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writes:I need to know how to be a woman "player" - you know, just like some men are players. Does it mean that the woman does the same thing back to him that he does to her? For example, there's this guy at work who has a g/f but he gets jealous when he sees me with a guy. Then after he wins my heart again he's back with his g/f. So, maybe I should just concentrate on this new guy and forget about Mr. Player but I'd love to play him for awhile so he'll know how it feels. My mind and common sense tell me to totally ignore and avoid him and stick with my new b/f. What do all of you think? Good golly, I need alot of feedback and suggestions on this one because it's time for me to do something different as this has been going on for almost a year. Thanks in advance for advice.
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reader, ehuplass  +, writes (19 November 2010):
ah ......playing is a mans game and most women loose playing it.However men like this can be played...if he rings ignore him for at least 24hrs ...if he gives u a booty call tell him youl see him in ten mins then turn yr phone off and go back to sleep....dont play to his ego...and make out u have a good social life ....DO not txt or ring him hel know hes got u where he wants you .......having said this if you already have emotionas for him then thats where you loose the game.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): first of all if he got a girl u shud be da smart 1 n don't fuck wit him, but u must doin it 2 get under his g/f skin, listen youre only playin yourself. rule number 1 never fuck wit a dude dat let u kno about his g/f dat means he don't want u he only wants ur pussy when she aint givin it 2 him rule number 2 never fuck wit a dude from your job, that's always a fucked up move, and rule number 3 never let your feelings get involved, take it from me ima player but you shudnt fuck them all, only have 1 main dick, play with the rest of them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
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reader, Yos  +, writes (7 March 2009):
 "Does it mean that the woman does the same thing back to him that he does to her?"
No. The rules are different for each sex because each sexes motivations, emotions and biology is different. Acting like a guy is only going to hurt you more, not less.
The best way you can 'play' this guy is to date someone else, and ignore his advances whatever he does.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (7 March 2009):
 Don't lower your standards to his. I'm sure he's played around a lot so messing him around won't affect him at all as not committed to you.
You can not hurt a guy if he's a player as the attention you give him will boost his ego, then when you mess him around, he'll just move onto another girl.
The best way to affect these people is not to give them the attention they crave so badly.
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (7 March 2009):
 Stick with your BF if you really do like him. It's not fun being the cause of such emotional angst. No one likes to be strung around, and if this guy was just stringing you around, then why would you want to be like that? He sounds like a slime ball.
Don't be a player, be a player-hater.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 March 2009):
 In my opinion, you should not try to be a player, but quite the opposite. And you should learn not to follow a game.
It seems you want revenge. That is wrong, and I'm afraid that, if this player is any good, you will be played again. I believe that the best you can do is simply walk away from him and make it clear that the playing season is over.
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