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My wife doesn't want to climax at all.

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Question - (29 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 January 2010)
A male Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

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from some reason, my wife doesn't fell the reason to climax. it has been over 2 months now. when we make love, is about me getting off, and she need nothing to do of the deal. and lately it hasn't been making love, just quickies.

is that normal. we have been married for a year (in few days is our anniversary) and she is just 42 now.

i don't feel good about the situation. i don't think she have any sex drive at all nor she is interested in sex.

any idea what can she be going through?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010):

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thanks for the answers. but i don't think it is mood swing. she is happier than ever right now. the most happy she was for the past 5 years we were together (as she say).

i ask her what is the reason she is no interested, or she is loosing her sex drive, she get upset and accuse me trying to pick up a fight.

but she i try foreplay and caress her, and all kind romantic moves on her, but it doesn't seem that is affected by it anymore.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010):

She may be starting to go through menopause which screws up her hormones. This may be the cause of her lack of desire for sex or ability to orgasm. Take her to a doctor and have her estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone levels checked. Low testosterone can cause this or a major hormonal imbalance.

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (29 January 2010):

Not My Name agony auntYour wife is at the age (approaching menopause) where her libido could start becoming affected. I would suggest you encourage her to discuss this with her Doctor. She may benefit from some sort of hormone replacement treatment or the like.

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