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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Lost interest in him..how do I break up with him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been dating my best guy friend for 2 months now and he's in love with me but I'm tired of him. He's the best guy just not for me and I don't know how or if to brake up with him. Help?... (45 words)

Big trouble with him ..and his Mother! Should I go stay or go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - dear cupid i need help!!! i've been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs and i dont know what to do should i stay or should i go thats the question i need answered. first of all we been together for 2 yrs and he has'nt had a job that he last for more than a month so the last time he had ... (614 words)

Should I fly out there and surprise her? What do you all think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend had to move back home (thousands of miles away from me) we were OK for a few months then she said it was to hard and we couldn't be together and broke up with me. We still talk every couple weeks and in emails she still says she misses me. Now....I love this ... (159 words)

Question about fertility testing...any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I am a 21 year old male. I am in a good secure job etc and in the next year or so me and my partner want to start a family as we've been together for a while and love each other. I have quite small testicles and am often tired, for this reason I want to have a fertility ... (113 words)

Thinking too much of this other girl..help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

4 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupid, i have been with my partner for nearly two years now. i met her just before and fell in love with her straight away but recently a girl that has been missing from my life for 7 years now, because i moved home, has started to contact me and now i cant stop thinking... (106 words)

My girlfriend went traveling and came back single!! I don't know what to do! Advice, please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i was going out with a girl for 6 years up until last may when she traveled to Australia for 7 months. everything was fine before she left in that we promised to stay together etc, loved each other etc. while she was traveling she met another guy and stopped calling and ... (268 words)

Older boy, what are the rules?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, This isn't that exciting, but I'm just fishing around for ideas really.. I'm 19, and I'm seeing this guy, who is 25. (this bit isn't a big deal. he's quite a young 25, i'm quite an old 19.. ) WE've both had long term relationship things, I think we are at similar stage... (235 words)

Sex on a first date, today he is quiet, will he show for our date tomorrow?!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I slept with a guy on our first date! Now he seems distant.. We have only really known each other a month but the instant we met online he lived near, attractive it was like we was made for each other.. he instantly give me his number and got on so well.. this weekend i... (332 words)

Our song is his and his ex's song too...what does this mean!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help even if this is a silly question! I don't know what to think. I've just found out the mine and my boyfriend's song was his and his ex's song! What does that say about him? Should i worry that everyone time we listen to it he is thinking of her? Thank you.... (57 words)

Should I stay and be patient, or is over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been off and on for 1 year and 8 months. He has never cheated or lied to me. I have lied to him, but he forgave me. We are totally opposite. We really love each other and can get jealous over little things. I was going to leave him because emotionally he ... (157 words)

We both like the same guy, would it be wrong for me to date him, if he asked?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend has liked this guy for quite a while now, and I also like him. I've told her that I like him too and we've promised not to get in a huge fight about it. This guy that I like likes me back, but he hasn't asked me out yet. So I don't know what to do if he asks me out... ... (75 words)

He doesn't want to date anymore..so what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend a little over a month, and we were doing great. But last night he told me he had lost interest in a relationship, that he didn't feel the same anymore... He said he just didn't want a relationship at this time. He said he spends hours doing othe... (229 words)

Wife of 15 years is cheating, where do we go from here?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

4 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I could use a little advice. I've been married to a great woman for 15 years and I thought things were going well. But one month ago I discovered by accident that she had a secret email account. Well, after lots of back and forth, she admitted that she was having a six-month ... (482 words)

Body Odour causing a real problem, I don't know why, help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age - Why Do I have Body Oudour? Please answer this seriously as its upsetting. I bath and change my clothes every day and wash my hair and use deodorants YET still I have a funny smell about me. Its NOT because IM not clean and I have been to the doctor who shrugs and says t... (209 words)

Should I Meet With Him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - About 4 months ago I started speaking to this guy who lives in the same city as me and is only a year older than me. Everytime we speak he asks when we are meeting up and i have told him before i would. the problem is i cant bring myself to go and meet him. Everytime he asks i ... (141 words)

Love his personality but not attracted to his looks! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - All right, so I'm a sophomore in high school. Recently I friended a guy I used to go to school with four years ago on Facebook. I didn't expect anything to come of it, but we started talking and we really got along. We talked almost 24/7 over winter vacation. Now with school ... (320 words)

What did he mean...Did he mean he wants to be with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im pretty confused recently ive been out with my mate and a guy she likes.Hes a pretty nice guy. Shes liked him for a long time and she always thought he liked her, she told me why and i agreed. We all went out not long ago but i had to leave early as i had work the next day ... (437 words)

My teacher's confusing behaviour makes me think I might be infatuated with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Unfortunately, this is going to be...yet another cry for help for the eternal forbidden love section. I already imagine eyes rolling...somewhere, in front of a screen. I usually don`t ask for help in matters like these, but now I am totally confused and I need a little bit of e... (651 words)

Another woman involved! HELP ME PLEASE!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So.....I started dating this guy. He had just gotten out of jail. We were just friends at first. Spent Christmas....New years together. Didn't want him to be alone. We started dating right after christmas. He has moved all his stuff into my house. Stayed here ever since ... (269 words)

Is this scar tissue after having a baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I've had my first baby 5 weeks ago and I noticed that there is something inside my vagina blocking the entrance and it looks like scar tissue or something. I tried looking this up online and found nothing. What could it be? Can I still have sex? My vagina whole is not ... (135 words)

Want to have an affair with guy who has girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - so i am recently seperated from my husband. there is this guy at work and we have been flirting a lot for like the past 3mos. the 2 of us have proven to each other that we are sexually attracted to each other. the other night he invited me out for coffee and we wound up ... (193 words)

B/f broke up with me because he heard I was cheating on him with his brother

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my ex were together for 2 1/2 months and then he dumped me because some one told him i was cheating with his 18 year old brother and i wasnt but now he hates me and i didnt do anything i tryed to tell him but he wont lisen and all i can do is be upset for every thing ... (70 words)

He went back to his ex, going to try things out for 3 months, what am I supposed to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - About 6 months ago (June, 2009) I started getting to know G. better, we really matched... the only unfortunate thing was that he was going to marry someone else next year. 6 months ago I was dating a boy myself, but as I got closer to G. (let's call him like that), my feelings ... (353 words)

Stepbrother's interest in me makes me very uneasy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I'll get straight into it, i met my stepbrother 2 years ago, at first i thought he just wanted to be friends, but after a while he started showing interest in me. He managed to somehow lock me into some sort of "fixation" on him. He started kissing me, and touching me,... (228 words)

Would you forgive a woman with an extremely promiscuous past?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3247 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 28 year old woman with an extremely promiscuous past. I slept with 70 guys. I had committed relationships too. I came clean with my boyfriend and told him the extent of what I had done. He continues to ask me for every detail and I respond. He says he can never commit t... (210 words)

Girlfriend wants to date me, not physically cheat, but also date others

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

4 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a girl exclusively since the end of October 2009, she's 25, and was previously married to her first ever boyfriend, whom she has a daughter with. They divorced nearly a year ago, and I am her second relationship since. When we started dating she told me that ... (252 words)

How can I find a place to live that will work with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - In 2006, I was pregnant and in an abusive relationship, living in nevada with the guy I was abused by. After being abused repeatedly, I realized I needed to leave, so I abandoned my apartment and moved back to california in fear of what would happen if I stayed. I now have an ... (113 words)

What did his actions and his words mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok.... i'm a little confused. Last night I went on a date with this guy and we went back to his place and made a bonfire in the backyard. We ended up sitting around it for a good 3 hours just talking but nothing physical happened. At the end of the night when I said I wanted to ... (143 words)

EX boyfriend wants to get me pregnant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and Ex were together for just about 2 years. Lived together and were talking about marriage. We prob moved in too soon and the arguments got worse and worse. He decided he wanted to split for a while so we both could figure out our issues and eventually get back together. ... (317 words)

No mention of me or our relationship when we split

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (M)

- My girlfriend of 2 yrs and I recently split with mutual agreement, due to arguing a lot As we both sobbed I said talk to me. She replied ' i can't believe i'm single again, I can't believe i have to start over again, nothing ever works for me' No mention of me!! I was ... (145 words)

I'm tired of lying and sneaking around hiding my relationship from my family

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Right well I havent been on here in a few years! so here goes.. I am 24, my partner is 51.. i am not really looking for any posts on the relationship is wrong etc.. brief history.. he is a family friend.. we started "dating" 3.5 years ago, had a good relationship, got on ... (291 words)

BF won't marry me. I'd love him to, and my parents would love that, too. Plus, this new online guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (?) age 41-50 - This is the most chaotic time in my whole life. Situation n.1 My BF of nearly 4 years, living together, won't marry me. he says he loves me and sees his future with me, but that unless I change some traits of my personality( ie being too blunt) there's no way he's gonna m... (228 words)

End the friendship so that I can get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you get over someone??? I dated someone for a few weeks he broke it off and its been over month now since and I still like him a lot and can't stop thinking about him. I have been on a few dates with other men but it really hasn't helped. He wanted to remain "friends" he ... (136 words)

Husband had affair and part of his story is not true

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband cheat on me and told me that is was an ongoing affair for a few months. He revealed that he loves her, but says he loves me and wants to work out our issues. He swears he will never do it again. I agreed to go to counseling and to forgive him. But it is really hard. ... (135 words)

B/f is talking to his ex again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and it's been great but this past week I discovered he's started talking to his ex-girlfriend again. Now this ex-girlfriend is apparently also his best friend, and they were together for a over a month around a month before we got ... (268 words)

Any advise on how to continue to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. One of my resolutions for this year is to stop my toxic relationship with my ex. We have broken up since May 2009 but many things have happened since that time, we got back together very shortly twice. We communicate and fight, then become friends again. T... (291 words)

I don't know how to have an orgasm

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi me an my boyfriend have been having sex together for about 3 months. the problem is ive never had an orgasm. i know it sounds stupid, but i dont know how 2 have one! i can never feel like im about to have an orgasm or that anythings going 2 come out. why is th... (101 words)

Is my ex rebounding? and why is he so quickly attatched?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex were in a serious relationship for about a year and half and i mean very serious. We started fighting towards the end deciding to break things off he then never contacted me would avoid seeing me avoid talking to me, and never was there for me when i needed him ... (683 words)

Anyone ever had small pains in their ovaries when they weren't ovulating and found they were pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - im on the 2nd day of my missed period and have these little sharp pains that come and go and last about 2 seconds or so each time in what feels like my left ovary. I took 4 hpt's, 2 I took last week and 1 on jan 1st and the last one yesterday and all negative.. is it still too ... (162 words)

Boyfriend semi cheated!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well to start of my boyfriend over the summer was in basic training and then work training. we wrote to each other everyday..and i trusted him with all my heart till this, i was in his laptop and i was looking thru is mobile uploads to find he had a picture of some girls ... (178 words)

Husband impotent, doctors no idea why

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) age - Is it possible that man, can go impotent for years with one partner ,but get it back later with an other one? I'm just in a turmoil,because my husband went suddenly limp,a few years ago, and the doctors has no clue,why. They run tests,and he is not sick. He has night erection... (161 words)

What's the point to keep me around if he doesn't want me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I dated for about 2 years and a half years. We were so in love and planned on getting married. We have been broken up for about 5 months now. We broke up for problems on both of our parts. Not long after we broke up he started dating another girl. But we still had ... (295 words)

I'm 13 and might be pregnant and afraid to tell my family

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i am 13 and i might be pregnant. i am stuck in a horrible situation. my parents just got in devorce and three or four days ago i movfed eight hours away from my mom and boyfriend. we used protected ex but the condom broke. he is 16 and loves kids. he has wanted one for as ... (112 words)

What do you think he's really trying to say?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this guy have become really close lately and he says he really likes me but he won't do anything about it so I asked him what he'd say if I asked him out and he said yes if I wanted a girl friend. What do you think he's really trying to say? You say you love me but you ... (68 words)

Size matters...is it safe for me to buy condoms before I leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, this might sound ridiculous, but I'd rather be safe than sorry... I'm going to visit my LDR who lives overseas in 2 weeks, for 3 months. I'm 18 and his 18th birthday is the day after I arrive...you get the idea. For the sake of cost efficiency and buying a respecta... (377 words)

Is the pill working? anyone else know of this problem or what it could be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i was wondering if anyone else had this problem with the pill - i've been on it for over a year and never had any problems but this month i started bleeding in the middle of the pack, and not spotting i mean an actual heavy period which lasted 2 weeks. I spoke to the nurse ... (96 words)

The girl I love is in the hands of someone else

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

4 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 20 year old male from Holland. I've never been in a relationship before. There were some girls that said i was attractive. I didn't feel anything for them and i'm not a guy who takes advantage of them. I would not want to break their hearts, so I gently told them i was ... (429 words)

Girl I slept with is pregnant and I'm wondering do I contact her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - While very intoxicated over the summer, I had sex with this girl from my hometown (who i came to find out is quite premiscuous). On top of that, I don't remember using a condom. The other day my friend tells me that this girl has been sending ultrasounds to her ex boyfriend. ... (112 words)

Is he just using me to have someone with no comittments?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - iam seeing a guy now for the past few months,he had been chasing me since nearly the beginning of the year. im busy with college, chemotherapy and he is in a band thats tours and travels. we try to see each other at least 1-2 times a week when we can and text/call in between.... (230 words)

Is she trying to keep things alive with me so when she ends things with the other guy I'll be around?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so, I went to school with this girl and I've been really good friends with her for about 2 and a half years. She's been dating this guy for 3 years. She's helped me through alot, and somewhere through all that I fell for her. I mean I was like every guy who had a girl a... (334 words)

She wont get over something or try anything different again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure what to do. Me and my fiance have a son together and things are AMAZING relationship wise the only real issue we have is she can be a little on the lazy side but anyhow. While she was pregnant she we completely ballistic Im not talking your normal hormonal ... (520 words)

What is a 'Fleshlight'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - What is a ''Fleshlight''? What does it do? I'm confused.... (10 words)

Do I send him pictures or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, my boyfriend has moved away to uni and we dont see much of each other as we would like.But he wants me to send him a pik of me, and i was like of wat and he said surprise me, i know theres two areas to choose from, but i dont no wat to actually take, i dont want him to ... (90 words)

Husband told our friends I was clingy and now I'm troubled about what he said

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been married for 7 months and we've been together for 2 years. We've always had a great relationship-he loves to cuddle, he's taken me to new places and taught me new things. We go fishing together every chance we get during the summer. He is so wonderful ... (571 words)

How can I be pretty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like such a failure. I'm a high school senior and feel so mediocre. I feel no guy will ever love me. I have a huge chest and a small waist which irritates me (32D). I've never been with any guy and almost all the girls in my class are with someone or have been. A lot of ... (137 words)

My ex called me a stalker, does he still love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have just broke up with my boyfriend for one week. I'm very sad now, i can't make up my mind. Please give me your advices. It's not the first time we braek up. Im usually the one that said goodbye first cuz i didn't feel he cared for me much. Everytime he wanted to get ... (306 words)

Should I listen to my Mum or break up with the boy I love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i need help i am in a long distance relationship with a boy called sean but my mum isn`t happy with the relationship. i love sean more than anything and we want to meet up etc but mum told me that she isn`t happy with me dating him and she is trying to get me to go out pla... (106 words)

My bf has cheated twice, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I havn't been on here for a while, but I could really do with some opinions on what to do here. So here's the thing, I've been with my boyfriend for 1year 10months now, he's sixteen and i'm sixteen in February, we've been completley fine for so long, we've had barely any r... (368 words)

She has married someone else - but I miss her so much..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am 23 years old male.We were in a relationship since past 4.5 years(College time). After college, her parents forced her to get married with someone else. she tried to convince them for me, But finally she was also saying the same thing(I want my parents happy, I have to ... (152 words)

Dating complications who do I date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok so Im a 14 year old male freshman in high school, and every day at lunch I sit with a group of people. There is this girl that really likes me, but I have no feelings for her. However I have a crush on her best friend (also female) and Im pretty sure she likes me (when we... (220 words)

Does she want another man? Does she want full anal sex, not only finger-play? Will she tell me if she does?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have asked for advice before and you all thought I was watching too many pornos. I still have a lingering question, which you all have helped me with, but I have some more on that subject plus some others that have come up. First off, my wife and I on occasion have th... (750 words)

He keeps "checking in" on me. Wouldn't he just move on if he didn't fancy me?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Most people have heard that saying "He's just not that into you" or maybe even be familiar with the book or the film. How long is this rule effective for. I have been talking to a guy for a long time now. I can't quite figure out what type of relationship we have. We are not ... (151 words)

Help me figure out what to do, he got another girl pregnant during our break up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known my boyfriend for about 2 years. We were together for about 8 and a half months when we started having really bad problems. Argueing none stop and our connection was lost. We broke up for the summer and although we talked about getting back together I didn't want it ... (377 words)

I am expecting his baby, he is in denial and we have said bye bye, is it really the end?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Been with this man now for 1.5 years. On and off for the last 7 months, am due to have his baby in the next 3 months. He has been crap ever since I have fallen pregnant because he is in denial over the child. We were apart at Christmas and I ended up going to my brothers house. ... (280 words)

My boyfriend is giving me ultimatums because he wants to build a family with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so confused I need help..This is the scenario I'm a mom of two boys ages 15 and 8 from a previous relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for 5yrs thru bad and the good..He already has a daughter who is 11 and he is giving me ultimatums that its a new year and that he ... (180 words)

If any of you are part of a military family, how do you make it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so me and my boyfriend have started talking about getting really serious with each other. the issue we are having is that he is in the army and after college want to go active duty. He doesn't want to ruin my life by having a family that moves around and lives life with ... (154 words)

12 years later I am married but I recently restarted my affair with my ex married lover! Please advise.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Almost 20 years ago, I was in a relationship that was not good for me for a variety of reasons. I was very young and convinced that I could not do any better so I stayed. I began having an affair with my boyfriend’s married best friend. This was an off and on relationship ... (520 words)

My ex is stalking me, what can I do or say to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I dated for about ten months and broke up in the beginning of September. He was the crazy, jealous, obsessive type who was very controlling and would get angry about everything. He didn't have a job, lost his license, and i had to pay for everything and drive ... (205 words)

My boyfriend's mum annoys me to hell! How can we start to get on better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so annoyed me and my boyfriends mum dont get on she annoys me to hell!! been together 2years and we have a 7month old daughter help me please... (28 words)

My boyfriend is so cold and unaffectionate to me I'm starting to think he might be gay!

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Im so confused and lost i dont know what to do. My bf who doesnt act like one is well confusing me perhaps there is a better word. Anyways, dating 3 mos i do all the driving he doesnt come to see me not sure i ask but he doesnt. The problem is when i say something like umm im ... (176 words)

Text Message Communication Problem - Opinions Needed

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I wonder if someone can read through this series of text messages and just give your unbiased opinion along the way of who is right and who is wrong or if we're both wrong (I know there is no right or wrong, but we just need someone to mediate this argument). We w... (988 words)

He has been seen with other women and taking drugs during our separation, and now he wants to be back in his children's lives!

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi All Please give me advice on this. Im so angry, hurt and frustrated at the same time. This festive season my husband and I had a separation, and he didnt even come to check up on his children. People saw him at this mall with a other young girl walking hand in hand.... (198 words)

I don't feel we can be friends after the break up because I miss him too much

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear readers, I'm going through the depressing moments in a breakup of a long relationship. I thought this would be easy because i foolishly thought my anger would just make it better for me to forget. Now i keep thinking that i lost him and i regret not giving him a chance to ... (559 words)

Does the problem lie with me? Is there any hope for this relationship?

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Firstly a little back ground on my GF. She used to be a player and have flirt with other man. Now she has pledge her fatefullnees to me but still has many male friends. She talks about sex very casually to them and she seems to share many things with them. She clams... (267 words)

Has my player of a boyfriend actually changed?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm 15 and I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now. I am in my last year at school and I have been with this boy before a few times. He used to be the ultimate player, liar and cheat all in one and I was really hurt. I have been with him twice before n... (557 words)

For the last 6 months he has been fading away from me, I just want my old boyfriend back!

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. but in the last 6 months, hes fading away from me. i know hes not cheating on me but i feel like hes falling out of love. our sex life has gone crap because hes always tired, he works 20hr shifts 5 days a week. i want by ... (68 words)

After I couldnt make her orgasm I feel like a failure and I have lost my sex drive! But if I don't make passes at her she thinks I'm cheating! What can I do?

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi im 24 and me and my fiancee have been together 2yrs. we are both pretty insecure people but are expecting our first child any minute now. im very stressed atm and finding work mentally demanding alongside all the preparations for baby. anyway now full term she wants to try ... (188 words)

Why is my husband using adult dating sites?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi every one. My husband and I have been together for 8 yrs. I'm 32 he is 27. We have a health sex life, we argue just like normally married people. So my question it why is he looking up adult dating sites. He was 19 when we got together and had already had his share of sex ... (80 words)

I tell myself I am happy just being his good friend, but what if I come to regret this decision later on in life?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all. This is the first time I'm doing this and hoping I'm doing it the correct way. So, here goes. I first met this guy when I started university, let's just call him Dodo. At that time, I was only 19. We were classmates and we got close together. The more I know him, the ... (459 words)

Is minimal contact best way to fall out of love?

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I fell for my best friend (female). Didn't say, because I was certain she didn't feel the same, although we are ridiculously close. Anyway, many of our mutual friends were convinced she did feel the same, as although she denied it verbally, her behaviour suggested otherwise - ... (329 words)

Why am I still missing my alcoholic, absusive ex boyfriend?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - right i have recently split up with my alcoholic boyfriend as he smashed my mums windows again and has gone to jail. this is the second time he has been to jail for this crime against me,the thing is he doesnt actually know we are finished because i got back with him last time ... (443 words)

How can I fix our relationship after I found out about his double life?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now , we were best friends for two years before he finally asked me out , just before he asked me out i found that he had like around 50 chicks sending him nude pictures and he was playing all of them , after i made sure he ... (271 words)

Is he taking me for a ride?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i recently met a guy who was on a reality tv show in the uk, and had his '15 minutes of fame'. I didnt watch the show and so just saw him as a normal guy. He took me for a meal and we had a lovely first date, then i saw him everyday for a bout a week, and the next coupl... (313 words)

I suspect my partner of cheating. What do I do next?

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it a good way to Confront my partner if I suspect her of Cheating ? I am not sure. Trust Level is sliding... Asking her on those lines would be like giving up Trust and Confidence, that took years to build. (Denial is expected) Not asking her would Risk being Chea... (208 words)

Is it possible my boyfriend has changed for good?

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4 January 2010 (F)

- Do people ever truly change? When my bf and I were first together, we had a lot of problems with the way he treated me. He treated me pretty badly and didnt seem to really be with me for who I am. He seemed to only want sex as he would continually threaten to break up with me... (462 words)

I'm using alcohol to cope with my girlfriend's death, can anyone help me?

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi there. im really in some trouble here. I recently posted on here about my ex girlfriend who died three years ago. im really starting to have some trouble. she appears in my dreams more frequently now more than ever. I've been reverting to the bottle quite often. im scared ... (242 words)

Could he really be in love with me after only 2 weeks?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 weeks now and tonight during sex (he was about to finish) he said my name, took a long pause and said "i love you." i responded by laughing saying "no you dont." and that its only been a couple weeks. he said that he thinks he's falling ... (92 words)

I'm worried my masturbating is unhealthy!

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, i am 14 years old, and i masturbating quite a lot, sometimes i can do it up to 4 times a day! is this to much? and also, I'm really freaked out because when i am masturbating, i find doing it over some really hot girl doesn't cut it for me, for some reason, it turns me on ... (67 words)

How do you get over insecurities for good?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - To start things off, I'm 19, turning 20 in March. My boyfriend is 22, and we've been together for 7 months. Lately, I've become unsatisfied with the most basic and essential things in our relationship. I've discovered though, that most of these things are my fault. I'm very,... (526 words)

She has been an incredible partner both in bed and in satisfying my fetish, so should I marry her?

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 26 years old and I have a major foot fetish. I know this friend from school and I told her around 2 years back about how awesome her feet were. this happened over a casual conversation and after a few weeks few weeks later (after a lot of foot conversations) she let me play ... (265 words)

Did my fiancee cheat on me? And how can I tell if she has been around a bit before she met me?

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one post] So I'm going to try to break down a lot of facts into short statements: Dated a girl for 4 months and moved in together. Lived together for 5 months and got engaged. Wedding is in 3 months... (818 words)

Is there a chance I could win her over despite her being completely in love with her boyfriend?

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay their is this girl. I met her in one of my classes my second day of school. She was gorgeous and fun to be around. We never really talked all that much, then we just started talking more and more and i started to like her just a little bit. Then i found out that she had a ... (805 words)

How important is saying 'I love you'?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm looking for some advice. My story is a little long winded! My boyfriend and I had been together for a few months shy of a year when suddenly he ended things. His reason being he felt panicked as he is turning 30 (I'm 25) and that he is not ready for marriage and kids etc... (411 words)

How can we make sex more pleasurable for both of us? It hurt so much last time we tried!

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Last night, my long-time boyfriend and I had sex. It was both of our first time. We deeply love one another and were both ready for sex. My problem is that it was painful, for both of us. He is uncircumcised and the skin pulled back and hurt him. It was extremely painfu... (134 words)

Can a relationship where both people involved have a mental illness ever work? I'm worried this could become very messy but the connection is incredible!

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of almost a year, for somebody else who can satisfy me more. My previous boyfriend did not like sex, so we never had it. I am bipolar and we frequently fought, and I would go from hating him to loving him very rapidly. He was always very ... (562 words)

My friend thinks the world revolves around her? what to do?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my good friend is a good friend, we are very different, shes louder and a smart ass, im quieter, but we get along. But..she is so self absorbed! with most ppl she talks with. She has had a career where she has performed now her career is slowly winding down due to some ... (257 words)

There are too many things getting in the way of us being together, what should I do?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 15, i like a guy older than me, in general being around him makes me happy. but things keep getting in the way like his age, which is 19, family and other people. these people are constantly around him and his family, aka his brother hates me because i went out with him to. ... (59 words)

How can I hide the fact that I am a virgin and act wild and crazy in bed?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I promised this guy that I would have sex with him. I really want to. I talked myself up and made it sound like I'm really experienced. I've done everything but have sex. He's expecting me to be wild and crazy. Truth is I need tips on being wild and crazy. Help! I want to ... (86 words)

Am I falling out of love after 10 years?

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've Been with my girlfriend for almost 10 years. We've had our ups and downs are best friends... recently a lot of the little things she does bothers me. And they're begining to urk me more and more to the point where it turns me off. Why is this happening ? ... (54 words)

How do you tell if it's real labor or false labor?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I have a quick question. I'm 20 years old and 36 weeks pregnant soon to be 37. This is my first baby. How do you tell between real labor and false labor? I think I may be in prelabor right now, but I'm not sure. After my boyfriend and I had sex, I started to get kind ... (238 words)

He says he won't be with me forever, so wants to be my first... what do I do?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay I'm 13 bout 2 bee 14 my bf is 14 and he is not a virgin but i am.he tells me how much he cares for me and sometimes he gets alil freaky over the phone and he always tells me that he knoes that we won't be together forever so he wants to be my first kiss and first to lose ... (82 words)

Why does my ex boyfriend all of a sudden care so much?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - OK, I've posted a couple questions about my ex in the past but new drama with him seems to form every week. I will give a quick run-through. We dated for 7 months, but he broke it off via text messaging while I was at college, saying he was moving south in a month. He never ... (641 words)

What do I say to my friend who wants to date my ex?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay i went out with this dude(his name can be bob)for a month.. and just a little earlier ago i was texting my bestfriend(can be maci) well she said "guess who is tesxting me bob" and i was like "okay" then maci said "i really have to tell you something" and i was like "okay" ... (201 words)

Dating a 15 year old girl at 24, for some reason, her mother in not keen...

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Im 24 and ive been dating my gf for awhile now, she is only 15 and i love her more than anyone ive ever been with including my ex fiancee and she tells me shes in love with me to. Is it foolish to think this truly is love that she could be my soulmate? Also, for some reason her ... (84 words)

How do I deal with my father and his favourite daughter, my big sister?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, First of all, I express my warm greetings to all of you. I find this site a great place for advice, sharing and discussion. Well, I have a question about the attitude of my father. I have three sisters, two big sisters amd one small sister. During my childhood and till... (373 words)

My boyfriend is cheating with a "cougar" and now has an emotional attachment to her. Should I move on?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - So I have been with my bf for 16 years. We have 2 teenagers together and pretty much live as if we are married, just no papers. Recently this past summer, he was out of town and met some 61 year old "cougar" in a bar. My bf is 41, so I can't really call him cougar meat, but ... (845 words)

Does he need other girls to satisfy him? I was hoping he wanted to be exclusive...

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4 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old and about a month or two ago I started seeing this 21 year old guy whom I met through friends. Before we started liking each other, I knew of his habits of being a real bad girl chaser, always hitting on and adding hot girls on the internet and texting them... (199 words)

This woman is trying to break us up for her daughter... what do I do?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - To be very honest, I am very happy with my relationship. Before ever saying yes to my boyfriend, we were best friends and accepting to take our friendship to a new level has opened me up to so many new, wonderful experiences. So what's the problem? We used to go to the same c... (619 words)

Best male friend with feelings? My boyfriend is not happy!

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I hope this doesn't sound too silly and immature. But sometimes, people just don't know what to make of a situation or how to put a question into intelligible and/or coherent words and thoughts... My best friend (whom is a man) and I have been best friends since we were ei... (535 words)

Going so well, and then he wants to cool things. What's going on?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy and we have had three dates, on the third date he cooked me dinner and did everything to try to impress me, after dinner we sat on the couch and talked, getting to know each other more, things were going great, I was really enjoying being with him, we had already ... (507 words)

Am I wrong to take this opportunity?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - To all the aunts and maybe some uncles, I would appreciate any input. I have an absolutely wonderful boyfriend whom I have been together with for almost 4 years. We have been through everything, and stand by each other through everything. I lost my virginity to him, and have... (282 words)

I think he's online cheating, but how to find out or confront him?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, my partner and I have been together 6 years, he is 29 I am 24, we live together. About 3 months my boyfriend started using a couple of dating sites to make friends. this was ok with me because he was totally open about it all and he made it clear on his profiles he... (421 words)

Self confidence tips needed for shy teen!

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18yrs old, never had a boyfriend. I'm a virgin, but already had my first kiss with a guy in 9th gr. (wish i could take it back) I'm pretty shy around people, i never know what to say or how to being talking to guys. and ppl take me for being b*****, and im not. how can i ... (74 words)

My boyfriend is abusive and on steroids. I'm so confused about what to do!

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. When we first started dating he was taking steroids and it became unbearable and I ended it after a few months. Three months later he sent me an email and apologized..so we ended up getting back together. He said he was no longer ... (597 words)

Do I get a divorce and go with this new woman or stay with my wife?

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Here are the facts: Married 4 years, prior to that dated for about 6. I am 30, she is 30, we don't have any children. We have owned our own home for about 2 years. Sex is not a problem, we have great sex. Sometimes she nags, but no big deal I can deal with that, she i... (533 words)

I'm hoping to be pregnant... what are my chances?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend had sex three times and he went inside me I should start my period in a week but I need to know my chances that I might be pregnant because I want to be.... (38 words)

My girlfriend gets uncomfortable when I go near her vagina, any tips?

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4 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Ok so me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 months and we makeout alot, and she lets me grab her boobs and ass and she really loves that stuff (like when ever I even slightly move toward her boobs she starts to pull her shirt down so I can get at them) and she is ... (206 words)

Is it too soon for a new relationship...and a baby?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 22 year old mommie of 2 baby boys 2yrs and 1yr, I was with their dad for 3 years which was really traumatic this is why: he's the type of man that wants everything to be the way he wants to (controlling, possessive, and jelaous guy) 2 years into our relationship I got ... (234 words)

Why won't my boyfriend touch me?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 18. I've been with him for 6 months, and I'm completely in love with him. He's my first "real" relationship, as in the first that didn't revolve around sex. He cooks for me all the time, he keeps me entertained every moment I'm with him, he's just ... (210 words)

Bound financially to my parents and boyfriend is threatening to leave!

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have got a house for my parents bc they did not have a good credit, my boyfriend did not want me to but i had arguments about this with my parents,at the end i had to buy it, now my boyfriend says only way he would marry me if my parents get the house under their names , ... (117 words)

My ex's new girlfriend is a wanna-be-replica of me!

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it just me or is it creepy? My ex-boyfriend and i broke up about a year ago. It was my choice and a good choice, however after casually running into him a few times I met his new girlfriend...who really reminds me of...me. Not in a good sense at all. I mean a cheesy, trashy ... (160 words)

Kiss from cousin was "electrifying". Is it wrong to love him?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Helli, I am just wondering if it is so wrong to love my cousin. I never grew up with him and met him about 8 years ago. I always thought he was cute but never thought anything of it. He is froma different state so we get to see each other about 3 times a year. Everytime we ... (183 words)

Grieving boyfriend rejects my presence and support. What do I do?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to say or do in regards to my grieving boyfriend. His grandmother passed away a few days ago; she's been sick for the past few months. He called me the night she passed away, and he seemed to be taking it well. I told him that I was there for him if he ne... (190 words)

I have trust issues so how can I let him know I just want his friendship?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, I have a serious problem. Well, it's very serious to me - I'm sixteen and I'm kind of into a younger guy. He's fourteen and seems to think that after I hold his hand I want to kiss him. That's not the case at all, and I don't want to seem rude, but I can't just tell ... (332 words)

My boyfriend is addicted to Second Life and it's becoming too real for him!

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4 January 2010 (F)

age - My boyfriend is addicted to Second Life. He is on there constantly. He has a job in there , he is also a woman in there. He is obsessed with this to the point now he just has to be there. He talks about it always. At first he was worried about how i felt about it. I was indeed ... (94 words)

Was it my hymen breaking that caused the bleeding?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 years old and have been worrying for a while. In In September I was playing w/ myself, and was fingering myself. At 1 point I took advice from a friend and tried using a marker. I don't remember any particular pain that night. The next day, I wakeup and I'm bleeding. I ... (124 words)

My parents forbid me to date him but shouldn't I give love a real chance?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going to make the question brief, followed by some background information which you may choose or choose not to read - I think it would be useful to read all of it though lol. Is there a problem with an 18 year-old girl dating a 24 year-old man? my family would cer... (422 words)

Will this really work or are we just kidding ourselves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am engaged to a guy that I have been with for four years now. We have always got along, but I am scared that we aren't asking all the questions we need to ask before marriage because we are afraid our answers wont match up. The situation is we dont have the same religious ... (237 words)

Should I give my ex who cheated a chance again?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so its been over a year and I have met a new guy but we are only really good friends right and we are super close, but I find my self thinking about my old boyfriend that I dated for two years and we resently broke up during last summer, and now im totally confused about ... (138 words)

Should I wait until they break up to tell her how I feel?

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok well I liked this one girl since spring and we always had this line we said to each other because in track we were both good at stuff and we'd watch each other and say one up. Well when i was going to finally ask her out she walked up and told me that her and this other guy ... (106 words)

I have to beg him to focus on me. Can anyone help?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I have been together for a while now, and throughout the time of our relationship, there hasn't been any affection on his end, nor have my needs been met. He works, but plays hours of video games. I have to beg for him to give a break to video games and focus on ... (86 words)

Does helping each other masturbate make us gay?

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - My friend says that helping each other masturabate is gay. Is this true? Please help... (15 words)

Different ways to masturbate?

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - well I am 18 and I have beem masterbating for a few weeks. but I am tired of just stroking up and down. I need new positions or ways to do it myself... (34 words)

Broken Heart in Ohio

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - OK, I'll make it quick. I am an older lesbian in a relationship with a younger lesbian. We have been together for a year and a half, and living together for a year. She has been very smothering and overwhelming and us living in a studio apartment, along with her not working ... (230 words)

Should I get the authorities involved about my psychotic mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I posted on here a couple weeks ago about how I wanted to fly out and see my long distance boyfriend. I'm 19 and live at home and my parents are refusing to let me go. I bought the ticket and took off work already. Well my flight leaves tomorrow morning and my parents are f... (231 words)

What do I do about people invading my FaceBook?

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Another anonymous question :) I've been on a nice dating site (yes, that one, whatever one you're thinking of) and I've had limited (but good) luck meeting people, shooting a few messages back and forth, but that's as far as it gets... I think maybe I'm a bit too nerdy for mo... (188 words)

How to raise money fast?

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and in grade 12. I want to go to Queen's for commerce next year, but my family des't have money to pay for the progam. I'm tryingt find a way to get money so i can go tere. Does anyone know fast (and legal :P)ways to come up withabout $12K in 8 months? If it makes a ... (68 words)

Pregnant with two possible fathers...

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am pregnant and I dont know who the father is. I have been sleeping with 2 guys for the last 3 months. I have never been so reckless. however I believe that this neglegent behavior was more of a defense mechanism to prevent gettingin an emotional relationship.Just recently I ... (129 words)

He loves someone else but isn't going to do anything about it?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i need some advice. my boyfriend and i have been going out with each other for four years, about six months ago he told me that he loved somebody else but he wasn't going to do anything about it. it took awhile but i'd thought that we had worked through it. then two months ... (181 words)

Wife hates ex wife's crass comment to 9 year old

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My current wife hates my ex-wife whom I have almost no contact with. Help! I am usually pretty good at figuring things out, but this.... My ex wife is callous, crass, and often tells my kids (when they are with her) crude 'jokes' and talks about other people behind their bac... (306 words)

I love my boyfriend but I DON'T love his habits...

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my current boyfriend for over a year now. Previously, I dated someone for four years, who would technically be the perfect catch. My ex-boyfriend was motivated, had at least two jobs while attending a huge medical university, and has strong family and religious ... (317 words)

Please give me advice on what is the best course of action to rescue this friendship.

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Here's the situation.. I fell out with a female friend of mine. She is an au pair and moving soon to a new place and getting a new number. She said she didn't want to talk or meet me again due to us not getting on so well one night, but not really arguing. It seems strange, ... (187 words)

His parents have banned him from going out/seeing me!

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend's parents have banned him from seeing me, taken his phone off him, and his laptop, which he paid for, and refuse to let him leave the house unless one of the them is with him! He'19!! They hate me and blame me for everything that he does wrong, we have to lie and ... (105 words)

What gives? Why was my friend so mad at me?

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4 January 2010 (?) age 36-40 - For Christmas, my friends and I try to get together to exchange presents. I hadn't heard from one of them, "Jenny," so I sent her an e-mail saying that we should meet up and exchange. In response, all she said was "absolutely" but she did not say when she was available. Jenny ... (296 words)

Fishy situation... should I trust my long distance boyfriend?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im seeing this guy and its long distance..hes coming back to see me soon.. he lives in ireland .. on his facebook the other day it said he was in a relationship i was so mad i didnt speak to him for days and it ruined my new years.. he wasnt online and i could talk to him ... (345 words)

Is it wrong to fancy my teacher, especially since he is the same sex and a lot older?

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a 13 year old boy. In school, my P.E teacher (who is in his twenties...or thirties) is a close family friend. He comes round my house often and we all get along really well. He favours me over the other boys and he treats me like a really good mate. He is always asking my ... (184 words)

Does his reply mean he cares for me at least a little?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a very dear friend (more like a crush) who is in Afghanistan deployed right now. I wrote to him for New Year's and I sent him in the note something like" I know I'm the last one in your friend's list,but I want you to know I care for you". I did it b/c I know he has many ... (130 words)

I'm single having an affair with married man. Please help me.

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am thanking you open-minded guys in advance. To make my story short, I'm having an affair with a married guy. I met him when I was still a medical representative and we both have same area. For the first time we met I knew I liked him. Knowing he's married I still continue... (150 words)

What is my sexual orientation?

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm 16 and really confused of my sexual orientation. when it comes to porn/sex i definitely like straight. i hate watching gay anal and also lesbian sex. when it comes to dating, marraige, life partners; i DEFINITELY want a girl. BUT this is the part that confuses me; when ... (112 words)

I see my boyfriend more as a friend than a boyfriend.

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship with a guy for 2 and a half years now and I'm not sure what to do. Our relationship to an outsider would be considered good, we don't argue a lot and we treat other each other well. We've had our issues in the past like any other couple but we've ... (282 words)

My girlfriend had a baby and I didn't know, now I'm not allowed to see my son! What should I do?

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - 9 months ago I was dating a girl Jessica, who I really liked, I go to college out of state and I'm not home alot. One weekend while I was home we were at a party and we got into a huge fight. A don't remember much about it but I know I said some pretty nasty stuff. She left ... (261 words)

Do guys really have so many erections in a day?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Your possibly gonna laugh when you read this but i;ve always been curious and i'd rather make myself look stupid on here than in public lol! but is it true that guys really get loads of erections a day some say 5 some say 10 some say more or is it just a myth? And they r... (98 words)

Broke up with ex, and now we talk on the phone a lot, but what does this mean?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey Everyone, My relationship with my ex ultimately fizzled and we've had this weird phone relationship since we broke up. We still talk regularly and the conversations stayed platonic until one night we were sharing our past Christmas memories, and it got late and he h... (185 words)

As a male, does losing your virginity hurt?

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i'm 19 and havent had sex yet. and dont have a lot of expirience or know how about it either. i know losing your virginity can hurt if your a girl but what i want to know is is it the same for a male? thanks hope you can answer me... (55 words)

I need to know where I stand, please help.

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, here's my problem. I really like this guy and have done for almost a year now. We've been out a few times and he knows I like him but I'm not sure that he knows how much. Also I'm not sure he likes me the same way. He's told me he likes me and when we first started ... (300 words)

My girlfriend wants to have sex and we're thirteen, what should I do?

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4 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - hey im 13 and my girlfriend who is pretty and i really love her. she asked me if i would have sex with her what do i do?... (28 words)

Betrayed by my friend, how do I move on?

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4 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Last year I had to deal with the hurt of losing a very close mate of mine, who said she would be there for me, but betrayed my trust and let me down, completley breaking the bond between us... So it's now a new year and I want to let go. Can anyone help or suggest ways of ... (143 words)