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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've known my x boyfriend since we were in the 1st grade and from church but up until april of last year did i find out that he had feelings for me that he claims he's had since we were younger. I didn't take it into consideration, but he was attractive and i really wanted my first kiss so we went ahead and began to makeout. At first it was just for the fun of it then i began to gain real feelings for him and went ahead and agreed to go out with him. Thinking that feelings were mutual i fell hard for this dude but i started to realize that the majority of our conversations throughout that relationship were sexually related and i'm not one who's up for that kind of stuff. After 4 months he breaks it off and i later find out that he lied about his reason for breaking up with me, only wanted to go out with me for my physical traits, and his ego couldn't handle having anything less than a "cute girl". When telling me all this he admitted that he regreting how everything turned out and wanted to get back with me cause he misses "the girl he can really talk to". I tell him i still have feelings for him but nothing more and this has been going on for the past 3 months until recently when we had our first date. He told his parents and was counting the hours down until our movie, then once at the movies him and i really didnt watch that much of the movie if you catch my drift(let it be known that i havn't kissed a guy in a very long time)now we havn't talked and i cannot look him in the eye at church because this nasty gut feeling is in my stomache regreting what we did on our date. Does he really still have feelings for me or did i fall for it again? would it be worth it if i told him how i really felt or will i feel like a fool when i realize he dosn't care? i need to know if i really need to forget about him because he is always on my mind. Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 January 2010):
He just doesn't' care about you. He's using you and playing with you. Yes, you need to forget about him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010): Your stuck under his curse. Even though you know you should forget about this guy because he's been a jerk to you, you want to believe that he feels the same way you do about him. Move on. I bet he doesn't deserve you.
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