How can I 'turn on' without my bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not really into masturbating..every time i try i cant seem to get myself off, it just doesn't seem to work for me...ever since I've had a boyfriend i cant do anything without him! we have a long distance relationship at the moment so its even harder, we have phone sex every ... (179 words)

I have a bit more skin than I think I should down there...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry if this is a bit of a weird question but im slightly worried. Is a little bit of excess skin "down below" normal? I know porn stars etc have surgery down there so it looks perfect. but on me, (excuse the going into detail) inbewtween the flaps there a little more random ... (94 words)

Do tattoos hurt?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so i just have a little question, could anyone tell me if getting a tattoo or piercing is sorer? i had amy tragus pierced back in june and it was sore, not to forget i have a terrible fear of needles but really want a small tattoo thanks... (49 words)

Afraid she'll leave me if I ask her, to stay off the internet. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (M)

age - my wife and i have been drifting apart for about 2 years.she is always on the internet and is very brief when i ask her what she is dolng.she always has her cell locked and never leaves it alone.i have noticed several friends on her facebook site that i dont know. all men. i ... (210 words)

What are vaginas supposed to smell like at 14?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey guys. im 14 years old and ive had a sertain problem for a while now. but ive never had the corrage to tell any one about it.. but thats not what i need to know. im not sure if its normall but ive had a very strong fishy sent coming from my vagina, what do i do? i ... (149 words)

Erection problems.... is it nerves? Or because my dad is gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am having trouble maintaining an erection with my new girlfriend. I did not have this problem with my ex, however, I am much more attracted on every level to my new one. When it goes well in bed, more often then not, it is amazing, especially midnight wake up sex. Abou... (237 words)

How can I quit being a control freak?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

10 January 2010 (M)

age - i have been married for 16 years.my wife is sick of me being a control freak. i have hurt her and she wants me to change. she says we need to be friends before anything else. she wont be intimate with me.i am very fortunate that she hasnt left me.i really love her and my ... (71 words)

He's having an emotional affair with me but refuses to end it with her boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl that is just great. she likes me alot. i like her alot. we have a true connection. there is one problem, she has a boyfriend who she has been with for over four years. they live together along with her sister. she stays up all night texting me. we spend time ... (103 words)

He's stuck up and arrogant but I want to be the girl who changes him!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've dated a guy like 2 summers ago.I feel like we broke up for a stupid reason and we never got to finish our relationship.we still keep in contact and I help him time to time.When we was together,that was my baby.I felt so in LOVE .He is a very stuck up and arrogant person ... (120 words)

How do I stop my self hatred and eat healthily?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i hate my body and feel fat and ugly. I know im overweight and its affecting my relationship in the bedroom because i dont feel confident or sexy yet i cant stay motivated to keep on diets and exercise. I'll go maybe two weeks of eating really healthily and working out at the ... (74 words)

Will I Ever Feel More Pleasure During Sexual Intercourse?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok,My Boyfriend Has A LARGE((EXTRA LARGE)) Penis...Everytime we make love,it hurts...My Vagina area dosent hurt its tha feelin in my stomach that sometimes take the pleasure away..When he goes at a fast speed,I enjoy it but when he goes slower and goes deeper,there'z pain..Will ... (59 words)

Is it safe to have 2 men sucking one nipple?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, my question is .....is it dangerous tat 2 or 3 men sucking the nipple of one woman.does it cause any infection due to saliva...is it ok...... (28 words)

How can I get over the fact I love my friend's girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi everyone. im living a situation at the moment in which my best friend is going out with a girl ive been obsessed with since 2 and a half years ago. no matter how hard i try, i never seem to get over her since she is oen of my closest friends. she seems like she never wanted ... (124 words)

Pregnant by my ex and he is being ignorant and distant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

- Im 26 and 5 months pregnant by my ex. Not the most ideal situation to be in but fortunately we are still friends and he promised to support me. Well, until now. Im about to move out of my 1 bed flat (not allowed chidren) into a 2 bed little house. All the money from my wa... (319 words)

He has been unfaithful and violent but I still love him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Just to fill you out on the background first: Me and my boyfriend started courting at the slightly young age of thirteen, and now we're fifteen, so we've basically been going out for two years. The first three months of our relationship were normal - happy as can be. Then a... (227 words)

I like Chris but I slept with his brother who now says he loves me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - OK well I started the basic training for my job (Navy) about a year ago, this lasts 3 months and we are told from the start that it is the most intense 3 months you will ever have to work. What happens is you are given a date that you will be recruited and approx 100 people ... (486 words)

I don't know if this is normal

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity to my boyfriend on December the 30th, I didn't bleed and the pain compared to stubbing a toe. Then on NYE we had sex again, and I didn't bleed. So I assumed I wouldn't bleed at all because this time was quite rough so if I was going to it should have been ... (112 words)

How can I work on my issues so I don't withdraw from my relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help with a problem that I have that I seem to keep repeating in my relationships. When I get preoccupied with problems in relationships or outside of my relationships, I tend to get extremely withdrawn. I don't why I do this but it seems to have an devastating impact ... (623 words)

I was a jerk, we broke up, now she has a new b/f and I want her back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - My (ex) girlfriend broke up with me 9 weeks ago. At the time she broke up with me, I didn't realise what i had done to her, but now i can see that i was killing her mentally. I was being a complete jerk to her and being really unfair for about the last 5 weeks of our ... (138 words)

My relationship has hit a two year glitch

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts I am finally in a commited relationship after some help from this website a few years ago. Thank you. But relationships seems to become more complicated as I progress further into them. Everything seemed 'lovely dovely' for the first year or so,... (168 words)

Now that I'm happy I'm making excuses not to be!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5221 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i've been dating this guy for about three weeks now, everything has been going really great. We've both had our history of unhealthy relationships. (like really bad) So, I think we were thankful to find eachother, because we were tired of the pain and struggles in our... (251 words)

3rd time is the charm? Where do you go to find a 3rd spouse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (M)

age - Be it male or female who has been divorced twice and has kids. Where and how does a person find a third spouse. What are the major drawbacks and what odds does the third marriage have at success?... (39 words)

Why do men lie on social networks?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (?) age - Why do guys lie on "social network" sites? He lies about how much money he makes,how successful his little business is, his personality, his past, you name it. He has also asked women from other countries to come here (USA) after exchanging just a few emails. Surprisingly, ... (62 words)

How to break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been going out with this guy [C] for 2 months, though I have went out with him before. We aren't sexually active, but we have felt eachother. He says he loves me and he wants to marry me, and I promised I wouldn't leave him. Lately I've been paranoid and I know its because ... (165 words)

I'm growing suspicious of his actions

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have known tthis guy for nearly a year we were like best friends and we have recently started dating. we literally speak on the fone for more then 6 hours a day. before we got together we were very close however recently i have started getting very suspicious of him. i asked ... (181 words)

Its like pulling teeth getting her to talk to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5221 days ago

10 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi my name is Allan. i have a problem and i want to find some help... well me and my gf have been together for almost 3 years now. we have a son together. but my problem is everyday its like pulling teeth to get her to talk to me. she tells me shes busy so she cant talk. i ... (131 words)

Second chance? Or keep trying to move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5221 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up about a year ago, our relationship was just really up and down and I didn't know where it was going anymore. I still love him though in spite of it all, and I haven't moved on. At first I thought time would heal it, but it hasn't. He hasn't moved on ... (116 words)

Sleeping together without the sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A question more for curiosity than experience: My boyfriend and I have been on and off for around a year and a half. I'd say, of those eighteen months, we've together cumulatively seven or eight months. I love him, despite our broken relationship. Anyway, I don't want to have ... (191 words)

I can't talk to her and feel like we're going nowhere

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

10 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - hey i am 14 and in a relationship and well, wen ever i get near her i cant say anything and i cant start a conversation and i hate it! i feel like were going no where and that soon were gunna break up cuz i cant talk to her, so is there any tips on trying to start a conversa... (65 words)

Daughter and boyfriend sponging off of us and we can't afford it!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Our daughter has recently turned 18 and left school about 18 months ago,since she left school she hasn't worked or done any schooling.She refuses to get a job and comes up with every excuse in the book why she cant get a job or even look for one. Then about 6 weeks ago her b/fr... (257 words)

How do I let it (them) go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i need advise about letting people go. there are sertin people in my life right now and all they do is bring me pain. yet i spend hours thinking, worrying, about them. always interested in what there doing, just really caring for them. the messed up part is they dont care for ... (286 words)

I want to get a guy and have my first kiss!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I feel like i will never get a first kiss. I want to find out how to get a guy. i mean i just want like a person who i will always feel safe with. im 14 and still havent hooked up with anyone which is pretty pathetic. please don't tell me im too young because those are your ... (88 words)

My heart is keeping quiet and my head won't shut up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Story: i really like this girl and she knows it because i have told her, shes not really the popular type she is more the date every cute boy i can and i was thinking about asking her to be my girlfriend and deal with the embarresment from all the popular kids. but i just found ... (153 words)

Do I really have feelings for her?

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10 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - its a long distance...i have been with this girl for over 2 years now....we are kind of soulmates and are life lines for each other...if one of us moves away, the other becomes a dead body alive....literally speaking........now i am in a fix whether i really have feelings for ... (352 words)

Is it bad to always want to be around your friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5221 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm starting to form really close bonds with my friends. This is great cause as a little kid i was a bit socially awkward. The only problem is now I always want to be around them. Well, only one in particular, which is normal i guess considering i like her more than everyone ... (95 words)

Can you talk yourself out of depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So... usually i don't ask questions like this but, is it possible to talk yourself out of depression? if you are feeling depressed, can you talk yourself out of it and cheer yourself up? i am only asking this because i have a a pretty lengthy history of bipolar depressi... (104 words)

Why did he just now tell me he has a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: Please put the link to your other question in so that we can catch up. Doesn't make sense without it. ************** if you have been following my questions, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ex-p... (530 words)

Crush! What should I do about it?

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10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had a huge crush on this guy since last year. It's the biggest crush I've ever had on someone that wasn't a celebrity or something like that. We were in a class last year and he would do a lot of things that led me to believe that he liked me. He would always do things to ... (475 words)

Why do I feel so lost?

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10 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay let me explain..this boy and me have done everything together he has met my parents they approve and i have met his parents and they absolutly love me.. we know everything about each other we were friends wayy before we even dated..now when we talk about having sex i want ... (83 words)

He's growing more and more violent but I'm afraid to leave because it will hurt him

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10 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - im 16 and my bf is 21. we`ve been dating for 3 months. every time we have sex he likes to do it rough and cause me pain. he says its "kinky". he will choke me and bite me and pull my hard and smack me and bite my lips so hard that theyll bleed. lately he has become obsessed ... (148 words)

How do you deal with a rude spoiled child?

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10 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 25 and I've been dating this girl who is 22 for about 2 months now and everything has been fine. However, recently she brought her five year old daughter to live with her which changes the dynamic of our relationship considerably. I stayed at her place last night and w... (308 words)

Can he really be happy with her?

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10 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my friend tony and i have been friends for over 15 years. we have been sexually active once. he was married during that time, and i didn't know. i even asked him and he said no, he wasn't married, even though he was. we were both in the military and stationed at different ... (260 words)

Why can't I get over a guy that I barely had a relationship with?

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10 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for 2 years with a wonderful guy. When I first met him, I had been hanging out with another guy for about 4 months. I was very attracted to this other guy, but I didn't feel comfortable hanging out with 2 guys at once. The older guy had more of a... (206 words)

VALENTINES DAY HELP!!!!!

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10 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help I am going to see my special friend for V-Day and I don't know what to do. I thought about doing an indoor picnic by the fire place. But I don't know how to get him out the house so that I can set up. My question is How do I set up for my romantic picnic in HIS ... (82 words)

Why does he keep coming back to me after all these years?

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10 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had an on again off again relationship with another man for 8 years. I am married to a good guy. And he is also married. I think it started with both of us feeling neglected-but I am not making any excuses. Yes, it was wrong and we both have issues with guilt. It's not ... (293 words)

He just wasnt ready....

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10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - HI! i wonder if u guyz can help me out with this situation, im sorry if this is long.... um, about a month ago i was dating a wondeful man let call "K", i met him through a friend and we fell for each other right away, we went out on our first date and the next day he wanted ... (278 words)

Hes giving signals that he likes me but he is shy...any tips?

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10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, please someone tell me what to do , I like this guy so much he is in my class but he doesn't talk much he is so shy BUT he is giving me signs that he likes me back, I just can't go and talk to him, because, well, I m shy too; and this is crazy!I'm just waiting for him to ... (112 words)

Advice from moms or teen mom?

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10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - right, im a sixteen year old girl and i just want some help off some moms or teens moms that have had children please or just any 1 that knows really well basically you know the £500 sure start maternity grant that you get when you are pregnant right? will i be able to recieve ... (82 words)

What are the realistic chances that I am pregnant?

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10 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - i had unprotected sex 7 days ago which was 11 or 12 days after my last period had stopped. i also had unprtected sex 3 days before that. he pulled out both times but he had visible cum on his fingers the last time and he fingered me with it. yesterday, i slept alllll day ... (142 words)

Is it acceptable that my husband is texting a single female colleague?

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10 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it acceptable that my husband is texting a single woman from his school during a month long break 5 times and even texting her at 3 in the morning when he is drunk? And how do I confront him about it? Or should I say nothing?... (47 words)

When I have an erection it's a bit painful!

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10 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - i have an uncircumsized penis and i can pul it down over the head of my penis wen i dont hav an erection easily , but wen i hav an erection it tends to be a bit painful ... help please?... (41 words)

I didn't tell him the real reason I broke up with him!

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10 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend a couple of days ago and he doesn't understand why. I told him that I could tell that over time, our personalities wouldn't work well together and we would make each other unhappy. That's true but not a very satisfying explanation for him when he ... (242 words)

What do I say to my parents? He wants to marry me!

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10 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so heres my question im 18 iv been goin out with my boyfriend for 18 months, i love him i really do, he wants to get married hes 19, i do want to marry him but at the same time i dont i really dont know what to say to my parents even if i did say yes, any advice would be ... (65 words)

Casual romance?

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10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - For a while now I have really been into this guy. We had a little bit of new years eve romance and have been non-stop texting and chatting since. He came round tonight and there was a fair bit of passion, lets say. He has just told me he doesn't really want to be in a ... (97 words)

Is my fiancee cheating on me?

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10 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Is my fiancee cheating on me? She is very happy to go to work every day. She is making lots of new friends and decided that she and I need to go out separately with our own friends. She went out of town a few weeks ago for the night with a "female" friend that she gets a ride ... (170 words)

I no longer want to be friends with her any more as she told one of my deepest secrets.

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10 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have (had) a best friend and she knew one of my most deepest darkest secrets and she told it to another person. I now have to tell so many lies to others to make sure they dont believe what is the truth. what do i do?? i no longer wanna be friends with my friend anymore ... (105 words)

Possibly dying...what would you do?

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10 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 49 yr old woman who reconnected with 2 men on Facebook. They are best friends. Have not seen both since High school. Both were interested back then I am still "attractive" and athletic. Sam is the guy of interest. John is his best friend. S and J live on the east coast ... (417 words)

Should I be worried that he's hiding something or am I just too jealous?

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10 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I'm getting too jealous in my relationship with my boyfriend. This morning I went on his myspace, and saw he was talking to this girl. It seemed that he was really enjoying the talk. Well, I went to ask him about it and all he said was that he was using her and I ... (118 words)

Is he trying to bluff me off?

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10 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend thats not bff but you know we hang out clubbing and social things. we have a strong phisical attraction... we flirt but honestly he is a player, a kind of guy who has any girl he wants or buys LOL he is rich so is a spoild daddys son! so i never take him ... (957 words)

My boyfriend adds "hot" chicks on facebook!

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10 January 2010 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend adds "hot" chicks on facebook, and it upsets me. he doesn't know any of them, he adds them just because. They all have big boobs, and I am really small. I know for a fact he likes big breasts better, I asked him and he told me. I can't complain to him about it, ... (467 words)