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writes:I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now. Recently she has started to flirt a lot with other guys, and I don't know what to do. She said they were just good friends of her, but don't all girls say that? She even went to the movies with another guy during our relationship. Am I worrying too much or is it a sign of an unstable relationship?Thanks for helping :)Greetings from Tennessee
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (30 January 2010):
 I don't even think the flirting is ok, let alone going to a movie with a guy! Wow. Flirting is all good and fine, until you say it bothers you. Then continuing to do it, obviously she does not care about your feelings. Some people are just flirtatious by nature but the partner needs to be able to handle that. I never could, you may be like me or you may not. Just decide what you can handle I guess. Sounds to me like she is going to do what she wants when she wants despite your feelings about the situation. If that is ok then by all means stick it out. You don't trust her though so my advice would be to leave. There is no relationship without trust.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 January 2010):
Well, flirting is one thing, but she seems to be taking it just a little too far. Girls are allowed male friends, but to go to a movie with one other guy whilst having a boyfriend is a bit much I think. I would speak to her again, and see whether she really wants to continue or not.
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reader, redsox29 +, writes (29 January 2010):
Oooh, if she went to a movie with another fella, I'd probably be a little leary of her too. Do you know the guy at all? I'd want to know a lot more about that.
If you are having real trust issues, you should be able to talk about it with her without accusing her of anything.
Give her a chance to explain but if what she says doesn't make you feel better, then you may need to let her go.
No woman no cry.
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