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26-29,
anonymous
writes:i am 14 and my girlfriend of 7 months in 16 our relationship is really good we go a lot of places and she is always laughing at my jokes and i laugh at most of hers but lately my girlfriend just disapears from time to time, i'll be texting her and she will stop replying or i'll call her and she will say i'll call you later, when i ask why she says "love you bye" really fast then hangs up. she goes away for hours then when she calls me back she acts like everything is ok and she's completely normal. when i asked her where she went or what happened she says things like it doesn't matter or why over and over. when we first started dating she constant;y wanted me to talk to her, every time i said i was busy she would pretend to be sad until i would call her, now it seems like she wants me to leave her alone.for example i was on the phone with her a few hours ago and she said hold on one second and i said ok, i was on hold for 30 minutes before i hung up. i went to call her back and the phone just wrang and wrang. she wants to get a place and get married but i dont know if we should anymore.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 January 2010):
Something's going on. This is how women act when they're cheating to be honest, so you should speak to her.
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reader, star86s +, writes (29 January 2010):
get a place and get married noww!?! you are way to young! but anyways she is acting a bit shady! i saw either 2 things brake up with her now before it gets even harder and you get more attached and then its just a heart brake mess! or confront her tell her we need to talk and just say everything like why are you avoiding me! and maybe even threnten her saying you think its best if you guys arent together anymore! if she really loves you and likes you she will try her best to keep you around and change her ways!...good luck!!!
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (29 January 2010):
 Lol, I do that when a telemarketer calls. No you won't know for sure if she's cheating on you yet. Bit does she call you or did you call her?
How is her relationship at home? does her parents know about you? She was probably hiding the fact you are speaking. Simple as that.
The only way you'll find out if she's cheating is call her when your near by on a pay phone or mobile then when she does that go to her home and knock on the door...
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reader, lizeth +, writes (29 January 2010):
i think shes cheating on you, i've cheated on my man and thats how we act! try to talk to her,
good luck!
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