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Archived questions from: 13 January, 2010 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm in love but does she love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

13 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there. So, I've known this girl for just about a year now and we are really good freinds. I'm starting to develop a crush on her, well, I say crush but really I think I'm in love with her. I just really want to know whether she feels the same way about me. I think s... (419 words)

What other means of ID can I use?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi this isnt a relationship question but i thought id ask anyway! i have lost my passport and provisional licence and have no other identification so i can get new ones i originally used my birth certificate but that has gone too, any ideas on what to do?... (48 words)

What does it mean when you have stretch marks?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well this isn't a sex or relationship question but I hope you can help me. What do stretch marks mean? Are you gaining or losing weight?... (27 words)

I know I'm making her miserable somehow but can't talk with her about it, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Right this is a rather strange one I think, but here goes.. I have been with my partner for ages, i honestly adore her and i really want to be with her forever. All the time together has been great until now. She seems in a constant bad mood and she is really paranoid whi... (214 words)

Should I believe my boyfriend or his supposed one-night stand?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - ok i need help with this, i have been with my boyfriend almost 2years now we have a good relationship however around 2weeks ago i heard his cell phone go off in his pocket so i got the phone and there was a text from someone he named "who" the text simply said hi i wrote back ... (262 words)

Why won't my ex answer my questions about who he's seeing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I split with my boyfriend last month after 2 years together. I thought as we had mutually decided that our relationship wasn't working, I would ask him if there was someone else as by then I thought I might as well ask him (he had been distant, occasionally tetchy, postponing ... (138 words)

Where can I find older men not interested in a sex based relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Any suggestions?? I am an 18 year old female, but am mostly attracted to men at least around twice my age. This is not a sexual desire for "more experienced" men, in fact sex doesn't really interest me. What I like is the maturity and life experience. My question is wher... (86 words)

Conflicted... and want to air out some things on my mind

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seriously dating my girlfriend for almost 2 years now, when we started having sex we were just getting to know our bodies and that was fine. Sex was exciting and frequent enough I guess. Fast forward and now for the past few months sex has SLOWED to a crawl, my gf has ... (272 words)

I need some neutral advice regarding my divorce.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

- In the process of a divorce. I am allowing my husband to keep our home, but asking that he re-finance to buy me out of my 1/2 and to give me 1/2 of his pension plan because we live in a community property state. He is having a meltdown saying he cannot afford a higher house ... (261 words)

I hope there's someone out there that will take time reading this?..I really like this boy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello I’m in a bad situation right now and I don’t have a clue what I should do. First off, I liked this guy for 7 months and I haven’t told him, basically I listened to this boy on advice because he did know the boy I like and I believed everything he said and I emailed th... (647 words)

My LDR isn't meeting my needs so I've started talking to another guy I met online in another state?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 27 yrs old. I have been in a long distance relationship for a little over a year. I have known my boyfriend (he is younger than me) for several years (as friends) before moving and of course our relationship blossomed once we were 1000 miles away from each other. I have ... (392 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend I've never had an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday my boyfriend and I were having sex and I randomly got lightheaded when we were switching positions. I told him and he laughed and said something like, "What, did you have too big of an orgasm?" I just laughed and didn't really answer. I have never had an orgasm during ... (143 words)

Will my boyfriend's hook-shaped penis cause long term problems?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey im really worried i have a new boyfriend with a hook shaped penis it bends down and often after making love my tummy hurts im so into him and im worried can this caus long term problems with my uterus please help... (43 words)

My boyfriend no longer loves me. Is it over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of six months told me yesterday that he thought we were going to to fast. In myself I knew we were, I mean he asked me to marry him a day into our relationship and we were having phone sex before we knew each others name (we met online). Though that wasn't the most ... (204 words)

How do I become strong and start refusing this married man?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

13 January 2010 (?) age 36-40 - not sure how to start and is not good and I know it but what's done is done and now I'm stuck. I started seeing this married guy at work and having intimate relationship with him at work only. This means only in the half hour of lunch being intimate with him then we never saw ... (261 words)

When will he get his karma?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Karma?? I have heared that word countless times on this web site and my question is, do people believe it happens to everyone? I ask because I know someone, a very sneaky evil and cold person who uses women, he meets them moves in with them normally gets them pregnant then ch... (177 words)

What do you make of her behavior?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - She teases me (makes fun of me). Whenever I talk to her she gets really loud like if I make fun of her she pretends to get mad (she almost hit me!). She's not a loud/flirty person at all and kinda shy. We usually don't talk (usually shes the 1st to say sumthin) but whe... (139 words)

I'm almost a year married but I've still not had sex as I'm afraid of the pain! Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i know the question i am going to ask is strange that i have. it is almost 1 year since i got married and still i am a virgin. i am afraid of sex, i think it will pain me. i tried many times but i failed, plz give me some tips, and help me. Thanks.... (61 words)

How long does it take for the "honeymoon phase" of a new relationship to wear off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Just wondering...how long (on average) does it take for the honeymoon phase of a relationship to be over (or) start to wear off? Im not looking for people who say they've had the honeymoon stage for 2 years or that it all depends on the person, im looking for actual statistic... (102 words)

I attacked my wife but I want her back!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

13 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I met my wife 15 years ago when we were 21, she was and is the most amazing lady I have ever met! In the beginning of our relationship life was great and we share so many good times and passions, within 2 years she became pregnant and we had a second child in the forth ye... (804 words)

What signs do you look for to know a guy fancies you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid, ok i am a 14 year old girl an i have never really had a boyfriend or a boy fancy me for that matter, and well recently some boys have been acting a bit differently around me, i dont know what it is, could they have a crush on me because i have been changing... (111 words)

Does he have male intimacy issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5216 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had been dating for 2 months. He told me loved me on Christmas. Everything was going great, he was affectionate, sweet it was blissful Sunday 1/10 he broke up with me. Told me just didn't want to be with anymore that he wasn't feeling the relationship. He ... (206 words)

I am the "other woman". What is the right thing to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - good evening aunts and uncles where do i begin? i suppose i could start with im the other woman. it started about a year ago when i joined a new gym, i was new to the whole setup and was being introduced to how everything worked. on my first day i met a few more newbi... (711 words)

Can I use Sun-in on arm hair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i have hairy arms and the hair is somewhat dark. can i use sun-in on them? i would use jolen but it takes awhile to mix up and it burns. does anyone else use sun-in? ... (36 words)

Our father issues holding us back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and him have been together a little over a year. I've grown to care for him a lot, but I know we could be doing much better. I've figured out that the recurring problems that we have (diminished communication being the most recurrent) are due to a general lack of trust, as ... (240 words)

How do you get a shy guy to admit his feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you get a guy whos really shy and kinda nervous around you to admit how he feels about you when your just as bad yourself? Thing is we havent had the greatest past history, and i could of and should of easily walked away from it all but i never wanted to. I've been to... (183 words)

Do you think I should expect to hear from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5213 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a senior in college. At the end of last semester, I asked my teaching assistant out for a drink over email. He responded that he was soon to be going out of town for the holidays but "perhaps" we could arrange to do something once he got back in Jan. I responded to his ... (260 words)

Boyfriend slept with my cousin. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My cousin made up this huge story and told me that my boyfriend tried to get at her. he told me she was lying and the truth was that they slept together he begged and cried for me not to leave him. What should I do? ... (46 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend so now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so heres the deal. Ive been for my boyfriend for four years, but lately things have not been the same and i have been unhappy for a quite a while. On the other hand, about a year ago this cute guy came into my work and has been coming in ever since. I thought he was so cute ... (252 words)

I hate my bf's weed habit! Help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, i have a boyfriend and we been together for three years now, and about a year ago i told him that he had to choose me or the weed...and he said that he would stop. and about a week ago we got into a fight and it came out that he never stopped smoking...nobody in my family ... (99 words)

Do I drop this or ask her more questions about this other guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I trust my wife, but she had an encounter years ago that I still question. I've been cheated on in the past, not by her, but my ex so I think that makes it harder for me to trust anyone. Anyways, she had a coworker whom she trusted like a brother. She went out with her gir... (590 words)

What do I do about this guy, who doesn't give anything back in this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - In a nutshell. This guy and I dated about 8 years ago. We broke up, and reconnected a few months ago thanks to a mutual friend we both keep in contact with. We started out as friends, then moved on to friends with benefits. After a few weeks of friends with benefits i ... (585 words)

How can you tell a guys intentions, when you date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you now when a boy wants you for you and doesnt just want to have sex with you?? what would he be like if he just liked me for me? and what type of things would he do if he just wanted a leg over?? guys id appreaciate your help especially x... (62 words)

I'm paranoid about having bad breath! How do I get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 18 years old and i have a rather embarrasing problem..but i dont know if it actually exists or its me being paranoid. i hate people coming close to my face because i think i have bad breath. i move away when people are in my face and ignore them if they expect me t... (92 words)

My gf's snoring is so bad, I can't stand it! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi. My girlfriend snores so bad that I just cant stick it!! I had to tell her one night because I just couldnt take it anymore I woke up and fell asleep about twenty times an hour. Anyway i bought ear plugs but they started to hurt my ears and gave me a really bad throat in ... (370 words)

The idea of my gf giving a guy a BJ is 'hot'..should we do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

13 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I find myself really fantasizing about giving my gf a MMF as of lately. We have discussed it as a fantasy and at times she says she wants one too, although she wants a MFF as much as a MMF if not more. However, we watch porn together and she is openly amazed at the sight of a ... (230 words)

He's not over his deceased gf...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend of two years is a great guy. But before me his girlfriend then, had died. We also live together and have no children. He says he loves me and i believe him but i really dont think he is over his ex. I have been very supportive and understanding about this. But i ... (71 words)

How can I help her get over the loss of her baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am currently engaged to the love of my love who is 19 years old, she her self has been through some very difficult times included losing her father, a drug addiction and she also suffers from bipolar, we have been together for all most 2 years and i am trying to help her ... (161 words)

Divorce woes..how to deal with my ex over settlement.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

- Going through a divorce. I'm allowing my husband to keep our house, but asking that he re-finance to buy me out of my 1/2, plus I'm asking for 1/2 of his pension. We live in a community property state, so this is the law and we were married for over 15 yrs. I feel that is fair, ... (233 words)

Advice on doing a good striptease???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My and my boyfriend have planned to have a sexy night soon. One thing that I would really like to do is a strip tease for him as I've never done one properly before for him. I was just wondering what actually makes a good strip tease? Do I start with my top and work down or ... (87 words)

How am I going to wait this out without going crazy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all So theres this girl I met last semester. I kinda had a crush on her for a solid 2 months then finally one night we kissed, right at the end of the semester. We only got to hang out for one more night until the break where I slept over at her place; no sex, just cuddle... (280 words)

I recently had an abortion and now I feel I'm spiraling out of control...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently had a surgical abortion at 9 1/2 weeks. That is, i was put under general anesthetic and the pregnancy was sucked out :( My boyfriend has been really suppotive and so have all my friends so I've been trying to put on a brave face but it's getting harder to keep up ... (128 words)

What would you do if another man was trying to flirt with your girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Just a simple question really, but what would you do if another man was trying to flirt with your girlfreind? you trust her, she goes to the same college as him, they talk as freinds, but he is flirting, even tho she did say i have a man, it seems like that doesnt bother him? ... (76 words)

Do you still think it's safe for me to meet him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age - PLease help me figure if this is safe??? I met a man online and we have been communicating for two weeks. We are bothi n our mid forties. There is total chemistry between us. We are meeting in a week or so. He emailed me last night that he had a dream that I handcuffed him and ... (123 words)

Is having sex this soon sending bad messages to a man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing someone for 2 weeks, and already had sex. It just feels very comfortable with him and I am in mid 40's he is 5 years older. Does that send a bad message to a man ? or is it ok if you both are really feeling were the relationship is going ?... (56 words)

Help!!! Should I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some advice, my husband cheated on me with a girl that he worked with, when I found out of course I kicked him out of our home, but we kept in touch he is a nice guy and I know that every one makes mistakes. We were seperated for 3 months, but we would go out or ... (230 words)

I didn't mean for this to happen, is it too late to reconcile?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with me last week. We had a really strong relationship and were deeply in love. We used to have one problem, and that was she would always fall asleep on the phone so i got mad at her like once a week because I couldn't keep a ... (238 words)

Embarrassing wind problems...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this is not a relationship question, but i wondered if anyone would be able to help. usually my diet is very very poor, i work in mcdonalds, and on a typical work day but diet would be... cereal or toast for breakfast, say a big mac meal plus a dessert for lunch while im i... (264 words)

She says her head is in the wrong place and doesn't want to be with anyone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I love this girl, we are very close an she says she likes me alot, more than friends, when were together we hug an kiss, and we spend the best times together, i know its ment to be, but her head is all over the place at the moment and she doesnt want to be with anyone, it ... (73 words)

Is this considered a failed proposal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is moving out of your bf/gf's house the same as a failed proposal? I've been with my ex for 3 years (on/off), we move in together for 5 months and we split. I have a feeling he wants to get back together with me, but not live together. I feel kinda hurt and kinda like it wa... (71 words)

He doesn't care! So why do I want to be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with this gentlemen for 3 years. It has been an on again off again relationship. He says he loves me but he never calls, he never says thank you, he never goes out of his way to do anything for me. When I do help him whenever he asks. Ex Helped him move into his ... (148 words)

After talking online 3 months we met, but I think he was disappointed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age - Hi..i am hoping for some advice..am hoping for a male point of view...here goes. I met a guy online..a dating site..we chatted every night for 3 months on msn..he phoned me and text. He had seen photographs of me (I am 47...he is 39..I am uk..he is italian). We arranged... (317 words)

I think I'm too boring for him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have just completed hi school and i have fallen in love with someone. he isa ctually my first boyfriend.problem is he is too exeperienced and knows what exactly turns me on but i dont. is it possible for me to know what turns guys on .i feel too boring for him. ... (52 words)

I signed up for a dating website and now my wife doesn't trust me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (?) age 51-59 - my wife no longer trust me we have been fighting for about 4 years because our daughter got pregnant at 16 by a loser and we both started pulling away i had been looking at a lot of porn and was feeling lonely i went to a dating web sight and signed up iknow im an idiot we've ... (165 words)

Positions for the smaller man

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i love my boyfriend no end but the sex compared to my ex boyfriend is nowhere near as good.boyfriend has a smallish penis, 4 inches erect.it only just gets inside me and i can barely move on it as it will fall out. any advice on good sex positions for the smaller man.... (53 words)

Troubled relationship with partner leaves me with no energy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all, i am a single mom my daughters dad claims we are in a relationship and so i suppose im not single, but we live apart after he nearly finished me off with his put downs i lost all my friends and confidence, right now i am getting into debt with the day to day running of ... (256 words)

Are we seeing too much of eachother? Is this why I've lost my enthusiasm and sex drive? Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm having a few problems with my girlfriend which are quickly becoming big problems! Since New Years we have spend only 2 nights apart from eachother, and it's gotten to the point where I am less enthusiastic to see her, and want a bit of time to myself. But when I've discus... (306 words)

Why can't my boyfriend ever cum?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has never cum from a blowjob or handjob from me or anyone else. He also has trouble cumming during sex if the girl is on top (I am the only person who's ever made him cum in this position, but it's only happened once). The sex is amazing, he's great at every aspect ... (165 words)

Am I just too sensitive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - am i too sensitive with my gf? she thinks i can be at times, she thinks of me as a little boy i guess at times cuz i get sad when she leaves cuz i know we wont see each other for a while, or i cryed a few times when i explained to her how much i love her and how i always wanna ... (247 words)

I see my ex b/f's ex and it makes me feel so bad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I was seeing my boyfriend for 8 months and we had a very strong relationship. But then about 3 months ago we broke up because we was always arguing and annoying eachother. I thought i was over him so started seeing someone else,and then i realised i wasnt over him s... (334 words)

Sex? Or more? Just a fling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i know if a guy who i have liked for a year now wants to have sex because he likes me in the same way, or he thinks its just a fling?... (34 words)

When we have sex he never touches me anywhere

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age - my boyfriend and i make love frequently but when we do he never touches my breasts or between my legs, have you any idea why this might be? I've asked him but he won't give me an answer he just tells me to stop being silly. ... (46 words)

My bf is acting overly cheesy. How can I let him know it's a turn off without hurting him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so, my boyfriend is overly cheesy. At least, he says cheesy things all the time. And when I say all the time, I mean, at least 5 times a day. I'm a sucker for romantic things and everything, but this has grown to be too much. I mean, I'm not as expressive as he... (413 words)

Wait for her text?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, Quick question, I got a date with a girl on Sunday, for the past couple of days we have texted quite alot, generally with me starting conversation one day, her the next. She said she'd text me this morning before work, however, she hasn't; should I wait for her to text ... (74 words)

Do women enjoy a bigger "load"?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

13 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Do women enjoy seeing a bigger semen load from their man? Is it pleasing to you? Especially when he is inside you, do you think it feels good? thanks... (34 words)

In love with 2 guys at once...what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Six months ago I decided to go into a relationship with guy A. I can honestly say I love him and am inlove with him,he makes me happy. A month ago, I started working as a kitchen manager at a friends pub.. Guy B is a friend as well as my boss, he is 29, single and has a 6yr old ... (143 words)

Should I date a guy I think my best friend likes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked a guy for a couple of months now and he's a great friend and fun to be around. There is 2 problems. One he's liked the same girl for 61/2 years. I don'tknow how to deal with this. Second, I think my best friend likes him. She is the one who intrduced me to him at a... (123 words)

If virginity is so important, why is it that you are supposed to get over someone's past?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

13 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, Why should I not expect a virgin as I save my virginity for the right person ? and Why should I get over her past when the girl is not a virgin ? I see there's double-standard on this, People say it's good to keep virginity because it's Important. But also... (140 words)

My best friend and g/f are also friends, and I think I like my b/f more than my g/f

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I currently have a girlfriend, and I love her and care a lot about her. My best friend is a girl, and she really really likes me. I care about her a lot also, and the truth is sometimes I feel like I am closer with her than my girlfriend. The problem is I feel so strongly for ... (81 words)

I want to me more than a support for my married friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

13 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - im texting and emailing a friend and she isnt happy in her marriage, and oh i would love to be more than the wonderful support to her that i am! im a single, no children yet, 30year old male and she is a 28year old female of a 8year old boy. any advise would be greatly ... (59 words)

I lost my sex drive after giving birth to chidlren

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been together for 4 1/2 years, and married almost 3 1/2 years. When we first got together our sex life was omg amazing. I mean it still is....but annyway after our first daughter was born, my sexual drive was not like it use to. And 6months ago we had a ... (162 words)

What has happened to me?

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13 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear sir, i m 37 years old man. i have two kids. i have already 10 years completed for my marriage life. it was nice. my probelm is i do my sex with my wife i s good and enjoy but now a days my penis is not erect properly and i do not do sex with my wife. reply me. secone... (144 words)

How can I find love, and keep it?

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13 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How does a person go about finding love and keeping it? ... (11 words)

Wishing and hoping for a boy to love me for myself

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13 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I just wish that i had a guy that love me for who i am and the way i look:( i cant stand a guy that is a cheater and a man whore. I have been cheated on and guys just like me cuz of my butt and my boobs. I just want someone who will care for me and protect me and take up for me ... (75 words)

Should I tell him he could have aspergers?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and we live together. He's always seemed adorably quirky and awkward to me, but recently a friend who works with aspergers a lot pointed out to me that he is a textbook example of someone with aspergers. I looked up a lot of the ... (197 words)

I'm being harrassed by his wife! How do I get rid of this married man I had an affair with?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently read an article in regards to a women in a relationship with a married man for 18 years and some of the comments were pretty harsh, understandable, but harsh. Like her, I too was in a long term relationship with a married man, 13 years. It's a little crazy because we ... (192 words)

My boyfriend of six years has female friends I don't like

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13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone i am new to this so i hope someone can help me... i been in a 6yr relationship and i have some insecurities...so recently my bf found out i messaged this girl on his friends list on myspeace...it was a simple thing and i wasvery polite but now he feels embaressed ... (74 words)

Could these be signs he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I have known this guy for about seven months now. Things have started to change over the last couple of months. I work at a gas station he comes in everynight sunday through thursday. Let me know what you think. Does he like me? 1. First he started coming in early so... (348 words)

Is anal sex painful?

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13 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hello all! i was just in a curious mood about anal sex. i have not tried it , but i want to. any tips? how much will it hurt?? (i can handle pain in general) will i need a lube? what does the guy feel during anal? is it like a vagina wet and satin-ie?? help! ... (57 words)

Can a guy be so sure about someone in the first 6 months?

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13 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what my question is exactly but here goes After years of bad dating experiences and not one long term relationship, I've now been with my boyfriend for about 6 months. I've never met anyone like him, he's just amazing. I've met all his friends, and I'm also par... (168 words)

Will using a condom keep me a virgin?

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13 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok here's another question for all of you wouldn't having sex for the first time with a condom on keep me a virgin? lol and plz read the question before answearing it ... (32 words)

Is your first time really special?

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13 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - When people say your first time is special is that..really..true or are they saying its fun have fun..is it bad to think that i want to get my first time through so i can get the pain over with..idk i KNOW im 15 but it seems like its time to be mature and make sure i make the ... (72 words)

How can I meet nice, caring friends?

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13 January 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I am having concerns with some friends of mine. My one friend only talks about herself. She never asks how I am or has any interest in my life. I sent her an e-mail saying Happy New Year and said I hope she was well. The return message was her ranting about some guy she liked. ... (283 words)

Is my present really that insulting?

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13 January 2010 (F) age 36-40 - So my friend is getting married soon and I decided to make her a couple of soft toys as part of her wedding present (I've become quite good at soft toy making). I had a look through my pattern books and saw this really cute elephant pattern I just had to make. I decided to ... (142 words)

How can I be myself around him when I'm so shy?

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13 January 2010 (F) age 36-40 - First off I'm really shy around him, I think he is a bit shy to and neither of us have had a serious relationship before, I over think everything to the point that its stressful to actually say so I won't, and I'll respond with some stupid one or two word answer, and then I ... (227 words)

Am I being a bad daughter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please I need help. Is this me, am I being a bad daughter? First of all my Mother is a very emotionally abuse person towards me. She always suggests that I did something wrong, it's my fault, or i should have/could have done this to make it better. This is just her 24/7 it... (1005 words)

How can I get him to hook up with me again? He's backed off.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So once upon a time (a few months ago) I hooked up with a guy friend and things were fine. He said he would want to do it again and all that but then someone found out and it caused a lot of problems. At that point he backed out, stopped talking to me and said maybe one day ... (174 words)

How do you move on when your heart doesn't want to let go?

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13 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex-boyfriend broke up with me recently. We were together for six years. We were high school and college sweethearts. I am now 24. He said he broke up with me because he felt that I was not the "right one", meaning he couldn't see himself marrying me. I asked how come and he ... (212 words)

Am I repulsive?

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13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear agony aunts, well i guess im kind of embarrassed to ask this but here i go. im not fat, as in, reallllly big, im about a size 14. i have small boobs and a bigger belly, and i know they say that the guy you love (and who loves you) will appreciate you the way you are.. but ... (149 words)

Does it sound like our relationship is steady

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13 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in a kind of wierd relationship atm, i'm 16 and my girlfriend is 23 (just turned), we've been fighting over alot of silly things lately and we've had to repair our relationship multiple times recently. first a quick background I met this girl in about may of last year, we... (294 words)

Do you think he used me?

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13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been getting to know this guy..he'd call and text me everyday..he even rang me and texted me everyday other day when he was on holiday. he made me fall for him and i actually believe that he liked me too.. i went to see him.. and one thing led to another an... (203 words)

I feel so lost after a break up. Any suggestions on how not to be so depressed?

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13 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am so heartbroken over a recent breakup with a girl i really loved. I broke it off before Christmas over some problems we had been having. About a month before we had a conversation about the relationship and she felt she needed more time to think about moving up with me to ... (210 words)

Am I really that unlikeable?

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13 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello aunts. I'm a 15 year old freshman boy. And about 2 years i used to be happy. I'm not saying everything was alright, because they weren't. my life was still horrible then. I actually liked going to school, to be honest it was my home from home. To be with friends, since i ... (302 words)

He doesn't act like we are a couple but I'm ready to have sex with him!

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13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so i have a HUGE issue with my boyfriend. We have been going out for about a month now. At school he dosent really act like we are going out, just like we are friends. it bothers me a lot because i want a boyfriend because i want to feel loved, beautiful things like ... (83 words)

I was sent a letter saying my fiance was not who I thought he was!

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13 January 2010 (F)

age - Hello: My finance and I were having problems we have been living together for 2 months well yesterday I told him I needed time and best we end it okay I am letting him stay until February first to give him time to find a place I feel he is in denial earlier he was ... (299 words)

Both my exes want me back!

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13 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, so im having a little bit of boy troubles.. my ex, well we've dated over 11 times and hes so sweet. but in the end hes a jerk. he wants me back and now hes saying hes changed. he called me and said all these nice things. he used to be really bad and got into a lot of ... (435 words)

Does the penis lose its muscle?

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13 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I;m a 20 year old guy, and I have gotten to know this other guy a bit older than me. Well, I gave him a massage one day and it lead to a passionate play around. Him and I were naked together and his penis became hard in not time but mine couldn't keep it erect! Is there ... (102 words)

He's so in love with me he can't be with me?

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13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm almost twenty years old, I've never had a real relationship. The only guy that has shown interest in me my whole life has the unfortunate honor of having a nickname with "Icky" in it. I'm not attracted to him, I'm not sure if he knows it, but I don't really care about that. ... (444 words)

Is my sex life healthy?

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13 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - So my girlfriend and i have been dating for 10 months and we've had sex. But i was able to have sex twice in the same days and a half an hour after,is this good? is it bad? unhealthy? no? yes? please help... (43 words)

Dating the ex's best friend...

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13 January 2010 (?) age 41-50 - So I dated a girl starting last july and was in a long distance relationship with her till about Nov. I didn't really seeing it going anywhere so I ended it. She would take me over to her friends a lot and we became good friends. About a month after things were over her friend ... (170 words)

Should I Choose Between My Boyfriend And Family?

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13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am almost 20 years old, and female. When I was 16, I began dating a boy who was 18 and lived in California. I'm from Texas. We spent a lot of time with each other despite the fact we lived so far away from each other. I flew to see him and he flew to see me. I graduated high ... (585 words)

He seems disinterested now...

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13 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been sort of seeing this guy. We went out on the first date which went very well and ended with a peck at the end of the night. Now it seems as though things have slowed down. He mentioned that he wanted to go out again and text me that he wanted to see more of me in th... (92 words)