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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He hates love 'coz it hurts'. So he dumped me!

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24 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Right, Me and my ex boyfriend J broke up due to his violent abuse and cheating on me. But the night after I broke up with J, I snogged another boy called T at a house party, I partly think it could have just been because I was hurting, But after that me and T started dati... (282 words)

I can't get my penis in her vagina!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

24 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - how to properly insert your penis into a vagina? me and my girlfriend tried last night but it just wouldnt go in... she was wet and lubricated i just had no reference point of where to put it. Please help... (40 words)

Does she like me more than just friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

24 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Long story short. I asked a girl out after 2 weeks of speaking to her she said she wanted to be friends. This was about 10 months ago.But I feel she likes me more than a friend. I want to tell her how I feel but I hadn't spoken to her for weeks until last Friday when I asked ... (450 words)

I'm responsible for my demanding 60 year old alcoholic father.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my dad is an alcholic. he has just been relsed from hospital after seven months after he suffered multiple organ failure and very nearly didn;t pull thru. whilste this was happening his home was being reprossessd and all his money was gone (he had inverited £210,000 2 years ... (192 words)

How can I get my bf to spend more time with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - how do i get my boyfriend to spend more time with me...i kno he loves me...but its jus sumtimes i think different....i don't kno why though....cuz i love him the same....it jus it seems like he wants to hang with his friends more then me...how can i change that???.......... (49 words)

He treats me well but I am not attracted to him

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24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay.. I finally met this guy that treats me nice takes me out to eat and respects me well. However I'm not attracted to him at all. I love the fact that he treats me well but I want to be sure I can handle this before we get serious. I would never play with his feelings I've ... (209 words)

10 min and he still hadn't cum.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i had sex with a guy am dating and he was pretty big and he took soo long to c'um so i got soo tired am gave up..he wanted to go second round.. but i was soo weak that i was in the mood to go another round.. we got kissing he was tryna make me wet again so we could to ... (191 words)

Is it normal to get erect from hugging?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 17 and have had a girl friend for about 2 months but she wont hug me without me asking and she wont kiss me. shes always sayin im cute and that she loves me. she recenly told me that shes had 4 boy freind and shes masterbate them after just a few weeks. does this seem ... (94 words)

I can't orgasm..is something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are madly in love with eachother, and when he touches me it's the best feeling ever, but I have a problem. When he really turns me on and tries to get me to orgasm I can't do it. My whole body will shake and I just can't. Is there something wrong with me?? ... (59 words)

Should we be talking to each other about this, or is it just creepy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend and I talk about everything. We often talk about sex and our experiences. This seems like something normal for teenage girls to do- brag about how their time with their boyfriend was the night before. I just don't know how healthy this is in our situation, ... (125 words)

He dating another but says he loves me! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i fell in love with my best friend 3 months ago. but we cant be together, he started dating her 2 months ago and a week ago he says I love you to me. His girlfriend is not letting him talk to me. what should i do?... (48 words)

We seem to be on different planes of thought...should I just love him for-better-or-worse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

- When my b/f of 5 years first got with me we'd both been married before so we were in no hurry to go there. We moved in together and things have been pretty good. Maybe a year ago we started talking about the possibility of marriage but didn't make any specific plans. Lately ... (379 words)

Why don't people think about the new dating partner, before undertaking a 'rebound' relationship?

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24 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I now know that I was involved in a rebound relationship. It was about 4 months long started off as if it could really be a good investment. As time went on and now with thinking about my ex's behavior it was only a rebound relationship. He played his role very well whether ... (212 words)

Can low testosterone/depression make you think you no longer love your partner?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Following extensive cancer treatment (testicular) including chemo and surgery my H (age 39) has now been told he has low testosterone althouygh his last reading was 10 and his LH levels were up. 10 apparantly was considered normal even though he has no libido whatsoever. He has ... (510 words)

Au Pair in Italy or a manager of a B and B in London..which job do I choose?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm not sure which career to choose !. I have ahd a few offers today from families in Italy for me to go and work for them as an Au Pair, and i have also had an email from the manager of a Bed and breakfast in London asking me to phone as i applied for a job as a general ... (239 words)

Is he scared of having a relationship with me?

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24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so confused. I really like this guy and i'm pretty sure he's interested too. He IMs or texts me everyday and we always seems to catch eachother at the local coffee shop or he'll come by when he knows i'm there. I'm just frustrated because he said he wanted to have a real ... (93 words)

I'm 15 and want to know..why do I want to have a baby?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am fifteen(10th grade) and I want to be pregnant. Plz don't say I'm stupid cuz I'm not going to become pregnant I just want to know why I feel this way. My bf and I are very serious, like engaged serious, we are sexually active and everything and we had a pregnancy scare ... (79 words)

Trust issue has cropped up with my bf! Is this a warning sign?

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24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have trust issues and my boyfriend knows this . Once in a while I go through his messages, a lot of the time he's right next to me when I do this, either not knowing what I'm doing or just not caring. I know that I'm asking for trouble by looking through his messages, but ... (241 words)

Question about being the 'chick on the side"...who loses out the most here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do guys always have to have their cake and eat it too? And why am I suddenly the one who is getting used? I never used to be that girl, and here I am, the chick on the side. Is it better to be the chick on the side or the main girl? Either way, both girls are getting ... (71 words)

Mom didn't tell me she is having sex with this family friend..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just found out my mom has been dating and having sex with someone we go on vaction with every year, my mom and dad are not together but she did not tell me and she always invites him over to our house to hang out. What should i do?... (50 words)

Will the package be discreet?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Has anyone ever ordered from love honey? If so, i know the packaging is plain however are the items loose and can you tell what is in the package just from feeling it? Also if you order a magazine from there will it just come with your order, like in the same package?... (56 words)

Got this crush on my female teacher-I know it's wrong! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I'm 16 and female and I have a crush on one of my female teachers. Well, I haven't got her in any lessons at the moment, but she was my German teacher for two years. She seemed to like me and so it happened that we got to talk in lunchtime or after school once or t... (315 words)

It was different for me than the horror stories...Is that ok, or is there something wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just had sex for the first time last night with my boyfriend. It was great everything was perfect, I must admit I was really nervous and scared but once it happened I calmed down.from what I've heard I always believed that when you have sex for the first time its supposed to ... (144 words)

I was seeing a girl but ended it with anger, now I'm talking to her again, how can I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I still like the girl that i went out with last summer, but we got in a fight, and NOW its all good, i still like her very much but i don't know how i can approach her about going out again. I need urgent help. I was seeing this girl last summer, we went on a few dates and it... (284 words)

My friends say he's not for me....any advise, please?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this guy i don't know what to do he is a bit on the large size and all my friends say he is not my type, any advise would be great, please?... (35 words)

I'm not really sure what to do with my text buddy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - In july i started texin this lad, it was all going well we would speak 24/7 either texin or on the phone and we were at each others house every weekend, it was just like being in a relationship but then in November i decided to tell me he didn't want a relationship and ... (264 words)

When is a marriage just not worth trying for anymore?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) age - Do you think ,is it foolish to stay in a marriage ,which does not make you happy sexually and emotionally,or it is not ,because marriage is more important than some happy sex and feelings? I mean ive been in therapy to try to and save my marriage, and yet, it does not seem to ... (171 words)

I want a divorce, my wife is pregnant and I'm having an affair with our neighbour....help!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

24 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 32 yrs old and have been married for 4 yrs. A year ago we moved to a new town and my wife and I drifted apart. She befriended our neighbours and became close friends with the lady. We would often go to dinners there and I met their now 19 yr old daughter. One night after ... (430 words)

My husband left me for another woman, please help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband recently left me for another woman. We were married for 16 years and he met her at work. I just wondered if anyone else has had that happen to them? and how did it turn out? how long did it take the hurt to go? ... (51 words)

Why is he saying such mean things about me to my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 16 yr old girl, I just broke-up with my bf about 2 weeks ago and to be honest i don't miss him at all as i wasn't feeling in love with him. Recently a guy I know (who likes my friend a lot) started telling her really bad things about me, that i was ugly, really b... (123 words)

Friends, then nothing. Why is he being like this!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I really fancy this guy have done for a year and he knew so it was embarrassing and i couldn't talk to him anymore so we just ignored each other and then someone i know asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said do you not know about me and him and she said no and she asked ... (202 words)

She's four months pregnant and I'm not the father...should I break up with her before things get any farther, or just support her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a senior in high school, and recently started seeing this amazing girl, who's my age. She seems perfect for me-smart, funny, and really sweet. We get along great. The only problem is that's she's about four months pregnant. The father is her ex-boyfriend, who broke up with ... (144 words)

Was it too early to confide to him that I'm a virgin?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 21 year old female in college. I have been talking to this guy for the past month over our winter break through Facebook chat. On the first day back from break, he immediately texted me and asked to meet him at a bar...and we just madeout for the first time that night. The ... (239 words)

I really love him but I don't want to be anyone's fool.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex and I were together for 4 years, lived together and planned our wedding. He wasn't happy in the summer (now know was wedding pressure, mainly financial) so we split up but got back together a few days later with wedding off. About 2 weeks later he cheated on me (away from ... (697 words)

I'm in love with my friend but she's not in love with me...how does she want me to act around her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi I'm in love with my best friend and I think she knows about it. i know she doesn't feel the same way so I'm wondering if anybody is in the same situation as her and how they would like the person in love to act thanks... (47 words)

New thing, or one time fling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl for a drink, in a non date setting. we hadn't known each other before hand. I ended up going to her place and we kissed and cuddled. she was about to move out of the country, and we both knew it, but I really liked her so wanted to be close anyway. I left that ... (227 words)

Why did she go out with me in the first place if she still had feelings for her ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok my ex just dumped me today because she had not gotten over her ex. we went out for 4 days and i really loved her. when she dumped me i asked her if she would go back out with me but she replied maybe but also she said she does not know if she will ever get over her ex. i ... (140 words)

I don't want to hurt either one of them... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay prepare yourself, it's a long story... well, last summer I got my friend's older sister's boyfriend's messenger address, I got to know him really well and ended up going out with this guy myself, but this guy is 2 years older than me which makes a big difference in se... (274 words)

How do I read his signals?

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24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy and he -stares at me and smiles (my friends tell me when i don't see, so it not like i am just a stupid teen thinking he is) -when i am around him, he fixes his hair and bites his lip. -i don't talk to him. He is shy and so am i. -he likes another girl. ... (136 words)

I'm going on holiday in July and I'm so nervous about being on my period...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going on holiday in July and I'm so nervous about being on my period. What do you girls suggest? I know I can go on the contraceptive pill, but I've never been on it before and my friend told me she bled constantly for 2 months... I don't know what to do!... (60 words)

Is he worth waiting for?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner rejected my marrage proposal. We share a child. He says he's not ready to commit to me. He is still contacting his ex. I love him. Is he worth waiting for?... (38 words)

My boyfriend of 7 years broke up with me 8 months ago but we still live together. Please, please heip me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Il keep this short, my bf of 7 yrs broke up with me 8 months ago, I was heartbroken.. He said he didn't think it cud work he wasn't in love with me anymore and wanted to do his own thing.. He is 5 yrs younger than me and we always and still do get on... We bought a house ... (285 words)

Matresses

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24 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi everybody We need to change our mattress now, because it is sagging. Does anybody know which is the best matress for a good nights sex and sleep? We need good also good support for the back.... I have heard about the mattress type of foam.. Is this a good choice com... (64 words)

Is there a problem with the age difference?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey people. ah i'm really young like 13 turning 14 and i'm dating a 18 year old. is there a problem?... (21 words)

Terrified she might be prego!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i touched my penis and touched my girlfriend's clit with same fingers... i didnt ejaculate but a drop of precum might have reached her clit, it happened yesterday.... and her periods date are from 15th feb.... so if she gets her period on time, will she be safe and not be ... (88 words)

I think my husband is gay, what now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - been with a guy 3 yrs,married for 2,i am 45 and he is 27. most all his girlfriends have cheated on him and he moved from another state to the one i live in. before we got married i complained of not enough sex, a week before we got married at a bar a guy kissed him and all he ... (154 words)

Is it because of what I look like???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i need some help. i havent had a bf for about 3 years and i havent kissed any1 for 5 and i think its because of my weight. See last year i liked this boy and i never knew he liked me but he knew i liked him cuz he told my friend and he nv asked me out bt then my other friend ... (170 words)

How do I set boundaries with my married boss and work to keep them? We have already kissed...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I need help....I let something happen with my boss when one night we were out after a long day out of town we were sitting in the bar having drinks and one thing lead to another. I really thought something weird was going on but thought it was just in my mind. We left the bar ... (294 words)

LDR: where do we go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Just met with a woman for the second time in two months. She's from Russia, I live in Hungary. She has a 9 year old boy, she is 27 and I have a 6 year old girl, I am 40. I like her a lot. We have made love, slept in the same bed. We hold hands together. We have spoken abou... (202 words)

He doesn't want to commit but there "could be" a future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for around 4 months now, i really like him and everything and he says he likes me too but doesnt want to commit to anything, so at first i was a little gutted but then i was cool with that, so we kinda slowed things down because i didnt see the point ... (252 words)

Help on job interview question?

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24 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, need some advice ASAP! I have an interview next week for a promotion in my current job in an office. Now the problem i recently qualified as a beauty therapist but im not going to apply as the drop in pay isnt something i can afford now. My manager knows that i ... (125 words)

How can my ex's rebound last when he's already cheated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so my boyfriend got into a "rebound" 1 month later after we broke up maybe even before then. So two months into his new relationship we became friends and he just made out with me. So hes already cheated on this new girl only 2 months in, do you think this relationshi... (189 words)

I'm afraid I wont do it right..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - im 15 and im going out with this girl one year older than me we like each other a lot but im afraid, because weve been to the point of almost have sex twice, this would be my first time and im so happy that it would be with her coz i feel a lot for her and im afraid that i will ... (79 words)

Has anyone committed Facebook suicide?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

24 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So this might sound a bit stupid to some people but does anyone have any experience of committing facebook suicide? Facebook has ruled my life for the past 4 years and it has broken 2 relationships, or at least it was a contributer. it still causes me pain sometimes, i won... (144 words)

I can't figure him out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, I've known this boy for for almost two years now, and I've had a big crush on him for nearly as long. I definitely know he likes me as a friend, but he's always been dropping hints that he sees me as more than that (i.e - shameless flirting, tons of innuendos only whe... (146 words)

I'm in love with my best friend but he doesn't seem to care

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - It's been 4 years that im in love with my best friend. He always tells me that he loves me and he likes me. But i dont think that its true because anytime my brother tells him to ask me out he tells him that its none of his business and that he doesnt want to. I dont unde... (143 words)

How do I stop being miserable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, at this moment in time I just don't know what to do been searching for so many answers so thought i would just see if this message can save me...im 25 years old, dont like my job, have no friends, live at home and nothing is going for me. I dont have no passion for life no ... (175 words)

Will she be weak and cheat again in the future?

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24 January 2010 (M)

age - My girlfriend of 3.5 years has just cheated on me. I am trying to think if I should forgive her because I am seeing her side and wonder if it is my fault as well. He is the story: We are in a long distance relationship for 3.5 years now, as I work in another country and she ... (1608 words)

Are guys bothered by squint teeth?

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24 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 27 years old and have really low confidence due to my squint teeth, I have always felt like ths but I know I can't get a fixed brace I couldn't live with it, I have never had a boyfreind, hate getting my picture taken, I have heard about invisalign and was just wondering ... (118 words)

Any insight into his abusive behavior?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Guys! My long time partner and I have been estranged for about a year but still have feelings for each other and have been friends on/off for the last few months. Last week though he really annoyed me and upset me by sending me a nasty email. I think he actually has a ... (621 words)

How can someone take advantage of a person who showed complete loyalty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My question is how can someone take advantage of someone who has shown true loyalty and love towards them and they trample all over you like a doormat? We had been dating for about 4 months, initially things were really good. Then I would say after the first month and a half ... (300 words)

I had my navel pierced, can I have sex during the healing procedures?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i just had my navel pierced an was wondering if i could have sex during healin proceedures and if i should put something on it if i do have sex like a plaster or something ... (35 words)

What should I do?? And where do you think my sexuality is heading??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - ok now it's probably a dumb question but for years im thinkin am i gay.. am i bi.. am i str8..i know there shouldn't be a name to describe ur sexualality but it does paint a picture of who u are. i have been with men and have been with women. now i find women are really ... (259 words)

Why do his exes delete him off Facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - what does it mean when a guy goes out with girls for only few weeks?? or months?? what does that say about him?? and the girls dont ever speak to him again?? deletes him off msn and face book?? what does that say about the guy?? and why would the exes delete him?? ... (69 words)

Is there a problem dating my former teacher?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering what peoples views/opinions were on two people 'dating' that were previously student and teacher. My music teacher (aged 38) from my school and I (aged 19) have been in contact since I left the school over a year ago now and have recently realised that we both ... (198 words)

I don't want to hurt this lovely girl who is crazy about me...but I cant forget my ex...what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - a few years ago i broke up with the love of my life, and meet a lovely girl within weeks. i chased my ex for over a year and finally we got back together. during this time i was seriusly ill and told my ex to leave me cause she was too young to deal with this... while trying to ... (138 words)

I think he only likes me is in a sexual way...how do I get out of all this mess?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've got myself into a really stupid situation, i thought i might like one of my guy friends but decided it was nothing, just one of those random thoughts i get, then the next day he told me he was stuck between me and one of my friends, so i just came out and told him that i ... (244 words)

Since I told him about my family background he hasn't spoken to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! So five months ago i met this guy i'll call him J. J seemed too perfect Claimed to be "Open Minded", Is very Attractive, Seemed to have a Great Personality. We started dating three months ago. Anyways i am Bi-Racial mom is white and my dad is Jamaican.. but i have blond... (314 words)

I date on the internet and now I am in a love square!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

24 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I date on the internet and im currently in a love square!My boyfriend is *J* and the 2 other guys are *M* and *N*. *N* is an ex who i thought cheated but didnt hes funny and cute and we get along, *M* is a boy who just decided to love me out of the blue and he is stuck to me ... (163 words)

I want her to have real feelings for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

24 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I am head over heels for this girl I know. We've been best friends for about 2 and a half years. She has had a lot of trouble with guys. She dated one guy who used her to get to her best friend, another who used her to brag to his friends, another who just dumped her for no ... (388 words)

I'm scared in case my semen inseminated her.

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24 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i rubbed my girlfriend's clit yesterday and simultaneously rubbed my cock with same fingers....she also did the same thing to me ......she is 17 and i am 21 .......this was my first time and i was too excited ....i am sure i didnt ejaculate even a drop ........but my ... (112 words)

Is it normal to stay in a relationship if the constant arguing makes you feel awful?

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24 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently got out of a long term relationship because I was so fed up with how are arguments were destroying me on the inside. The resson I felt like I wanted to get out of this relationship, was because sometimes he would make me feel like shit when we argued. He use t... (275 words)

We have been dating over a year, I suspect he is gay, what do you think?

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24 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it weird if your boyfriend doesn't initiate kissing? My boyfriend of over a year doesn't initiate kissing, but when I initiate it, he says he enjoys it but he thought he wasn't any good at it. Also, in the internet history of my computer, it shows that someone viewed g... (199 words)

Should I be concerned with her past intimacy with a certain friend?

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24 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im a young girl who's been in a relationship with another girl for about 6 weeks now. I recently met her "Best Friend" who she hadn't seen in months. I learned that her and her best friend were messing around quite a bit a few months before we got together. When I met the g... (205 words)

How can I move a crush forward?

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24 January 2010 (F)

age - I live along with my 3 boys my eldest has now moved out. My bf hhas not lived with me and at the way we are going I do not think are relationship is ever going to change. I want more and I am now ready to move on. I met a guy at him family business a year ago and it was i... (275 words)

Has anyone had to deal with stretch marks before?

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24 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey all anybody had to deal with stretch marks before? i have em everywhere of my body and they are ruining my life. i have em on my back, on the sides of my body, on my stomach, my breasts, inside my arms and legs. im too worried about these cuz i heard nothing can cu... (114 words)

I've been having fantasies about kissing and hugging, is this normal for a guy?

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24 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 21 year old guy and realized that lately I've been having fantasies about kissing and hugging a girl. I was wondering if this is normal, because I thought guys usually fantasize about intercourse and girls are more into hugging and touching. Maybe it's because I've ... (111 words)

Should I confront her about trying to always make me jealous?

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24 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I've been dating this girl for 4 months now but she constantly tries to make me jealous, and tries to get a reaction out of me. For the past 2 months, wherever we are she'll make a remark of some sort saying, "Oh, check out that guy over there... Oh, hes hot... There ... (139 words)

Why the double standard with him?

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24 January 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Ok the other day my bf and I were checking some sites on my pc. He jokingly wanted to see my web history. I refused but he said if I had nothing to hide then why fret? So I let him see it. He also checked my files. Of course he found nothing. Today we were on his pc and I ... (113 words)

Any insight about why she may need time?

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24 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together for a year now... Right before i 1 year anniversary, she freaked out. The last time i saw her everything was fine, then i recieved no replies to texts for 1 week, at first, she said she was busy, as she has a 4 year old daughter, but ... (387 words)

She's getting closer to this other guy! How can I get her back?

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24 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex-gf and I broke up January of last year after two years together. Since then, she's gotten a lot closer to her best friend... who's a guy. And I know he's all for it, too, because I know he's liked her since way before I came along. The dude didn't have to tell me ... (220 words)

How do I get out of this chaotic situation?

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24 January 2010 (F)

age - I have been married since I was 19 y.o. My hubby and I had a great relationship. Since I have been laid off of work, my husband had to be the sole breadwinner. I guess the stress of him maintaining the bulk of the bills is significant, he decided to sell illegal things. ... (176 words)

Has his cheating played with my head?

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24 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband cheated on me 3 times first his cousin,that i found out about after a while,then landords daughter,the third time we had gone out parting me my cousin(not the same cousin from the first incident)and him got so drunk we shared the same bed.something said to me get up ... (151 words)

Should I go out and have my own secret affair?

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24 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - OK.. S0 Im glad I found a website to help me out. First I am not a crazy obsessed person.. So at least I don’t think I am. I have been together/Married for 11 Years with my wife. She is 7 years older than I am We have kids. So here is my situation. When I met my wi... (1612 words)

What kind of guy is he?

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24 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to give some advice to my friend who is having trouble with her boyfriend.She tells me that he has a job but doesn't help her pay rent or help her out with the bills.He lives with her but doesn't like the help her with anything..like food,cleaning,walking the dog,paying ... (146 words)

Any ideas on how to lose weight?

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24 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i need help big time i weight about 140 and i need 2 lose weight my friends say im really pretty to the thing is tat im chubby and i dont know how to lose weight buy the summer cuz in the summer my sister i having her quenceyeta or how ever u spell it and i hav to wear a ... (77 words)

Does this shy girl like me/

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24 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this shy girl, who is the sister of one of my best friends, who lately seems to be showing some interest in me. I know she liked me in the past because one time she kissed me and said “I love you”. However, that was at least six years ago and was before my friend and I ... (752 words)

Any ideas of how I can get my dog to chew his food and stop choking?

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24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know where else to ask this question so I am going for it here since most people have pets. I have two 4 month old miniature chihuahuas. They are brother and sister and the female Pixie is larger than her brother Bubba. I am having a problem with when I feed them table ... (238 words)

How do I get a date with him after he cancelled on me?

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24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey How do i try and get with a guy that i was close to going on a date with then he cancelled and asked to go another time but it never happened? We had been speaking lots for about 3/4 months and he started metioning he'd like to get to know me more, so i was yeah you too... (212 words)

Can't handle girlfriend's sexual past!

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24 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright. So I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 months. She's wonderful. I believe I'm in love with her. I'm 25, she's 21. At the beginning of our dating, I asked her how many guys she had been with. The number she told me shocked me. She said, and I quote "Between 13 and 16, ... (927 words)

Is the guy I met online blowing me off?

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24 January 2010 (F) - A guy from online and i were texting alot for over a week..pretty much all throughout the day, at night..we had one convo and we eventually met. I was nervous about meeting him..i don't think i acted bad on the date but we were drinking rum and coke and i think i opened u... (497 words)

Is there a "nice" way to break up with someone?

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24 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is there a "nice" way to break up with someone, or a right way? I reconnected with an ex-boyfriend over facebook, and we've been dating steadily for the past 3 months. We have a lot of common interests and get along well, but I am not physically attracted to him or in love wit... (125 words)

He had an affair so what should I do?

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24 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been happily married for five years and have a four year son together. Things seemed fine but then this woman shows up at our door asking for him. She made it clear to me that she would only talk to him and that since she's drop dead gorgoeous (and s... (882 words)

Should I just get it over with and tell them both that my best friend is the father?

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24 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm eight months and three weeks pregnant with my best friend's baby. My best friend is obviously a guy and it was a stupid, drunken, completely irresponsible night. And... I've been dating another guy for a year and five months now. Yes, I cheated, let's move on, please. ... (260 words)

He's not mine so how do I stop loving him?

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24 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know Im young but hear me out.... Im 18 ....I found this guy whom Im sure I love, Every time I see him I get butterflies in my stomach, sometimes I get palpitations in my chest.I always think about him.....I see him in my dreams... sometimes I think I see him when Im standi... (133 words)

How do I ask for a date without looking stupid?

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24 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi everyone, i would consider myself as a very attractive young looking slim and intelligent,i aint no dolly bird and am very down to earth. i get asked out all of the time, some are very good looking but alot younger than me, i dont want a toyboy, i want a man who is the same... (128 words)

Shes back to stripping, she says she will keep her knickers and ring on,all week I saw her for a few hours on wednesday and thats it! am I being unreasonable...?

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24 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I want some other peoples on opinion on this as I don't know whether its me being unreasonable or whether I am justified in being upset. I have been going out with a girl a while and we are engaged and we are very much in love. In the past she was a stripper which she... (419 words)

Can someone please call 911..lol..any help anyone??????????? major help is needed..

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24 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im baaaaaaaaack.. well it's been a minute since i've been on cupid and just to update everyone on whats going on with my life.. im still with my fiancee, he's been laid off for a year and two months. I've gotten my GED and now I am enrolling into Southeastern Louisiana Univer... (357 words)