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*aydeeOfSorrows
writes:Me and my boyfriend split a few weeks ago...And Now he has a new girlfriend.I literally feel like im dying...I can't breathe, and my heart is breaking!He told me he still loved me! and I thought we were going to get back together!I desperately need some advice on how to let go, because I can't handle this!!
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reader, Kevin33  +, writes (7 March 2009):
Hey, well I am going through the same situation. My girlfriend of 5 years did the same thing and less than a week later seeing someone else. It definitely hurts. Time heals it all. I didnt know what to do either. I felt like dying and my heart was broken. I did everything for her and this is how it turned out. Thats how you get over it. Do you think he is feeling down about it, no because he has someone who is blinding him from the hurt. You need to go out with friends, and spend time occupying yourself with projects. I started the gym, works great. You just have to think to yourself, how could this person do this. You was someone who cares for you like you do him, someone who will always be there. It gets me through to think that good things happen to good people and that we will find someone and something better. As hard it it sounds to just forget, you will see that time will do that. I was scared because I didnt want to lose those feelings, trust me you wont. Its just an acceptance stage that you will come to. She also told me she still loved me and cared deeply. She was my first love. I am now 23 and she is 22. So, just sit back, take a deep breath, life is too short for what ifs and worrying. Its going to sound impossible, but you need to COMPLETELY shut him out...pictures, phone, email, whatever. And you need to move on. You need to think that you deserve better, and you will find it. If you need anything else just ask :) Thanks
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