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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does he just need time... or is it really over??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with a guy whom i fell in love with we have been going together for about a year. everything was perfect never argued till one day during the summer of 09 i told him i had gotten a call from my ex husband's friend whom i had stupidly slept with about 5yrs ago and ... (349 words)

When I masturbate there's always blood. Why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi im a fourteen year old girl and have been masturbatng for a couple of months now. recently, before and after my period, i have noticed blood coming out on the hairbrush handle i use. At first i thought it was my period but it has been two weeks scince i finished it. please ... (65 words)

Is it okay to experiment and have fun?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So... Me and my bff are so close and have a lot of things in common, aren't afraid to tell each other things, and we talk about sex a lot because we're "horny girls" you could say. Lol. But one day I went to her house, and her parents weren't there, and I forgot how, but we ... (171 words)

My girlfriend has HSV should I tell the people she has cheated on me with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

15 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i thank those who answered my question back in november, and now i have another; as my partner of 8 yrs had cheated with a co worker and had a online relationship with one of her customers from work something else has cause me to be thinking she has been unfaithfull more than ... (264 words)

Pregnant to another man...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a married woman, and have been married for 8 years. I love me husband and see him as the man I will get old with. He's my best friend. My future is with him as emotionally we just 'click'. Sexually we are very compatible too. He satisfies me all the time and our sex ... (560 words)

Four months on I am still letting what he does affect me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5212 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I posted a question on here a few months ago about an internet 'relationship' with a big age gap which lasted for 8 years... to save repeating what I asked here is the link: http://www.dearcupid.org... (336 words)

She has told me what she did with her ex and I think it makes her look easy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

15 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my girlfriend for 8 months now and i love her but she dated my friend a little before me and her but that's ok I know about that all along that's not a big deal. What I just found out is that thay started dating the last week of march then the first week of ... (217 words)

I see him every day but we don't talk but he is all I ever think about

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok,i have a bit of teenage drama and need some advice,my best friends was great but i'd like more opinions...so i met a guy and he knocked me down totally in love. I never told him. Well,we kissed the last day of school and now were in diffrent schools i see him everyday but ... (87 words)

Despite my good intentions I just can't let it go!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age - HELLLLLPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP! You may remember posts I have made regarding my husband's 'texting affair' and the 'kind' gesture of his 'lady' friend when I confronted her, telling me he had done it before. I also discovered that he lied for 8 years about a Tiffany heart necklace... (418 words)

I just wish I could understand him .........

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you do when your friend/ crush found someone else? Its not like he’s going out with anyone but today he said goodbye to his gal pal and she said goodbye Robbie Bobbie. I was totally heartbroken! I didn’t even talk to him on the bus because I was so jealous and mad. It ... (227 words)

I am miserable when he is around, I am dreading him coming home!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really confused. I don't know if I want to be with the father of my child anymore. I care about him a lot and I know he cares about me but we have so many problems that I just don't think we'll be happy. I tell my friends about the things he has done to me and they say I ... (743 words)

I feel pressured into giving into my bf's sexual needs...should I do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Heey,, im 14 and have been with my boyfriend for 3 months ( he turned 16 last month and im 15 in june) and everythings been going fantastic until a few weeks ago. He started telling me stuff. Stuff like he thinks about me when hes masturbating and gets errections over me. Hes ... (408 words)

My boyfriend has a pimple on his penis, is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i kno this is goin to sound weird and all and i just want to make sure that we are both ok and safe. my bf has a pimple on his you know what... and i looked at it. it def. looks like a pimple and nothing else. Is that normal?... (51 words)

Will experimenting with rough sex...change our relationship in a negative way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have a very loving relationship. We care for each other greatly, and I respect her so much. We have done some minor BDSM and slave things but she recently told me that she wants more. She wants me to be really rough on her, leaving bruises, pulling hair, ... (154 words)

Trying to understand why my gf started to hang out with a bad group of friends. Any insight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i recently broke up with my ex-girlfriend 3 months ago. And i REALLY need help with this situation. During our relationship we had our ups and downs but it was mainly because of this groups of "lesbian girls" That would start stuff and try to ruin our relationship. Pr... (1001 words)

Can guys fall in love with girls who have scars on their bodies?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Can you guys fall in love with a girl with scars on her body? burns, insect bites, injuries and other types of scars. Can you guys stay, love and be with a girl with those? Does it matter?... (38 words)

Please tell me, how do I forget my married lover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hello i have a question, i am married but my marriage is not in the best shape. me and my husband sleep in different rooms but he stills asks for sex. He says he going to get his own place but that never happens. He cheated on me last year and the things he told the other woman ... (295 words)

He isn't himself lately. What's up with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey :) for the past few days my boyfriend has been acting strangely. We go to different schools in the same town so we only get to see each other a few times a week, but when we do he's always happy and funny like usual. He is also happy and funny when we speak online. If I ask... (251 words)

I don't understand why our relationship is this way! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5212 days ago

15 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - in the begining we met and became friends and both were showing attention in each other, physically, teasing etc ... then we became closer n closer.. anyway later on i kissed her after two months of knowing each other then she sent me a message saying like im confused n i wann... (296 words)

My crush found out I like her - not from me. What do I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

15 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - recently i told my friend the girl i liked in confidence, then he's told someone, and they told someone etc. and sure as it gets, she found out. i don't know how she reacted because i just found out on the bus back from school, but i don't know what to do if she does know, ... (97 words)

Any 'different' ideas for a gift for Valentine's Day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year and I honestly love him with all my heart. Well, this Valentine's Day, we decided to make each other something, not go out and try to spend money on each other. He told me he's going to make me something that "he ... (89 words)

Do you guys believe in bad luck? What do you think about my situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) age 41-50 - Do you guys believe in bad luck? Please tell me what you think...Oh let me tell you about my last years of life. Family members died, 2 pets died, failed 5 year relationship, car was stolen, washer broke, furnace broke, water heater broke, boss cut me down to 10 hrs work eve... (244 words)

He says he loves me but he's scared! Is he stringing me along?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a guy for 7 months. We got together april 2009, and broke up officially in october. He had gone on vacation for 3 weeks, and came back, telling me that he does love me, and that he does want to be with me and he knows that he does. He talks about how he is ... (212 words)

I told my ex boyfriend I still love him, what do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex boyfriend have just started talking again after he broke up with me a month ago because he was too busy for a girlfriend. Since we've been chatting, he's told me he loves me, he's asked about my family and college and seems genuinely interested, and if I don't t... (366 words)

If I show him that I can give him space and time like he wants do you think he'll want me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've dated this guy for 18 months. We were looking at moving in from our parent's houses to be alone together for the first time. A week ago he broke up with me out of the blue and the ignored my calls and texts. He said he wanted space and time and in a month or more he wanted ... (284 words)

It's embarassing when my mother has mood swings in public, how can I calm her down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

15 January 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Hello people I have a problem, My mum has sudden mood swings sometimes and one minute she's in a great mood and the next she's in a terrible temper what can I say to her to calm her down so she doesn't get these terrbible mood swings that are a little embarassing when she's ... (81 words)

I am depressed with or without him... what is this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I recently saw each other and acted like we were back together. But after the meeting I realized he had changed a lot... for the worse. So I started ignoring him and the more I ignore, the more he persists. I decided to tell him straight and asked him not to contact ... (169 words)

How can I stop myself wanting to play with barbie dolls?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. I need some help. I'm an 18 year old girl who stopped playing with barbie toys two days ago. I know it sounds a bit crazy. Anyways, sometimes I feel like I want to play with them again. I really miss playing with them but I know I have to grow up. Any suggestions on how I ... (67 words)

Colour of manhood...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am brown in color. My penis is of almost my skin color. My wife tells that a guy's manhood's color should be pretty dark/black and mine is different. is this a fact?... (33 words)

What the hell am I doing???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - This guy has been trying to get my attention for the past 5 years. he finally saw me in the store and approached me. I gave him my number because I thought he was attractive. He called me that same night and we began talking. It was an instant connection or so I thought. He ... (192 words)

What good is a marriage separation, living apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband walked out three months ago and we are "separated". We've only been married under two years, and it has always been rocky. What is a separation supposed to mean? Is this something that helps? I don't see it that way, I see it that my husband abandoned me. ... (270 words)

I feel that she wants me as a boyfriend and we were just supposed to be having fun.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been having some 'fun' with a co-worker we discussed it before starting and she said she was cool just getting together now and then but all we do is have a kiss and hand job for me and I finger her, she wont go any further and I have begged her to go down on me because ... (166 words)

Dismissed from college???

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, well i have been in college for the past 2 years and its a community college, i havent been doing pretty good and i failed both classes last semester. i went back to register for the upcoming semester and saw that i had been dismissed. what can i do about it? the ... (83 words)

D women still enjoy giving/receiving oral with condoms/dental dams?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) age 30-35 - Do women enjoy giving blowjobs less if the man is wearing a condom? Will a woman be insulted if I don't know her very well and want to put one on before she goes down on me? I enjoy receiving oral sex quite a lot. Will I still enjoy it if I'm wearing a condom? What's ... (207 words)

I'm terrified I'll fall for her again...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex were best mates before we got together. We were together on and off for a year. However we broke up after she cheated on me at a party one night when extremely drunk. We didnt talk for about a month, but now have gone back to being best friends or close enough ... (113 words)

Should I even try to fix this broken marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - This is a re-write from an anonymous question I asked on January 11th. I am so lost. I need more help. My husband shown me a question and responses that he has placed on here too. But I don't want to share my question or feelings with him right now. If he sees this on the... (1242 words)

How can I break them up so that I can get him back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i was married to the love of my life. he left about 7 months ago, and i am still in love with him. he is living with my EX BEST FRIEND, they have been together since sept.20... how can i break them up, so i can get him back??? ... (50 words)

I left my bad hubby and then got entangled with the wrong guy, what can I do, how can I meet other men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I am going through this very bad break up and i do not know how to deal with it. In the past year i have made very bad decisions...i left my husband and that was a good decision because he was hitting me ...but because of the problems in the marriage i got myself entangled with ... (304 words)

How to convince my wife I don't mind her hairs near her nipples?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife has some hairs near her areola. i dont feel bad about it. she is very concerned about it. she thinks that i just pretend that i dont mind it. i know that it is normal to have lil bit around there. how can i convince her i am ok with this?... (53 words)

He stopped getting jealous.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am wondering, my bf used to be very jealous, and all of a sudden he isnt. Is this normal? initially, even going to see male friends was a problem. today i told him i was going to the club and would spend the night with my friends ata guys house and he said he was okay wit... (96 words)

I think I am emotionally unattached...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend live about four hours away from each other. Our relationship was physical before we became official bf gf... and everything was great. we only first had sex like 3 weeks before we actually got together. I really enjoy talking to him and he is very sweet... ... (137 words)

Could someone interpret his actions and tell me what I should do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This incident happened 1 month ago when I went on a trip to the Philippines. Its a community service project that I was involved in and the group has been preparing for the trip for 3 months. As we'll be staying with the villages, the leader has paired up couples for each hom... (427 words)

What should my next move be about my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend now for two years. we have had rows in the past but always made up. last week end we had a huge row cos of comments that i had and regretted and apologised since for making them. I saw him sunday and he said that he would see me in two weeks. I ... (280 words)

I have questions about BDSM. Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age - I just learned about BDSM this week. My questions are as follows: Is there alot of infidelity involved. Do men really wear chastity belts or this just an expression? Is there alot of bisexuality with this? What types of people are into this? Can you be fully in love an... (90 words)

He has trouble ejaculating and it's made me feel inadequate! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together a year. He was single when I met him but his ex has been particually nasty as she was annoyed he had moved on. She told me he had premature ejaculation when he was with her, but doesn't have it with me because he doesn't fancy me enough. ... (217 words)

Foreskin problems...any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

15 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - im 14 almost 15 soon...and uncircumcised want to know is it normal that my penis' foreskin suppose to be hard to pull back...and that if i masturbate..am i suppose to have the foreskin pulled back cos i dunno if its just me scared of pullin it back but its seems to be hard... (69 words)

Should I tell my cousin that the guy she loves, is into BDSM? She has no clue.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

15 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My friend, who is elder than me, is in love with my cousin. Lets call him 'B' and her 'G'. After some incidents, i found out that B likes BDSM and self bondage. B says he likes it very little. I'm sure G does not like BDSM. So B requested me not to tell G. He says his likeness ... (137 words)

We broke up with no further contact from her! It seems heartless..what do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I was with w woman for the last ten months in a pretty solid relationship. We started to argue about some differences here and there and big things turned into bigger things. We seemed to not be able to come to an agreement on some things so I decided to break it off. We broke ... (327 words)

I just want to win him back but he's gone cool. What is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing this guy several months ago i think he seemed really keen on me. however things didnt work out as i was still coming to terms of the loss of a previous partner.however i have come to realise that i would really like to have a relationship with this guy i have kept ... (302 words)

Just newly married, and not sure what to think of my husband's female friend! And advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello.. I am 27 years old, I have a month and a week married, so basically new wed. I have a couple of problems that I would like to share and I would love for someone to tell me another view of my situation. My husband has a female friend at work, she seems very nice, and... (350 words)

The spark is fading here..how do I get it back?

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15 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend seems to be losing interest in relationship day by day ...its a long distance and we meet once in 2 months ....she never tells anything and we arent talking as much as we used to do since 2 years....we dont talk even if we arent doing much...tired of talking about ... (192 words)

To fit in, I told some lies. Now, my reputation and confidence is in ruins, at school. Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, I have a problem with school, I no most people my age hate school, I do really well there in my work, but social wise, I'm a nervous wreck. I told a stupid lie in year eight and I'm afraid it's ruined my life even though I thought it would make me fit in, since I ... (312 words)

My wife lacks the initiative for sex. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (M)

age - This question about my wife we got married 16 years, we are from Inda. we both are educated engineers. from the right beginning onwards my wife do not have sexual initiative..always if I need intercourse I have to take initiative. she is healty and have good orgasam..bu... (86 words)

He's into Tranny porn, and talking to him doesn't work as he has a bad temper! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Last week i found my live-in boyfriends stash of Transexual porn. These "girls" are not of the pretty or feminine variety. He begs for Anal sex which I tried and hated because its soooo sore and he doesn't slow down when i ask him to (pain). A few weeks ago when he started ... (398 words)

I am 14 and really ready for a baby... got money and stuff, what do you think?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, i am 14 and want a baby..ive cared for babys all of mii life n have the money for it...i kno a baby is alot of work and its all about the baby and u come last..but i dont care.. i wanna have a baby to love me and share their feelings wit me n wen they r teenagers..give them ... (157 words)

I have no life, feeling like a useless girlfriend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my fiance for 4 years and we have just got back from traveling together for a year and i have never felt such a come down as i have right now, i was used to being with him everyday, feeling like a proper couple, enjoying cooking dinner together meeting new ... (273 words)

I don't know if I like him, it's on and off. So what do I tell my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my best fiend thinks that i like him but he's not sure. my other friends think so too but i deny it. i don't know if i like him, it's on and off. so what do i say to the people who ask without them assuming that i like him? ... (50 words)

We split, we continued to communicate, I went on vacation, she found somebody else, I decided I wanted her afterall, but now its too late

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

15 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - In August 09 i split up with my girlfriend over silly things like hardly seeing each other due to the distant.. anyway after the split we still continued to keep in contact via emails during working hours - she would continue to email me for advice on what i thought of ... (1112 words)

Will girls care that I am still a virgin

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 and I'm still a virgin. I almost had sex a few years ago (had foreplay) but wasn't able to get an erection. I'm in some sort of bad cycle in that everyone has probably had sex since most of my friends are in relatonships and I probably will have difficulty getting ... (110 words)

My husband doesn't want sex, and I have run out of ideas

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) age 51-59 - If your husband does not want to have sex with you for more than a year, will you divorce him or ?or stay with him , for the rest of your life? I really don't know what to do...I tried almost everything medical ,no problems, sex therapy ,spice up, taking vacation, talking ... (140 words)

As my husbands behaviour deteriorates I am finding solace with an old boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi,please advise/vent/give input. I'm married for 8 years have 2 children and currently in a difficult place. My hub and I have always had ups n downs however problems were never really properly dealt with..we kinda just moved on. Most of the time probs were with extended ... (366 words)

He didn't end his online message with a "x" does that me he isn't interested?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is he intrested or not? This guy at uni has been making moves for months to be honest monday and tuesday was great.. wednesday he added me on my uni email account and emailed me.. but i've looked at his reply and i feel hes not intrested. what do you think. Thanks M said ... (175 words)

I was willing to have sex with no strings but my friend turned me down

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I was wondering what may be going through this guy's head? We met a few months ago and before New Year's he came over to my friend's house one night and was being very flirty with me, and kissed me a few times and we cuddled up on the couch together to watch movies. Well, ... (200 words)

I want to be with ex a second time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - she says she's happier and more in love with her current bf than she's ever been and as much as it pains me, i do feel happy for her. but i can't erase part of me that will always want to be with her a 2nd time. i'm 18, she's 17, we're both still young. but all i can see is ... (162 words)

Tough Relationship Problems

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and hes always wanted to be with another girl from his past while dating me.. i dont want to lose him so i let him be with us both but now im sick but i wont admit to being upset or he will get mad at me. but we have a year old ... (104 words)

Family feud over wedding. Please help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I have a problem (again) I became engaged to my boyfriend of 2 years in october just gone and have been on cloud 9 up to christmas. When I was 9 I was adopted and my mum has a brother who has two children a boy and girl (that order). My female cousin I have ... (914 words)

Can being too wet be a bad thing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a question coming from an obvious virgin, but I'm a little worried at the same time. I get wet very easily and very fast. It's enough to saturate my underwear. My only problem is I'm worried I'm going to be TOO wet when I actualy have sex. I assume it's just the fa... (160 words)

My girlfriend wants to go on a break

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend for about a year now says she's fed up with me and wants a break. so two days have gone by and then brings up out of nowhere why she wanted to go on a break in the first place, as if i asked about it, which i didn't. i haven't one time asked or even mentioned ... (201 words)

He's cheating and want to continue in that lifestyle!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

15 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - well my name is kee kee and me and my kids father been together for eight years and its like its not there no more becouse through out our eight years he has cheated and i think he really has a promblem but he also has a controlling promblem i dnt knowm if its becouse he's nine ... (165 words)

Which man should I Choose?

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 34 year old woman recently separated from my husband aged 37. We have 3 children together and we have been married for 14 years. We love each other but he has cheated on me several times so I kicked him out. Everytime I have caught him he breaks up with the girl or ... (621 words)

I think I may be gay but I don't want to be!

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15 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I think I may be gay but most definately don't want to be? I think i'm in love with this girl and I have never been in love with a guy but cum more regularly when watchingg gay porn. I watch straight porn but its less easy to cum. I do get an erection watching straigh... (74 words)

Not your average teacher/student relationship.

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So My family has been friends with another family for a long time. Their son was nine years old when I was born. At all the gatherings where our families would come together I would hangout with him(Dave) and my older brother(who is 10 months younger than him). My brother and ... (195 words)

I don't want to see my mother, but worry about depriving my kids of the grandma!

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hope someone can help me out here!!! When I was 8 my brother raped me for 7 years straight. I ended up pregnant by him when I was 15. When my mom found out I had to tell her what was going on, I was too scard to tell her before that. It has been over 8 years since he has tried ... (283 words)

I can't stop thinking about ex..can't get her out of my head

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15 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ever since I broke up with my ex girlfriend I cannot get her out of my head. I have dated loads of girls and danced at clubs etc. but never hooked up with any because it's all kinda fake. I don't really like them, I want her back. It's been almost a year since the breakup and I ... (123 words)

My Boyfriend Wont Say "I Will Love You Forever." Why?

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my Boyfriend have been together for more than 4 years and he always is constantly saying that he loves me, but the other night I told him that I will love him forever and I asked if he felt the same way and he said that he doesn't know because something might happen in ... (78 words)

Gushing climaxes

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - when I orgasm it spurts out in rather large amounts and (gushes) distance is this normal for most woman?... (19 words)

Horny but can't get an erection

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15 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i was wondering even though i'm very horny and cant get an erection. The best i can get is half flaccid. Any ideas? Thank you for your help! ... (34 words)

Everytime we fight, my boyfriend blames me for my past. Please HELP?

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about half a year now, and he says that he has serious plans to marry me. I am an ex-escort, and he used to be my client. I stopped working when we started dating, but before that, we became close friends. Subsequently, he... (183 words)

My boyfriend is talking to other women, should I be jealous?

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years now and we live together. Lately, he has been hiding his cellphone from me and when he gets calls he claims to not know who is calling. Not only that, hes been texting like crazy but hides it all from me. I recenntly ... (213 words)

I confessed my love! She asked me for time.. Do I have any chances of getting a + response from her?

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15 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently confessed my 10 year love to a girl. I was a little shy so I left her a present along with a note saying that I am deeply interested in her. Initially she did not see the note and thanked me for the present saying that it was a pleasant surprise. Later that day, I ... (200 words)

He says he doesn't want to be married anymore

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am getting confused but I guess that is to be expected in my situation. I am doing everything I feel is right to get him back but today he woke up, and I had dinner ready and he got mad. He stated, while living here by myself I got comfortable doing things on my own. I don't ... (213 words)

HAVEN'T HEARD FROM THIS GUY IN A WEEK... WHAT SHOULD I DO ??

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and this guy met online and we have been talking/texting to each other for over two months. Everything was amazing we have so much in common like our birthdays are on the same day,we listen to a lot of the same music and think very alike and finally we hung out last thursday ... (655 words)

Dealing with a mate who works late hours

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Question. My fiance just got a new job his work stays open till like 3 and 4 am and I'm worried that he won't have much time for our new baby and won't have time for me if I have to get a job. I don't like his hours but at least he has a full time job. Does anyone else have to ... (89 words)

Was it a mistake to text him?

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15 January 2010 (F) - my ex and i were together for over 3 years and broke up over a year ago but noone did anything so wrong..no cheating or anything..just arguments over silly things i contacted him a year later leaving a v-mail and he called me back a few minutes later and i explained my... (665 words)

Is it possible to stop masterbating and other qestions

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15 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok dumb qestion but what ever really its a guy question. Is it possible to not masterbate, after the first time you masterbate it seems like its imposible not to do again. also is masterbating a good alternitive to sex if you have had sex before im a virgin but if i have... (94 words)

Fist fightwith my girl now what

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15 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i got into a fight with my gf a real fight its her fault though but i think i hurt her bad. I started questioning her about this guy she been hanging out with from her wrk and i started reading her email from him out loud he was talking about how much he loves her and st... (581 words)

More pain!!!! What is there I can do??? Or is there nothing I can do...?

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have two places where I feel cramping. One I had it one side of my body then like a ping-pong ball it went to my other side, then back and forth again. Then when a day or two I felt two pains in the middle, it's like right and left side of my middle part down there, and there ... (225 words)

Does she respect me and my love?

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15 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend won a bet and asked me to smooch her hard thrice .....we have done this before many times ....is she just using me to satisfy her needs ? i didnt speak a word and she soon realised that she was desperate, then she said was joking and that she just wants a kiss on ... (100 words)

Do you think I will hear from him?

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a senior in college. At the end of last semester, I asked my teaching assistant out for a drink over email. He responded that he was soon to be going out of town for the holidays but "perhaps" we could arrange to do something once he got back in Jan. I responded to his ... (249 words)

What can I do so she doesn't think I'm boring?

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15 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been talkin to a girl that my friends girlfriend told me about and when i was talkin to her on the fone she said i was boring? wat can i do for her not to thank i am boring... (41 words)

I had sex and didn't feel much

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15 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok well I am a guy and I am only 17 and I have had sex 2 times with the same girl but when I did I didn't feel all that much at all... It has really been bothering me and I just want to know if there is something wrong with me or not. Please help me. If it helps I was really ... (85 words)

A good hand job??? help

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - so i have this friend. and we seem to do something everytime we hangout even though we are just friends! i dont know how it ends up happening. but the last to times we hung out i gave him somewhat of a hand job. it wasnt a real hand job because im afraid ill do it wrong and i ... (133 words)

Why are some guys so mean?

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - y do sum guys do this. make fun of u behind your back but act all lovely in your face.always wantin to hug you.constantly wantin to b around you. does the most. obvious things just to get your attention. im talkin about a 21 year old not a little sixteen year old. but when his ... (162 words)

I want to follow my dreams but don't want to do it alone

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to follow my dreams, but i don't want to go it alone. I really enjoyed studying my course, but now that i'm finished and qualified, i want to do another one to get better at what i do and hopefully get a better job. But the course i want to do is in the uk and i'm all ... (222 words)

Pregnant without having sex?

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, my period is one day late. I am a virgin and I wonder if there is any possibility of me getting pregnant without having sex. if not, what is happening and what could be the causes. for the record, I have been menstruating since I was 15 ... (53 words)

Been sick for a long time. what should I do? what do you think it could be?

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been sick off and on for three years following an incomplete miscarriage, I was then regularly sick with blood in my vomit. They diagnosed me with an ulcer and treated me and I had an endoscopy months later which showed no ulcer but damage to the esophogus from b... (299 words)

Father refuses to give me away at the wedding!

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - if your father is against you marrying white guys and refuse to give you away at a wedding, who should i choose to give me away?... (26 words)

Is there any way to know if I was sexually abused or not?

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i was physically and emotionally abused as a child by my biological father until the age of seven although it was more emotional than physical. up until this past year i had no recollection at all about my childhood until age 8. i have always been afraid of trusting men and ... (273 words)

I'm constantly thinking he's lying to me!

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy for almost two years now. We are the best of friends and he's always there for me and I just feel really close to him. He says I am the first to make him feel this way or to change him in a good way (such as his temper problems). About a month ago, ... (214 words)

Having an affair to justify needs and not get emotionally involved?

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it possible to have an affair just to satisfy needs and not get feelings involved? Here is the situation: I am married. He is married. We have developed a strong friendship over the last 5 years since our 2 sons play sports together. I have been unhappy in a marriage ... (168 words)

Love? Lust? Infatuation? or Friendship?

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15 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - caring about him more than yourself sacrificing yourself for his happiness feeling his pain more than himself being attached to him so badly that you cant be without him[messaging every second, not letting him go out of station] sharing all your good and bad times with him... (103 words)

I can't get the ex out of my head, not sure what to do!

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, So i just contacted my ex after like 15 days to contact no seeing eachother its been about 3 months since we broke up he is currently with someone new. I contacted him just say hey how are you doing. And then i said well just to let you know you can contact me ... (741 words)

We broke up because he didnt love me anymore, but it seems like he is willing to be my friend

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex broke up because he doesn't love me anymore and is tired of arguing and the relationship just doesn't work. It's been on and off a few times with 2 days of time inbetween. He wanted a stable life. Concentrate on himself. No more drama. Do as he likes. He regretted ... (600 words)

I have a crush on my teacher, who always looks depressed and sad

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15 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I have this crush on my teacher and was wondering how a good way to start a relationship I love her and can't stop thinking of her her name is mrs relinski she is so awesome and pretty I know she dosent have a boy friend and when she comes to class she looks angry and ... (76 words)

I tried to help a victim of violence but she's left and I don't know where she is

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15 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I need some advice. I met this random girl one day i saw her walking down the other side of the street and i called to her and told her she was cute and she stopped, so i went over and started talking to her, but when i got close i could tell she was younger then i thought s... (758 words)

I am acting like a jerk because I want her to break up with me

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15 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I think I need serious help. I haven't been happy one day in the past 3-4 months after I left my ex. I'm starting to get worried, i'm constantly thinking about her, and I'm always missing her. I'm with a girl I dont even like, I have lately stopped talking to her, and have been ... (197 words)

My cousin's ex is telling my fiance lies and he is believing them!

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid: My cousin's ex boyfriend, Joe (name changed)works with my fiance and he is constantly telling my boyfriend lies about me. I dont know what to do. I am getting extremely frustrated. Help!!! To make a long story straight, my cousin is a liar.She tryed to talk to my fi... (265 words)

Two boys, my mother says this one, my father says that one, who to choose

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, there are two boys, who are both really close friends of mine, that really like me. Boy #1 is sweet, nice, kinda cute, and is nice to my family. The only problem is that he likes two other girls too, and tries to be a ladies man a lot. Then there's Boy #2. He's really fun ... (129 words)

I always have a smart comeback, but what do I say if others have a comeback for my comeback?

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i was wondering, i always have a smart comback like if someone says bite me id say i dont want any kinda of disease, or if someone says what are you looking at id say, i dunno tell you when i find out, things like that, but just as ofter as i say them i receieve them. ... (121 words)

When ever I go without sex I get angry and break stuff

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im sexually frustrated. When i dont have sex for long periods of time, i become very angry and rude. For example, one time i broke my kitchen window n my dishes cuz i didnt get laid. Its been a week since i had sex. My bf hasnt been over. He knows how i get when i dont get none ... (93 words)

I have never had a girlfriend and wonder love is just a fantasy

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15 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Sex vs Love Sex: Well just sex, no feelings compromised, no heartbreaks and a lot of sex stories, but maybe lonely when old. Its real. or Love:Caring for each other, the person you love, you liked becouse of her personality and her looks, you trust each other,... (118 words)

I really like this girl but our cultures and religions are just too different

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15 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - basically theres this girl that i get along great with i.e. we would tease, and playfight with each other. we pretty much find some way to text/fb each other everyday and we hang out whenever we can so in a way shes pretty much my best friend...the problem is that i've recently ... (313 words)

I have a live in boyfriend but am finding myself attracted elsewhere

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, So this is a little bit long, but I think some back ground info is neccessary for the question: I've been dating my current boyfriend for over a year, and we live together. We get along great... never fight or anything, and I love him a lot. The whole time w... (652 words)

I am in love with two men, and I need to decide who to stay with

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with two men. have been in love with the guy I thought was the one for six years, he lives in another country and wants me to move there and that is the main issue or was. He got fed up and cheated two years ago, and I loved him so much I didn't want to stop ... (442 words)

My girlfriend is my best friend, how will I know when it's time to ask her to marry me?

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15 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I just want to know what marriage means. I dont want to rush it but i also know this women is someone i can trust. Maybe how long do i wait or when i know its right to propose? Even if we don't get married we mutually benefit each other. Not sex just other issues in life w... (77 words)

I am dating a girl two years older and it bothers her

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15 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Well I need help with a situation that me and my girlfriend is having. We been dating not too long ago, I am 15 and she is 17, but she is worry about the age and she said it bothers her alot, I've try many ways to convince her that age doesn't matter but nothing seem to help ... (108 words)

He dumped me and wont speak to me, and his mother says he needs space to move on

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I were together for 5 years and there were a number of things he did to hurt me through those years, but I always forgave him and I was always very good to him - always honest and never did anything wrong. So a few months ago I was at my best friend's house, d... (249 words)

I am trying to move on but I keep imagining him with someone else

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15 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - is it normal to want to live without someone because its over and u have to ... but cnstantly think about how devastating it would be to learn they are with somone else and be consumed with sadness even tho your trying hard to move on?... (46 words)